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When to Heed the Call

There’s a theory that people are called to their destiny. There’s also the ideology that people should do what makes them happy. Then, there’s a third philosophy that combines the two: God has a plan for us, and He wants us to be happy. However, what happens when those don’t align? What happens when what we want isn’t what we get? And are we truly called to do things that we don’t want to do? If so, are we bound to be unhappy doing the things that we dislike?

This topic came about on the heels of a conversation regarding lost or unfulfilled dreams. I wrote a post titled When to Abadon Dreams. During that conversation, a friend proposed an interesting question. What happens when opposites are at play? He began with an interesting scenario.

Young siblings have a dispute. One sibling hits the other in the shoulder. The hit sibling begins to cry, and the parents scowls the hitter with the demand that he/she apologize to his/her sibling. The hitter apologizes, and the punching bag stops crying, satisfied at having received the apology. However, the instant the parent turns around, the hitter licks his/her tongue out at the sibling. His hurt sibling begins crying again. The parent turns around, is told what has happened, and again scowls the hitters. The hitter is told to apologize the second time.

The parent’s reaction is understandable. He/she is attempting to teach his/her children appropriate behavior. But what does it really mean? It teaches lying. In this example, the apology is demanded and not freely given. By the hitter’s response of later licking out his/her tongue, it can be determined that he/isn’t sorry for socking his/her sibling. The apology was a means to an end to appease the parent. It was never genuine. And if it wasn’t genuine, was it even worth being given?

When people are “called” to do something that they don’t want to do, should they answer the call? I once sat on a committee where I saw a need to have the written policy updated. I didn’t want to be the one to do it, but I knew it needed to be done and no one else was stepping up to the plate. No, that’s not true. The one person who would have stepped up, couldn’t at the time because she was overloaded with so many other things that the committee needed to do. She needed the help. I wanted to help her, but I didn’t want to do the task. I stepped up anyway, and initially, I thought I would be okay with doing it. However, the more I worked on it and the time it took, the more miserable I became. I wasn’t happy. Even when I finally completed it, I wasn’t happy because it didn’t feel that I had done my best work. The outcome wasn’t what I had envisioned. Additionally, I didn’t feel that the work I had done was appreciated by other committee members. I had to take a step away and caution myself against pride. I hadn’t done it for praise—or, at least, I shouldn’t have. I did it because it needed doing.

People work jobs that they loathe. They do so because they need the salary to support themselves. Or maybe they do it because they are expected to do it (as in taking over a family business). Still again, maybe they work it because they have been there so long, they don’t know any other job. The reason they remain is irrelevant to this point. The point being made is that the person is in a position that they detest and makes them unhappy. Yet, if they feel compelled or bound to perform the job, how do they balance happiness? Do they become content with their unhappiness?

Content and happiness aren’t necessarily the same thing. Content means a person has become accepting of a situation and has no other expectations. A person who is content may be at peace but not happy. For example, a person whose spouse has passed away may become accustomed to living alone but not overjoyed by it. That person may not feel compelled to remarry or seek a roommate. That may seem like too much of a hassle. Yet, that person may feel alone in the home.

So, how does all of this related to lifelong dreams?

A person may have a lifelong dream or goal, but it may be unobtainable. Some would argue to never give up on a dream. That’s not always possible. Say that a woman wants to participate in the Miss America pageant. One of the parent rules is that the participant cannot be older than 27. If the person wanting to participate is 30, this is no longer a viable dream unless the rules change. The person isn’t in control of the rules and cannot reverse time; therefore, this dream cannot be achieved. Yes, the person could find another pageant to participate in. However, that’s not the person’s dream. If a person wants to be a Dallas Cowboys cheerleader, that is a very specific goal. Being a cheerleader for the New Orleans Saints or L.A. Lakers doesn’t achieve this goal. Now, if the person’s dream was to be a professional cheerleader (nonspecific), it wouldn’t matter for which team (New Orleans Saints, New York Giants) or what type (Boston Celtics, L.A. Lakers) of team. The point is that some dreams/goals are time sensitive. They have to be altered, replaced, or abandoned.

Another friend expressed that in college, he decided on his major due to feeling a strong pull toward the field. Although he excelled at his job in the field, it wasn’t something he enjoyed. Persons close to him frequently informed him that he was a “natural,” and it became expected of him to do the job. Because he was so good at it, he felt compelled to continue; yet, with each passing year, he felt more and more disgruntled and miserable. His dream was to make big changes in his line of work. He realized that the likelihood of that happening was slim to none. Thus, his dilemma was whether he should continue or quit.

“People have told me God has bigger plans for me, and that I have to be patient and live through this season. But I don’t like this season, I’m not very patient, and I don’t want to be angry. I want what I want, and I don’t understand why I’m denied. I try, but my effort isn’t enough. Just because I accept that things haven’t worked out, must I smile about it and pretend I’m unbothered? Sometimes, I’m called to go use the toilet in the middle of the night. I don’t want to get out of my warm bed to go, but I do because it’s uncomfortable not to. Physically, I feel better after relieving my bladder, but when I can’ go back to sleep, I spend the next day feeling tired and grumpy. It’s the same with other aspects of life. I do what I have to do but not always because I want to or like it.”

Does this mean a person who has calling should reject it if the calling makes him/her unhappy or dissatisfied? Will all callings fulfill a need? Just ideas to ponder.

That’s all a wrap. Was this post helpful? Do you think you’ll ever visit? Have you visited there? Let me know your thoughts in the comment section. If you like this post, please click the like button and share. Your feedback allows me to know the content that you want to read.

Hold onto your bootstraps!

Demon Rodeo is available now on Amazon. For video book trailers, visit my TikTok page. The full blurb is on my Instagram and Amazon.

Demon Rodeo is the first book in the Chasing the Buckle series but can be read as a standalone. It’s a friends-to-lovers romance set in the rodeo world. These are not your typical cowboys. It’s a widely diverse cast of characters and a mashup of genres that aren’t always seen together. If you’re looking for a palate cleanser, this may be a book for you.

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Until next time, happy reading and much romance. Laissez le bon temps rouler.

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About the Author:

Hi, I’m Genevive, and I am a contemporary sports romance author. My home is in South Louisiana. If you like snark and giggles with a touch of steamy Cajun and Creole on the side, I may have your poison in my stash of books. Drop by the bayou and have a look around. The pirogues are always waiting for new visitors.

Why Not Editing Professionally Hurts the Writing Community

Oh, this post is going to make some people make today. But before my head is strapped to the guillotine, hear me out. One just may be surprised by what is presented.

First, let’s be clear. No one is trying to gatekeep. No one is saying a writer can’t do what he/she wants to do. And no one is perfect.

When selecting a book, many readers do not know if an author is traditionally published or self-published. If the content is good and the reader enjoys it, it doesn’t matter which it is. What the reader desires is a positive reading experience. They deserve that. Even if the book is free, they deserve to not have their time wasted with a horrible book. And by horrible, I don’t mean a story that just doesn’t resonate with the reader. For example, if a reader enjoys adult historical romance but picks up a young adult dystopian fantasy, he/she may not be too thrilled with the selection. But that isn’t on the author. Even if the story is in the genre the reader prefers, it still may not click for some reason with him/her. That doesn’t make the story horrible. I’m speaking of a story that is riddled with errors.

Okay, let’s attack the elephant running amuck the room head-on before we even get there. No one is demanding perfection. It would be sweet to have it, but no one is perfect. So, let’s debunk that now and circle back to it in a minute.

Writing is difficult. Writing professionally is a discipline and craft. If a painter is hired to paint the walls blue, the ceiling pink, and the trim yellow, I’m willing to bet the owners are going to be less than happy to see blue paint dripped on their baseboards or yellow on their ceilings. They are going to complain and say the painters did a terrible job. They aren’t likely to say, “Oh, well, it’s okay. They are new and are learning.” No, they are going to want the issue corrected or their money refunded. And in this situation, most people would agree with the homeowner.

