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Let’s Get Spicy

When it comes to romance novels, not all heat levels are created equal—so let’s talk spice, or as I like to call it: chilies.

DISCLAIMER: This is my definition of spice level. Others may define it differently.

A one-chili romance is sweet and mostly closed-door; think stolen glances, longing, and maybe a kiss or two, but the action fades to black. Two chilies turn things up a bit with some sensual tension and light steam, but scenes are still fairly tame and often more emotional than explicit. At three chilies, the romance gets noticeably hotter—there are on-page scenes with detailed intimacy, though they’re balanced with emotional depth and not overly graphic. Four chilies signal a steamy read with multiple open-door moments that are explicit and passionate, often with a focus on chemistry and physical connection. And then there’s five chilies—the hottest of the hot—where the spice is bold, frequent, and often explores kinks, dirty talk, or unconventional dynamics. These reads are definitely not shy, and they’re perfect for readers who like their romance sizzling.

Spice in romance isn’t just about heat. It’s often a tool for character development, narrative pacing, and emotional resonance. When done well, intimacy scenes can carry just as much storytelling weight as dialogue or action.

In romance, sex is rarely just sex. It often carries emotional weight and reveals deeper truths. When it comes to high-spice romance, physical intimacy can speak emotional truths long before the characters do. Physical intimacy opens a space where emotional walls lower, even if temporarily. This vulnerability creates a powerful connection between characters. The sex isn’t just hot. It’s exposing and, sometimes, even dangerous in its honesty. Additionally, high-spice romances often dive into physical intimacy early, which can accelerate pacing and raise stakes. The tension then comes from emotional fallout, internal conflict, or external obstacles that complicate that physical connection.

On the contrary, low-spice romances tend to be slow-burn where the emotional tension builds over time. The intimacy often comes after emotional development, acting as a culmination of the relationship’s growth. Here, sex is a reward for emotional intimacy and not a shortcut to it. Without early physical release, the story relies on emotional buildup, unresolved tension, and longing to keep readers invested.

Knowing a book’s spice level can significantly shape the reading experience. In fact, it can determine between loving a book or putting it down halfway (or less). For many romance readers, heat level isn’t just a detail. It’s a dealbreaker— the whole kit and caboodle, nine yards, enchilada, tamale, burrito, and all those foods.

Some readers crave the tension of a slow-burn that simmers for chapters before culminating in a single, swoony kiss. Others dive into romance looking for high heat, where the chemistry is front and center and the bedroom door is flung wide open. Neither preference is better than the other. Some days a reader wants a candlelit kiss. Other days, they want the whole damn buffet. Providing clear spice levels does more than inform. It shows consideration for the reader. When readers know what to expect, they can pick up a book with confidence rather than bracing for disappointment.

That’s all I have. Now, it’s your turn to sound off. What did you think? What is your take on the subject? Do you agree or disagree? Did you find this information helpful or informative? Did you learn anything new, or did it change your opinion? Let me know your thoughts in the comments section. Also, let me know if you would like me to cover more of these types of topics or dive deeper into this one. If you like this post, please click the like button and share it. Your feedback allows me to know the content that you want to read. If you’re not following me on Creole Bayou blog, what are you waiting for? There’s always room at the bayou.

If Brokeback Mountain, 8 Seconds, Poltergeist, and Supernatural had an orgy, Demon Rodeo would be the lovechild.

Demon Rodeo is available now on Amazon. For video book trailers, visit my TikTok page. The full blurb is on my Instagram and Amazon.

Demon Rodeo is the first book in the Chasing the Buckle series but can be read as a standalone. It’s a friends-to-lovers romance set in the rodeo world. These are not your typical cowboys. It’s a widely diverse cast of characters and a mashup of genres that aren’t always seen together. If you’re looking for a palate cleanser, this may be a book for you.

Order

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Until next time, happy reading and much romance. Laissez le bon temps rouler.

If you’re not following my blog, Creole Bayou, what are you waiting for? There’s always room at the bayou.

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Out of the Penalty Box (book #1) One minute in the box or a lifetime out. Defending the Net (book #2) Crossing the line could cost the game. Ice Gladiators (book #3) When the gloves come off, the games begin. Penalty Kill (book #4) Let the pucker begin. Future Goals (book #5) The future lies between a puck and a net.

About the Author:

Hi, I’m Genevive, and I am a contemporary sports romance author. My home is in South Louisiana. If you like snark and giggles with a touch of steamy Cajun and Creole on the side, I may have your poison in my stash of books. Drop by the bayou and have a look around. The pirogues are always waiting for new visitors.

