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June 17, 2019

Self-Conception, Self-Trust and Learning

In the Live Course Session yesterday, the intended topic was Changing Personal Self-Conception, but we became side-racked by unusualness. and how we are ALL unusual.

It's much a myth that we are similar. Superficially yes, but, look past that surface and we soon see how unusual we are from "the norm."

It strikes me that so many just assume the norm, but seldom actually check out just exactly what it is. When we do, we soon realise it doesn't really exist.

Getting to really know others and ourselves, soon let's us know that we are way more different than we realise. This is empowering, because we then know it doesn't matter. Nothing is going to happen to us for being different or unusual.

Which means, we can just BE ourselves. Further, since it's a PROCESS, we can only embrace that unusualness, because what we are now is not what we're going to be in the future!

#SelfConception #IndependenceOfBeing

Another TakeAway from that Session is Self-Trust and our relationship with the World. We come across many ideas and concepts we are asked to believe which defy our senses.
We so want to trust our senses, because, by implication, what if we can't? That's scary. however, we also have to know our senses are limited. We can't sense everything, radio waves for instance, phone signals etc.

Also, we have to know our senses are limited when it comes to scale. We can't see detail on the moon without a telescope, we can't see past the horizon and so on. The world is a big place, very very big. Bigger than our senses.

A key Understanding for me in this is that our brains, our civilisation, have evolved faster than our bodies. We have to adapt.

Further, when confronted with the reality that the World does not work the way we think it does, we have to upgrade, adapt, change, get with the program, and change in ways which can deal with that reality. it doesn't help to contort reality to make it fit our desire for the security of our limited perceptions. We have no choice but to learn. We either embrace updating, or struggle.

#PerspectiveShifting #LearningAndGrowing #WayOfImpeccability
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Published on June 17, 2019 18:40

June 15, 2019

FB Live TakeAway Session with Ryan

FB Live TakeAway Session with Ryan June 9 2019

An excellent discussion with Ryan where he Shares what has been valuable, important, and useful for him so far from the Way-of-Impeccability Course.
Nobelia.org Self-Discovery Project

#WayOfImpeccability #DeliberateLiving #SelfAwareness #SelfImprovement #PersonalDevelopment #Awareness #Discernment #Understanding #LifeChange #RealConversations #FacebookLive #SelfDiscovery

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Published on June 15, 2019 08:06

June 13, 2019

FB Live with Rachel - Trust-Without-Trusting

FB Live with Rachel - Trust-Without-Trusting

A cool discussion with Rachel starting with Trust-Without-Trusting and then leading to much More.


#TrustWithoutTrusting #SelfDiscovery #SelfAwareness #LifeStrategy #Bullying #Discrimination #RealConversations
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Published on June 13, 2019 13:19

June 12, 2019

Facebook Live Video Chat with Author, Spiritual Guide, Therapist and Life-Coach Connie Habash

Facebook Live Video Chat with Author, Spiritual Guide, Therapist and Life-Coach Connie Habash

Links:Connie's excellent book:Awakening From Anxiety - A Spiritual Guide to Living a More Calm, Confident, and Courageous Life:https://www.amazon.com/Awaken.../dp/B... website:https://www.awakeningself.com/

Nobelia.org Self-Discovery Project


#SelfImprovement #PersonalGrowth #LifeCoach #LifeCoaching #AuthorInterview #Spirituality #Anxiety #PositivePsychology
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Published on June 12, 2019 22:33

June 11, 2019

Perspective-Shifting on Public Speaking

M: - "I find it difficult at different times to speak with conviction and clarity when I know I’m about to “be on”, in other words, when I’m scheduled to talk or it’s planned for me to be the centre of attention. I want to enjoy that process more as when I do I have more peace and power."


Syl: - Okay, I have something to help with exactly that, part of a longer story but Pertinent and Relevant:

“We started on public speaking as that was the connection within the psychology program we are currently exploring. From the phobia program. It transitioned into a game, and that's where we currently are. But, labelling and perception are so incredibly vital in psychology, and thus perspective, that we need to re-examine what it is we are about. And how little it takes to shake a fear.”

Biella smiled gently. “Yes, sometimes it can indeed be as simple as changing the label. Instead of exploring “public speaking” let's shift our focus to what it really is: *Communication.*

“Public Speaking” has so many connotations and associations that it's severely tainted. Why attempt to “overcome” something when we can simply do something else we already know how to do, which we are comfortable doing? All of us already can communicate.” Biella stopped to let that settle.

“Now our focus is going to be on efficient, effective and Appropriate communication. And in particular communicating to more than a few people. Communicating in different settings, and communications which are more one-sided. But, never, are we going to consider what we're about in any other way than a focus on Communication, a focus on expressing ourselves. And, specifically, on expressing what we're comfortable with, what we Want to express or communicate. This is a vital consideration, our desire and Intent.”

Biella beamed. “I love Communication,” she declared to no-one in particular. It seemed to be a Communication to the Universe. And indeed it was. “As this is our focus I have drawn up some basic Tenets of Communication, guiding principals and perspectives. Things to keep in mind. I'll endeavour to comment and show their relevance in action as we go along.” [...]

Biella read the list, displayed as a transparent scroll for each individual, enabling recall and reference as needed. Her list unpretentiously titled:

Biella's List of Communication Tips:

1. Relevance and Pertinence
2. Incorporate questions
3. Have a conversation
4. Connect to the infinite
5. Utilise Multiple Perspectives
6. Regulate the level of immersion
7. Find a comfort level
8. Pay attention to the body
9. Be strategic
10.  Deliberately utilise Habit and routine
11. Be aware of Vocabulary and Associations
12.  Intend your communications. Be clear, specific and precise with your Intent.
13.  Tap into what you Want to communicate
14.  Be clear about your  focused idea
15.  Utilise mystery to create interest
16.  Employ analogy and metaphor
17.  Maintain a connection to the Abstract
18.  Ask the questions, How does this make a difference? Why does it matter?
19.  Be happy and joyful. Have fun.
20.  Show your Good Character
21.  Maintain a connection to Appropriateness at all times
22.  Leave space for randomness and creativity
23.  Don't forget the technical
24.  Identify your passion and let it out
25.  Communicate, remember This is the objective, not performance
26.  Be as intensely personal as possible.
27.  Be Earnest
28.  Practice, it quickly leads to Confidence.