Writing is an author’s work. It is their job to provide a quality service to the reader. The excuse that an author is new or professional editing is expensive is no excuse.

So, here we are again. “But Genevive, I’ve seen professionally edited books with mistakes.” Okay, stop with the gaslighting. Yes, I said it. Now, let me say this again for the people in the back who did not hear the first time. No one is perfect. I’m sure this post has mistakes. Again, not perfect. Professionally edited books have mistakes—some more than others. Yes, mistakes happen. Let me without sin cast the first stone. Traditionally edited books have mistakes. That’s not the point. That argument serves to divert focus from the issue of poorly edited or not-edited books. Poor professionally edited books do not get a pass, but that is a different topic. We’re talking about books that are intentionally and purposely put into the universe with no attempt to professionally edit. This is like selling a used car without disclosing it has been wrecked. That’s why now there are websites like Car Facts to provide hidden information that prevents buyers from making informed consents when purchasing. How many people after buying a faulty product return it? Books are a product.

The difference between books and many other products is that reading them takes time. Not only can they be a financial investment, but they also are a time investment, and time isn’t something a person can get back. If I only have an hour to read, I don’t want that hour to be filled with garbage. And no, I did not just call all non-professionally edited books garbage. That is another gaslight. Stop it. Some authors are extremely crafted in editing, especially when the amount of material editing is small. No one ever said an author can’t do a good job editing his/her own work. It’s difficult because often when an author knows what the text is supposed to say or mean, his/her brain automatically fills it in and they don’t see the error. Even with A.I. and other writing software, mistakes get through because a human eye is required. Again, nothing is perfect, and nothing is claiming to be. We live in an imperfect world. That being said, doesn’t mean that we shouldn’t strive for perfection. We may not obtain it, but we should at least attempt to get as close to it as possible.

So, here’s the problem with not professional editing, the attempt to get as close as possible to perfection isn’t there. Sure, self-editing is a step in the right direction, but usually, it isn’t enough. It needs to go further when a manuscript is put out there as professional.

Here’s another argument: The claim that professional editing is needed is made by those who can afford it and is an attempt to police and suppress writers who can’t and… (here’s the big one) … professionally edited authors are only concerned with how it affects their sales. This argument is only fair to a certain extent. If a customer eats at a chain restaurant (let’s call it Little Johnny B’s) in Augusta, Georgia, and gets food poisoning, he/she may think it’s restricted to specific Little Johnny B’s in that location. But if he/she eats at Little Johnny B’s in San Diego, New Orleans, Detroit, Seattle, Boston, and Orlando and gets food poisoning each time, he/she is probably going to generalize that the problem with the food is the entire chain. So, when he/she sees Little Johnny B’s in Houston, he/she likely will pass on eating there. And it could be that the restaurant in Houston has never had an incident of food poisoning. What one does can affect an entire community. Ever asked about a particular business and been told that it’s located in a “bad part of town.” Every business located in that vicinity is going to be affected to some degree by this. But let’s ignore the bigger picture for a moment.

When a writer puts out a work that is poorly edited, readers are going to remember, and many will elect not to read that writer again. I’ve already stated it once here, but I’ll state it again. Writing is hard. Many authors aren’t fortunate enough to make a living by writing and working a full-time job. It is difficult (but not impossible) for new writers to become noticed. They are competing will well-established and celebrity authors. Also, there are so many other forms of entertainment that many people shy away from reading. A recent study indicated that due to people being exposed to so much short-form media content they now struggle to maintain attention to read novels. Does that hurt the writing community overall? Sure. But it also makes it harder for new authors to gain a following. It staunches their writing careers. Consider this.

When hiring, many businesses ask for a resume or have potential employees complete an application. Most employees will want to see the reference. Now, if the employer calls the references listed and the response is negative about the employee, how many employers are going to hire? Sure, some will, but I’m willing to bet a lot more won’t. Many writers become popular based on what readers and critics are saying. If it’s negative (or worse, not talk), it’s not favorable for the writer. Of course, there are always exceptions to this. Some authors become super popular due to the negative exposure they receive. There’s a saying that there’s no such thing as bad press or any press is good press. However, it has been seen where negative press has killed or greatly staunched people’s careers. It’s a roll of the dice when it comes to negative press, and is that a gamble that new writers want to take? Is it one that they can afford to take?

Listen, a writer can make any choices about his/her work that he wants to. There is no law that says a writer must be professionally edited If a writer opts against professional editing, that is that writer’s prerogative. However, it is pure gaslighting when persons who argue on the side of professional editing are told to keep quiet and that they are gatekeeping. That simply isn’t true. There are legitimate concerns.

I want to end on a positive note. There are affordable editors out there and affordable ways one can have his/her work professionally edited. Some editors work on a sliding scale. Some will accept installments or agree to an exchange of services. Some new editors will do it for free to build their client list. There’s nothing that says a WIP has to be edited all at once. A writer can have chapters edited as they can afford them. There are writing critique groups where members who are professionals or have areas of expertise offer to help. There are writing seminars and conferences where editors may edit a few pages for free. Retired English and literary professors may be able to help. Or the writer can delay publishing until he/she can afford a professional editor. There are options.

As a writer, I support other writers. It’s never my goal to dissuade anyone from following their dreams. I’m in the trenches, too, and I know the struggle of writers. Each person has a different path and journey. This post wasn’t written to bash, shame, or hurt anyone’s feelings. It simply was to voice a point of view. People are welcome to disagree. Everyone is entitled to his/her opinion. There’s no dictatorship or mind control here. But to dismiss the concerns as unfounded and gatekeeping is unfair and gaslighting.

And that’s all I got. Was this post helpful? Do you think you’ll ever visit? Have you visited there? Let me know your thoughts in the comment section. If you like this post, please click the like button and share. Your feedback allows me to know the content that you want to read.

Giddy up and let’s ride!

Demon Rodeo is available now on Amazon. For video book trailers, visit my TikTok page. The full blurb is on my Instagram and Amazon.

Demon Rodeo is the first book in the Chasing the Buckle series but can be read as a standalone. It’s a friends-to-lovers romance set in the rodeo world. These are not your typical cowboys. It’s a widely diverse cast of characters and a mashup of genres that aren’t always seen together. If you’re looking for a palate cleanser, this may be a book for you.

Order

⇨ Amazon: https://readerlinks.com/l/4174852

⇨ All Stores: https://books2read.com/u/bP8RG7

Until next time, happy reading and much romance. Laissez le bon temps rouler.

If you’re not following my blog, Creole Bayou, what are you waiting for? There’s always room at the bayou.

NEWSLETTER! Want to get the latest information and updates about my writing projects, giveaways, contests, and reveals first? Click here and sign up today.

Want to chat about writing, mental health, Cajun cuisine, Creole culture, or just spill some tea? If yes, let’s get connected. Follow me on one of my social links. There’s plenty to choose from.

Facebook: Genevive ChambleeX (formerly Twitter): @dolynesaidsoInstagram: genevivechambleeauthorGoodreads: Genevive ChambleeAmazon Authors: Genevive ChambleeBookBub: Genevive ChambleeTikTok: CreolegurlNolaBluesky: Genevive ChambleeThreads: Author Genevive Chamblee

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Out of the Penalty Box (book #1) One minute in the box or a lifetime out. Defending the Net (book #2) Crossing the line could cost the game. Ice Gladiators (book #3) When the gloves come off, the games begin. Penalty Kill (book #4) Let the pucker begin. Future Goals (book #5) The future lies between a puck and a net.

About the Author:

Hi, I’m Genevive, and I am a contemporary sports romance author. My home is in South Louisiana. If you like snark and giggles with a touch of steamy Cajun and Creole on the side, I may have your poison in my stash of books. Drop by the bayou and have a look around. The pirogues are always waiting for new visitors.