Gumbo, Ghost Stories, and Generations: Honoring Creole Heritage Month

As the air cools and the season shifts, October becomes a time of reflection for many. But in Louisiana (and among Creole communities everywhere), it carries an even deeper meaning. October is Creole Heritage Month, a time set aside to honor, preserve, and celebrate the language, traditions, foodways, and resilience of Creole people. But Creole Heritage Month isn’t just about looking back. It’s about acknowledging how culture lives, breathes, and evolves in the present.

October is a natural fit for cultural remembrance. The shift into fall brings with it a kind of quiet reverence—a time to reflect, to gather, and to tell stories. In Creole communities, storytelling is more than entertainment; it’s cultural preservation. It’s how history survives when it’s not written down. It’s how names, places, and memories stay alive.

Designating October as Creole Heritage Month recognizes not only the beauty of the culture but also the urgency to keep it from fading. In a world that often homogenizes or overlooks nuanced identities, setting aside time to amplify Creole voices matters deeply.

Creole identity is complex, layered, and often misunderstood. The term “Creole” can mean different things in different places, but in Louisiana, it traditionally refers to people of mixed heritage—African, French, Spanish, Caribbean, and Native American—whose culture developed uniquely in the colonial Gulf South. Creole culture is expressed through language, food, music, faith, family, and the oral traditions that have passed through generations.

Culture is sustained in kitchens, on porches, in churches, and at second-line parades. During Creole Heritage Month, many communities highlight traditional dishes—gumbo, jambalaya, pain perdu—not as novelties, but as edible archives. Recipes carry memory. They carry resistance.

The same is true for music. Zydeco, Creole jazz, and folk songs tell stories of struggle and joy, displacement, and pride. When that accordion kicks in or the fiddle sings, it’s more than rhythm—it’s identity echoing through sound.

Language is another essential thread. Louisiana Creole French, once stigmatized and suppressed, is now being reclaimed by younger generations. Each phrase spoken or written is an act of preservation, a refusal to let history disappear.

October invites us to slow down, reflect, and honor traditions that have shaped communities for generations. Creole Heritage Month, celebrated in Louisiana and beyond, is a powerful reminder that culture is not static and is a living story told through language, food, music, and memory. This month encourages us to listen deeply to those stories, to savor the rich flavors and rhythms of Creole life, and to recognize the resilience woven into every tradition. As autumn’s gentle transformation unfolds, so too does the opportunity to preserve and celebrate a heritage that continues to inspire and unite.

That’s all, folks. Now, it’s your turn to sound off. What did you think? What is your take on the subject? Do you agree or disagree? Did you find this information helpful or informative? Did you learn anything new, or did it change your opinion? Let me know your thoughts in the comment section. Also, let me know if you would like me to cover more of these types of topics or dive deeper into this one. If you like this post, please click the like button, and share it. Your feedback allows me to know the content that you want to read. If you’re not following me on Creole Bayou blog, what are you waiting for? There’s always room at the bayou.

If Brokeback Mountain, 8 Seconds, Poltergeist, and Supernatural had an orgy, Demon Rodeo would be the lovechild.

Demon Rodeo is available now on Amazon. For video book trailers, visit my TikTok page. The full blurb is on my Instagram and Amazon.

Demon Rodeo is the first book in the Chasing the Buckle series but can be read as a standalone. It’s a friends-to-lovers romance set in the rodeo world. These are not your typical cowboys. It’s a widely diverse cast of characters and a mashup of genres that aren’t always seen together. If you’re looking for a palate cleanser, this may be a book for you.

Order

⇨ Amazon: https://readerlinks.com/l/4174852

⇨ All Stores: https://books2read.com/u/bP8RG7

Until next time, happy reading and much romance. Laissez le bon temps rouler.

If you’re not following my blog, Creole Bayou, what are you waiting for? There’s always room at the bayou.

NEWSLETTER! Want to get the latest information and updates about my writing projects, giveaways, contests, and reveals first? Click here and sign up today.

Want to chat about writing, mental health, Cajun cuisine, Creole culture, or just spill some tea? If yes, let’s get connected. Follow me on one of my social links. There’s plenty to choose from.

TikTok: CreolegurlNolaBluesky: Genevive ChambleeLemon8: CreolegurlNolaFacebook: Genevive ChambleeInstagram: genevivechambleeauthorThreads: Author Genevive ChambleeBookBub: Genevive ChambleeAmazon Authors: Genevive ChambleeGoodreads: Genevive ChambleeX (formerly Twitter): @dolynesaidso

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Are you searching for a sexy book boyfriend? You’ve come to the right place.