“Dang, that's a long list,” the big woman said, “I'm not going to remember all of that..”

“Me neither,” Biella laughed, surprising the Group. “I didn't make the list from memory. I simply observed some communication and wrote down what came to me as I thought about what makes for effective communication and as I thought the matter through.  Many of those will come innately. Like twenty, Show your Good Character. We always behave from Good Character. It's who we are.”

Biella graciously included the delegates, simply taking it to be so, even though with some this might not always have been the case. Giving the Benefit of the Doubt and assuming and expecting the Positive was integral to the New Nobility Way of Being.

“But when it comes to focused communication we sometimes have to actually show those aspects a bit more than we normally would,” Biella finished.

***


Syl: - Haha, so, that's all well and good for when you have time. But for now. Simply do this next time you are called to Communicate - Simply explain to The UNIVERSE!!!

What needs to be explained and Shared and communicated, do so to the Universe. Don't talk to a group or think you need to perform, or whatever other nonsense. Just explain whatever you need to explain and Share to the Universe, or to God, Allah, Buddha, Odin, Krishna etc, out loud. Whatever you are comfortable communicating to. Also, that to which you communicate from your Pure Self.

In other words, when communicating to the U in this way, there's no bullshit, no performing, no ego, no nothing except a pure Sharing of whatever you need to talk about. Doesn't matter if it's technical or procedural or whatever.  When Sharing to such entities, we can Share *freely.* That's the key, that free unconcerned Sharing of our topic.

That's it. This is something we can do no problem at all. And, since the U is everywhere, in all of those listening, it's no problem at all.
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Published on June 11, 2019 19:23

June 4, 2019

THE WAY-OF-IMPECCABILITY WEBINAR

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2. Why buying into someone else's belief system and complicated “teachings” to find a True Life-Path is a huge waste of time... (And the simple system our clients use to find clarity practically overnight)
3. How our clients Become Empowered using their OWN Values and Principles without having to fake it till they make it.
4. How our clients Shift to a Profound, Powerful, Joyful New Way-of-Living even when they previously felt stuck, hopeless and confused.
5. And, how they manage to do all of this while uncovering new found energy, vitality, joy and ease in their professional and daily lives!

To see more, simply watch the webinar by clicking through it at your own pace.


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Published on June 04, 2019 08:22

April 20, 2019

We are Process



We are not the circumstances of our lives. Nor what we "do" or where we live or our families, or anything like that. We are not even what we are today. We are More, much much More. We are a process happening in real time. An exciting mysterious process. All we can share is where we are currently at, and where we have been, and maybe where we happen to seem to be going. But none of that is us. We remain undefined if we are true to ourselves.

Any definition is a lie. Worse than a lie, it is a limitation. It is an amputation of our development, it is self-mutilation of the worst possible kind. We are so much More than our limited imaginations conceive. We constantly need to stretch that idea of ourselves, not only of what we currently are, but what we can be, could be. Only in this way can we soar to the heights of infinity and beyond.


#LifeProcess #SelfDefinition #SelfConception #PerspectiveShifting #WeAreMore
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Published on April 20, 2019 20:19

March 16, 2019

The Way-of-Impeccability - Grace is Power

Podcast: https://is.gd/BOhphl
“Grace is Power without dominance, excellence with compassion and consideration, connectivity with Awareness, to Appreciation Joy and Goodness - without comparison and contrast, and a fine intimacy with the wondrous Ineffable. Grace is the embodiment of profound Appreciation, and a reverence for the sublime in the mundane.”

From:
The Way-of-Impeccability
Online Workshop:
https://www.nobelia.org/the-way-of-im...

Nobelia.org Self-Discovery Project


#WayOfImpeccability #WarriorsWay #Impeccability #Sobriety #Application #APlusPhilosophy #OnlineWorkshop #Event #EmpoweredLiving #SelfDiscovery #SelfImprovement #PersonalDevelopment #Spirituality #Intent #OnlineCourse #SpiritWarrior
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March 11, 2019

Anna Glambotskaya Interview Part 2

Podcast: https://is.gd/aNjln9

Syl and Anna discuss Life-Coaching and what's important to Anna.

Nobelia.org Self-Discovery Project

Anna Glambotskaya's links:
https://www.upgreatable.com
https://www.facebook.com/groups/artofextraordinaryliving/
Podcast: Upgreatable - on iTunes

If anyone is interested in being interviewed, just let us know.

#Interview #LifeCoach #SelfImprovement #SelfDiscovery #LifeCoaching #PersonalDevelopment #Upgreatable #Relationships
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Published on March 11, 2019 11:00

Anna Glambotskaya Interview Part 1

Podcast: https://is.gd/umF4M

Syl and Anna discuss Life-Coaching and what's important to Anna.

Nobelia.org Self-Discovery Project

Anna Glambotskaya's links:
https://www.upgreatable.com
https://www.facebook.com/groups/artofextraordinaryliving/
Podcast: Upgreatable - on iTunes

If anyone is interested in being interviewed, just let us know.

#Interview #LifeCoach #SelfImprovement #SelfDiscovery #LifeCoaching #PersonalDevelopment #Upgreatable #Relationships
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Published on March 11, 2019 10:30