When to Abandon Dreams

Have you ever felt like you’re slam worn out from spinning your wheels and getting nowhere? Do you feel that your dreams are out of reach or constantly being denied? Do you feel like you’re always the bridesmaid and never the bride? And do you have that one person in your life who thinks they are being supportive but whose words drag you down even more? You’re not alone.

Today’s topic stems from a multitude of things occurring for friends, coworkers, and well as myself. This topic seemed to pop up too many times for me to ignore writing a post. However, I believe it was the words of an associate that pushed me over the edge to take a seat in front of my laptop and begin pounding it out.

First, let me say, that the associate who made the statement meant no ill-will. He honestly thought he was being helpful. And to be fair, perhaps my feelings and headspace were not in the right place and I received the message all wrong. Here’s what happened.

We were speaking about dreams. After several months of working on a tediously gnawing project, I experienced somewhat of a disappointment. Here’s why I say somewhat. There’s a saying, “Hope for the best but prepare for the worst.” Several months ago, I had concerns that the project may not produce the desired result. Instead of this person reassuring me that my concerns were valid, he accused me of being negative and sending bad vibes into the universe. “You don’t know that. You can’t predict the future” These were the words I heard repeatedly, and they made me hesitant to share my thoughts and feelings. Instead of building confidence in what I was doing, I began doubting myself. I asked, “Am I Debbie Downer? Am I self-sabotaging by not being more optimistic?” Yet, I couldn’t shake the nagging feeling that my concerns were on the mark.

The day finally came to complete the project, and all the fears I dreaded were before my eyes. I hadn’t adequately prepared myself for the worst because I listened to my associate.

I was bummed by the outcome and was mopey. Most people are used to seeing me smiling, upbeat, and horsing around, even on some of the crummiest of days. However, I just didn’t have it in me that day. I couldn’t muster a smile and my demeanor wasn’t all rainbows and sparkles. I was in the dumps, and sometimes, one needs to be allowed to sulk and wallow in sorrow. Not forever but for a moment. Sadness, frustration, and anger are on the emotional scale, and they are each valid emotions. People are allowed to feel them and shouldn’t be told otherwise. I was processing everything that had happened, and my associate’s advice was to “get another dream.” As if it was that simple. I had some four-letter words in mind for him, but I kept them to myself. He then went on to semi-lecture me on his philosophy. He said that when things don’t work out for him he focuses on the good. He doesn’t know what’s out there. Fine.

No, not fine. Here’s the problem with that and what I expressed.

A dream is something that a person desires, wants to obtain, or strives to achieve. A dream is a definite because it is a goal. If one doesn’t know what the goal is, then how can that be a dream? It’s nothing. One doesn’t ascribe to nothing. Well, I suppose technically person can want nothing, and it could be a goal to want nothing, as in to be satisfied with what one has. That’s valid. But can a dream be described as striving to obtain nothing or having a goal to be nothing? And that is how I replied to him. If what is out there is unknown, it could be something or it could be nothing. But without a definition to it, it can’t be a dream because a dream has to be something. One can’t have a goal of nothing. There’s no goal. I was hurting, and all he was doing was invalidating my feelings and telling me to want nothing.

My associate got quiet. He recognized whether right, wrong, or indifferent, I was no longer listening. I had been a victim of toxic positivity. Toxic positivity is an extreme form of optimism that involves dismissing negative emotions or invalidating negative experiences in favor of a cheerful façade or replacing them with false reassurances. For a long time, I didn’t believe toxic positivity was real. Guess who was wrong. Anyway…

People who deliver toxic positivity generally hold good intentions. They genuinely want to help. However, they don’t realize that their actions may have harmful consequences. Now, I’m not going to blame my actions on my associate’s statements. I should have maintained more confidence in myself and went with my gut. It was the aspiration in me yearning for a positive outcome that so easily allowed me to suppress the reality of the disintegration I saw happening. It also forced me to take a closer look and explore what and when to terminate a dream. So, I grabbed my handy dandy notebook and began researching.

Dreams are something that a person should develop for himself/herself. If a person is striving to obtain a goal solely for or because of another person, then that is the other person’s dream. It’s perfectly fine to have shared dreams, but a dream must come from within for a person to consider it his/her dream. So be sure the dream is something you desire.Most dreams are difficult to obtain. One must be willing to put in a lot of effort to achieve them. Likely, there will be obstacles, and some may seem impossible. Some may actually be impossible.Dreams change. A person does not have to continue attempting to chase a dream if the dream no longer makes him/her happy. It’s okay to change or quit. Give yourself grace.Here’s a hard one. Not all dreams will come true. It’s okay to fail. Again, give yourself grace. However, a failed dream does not mean the end of the road. Sure, a new dream may come along. Or it might not. With time, the hurt and disappointment will get better. I’m not going to say it completely subsides because it may not. But it will become bearable. One will be able to get through the day without feeling crushed. The take it takes one to heal varies from person to person. Just know it will come.All emotions are valid. Let me say that again for the people in the back. All emotions are valid. That does not mean a person should act on all emotions, but one is allowed to feel them. Allow no one to emotion-shame you. Stay away from anyone who attempts to do this.Dreams require choices, and not all choices are pleasant. For example, career aspirations may mean moving far away from family and friends or living in a not-so-great area. In this situation, a person may need to do a pro-con assessment to determine the best action. If one determines that the cost of obtaining a dream entails sacrificing too much, then the dream may not be worth it.Sometimes, dreams are no longer viable. A close friend, resting her soul, had three dreams in life: to get married, own a home, and have children. The first major blow came when she returned to college to get an advanced degree. On the surface, this appeared to be a step in the right direction to obtain her homeownership goal. However, what it did was put her deeper into debt and make her ineligible for a mortgage loan. Plus, in order to return to school, she accepted a job that decreased her already meager salary by more than two thousand dollars. The second blow getting involved in a complicated romantic relationship (love triangle) that didn’t go in her favor. And the final blow was having to have a hysterectomy. Had she had more time on this earth, she possibly could have achieved at least one of the goals. However, likely she would have never had children unless she married a man with children. She was over her childbearing years, and I later learned, that most adoption agencies have an age limit for adopting parents (unless the child is a blood relative.) Before her untimely death, she was coming to terms with the possibility of her never becoming a wife or mother. According to an internet search (take it for what it is), the odds of a woman her age getting married would have been one in sixteen.A point often not made is releasing oneself from obligation. What does that mean? Sometimes a person sets a goal but may lose interest or maybe they never wanted it. However, once the goal has been set, the person feels obligated to achieve it. A friend explained that many years ago, she set a goal for herself. Where she went wrong was that she told a lot of people about it. Those people (some supporters and others doubters) constantly kept her accountable for the goal. So, even after she lost interest in it, she still felt compelled to obtain it. But what others think should have no influence on a person’s dream. As stated in point number one, a dream is something one has for himself/herself.

And that’s all I got. Now, it’s your turn to sound off. Was this post helpful? Let me know your thoughts in the comment section. If you like this post, please click the like button and share. Your feedback allows me to know the content that you want to read.

Hang onto your bootstraps.

My contemporary M/M paranormal sports romance, Demon Rodeo, is available now for order on Amazon. If Brokeback Mountain, 8 Seconds, Poltergeist, and Supernatural had an orgy, Demon Rodeo would be the lovechild. For video book trailers, visit my TikTok page. The full blurb is on my Instagram and Amazon.

Demon Rodeo is the first book in the Chasing the Buckle series but can be read as a standalone. It’s a friends-to-lovers romance set in the rodeo world. These are not your typical cowboys. It’s a widely diverse cast of characters and a mashup of genres that aren’t always seen together. If you’re looking for a palate cleanser, this may be a book for you.

Order

⇨ Amazon: https://readerlinks.com/l/4174852

⇨ All Stores: https://books2read.com/u/bP8RG7

Until next time, happy reading and much romance. Laissez le bon temps rouler.

If you’re not following my blog, Creole Bayou, what are you waiting for? There’s always room at the bayou.

NEWSLETTER! Want to get the latest information and updates about my writing projects, giveaways, contests, and reveals first? Click here and sign up today.