Out of the Penalty Box (book #1) One minute in the box or a lifetime out. Defending the Net (book #2) Crossing the line could cost the game. Ice Gladiators (book #3) When the gloves come off, the games begin. Penalty Kill (book #4) Let the pucker begin. Future Goals (book #5) The future lies between a puck and a net.

About the Author:

Hi, I’m Genevive, and I am a contemporary sports romance author. My home is in South Louisiana. If you like snark and giggles with a touch of steamy Cajun and Creole on the side, I may have your poison in my stash of books. Drop by the bayou and have a look around. The pirogues are always waiting for new visitors.

How to Make Breast Cancer Awareness More Than Just a Month: Tips for Early Detection and Support

I like to revisit certain topics each year, and today’s post is one of those traditions. When I write about the same subject multiple times, I avoid simply reposting or rehashing old content. While some overlap is inevitable, I make it a point to refresh the information, add new insights, and update any outdated details. If you’re curious about earlier perspectives, feel free to check out my previous posts, but here, you’ll find the latest take on the topic.

October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month, a cause that remains deeply personal to me. Over the years, I’ve witnessed several dear friends courageously face this relentless disease—some winning their battles, others, heartbreakingly, not. Previously, I shared the story of one of my closest childhood friends who sadly lost her fight. Her memory continues to inspire my commitment to raising awareness and supporting the ongoing fight against breast cancer.

October was officially designated Breast Cancer Awareness Month in 1985 through a collaboration between the American Cancer Society and the pharmaceutical company Imperial Chemical Industries. The goal was—and remains—to raise awareness and promote early detection. The iconic pink ribbon, now a universal symbol of breast cancer awareness, was popularized in 1992 thanks to Estée Lauder Cosmetics’ nationwide campaign. While October shines a spotlight on this important cause, it’s important to remember that breast cancer awareness and support are vital throughout the entire year.

When I started Creole Bayou, my vision was to create a space that’s both fun and entertaining, but also a valuable resource. While this platform may be smaller than many, I believe that when voices come together in harmony—even small ones—the impact grows louder and stronger. I’ve always said that tiny drops can build mountains, just like every blizzard begins with a single snowflake.

Breast cancer doesn’t discriminate. It affects the young and the old, all races, religions, ethnicities, sexual orientations, and socioeconomic backgrounds. It doesn’t care how many followers someone has, the size of their bank account, or whether they live in a mansion or under a bridge. It shows up unexpectedly, day or night, at any age. The fight remains the same for everyone, and it starts with early detection and timely diagnosis. If this post reaches and helps even one person, then I’ve succeeded in my goal. Together, we can save lives. Here are some important steps to begin with.

1. Observation: Take a few moments each morning to look at yourself naked in the mirror—right after your shower is a great time. This simple habit only takes a few minutes, so it won’t delay your morning routine. Stand with your arms relaxed by your sides and observe your breasts from the front and both sides. Pay attention to their shape, size, and any unique features so you become familiar with your normal appearance. This awareness makes it easier to notice any changes early on.

2. Perform a Monthly Breast Examination: Almost half of the women treated for breast cancer first noticed a lump during a self-exam. Once a month, take time to carefully check your breasts for any changes. Look for swelling, dimples in the skin, redness, flaky or scaly skin around the nipple, unusual discharge, nipples turning inward, or any changes in the shape or contour of your breasts.

Next, lie flat on your back with a pillow under your shoulder and use your fingers to feel for lumps or hard spots throughout the breast tissue. If you want detailed instructions, reliable guides are available from the National Breast Cancer Foundation. Additionally, your doctor or local health department can provide support and resources. Download a free printable instruction sheet from the Maurer Foundation.

3. Overcome Fear: Fear can be powerful, but it should never keep you from taking care of your health. If you notice anything unusual or suspicious during your self-exam, don’t wait. Schedule an appointment with your doctor as soon as possible. Early detection dramatically improves the chances of successful treatment. And remember, not every lump is cancerous, but it’s always better to be safe and get it checked.

4. Err on the Side of Caution: If you’re ever unsure about something you feel during a self-breast exam, don’t ignore it or second-guess yourself. It might turn out to be nothing, but it’s always better to be cautious and get it checked by a healthcare professional. Trust your instincts. Early action can make all the difference.

5. Make Your Health a Priority: It’s easy to put everyone and everything else before yourself (e.g., work, errands, family, friends). All can wait, but your health cannot. Taking care of yourself is not selfish; it’s essential. The excuse that you need to be there for your children won’t hold up if illness takes you away. Remember, if cancer happens, your loved ones will be the ones caring for you or mourning your loss. Prioritize your well-being now, because you matter.