Want to chat about writing, mental health, Cajun cuisine, Creole culture, or just spill some tea? If yes, let’s get connected. Follow me on one of my social links. There’s plenty to choose from.

Facebook: Genevive ChambleeX (formerly Twitter): @dolynesaidsoInstagram: genevivechambleeauthorGoodreads: Genevive ChambleeAmazon Authors: Genevive ChambleeBookBub: Genevive ChambleeTikTok: CreolegurlNolaBluesky: Genevive ChambleeThreads: Author Genevive Chamblee

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Are you searching for a sexy book boyfriend? You’ve come to the right place.

Out of the Penalty Box (book #1) One minute in the box or a lifetime out. Defending the Net (book #2) Crossing the line could cost the game. Ice Gladiators (book #3) When the gloves come off, the games begin. Penalty Kill (book #4) Let the pucker begin. Future Goals (book #5) The future lies between a puck and a net.

About the Author:

Hi, I’m Genevive, and I am a contemporary sports romance author. My home is in South Louisiana. If you like snark and giggles with a touch of steamy Cajun and Creole on the side, I may have your poison in my stash of books. Drop by the bayou and have a look around. The pirogues are always waiting for new visitors.

Thank You

Wow! What a ride (no Demon Rodeo pun intended) these last thirty days have been. Just wow! It has been amazing. You all have been amazing. Thank you to everyone for all the positivity that you’ve extended to me during this time. It has helped tremendously. Releases are always stressful, but this one has taken me through it from USB corruptions, laptop crashes, contracts getting lost, printing delays, and, oh my gosh, how many other things? Your girl has been through it. But you know what? It all has been worth it.

Demon Rodeo was the story that fought against the odds to be told. When I initially had the idea, I was slightly hesitant as it was a departure from my usual sports themes (hockey and football). However, it was a return to my paranormal and/or occult roots. It became a rejected short story screaming for transformation into a novel. Only, I had no clue as to how to do it. It sat for months abandoned in a file. Although I wanted to do something with it, I had to force myself to revisit it. And when I discovered what steps I needed to take, it was a daunting undertaking. It was a genre mashup that I knew many wouldn’t vibe with. It wouldn’t stay in the lanes of typical stories currently being told. But so many of you did get it. You followed the journey and made the ride tremendous. You got the snark and the jargon and the Southern storytelling vibes. You liked my division of sports and paranormal and allowed me my voice. In other words, you didn’t put Genevive in a corner, and I appreciate that.

Thank you so much for liking, sharing, commenting, leaving reviews, emailing, texting, messaging, and hanging out with me. Thank you for reading these daily posts and responding. Thank you for your encouraging words across all my social media. Just thank you for being there. Thank you to my publisher and editors, all my betas, my family and friends, my ARC reviews, my critique partners, and of course, all of my readers and the non-haters. I am humbled. Thank you. Merci.

Giddy up and let’s ride!

Demon Rodeo is available now on Amazon. For video book trailers, visit my TikTok page. The full blurb is on my Instagram and Amazon.

Demon Rodeo is the first book in the Chasing the Buckle series but can be read as a standalone. It’s a friends-to-lovers romance set in the rodeo world. These are not your typical cowboys. It’s a widely diverse cast of characters and a mashup of genres that aren’t always seen together. If you’re looking for a palate cleanser, this may be a book for you.

Order

⇨ Amazon: https://readerlinks.com/l/4174852

⇨ All Stores: https://books2read.com/u/bP8RG7

Until next time, happy reading and much romance. Laissez le bon temps rouler.

If you’re not following my blog, Creole Bayou, what are you waiting for? There’s always room at the bayou.

NEWSLETTER! Want to get the latest information and updates about my writing projects, giveaways, contests, and reveals first? Click here and sign up today.

Want to chat about writing, mental health, Cajun cuisine, Creole culture, or just spill some tea? If yes, let’s get connected. Follow me on one of my social links. There’s plenty to choose from.

Facebook: Genevive ChambleeX (formerly Twitter): @dolynesaidsoInstagram: genevivechambleeauthorGoodreads: Genevive ChambleeAmazon Authors: Genevive ChambleeBookBub: Genevive ChambleeTikTok: CreolegurlNolaBluesky: Genevive ChambleeThreads: Author Genevive Chamblee

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Are you searching for a sexy book boyfriend? You’ve come to the right place.

Out of the Penalty Box (book #1) One minute in the box or a lifetime out. Defending the Net (book #2) Crossing the line could cost the game. Ice Gladiators (book #3) When the gloves come off, the games begin. Penalty Kill (book #4) Let the pucker begin. Future Goals (book #5) The future lies between a puck and a net.

About the Author:

Hi, I’m Genevive, and I am a contemporary sports romance author. My home is in South Louisiana. If you like snark and giggles with a touch of steamy Cajun and Creole on the side, I may have your poison in my stash of books. Drop by the bayou and have a look around. The pirogues are always waiting for new visitors.

How to Create a Writing Music Playlist

Hello and salute mes amis. Welcome back to my blog if you’ve visited before. If you are new to Creole Bayou salute. Creole Bayou is a blog that discusses topics about culture (all things Creole and Cajun), writing, mental health, and romance/relationships. My name is Genevive, and in addition to blogging, I’m also an author. This month, I have been celebrating the release of Demon Rodeo, a paranormal sports romance. As part of the celebration, I have been uploading daily posts about topics and themes that somehow relate to something that occurs or is mentioned in the story.

Well, it’s finally here. It’s release day, and I’m super stoked!!! This has been a long journey. On that journey, I listened to some great tunes to get me in the mood for writing certain scenes.

Many writers use music as inspiration and background as they create fictional worlds swirling in their minds. Some writers use their favorite songs. Others listen to whatever is on the radio. Still, others have specific songs they want to use. (This is especially true for authors writing in the rock fiction genre.) Some authors only use instrumental music to avoid getting wrapped up in singing the lyrics. Some writers want their music to be blaring while others use it as white noise.

There are no hard-set rules for creating a playlist, other than it needing to be not distract from the writing. However, there are many suggestions and guidelines that writers can use.

Group the songs by category or type. This prevents the writer from having to scan for a specific type of song. For example, in writing a sports scene, I like to use music that typically would be played at a sporting event. Therefore, I group all of those songs together.Back up your playlist. I’m going to go a step further and say backup your playlist in multiple places. This is coming from a place of love and someone who has experienced too many crashes and malfunctions than I care to mention. My last crash occurred as I was writing my celebratory blog blitz. I had two laptops, the cloud, and five USB drives. One would have thought that would be enough. But you guessed it. It wasn’t. My routine was to save to the USB, hard drive, cloud, and the remaining USBs in that order. Well, I got in a hurry and only saved it to the main USB. Later that night, for no known reason, the USB could no longer be read. The latest versions of the posts I had written hadn’t been saved to the cloud or my hard drive. A techie who claimed he would help (for a fee) recover everything ghosted me. I spun into a depression sprinkled with mega-anxiety glitter. My playlist was one of the items lost. Fortunately, I did have most of it saved elsewhere. Now, I know many people just use apps to store their playlists, but I had mine saved on my phone and laptop for the most part. (And when my phone crashed, and I had to upgrade, not all of my songs transferred. Others couldn’t be read by the updated app.)Keep a log of what you use. Initially, this wasn’t something I did. However, over the years of writing a playlist, I realized I had songs downloaded that I would skip every time. What was the purpose of them being there other than hogging up space? Not only will a log keep you abreast of what you’re not listening to, but it also tracks what you are. Why is this handy? There were times when I would be into writing a scene but would need to stop for some reason. I may not have been able to get back to it for several days. By noting the song that helped get me in the zone, I could go to it and pick up where I left off.Take suggestions for new music. I have to confess. I don’t really listen to the radio anymore. I’m not sure when I stopped, but I don’t. I tend to listen to the same music I have for years, updating it only when I hear something that I like in a movie or in a short content social media video. There’s nothing wrong with doing this, but it can potentially lead to stagnant writing. For many people, music is nostalgic. It brings up certain emotions. Hence, listening to the same songs will provoke the same feelings each time. This may not spark any new ideas and stifle creativity. Ever read a writer whose characters all sound alike? I’m not saying it’s because he/she is listening to the same songs, but one can see how this could be a possibility. So, ask others what they are listening to.

Here’s the playlist I used for Demon Rodeo. Although the songs are numbered, these numbers do not represent the order of importance, the order in which I listened to them, or any sort of ranking. On the contrary, they are listed in alphabetical order by title. Many of the songs, I listened to multiple times. You’ll notice that there are a lot of old-school jams but an overall eclectic grouping. Can you match the songs to the scenes? Can you match any songs to specific characters?

DISCLAIMER: I am not sponsored, affiliated, associated, authorized, endorsed by, or in any way officially connected with the artists, bands, studios, or any of their subsidiaries or affiliates. The music and songs are registered copyrights of their respective owners.

Demon Rodeo Playlist

A Bar Song (Tipsy) – ShaboozeyAlone – MarshmelloAnimal I Have Become – Three Days GraceAs Long as You Love Me – Backstreet BoysBeautiful Things – Benson BooneBeds Are Burning – Midnight OilBlack Sabbath – Black SabbathBring Me to Life – EvanescenceCheerleader – OMIDemons – Imagine DragonsDiamonds – RihannaDirty Laundry – Don HenleyDrive – Incubus(Don’t Fear) The Reaper – Blue Oyster CultEnjoy the Ride – KrewellaFaithfully -JourneyFor Whom the Bell Tolls – MetallicaHeat of the Moment – AsiaHooked on a Feeling – Blue Swede & Björn SkifsI’m Good (Blue) – Bebe Rexha & David GuettaI’m Still Standing – Elton JohnIn a Big Country – Big CountryIn the Air Tonight – Phil CollinsIn the Name of Love – Martin Garrix & Bebe RexhaIt’s My Life – Bon JoviJump Around – House of PainKeep on Loving You – REO SpeedwagonLive Every Moment – REO SpeedwagonLove Walks In – Van HalenMajor Tom – Peter SchillingMemories – Maroon 5Mental Health (Bang Your Head) – Quiet RiotMessage In a Bottle – The PoliceModern Love – David BowieOne Day – MatisyahuOur Lips Are Sealed – The Go-Go’sOverdrive – OfenbachPain – Three Days GracePoison – Alice CooperRebel Yell – Billy IdolRock ‘n’ Roll (Part 2) – Gary GlitterRiot – Three Days GraceSeven Nation Army – The White StripesShake It Off – Taylor SwiftSomeone You Loved – Lewis CapaldiSpirit in the Sky – Norman GreenbaumSweet Dreams (Are Made of This) – EurythmicsTainted Love – Soft CellThe Boys Are Back in Town – Thin LizzyThe Final Countdown – EuropeThe Scientist – ColdplayTitanium – David GuettaTruth Comes Out – WillyechoUnstoppable – SiaWelcome to the Jungle – Guns N’ RosesWind Up Missin’ You – Tucker WetmoreYou Are the Reason – Calum ScottYou Don’t Mess Around with Jim – Jim CroceYou Spin Me Round (Like a Record) – Dead or AliveYou’ve Got Another Thing Coming – Judas Priest

Do you have a playlist? If so, are any of these songs on it? Which songs on this list are your favorites? Let me know your thoughts in the comment section. If you like this post, please click the like button and share. Your feedback allows me to know the content that you want to read.

If Brokeback Mountain, 8 Seconds, Poltergeist, and Supernatural had an orgy, Demon Rodeo would be the lovechild.

Demon Rodeo is available now on Amazon. For video book trailers, visit my TikTok page. The full blurb is on my Instagram and Amazon.

Demon Rodeo is the first book in the Chasing the Buckle series but can be read as a standalone. It’s a friends-to-lovers romance set in the rodeo world. These are not your typical cowboys. It’s a widely diverse cast of characters and a mashup of genres that aren’t always seen together. If you’re looking for a palate cleanser, this may be a book for you.

Order

⇨ Amazon: https://readerlinks.com/l/4174852

⇨ All Stores: https://books2read.com/u/bP8RG7

Until next time, happy reading and much romance. Laissez le bon temps rouler.

If you’re not following my blog, Creole Bayou, what are you waiting for? There’s always room at the bayou.

NEWSLETTER! Want to get the latest information and updates about my writing projects, giveaways, contests, and reveals first? Click here and sign up today.

Want to chat about writing, mental health, Cajun cuisine, Creole culture, or just spill some tea? If yes, let’s get connected. Follow me on one of my social links. There’s plenty to choose from.

Facebook: Genevive ChambleeX (formerly Twitter): @dolynesaidsoInstagram: genevivechambleeauthorGoodreads: Genevive ChambleeAmazon Authors: Genevive ChambleeBookBub: Genevive ChambleeTikTok: CreolegurlNolaBluesky: Genevive ChambleeThreads: Author Genevive Chamblee

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Are you searching for a sexy book boyfriend? You’ve come to the right place.

Out of the Penalty Box (book #1) One minute in the box or a lifetime out. Defending the Net (book #2) Crossing the line could cost the game. Ice Gladiators (book #3) When the gloves come off, the games begin. Penalty Kill (book #4) Let the pucker begin. Future Goals (book #5) The future lies between a puck and a net.

About the Author:

Hi, I’m Genevive, and I am a contemporary sports romance author. My home is in South Louisiana. If you like snark and giggles with a touch of steamy Cajun and Creole on the side, I may have your poison in my stash of books. Drop by the bayou and have a look around. The pirogues are always waiting for new visitors.

Release Day Giveaway

Bonjour mes amis. Salute et bienvenue. Welcome back to Creole Bayou, the blog that discusses all things Creole and Cajun culture (writing, mental health, romance/relationships, etc.). For the past thirty days, I’ve been uploading daily posts on topics that somehow relate to something that happened in Demon Rodeo, my new paranormal sports romance, in celebration of its pending release. As indicated by the title, the day has come. It is release day. Demon Rodeo is now live.

That means it’s time for a giveaway!!! Here are the rules.

To enter go to my TikTok page.Click on the giveaway (a.k.a., Shmiveaway video because TikTok has an aversion to the word giveaway) video pinned to the top.Comment your favorite book trope.Tag three book bestiesRepost and like the videoFollow me

What participants need to know.

The giveaway will end at 12:01 CST on 09/15/24.The giveaway winner will be pulled at random.The winner will be notified via inbox message.The winner will have 48 hours from the time the notification message has been sent to claim his/her prize.The winner will need to provide an address (via private message after notification – please do not post addresses in the comments).I apologize in advance, but this giveaway is only open to persons who reside in the US. I will hold a separate giveaway that will be open to international residents. I also will host a giveaway of Instagram at a later date.

What is the prize?

A paperback copy of Demon Rodeo and other goodies.

If you have any questions, please contact me at genevivechamblee@yahoo.com. Thank you for all of your support.

Until next time, happy reading and much romance. Laissez le bon temps rouler.

If you’re not following my blog, Creole Bayou, what are you waiting for? There’s always room at the bayou.

NEWSLETTER! Want to get the latest information and updates about my writing projects, giveaways, contests, and reveals first? Click here and sign up today.

Want to chat about writing, mental health, Cajun cuisine, Creole culture, or just spill some tea? If yes, let’s get connected. Follow me on one of my social links. There’s plenty to choose from.

Facebook: Genevive ChambleeX (formerly Twitter): @dolynesaidsoInstagram: genevivechambleeauthorGoodreads: Genevive ChambleeAmazon Authors: Genevive ChambleeBookBub: Genevive ChambleeTikTok: CreolegurlNolaBluesky: Genevive ChambleeThreads: Author Genevive Chamblee

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[image error] Locker Room Love Series [image error]

Are you searching for a sexy book boyfriend? You’ve come to the right place.

Out of the Penalty Box (book #1) One minute in the box or a lifetime out. Defending the Net (book #2) Crossing the line could cost the game. Ice Gladiators (book #3) When the gloves come off, the games begin. Penalty Kill (book #4) Let the pucker begin. Future Goals (book #5) The future lies between a puck and a net.

About the Author:

Hi, I’m Genevive, and I am a contemporary sports romance author. My home is in South Louisiana. If you like snark and giggles with a touch of steamy Cajun and Creole on the side, I may have your poison in my stash of books. Drop by the bayou and have a look around. The pirogues are always waiting for new visitors.

Development of a Sports Romance Idea

Hello et salute mes amies. Bienvenue and welcome back to Creole Bayou, the blog that discusses all things Creole and Cajun culture plus a little bit more. Well, we made it. It’s finally release day. For the past thirty days, I’ve been uploading daily topics that relate to something that happened in Demon Rodeo, my paranormal sports romance, in celebration of its pending release. I thought discussing where I’d gotten the idea for this story would be appropriate.

Previously, I discussed that Demon Rodeo was written for inclusion in an anthology and how that slid completely sideways. I also discussed the hardship of transforming it into a full-length novel and that this wasn’t my first rodeo with writing paranormal. (See what I did there?) What I’ve never written about is where the actual idea sprung from.

Back in the day, I had a job that required me to go to a rodeo. My attendance had absolutely nothing to do with my education, training, experience, knowledge, or social skills. Nope. Had it been one of those things, I may not have been perturbed for being demanded to go. What was needed of me was my body. Don’t take that the wrong way. They need my physical presence…people to attend. Like building a salad with two heads of lettuce and one cherry tomato. It’s all about the visuals—an illusion to make something look more than what it is. A good showing of representation was needed; thus, I was drafted. I wasn’t thrilled. It’s not that I have anything against rodeos other than…well… the smell. If you’ve ever been downwind of a cattle truck, then you already know. Other than that and the people I had to go with (i.e., coworkers and the clientele), the experience wasn’t unpleasant. The cowboys were all talented and did what they had to do. And I have to hand it to them, they were super impressive. In fact, I couldn’t keep my eyes off the barrelmen and bullfighters (i.e., the clowns). They left an impression.

Prior to this live event, I’d watched rodeos on television. Granted, they were never my go-to must-see TV. More like being home on a Sunday afternoon and nothing else on television. It was watching CBS Sports that I learned the rules and jargon. They are simple to learn, as there aren’t many, especially when compared to a sport such as football.

When I first learned about the open call for submissions to an anthology, I was working on another project. However, I was so thrilled with the idea of inclusion in an anthology that I set my current project aside to work on it. After reading the criteria, I knew I wanted to do something different. Frequently, I challenge myself by pushing my writing boundaries. But here are a few things I always have to take into account.

I’m a Southerner, and I tell stories the way many Southern storytellers do. I go all around Robin Hood’s barn to make a point. I’m chatty and use plenty of antidotes, sarcasm, and humor. I knew I wouldn’t be able to tell a football or hockey story within the guideline word limit. I needed something simple like get on a bull and ride it—not that that’s simple.

Before writing Demon Rodeo, I’d been included in four other anthologies—three of which I’d written paranormal stories. However, since I’d written those stories, I’d begun writing sports romance. It didn’t take long for me to make the math math and put two and two together.

And with this post, I begin the conclusion of my daily blogs. If anyone thinks daily posting is for the lighthearted, think twice. I’ve enjoyed it, but it has been a challenge to keep the content fresh, relevant, and uploaded timely. So, that’s a wrap. Keep your eyes peeled for giveaways and prizes. The party isn’t over.

Order

⇨ Amazon: https://readerlinks.com/l/4174852

⇨ All Stores: https://books2read.com/u/bP8RG7

Until next time, happy reading and much romance. Laissez le bon temps rouler.

If you’re not following my blog, Creole Bayou, what are you waiting for? There’s always room at the bayou.

NEWSLETTER! Want to get the latest information and updates about my writing projects, giveaways, contests, and reveals first? Click here and sign up today.

Want to chat about writing, mental health, Cajun cuisine, Creole culture, or just spill some tea? If yes, let’s get connected. Follow me on one of my social links. There’s plenty to choose from.

Facebook: Genevive ChambleeX (formerly Twitter): @dolynesaidsoInstagram: genevivechambleeauthorGoodreads: Genevive ChambleeAmazon Authors: Genevive ChambleeBookBub: Genevive ChambleeTikTok: CreolegurlNolaBluesky: Genevive ChambleeThreads: Author Genevive Chamblee

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[image error] Locker Room Love Series [image error]

Are you searching for a sexy book boyfriend? You’ve come to the right place.

Out of the Penalty Box (book #1) One minute in the box or a lifetime out. Defending the Net (book #2) Crossing the line could cost the game. Ice Gladiators (book #3) When the gloves come off, the games begin. Penalty Kill (book #4) Let the pucker begin. Future Goals (book #5) The future lies between a puck and a net.

About the Author:

Hi, I’m Genevive, and I am a contemporary sports romance author. My home is in South Louisiana. If you like snark and giggles with a touch of steamy Cajun and Creole on the side, I may have your poison in my stash of books. Drop by the bayou and have a look around. The pirogues are always waiting for new visitors.

The Difference Between Jealousy, Envy, and Sadness

Hello, bonjour, et salute. If this is your first time visiting Creole Bayou, bienvenue and welcome. If you’ve visited before, welcome back. I’m Genevive, the author of Creole Bayou blog, a discussion place for topics about culture (all things Creole and Cajun), writing, mental health, and romance/relationships. I’m also a romance novelist. This month, I’m celebrating the release (on September 5th) of my spicy, paranormal sports romance novel, Demon Rodeo. As part of the celebration, I am uploading daily about a topic that is somehow related to something that happens in the story. Not surprisingly, when discussing matters of the heart, sometimes a green-eyed monster pops its head out of the love canal. Thus, today’s discussion will be about jealousy, envy, and sadness.

I’m going to confess. I have begun writing this multiple times. The research has been more than grueling. That’s because the terms jealousy and envy are often used interchangeably and are so closely related that it is challenging to tease them apart. Both words are frequently used to indicate covetous behavior.

In the case of jealousy, it is associated with a sense of being alert, acutely wakeful, feeling protective regarding one’s own attachments or advantages, and/or maintaining a careful watch for possible danger for anyone or anything that may take, steal, or possess the object, cause, or person being coveted. Jealousy is when a person guards something he/she has and is fearful that it will be taken away.

Envy, on the other hand, is when a person strongly desires an object, characteristic, qualities, or person that another person has, is in possession of, or has a relationship with. Envy produces feelings of anger, bitterness, fear, insecurity, painful awareness, and unhappiness because someone has someone or something that is desired but not obtained. It is the anger, sorrow, or sadness at the excellence or goodness of someone else and hostility or antipathy of not possessing the same advantage, excellence, or goodness.

In Catholicism and other Christian religions, envy is a capital sin. A capital sin (or vice) is one of the “seven deadly sins.” They are given the name of capital sin because they are the basis, root, or source of all other sins. (The other six capital sins are anger, gluttony, lust, pride, sloth, and wrath.)

As mentioned previously, both jealousy and envy are habitually applied to convey avaricious or acquisitive behavior, and both are negative energy. Typically, jealous and envious people are miserable, frustrated, and wrathful. While they may display a polished poker face and delighted smile, often they are inwardly raging.

Envy is a capital sin and refers to the sadness at the sight of another’s goods and the immoderate desire to acquire them for oneself, even unjustly. When it wishes grave harm to a neighbor, it is a mortal sin, a hatred of a good enjoyed by one’s neighbor, or the rejoicing in his harm, represents a form of sadness and therefore a refusal of charity.

How sadness plays into all of this is interesting. It can be a part of jealousy and envy. Yet, it can be a separate emotion in response to a lack of having something desired. For example, a woman who is experiencing infertility may feel sadness and bitterness about her inability to conceive but not harbor any anger or resentment toward women who conceive easily. Just because a person feels disappointed or forlorn over his/her situation does not mean that person begrudges others. Additionally, sadness has been described as anger turned inward. Thus, a person who is sad may feel angry about their situation, but this ire isn’t directed at others.

So, that’s all I got. Do you agree or disagree? Was this post helpful? Let me know your thoughts in the comment section. If you like this post, please click the like button and share. Your feedback allows me to know the content that you want to read.

Giddy up and let’s ride!

Demon Rodeo is available now on Amazon. For video book trailers, visit my TikTok page. The full blurb is on my Instagram and Amazon.

Demon Rodeo is the first book in the Chasing the Buckle series but can be read as a standalone. It’s a friends-to-lovers romance set in the rodeo world. These are not your typical cowboys. It’s a widely diverse cast of characters and a mashup of genres that aren’t always seen together. If you’re looking for a palate cleanser, this may be a book for you.

Preorder

⇨ Amazon: https://readerlinks.com/l/4174852

⇨ All Stores: https://books2read.com/u/bP8RG7

Until next time, happy reading and much romance. Laissez le bon temps rouler.

If you’re not following my blog, Creole Bayou, what are you waiting for? There’s always room at the bayou.

NEWSLETTER! Want to get the latest information and updates about my writing projects, giveaways, contests, and reveals first? Click here and sign up today.

Want to chat about writing, mental health, Cajun cuisine, Creole culture, or just spill some tea? If yes, let’s get connected. Follow me on one of my social links. There’s plenty to choose from.

Facebook: Genevive ChambleeX (formerly Twitter): @dolynesaidsoInstagram: genevivechambleeauthorGoodreads: Genevive ChambleeAmazon Authors: Genevive ChambleeBookBub: Genevive ChambleeTikTok: CreolegurlNolaBluesky: Genevive ChambleeThreads: Author Genevive Chamblee

[image error]LOCKER ROOM LOVE[image error]

[image error] Locker Room Love Series [image error]

Are you searching for a sexy book boyfriend? You’ve come to the right place.

Out of the Penalty Box (book #1) One minute in the box or a lifetime out. Defending the Net (book #2) Crossing the line could cost the game. Ice Gladiators (book #3) When the gloves come off, the games begin. Penalty Kill (book #4) Let the pucker begin. Future Goals (book #5) The future lies between a puck and a net.

About the Author:

Hi, I’m Genevive, and I am a contemporary sports romance author. My home is in South Louisiana. If you like snark and giggles with a touch of steamy Cajun and Creole on the side, I may have your poison in my stash of books. Drop by the bayou and have a look around. The pirogues are always waiting for new visitors.

How to Write Mobile

Hello and salute mes amis. If you are new to visiting the bayou, bienvenue (welcome). I’m happy that you stopped by. If you’re returning, welcome back. It’s a pleasure. Creole Bayou is a blog that discusses topics about culture (all things Creole and Cajun), writing, mental health, and romance/relationships. I’m author and blogger, Genevive. This month, I’m celebrating the upcoming (September 5th) release of my new paranormal sports romance novel Demon Rodeo. As part of the celebration, I have been uploading daily posts about topics and themes that somehow relate to an event or activity that occurs or is mentioned in the story. However, today’s topic isn’t about something that occurs within the story. Instead, it’s about an activity that helped make the story possible.

I’m what one might call a mobile writer. A mobile writer is someone who writes on the go or wherever desired or available. Some days, I may want to write outside. On other days, I may choose to write at a public library or in the park. Still others, I may write in my living room or bedroom. I go where I’m inspired, but sometimes, I go where it’s convenient.

I began mobile writing when I found myself having obligations away from my desktop. The reasons for this varied. At times, it was due to traveling, waiting to be seen by a doctor or dentist, or waiting for a practice to end. What it boiled down to is having a schedule so jammed that it left little time to write—or at least, that is what it appeared on the surface. When I analyzed my situation, I discovered that I had plenty of unutilized time. For example, my little one took ballet lessons. In reality, the studio wasn’t that far from my home. However, with traffic, by the time I drove home and got situated, it would be time to drive back to be on time for pickup. It was more practical to wait. That is what many of the parents did. They sat in their car (because the small lobby would be packed) and waited. Some walked to get in their steps. Some read. Others talked. Some even knitted. I wrote—eventually.

See, my mobile journey occurred in stages. When I began, I used sticky notes and napkins to jot down ideas. This was a mess as there was no organization and pages got lost. Then, I began using a notebook, and anyone who knows me can guess how that went. I would forget to take the notebook with me. So, I’d go to the nearest Dollar General and purchase another one. Soon, I had stacks of unorganized notebooks. Then, I got my first tablet. It was a freebie from my cellular service provider. Thus, it wasn’t very good—not a lot of space, required a stylus, and on the small side. Plus, it didn’t stay charged long, and I didn’t always have an outlet.

My writing routine changed one Saturday when I was required to spend over six hours in a park for an event. I knew for much of that time, I would be alone and would need to entertain myself.  I figured I could work on a writing project, but to do so, I would need some items. I packed my first writing bag.

I won’t go into the many revisions and changes I’ve made to this writing bag other than I have expanded to two. I have a computer carrying bag and a backpack. (I know: overkill.) I have items packed in both. For this list, I won’t always specify what is in what, as it’s not really important, and some items I carry in both. What is important is that I have access to these items anywhere I go. The following is my list.

Computer bag. My computer bag holds my laptop and has a charging port. I selected one with plenty of pockets and space to contain all of my cords and portable chargers.Backpack. Like my computer bag, it has a charging port. I use it to transport my backup laptop. The main difference between it and my computer bag is that I can carry it on my back (hence, backpack).Laptops and cords.USB flash drives. I have multiples because I learned the hard way that they will break or become corrupted. They also may be lost. I carry some in my backpack and the rest in my computer bag. Like national security, the president and vice president do not travel on the same plane.Portable chargers. I have multiple of these for my cell phone. Depending on my location there isn’t always WiFi service. In those instances, I must use my cell phone as a hotspot. This can drain my battery. Now, I know what the next question for many is. If my backpack and computer bag both have built-in charging ports, why do I need a portable one? I use my computer bag and backpack charging ports for my computer and my portable one for my phone. Sometimes, I’m away from an outlet for hours. I need as many avenues to charge as possible.Water bottle. Hydration is important, but I live in the South. For much of the year, it is hot, and one can quickly become parched. However, there is another reason I pack a water bottle and that is for safety. If I’m writing in a public place alone, I don’t want to leave all my possessions unattended while I find a water fountain or stand in a line to purchase a soft drink. It’s convenient to have it.Pencils/Pens. I don’t think I need to explain why a writer needs these. However, I will note that I have multiple in the bag one runs out of ink or the lead breaks and I can’t resharpen. But I also have pens in multiple colors for color coding.Notebook/paper. I have two old notebooks with notes that I use as reference. One day, I plan to transcribe them to disc-bound planner pages for more organization, but as for now, they live in notebooks.Sticky notes. This is another avenue for notetaking and marking pages for quick reference.Highlighters. These help me locate written information quickly.White-out and/or correction tape. These repair mistakes.Reference guides. I highly recommend including these. I carry two, and it makes life so much simpler to have things at my fingertips. Sure, I could perform an internet search, but I’ve annotated my guides. Have you ever looked up something only to discover from that point you need to look up something else to understand the first thing? I have, and I write those notes in my guides. Plus, I can have the guides open while I write instead of having to go back and forward between multiple computer screens.Kleenex. I have allergies, and writing outside can play havoc with them.Sanitizing wipes. Even before the pandemic, I carried sanitizing wipes with me. Public areas can be nasty. I’ve needed to clean off seats or clean my hands if I eat something sticky and/or melting. (Note: Any food coated in cheese powder isn’t ideal when writing.)Headache relief. There have been numerous times I’ve developed a headache when attempting to work on a project. Instead of allowing it to slow me down when I’ve reached a point where I can no longer endure the pain, I take an over-the-counter for relief. I don’t have to leave where I am.Planners. I use the disc-bound system. I know many people use their phones, but I prefer to have a backup. Again, chalk it up to Southern living. This is an area that knows what it is like to be without power for weeks. I’ve also lost documents on the cloud, cell phones, emails, hard drives, and USBs. All I know is to back everything up in as many places as possible. And having a paper planner is one method. Furthermore, I deco-plan. I find it cathartic.Wireless keyboard. I use a wireless keyboard to type messages on my cell. It’s easier than using the small onscreen keyboard. Some of the apps that I use are only on my phone.Plasticware. I know this seems odd, but it’s one of those things that work for me. Often when I work away from home, I eat my meals away, too. Sometimes, I don’t always remember to pack, or the places where I purchase to forget to include plasticware.Snacks. Generally, I pack a small lunch before heading out to write, but I try to keep at least two non-perishable items (e.g., peanut butter crackers or potato chips) in my backpack in case I forget or if I stay longer than planned. The important thing about snacks is to not have anything that leaks or will cause a mess in the backpack. Plastic Tupperware is good for this.Bug spray. This is self-explanatory.

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Hang onto your bootstraps.

My contemporary M/M paranormal sports romance, Demon Rodeo, is releasing on September 5, 2024, and is available now for preorder on Amazon. For video book trailers, visit my TikTok page. The full blurb is on my Instagram and Amazon.

Demon Rodeo is the first book in the Chasing the Buckle series but can be read as a standalone. It’s a friends-to-lovers romance set in the rodeo world. These are not your typical cowboys. It’s a widely diverse cast of characters and a mashup of genres that aren’t always seen together. If you’re looking for a palate cleanser, this may be a book for you. Also, expect a lot of goodies and giveaways.

Preorder

⇨ Amazon: https://readerlinks.com/l/4174852

⇨ All Stores: https://books2read.com/u/bP8RG7

Until next time, happy reading and much romance. Laissez le bon temps rouler.

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About the Author:

Hi, I’m Genevive, and I am a contemporary sports romance author. My home is in South Louisiana. If you like snark and giggles with a touch of steamy Cajun and Creole on the side, I may have your poison in my stash of books. Drop by the bayou and have a look around. The pirogues are always waiting for new visitors.

Hot Alpha Cowboys and Appetizers: Shrimp and Cucumber Bites

Welcome to another day of celebrating the upcoming release of my paranormal sports romance, Demon Rodeo. It is the first book in the Chasing the Buckle series and will be released on September 5. (Note: Although Demon Rodeo is part of a series, it can be read as a standalone.) Until then, I’m celebrating by uploading daily blog posts about a topic that is somehow related to events or mentioned in the story.

Many characters are natives of South Louisiana, and if there is one thing South Louisiana is known for, it is food and cuisine. I couldn’t write the story without some mentioning of Cajun and Creole cuisine, hence, this post. At first glance, this recipe may appear complex due to the multiple steps and ingredient list. But don’t be frightened. It isn’t and, in total, takes approximately fifteen to twenty minutes to make. So, let’s jump into it.

Cucumber Bites

Ingredients:

For the shrimp and cucumber bites

1 tbs canola oil1 tbs creole seasoning1 lb shrimp, peeled and deveined1 cucumber, sliced

For the remoulade:

1/4 tsp cayenne pepper2 tbs garlic, minced1 tsp hot sauce1 tsp lemon juice¼ cup Dijon mustard¼ cup mayonnaise½ tbs onion powder1 tbs paprika1 tsp Worcestershire sauce1 scallion, diced finely

For the guacamole:

3 avocados, mashed1 red onion, chopped¼ tsp garlic1 tbs cilantro chopped1 tbs parsley chopped1 tbs lemon juice1/8 tsp salt1/8 tsp cayenne pepper1 jalapeno, seeded and minced

Directions:

For the remoulade:

In a small bowl, mix all the ingredients.Stir well.Refrigerate and allow to chill for several hours before using to allow flavors to blend.

For the shrimp:

Add canola oil to a heavy-bottomed pan/skillet and heat on medium-high heat.Add the shrimp and seasoning to the pan.Toss the shrimp in the oil for approximately 2-3 minutes per side until slightly blackened.Remove from heat.Mix the shrimp in the remoulade.Set aside.

For the guacamole:

NOTE: Guacamole tends to brown quickly. Therefore, this part of the recipe should be made last. It is best served shortly after making, but if it needs to be stored, place it in a plastic container with an airtight lid.

Pit the avocados by cutting them in half lengthwise and scooping out the seedCut the flesh of the avocados into cubes, scoop out of the skin, and add to a medium bowl.Add all the ingredients to the bowl except the onions.Mix the ingredients, leaving the mixture chunky. (Be careful not to overmix.)Fold in onions.

For the shrimp and cucumber bites:

Peel cucumber (optional)Slice cucumber approximately ½ inch thick per sliceOn a platter, place the cucumber slices.Top each cucumber slice with a shrimp that has been mixed in the remoulade.Add a dollop of guacamole atop the shrimp.

Enjoy!

If you try this recipe let me know how it works out. Did you like it? Where did you serve it?

And that’s all that I have. Now, it’s your turn to sound off. Does this have your mouth watering or is it a big nope? What did you think? Did you find this information helpful or informative? Let me know your thoughts in the comment section. If you like this post, please click the like button and share. Your feedback allows me to know the content that you want to read.

Saddle up for the cowboys.

My contemporary M/M paranormal sports romance, Demon Rodeo, is releasing on September 5, 2024, and is available now for preorder on Amazon. For video book trailers, visit my TikTok page. The full blurb is on my Instagram and Amazon.

Demon Rodeo is the first book in the Chasing the Buckle series but can be read as a standalone. It’s a friends-to-lovers romance set in the rodeo world. These are not your typical cowboys. It’s a widely diverse cast of characters and a mashup of genres that aren’t always seen together. If you’re looking for a palate cleanser, this may be a book for you. Also, expect a lot of goodies and giveaways.

Preorder

⇨ Amazon: https://readerlinks.com/l/4174852

⇨ All Stores: https://books2read.com/u/bP8RG7

Until next time, happy reading and much romance. Laissez le bon temps rouler.

If you’re not following my blog, Creole Bayou, what are you waiting for? There’s always room at the bayou.

NEWSLETTER! Want to get the latest information and updates about my writing projects, giveaways, contests, and reveals first? Click here and sign up today.

Want to chat about writing, mental health, Cajun cuisine, Creole culture, or just spill some tea? If yes, let’s get connected. Follow me on one of my social links. There’s plenty to choose from.

Facebook: Genevive ChambleeX (formerly Twitter): @dolynesaidsoInstagram: genevivechambleeauthorGoodreads: Genevive ChambleeAmazon Authors: Genevive ChambleeBookBub: Genevive ChambleeTikTok: CreolegurlNolaBluesky: Genevive ChambleeThreads: Author Genevive Chamblee

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[image error] Locker Room Love Series [image error]

Are you searching for a sexy book boyfriend? You’ve come to the right place.

Out of the Penalty Box (book #1) One minute in the box or a lifetime out. Defending the Net (book #2) Crossing the line could cost the game. Ice Gladiators (book #3) When the gloves come off, the games begin. Penalty Kill (book #4) Let the pucker begin. Future Goals (book #5) The future lies between a puck and a net.

About the Author:

Hi, I’m Genevive, and I am a contemporary sports romance author. My home is in South Louisiana. If you like snark and giggles with a touch of steamy Cajun and Creole on the side, I may have your poison in my stash of books. Drop by the bayou and have a look around. The pirogues are always waiting for new visitors.