6. Schedule an Annual Mammogram: Regular check-ups and mammograms are key to early detection. Follow your doctor’s recommendations on how often to get screened, and don’t skip these important appointments. If your healthcare provider doesn’t send reminders, set one on your phone or calendar to keep yourself on track. Staying proactive can save your life.

7. Don’t Rely Solely on Mammograms: While mammograms are essential, they shouldn’t be the only way you monitor your breast health. Monthly self-exams can help you detect changes or lumps that might appear between screenings. Depending on your age and risk factors, mammograms may only be recommended every one or two years—but a lot can change in that time. Plus, mammograms sometimes miss small lumps. Trust your hands and your instincts. Being proactive can make all the difference.

8. Know the Numbers and the Reality: After skin cancer, breast cancer is the second most common cancer affecting women in the United States. In 2025, it’s estimated that about 317,000 women will be diagnosed with invasive breast cancer, along with an additional 59,000 cases of non-invasive breast cancer. Combined, that’s more than 376,000 new diagnoses. This is a staggering reminder of how widespread this disease remains. Breast cancer also has one of the highest cancer-related fatality rates among women, second only to lung cancer. These numbers aren’t meant to scare. They’re meant to empower.  As Lance Armstrong once said, “If children have the ability to ignore all odds and percentages, then maybe we all can learn from them. When you think about it, what other choice is there but to hope? We have two options, medically and emotionally: give up or fight like hell.”

9. Explore Financial Resources: If cost is keeping you from scheduling a breast exam or mammogram, know that help is available. Many communities offer free or low-cost screenings through local health departments, clinics, hospitals, or nonprofit programs, especially during Breast Cancer Awareness Month. In most cases, insurance covers mammograms 100% under preventive care, and some employers host on-site health fairs where employees can receive screenings. If you’re unsure where to start, check with your local library. (They often have health resource pamphlets or can help you locate programs.) You can also call your doctor’s office or local health department to ask about free screening events, payment plans, or referrals to financial assistance programs. In some states, medical loan options are available for patients who need help covering procedure costs. Don’t let finances be the reason you delay care. There are options, and your health is worth the effort to explore them.

10. Educate Yourself: Knowledge is one of the most powerful tools in the fight against breast cancer. Take time to learn about risk factors and lifestyle choices that can help reduce your chances of developing the disease. Regular exercise, a balanced diet, avoiding tobacco, managing stress, and limiting alcohol are all proven steps toward better overall health and cancer prevention. While vaping is sometimes promoted as a safer alternative to smoking, it is far from risk-free. Recent scientific findings highlight that e-cigarette use is associated with DNA damage, tumor growth markers, and even enhanced breast cancer progression. Heated vaping products release harmful compounds like formaldehyde and acrolein, and experts continue raising alarms about their effects on cardiovascular and neurological health. The bottom line: vaping may be less harmful than smoking, but it’s still a clear health risk. Also, be mindful of the chemicals in household and personal care products. Some have been linked to cancer risks. Take a moment to read warning labels and research unfamiliar ingredients in products you use regularly. Awareness is a first step toward prevention.

11. Know Your Family History: Understanding your family’s medical history can help you assess your personal risk. If your mother, sister, or daughter has been diagnosed with breast cancer, your own risk doubles compared to someone with no first-degree relatives affected. That said, most breast cancer cases are not hereditary. In fact, around 75% of women diagnosed with breast cancer have no family history or inherited genetic mutation. This means even if breast cancer doesn’t run in your family, you’re still at risk—so regular screenings and self-awareness remain essential. Knowing your history allows you and your doctor to make more informed decisions about screening, genetic testing, and prevention strategies. Discuss your family history with your doctor to determine whether genetic testing or earlier screening might be right for you.

12. Men Can Get Breast Cancer Too: For many, the idea of men developing breast cancer may still come as a surprise, but it’s a vital fact to know. In 2025, an estimated 2,800 men in the U.S. will be diagnosed with invasive breast cancer, and approximately 510 will die from the disease. Though rare—accounting for less than 1% of all breast cancer cases—it’s not insignificant. The lifetime risk for a man is about 1 in 726. Awareness is essential, as men are often diagnosed at later stages due to lower awareness levels and less frequent screening

13. Treatment: Advancements in 2025: Breast cancer treatment has advanced significantly in recent years, offering patients more personalized and effective options than ever before. Medications now include targeted therapies like Datopotamab deruxtecan, an antibody-drug conjugate designed to attack cancer cells directly while minimizing side effects compared to traditional chemotherapy. Immunotherapy approaches are also emerging, harnessing the body’s immune system to fight cancer, with promising research into novel treatments such as immune cell-derived extracellular vesicles. Hormonal therapies continue to evolve, providing additional options for hormone receptor-positive breast cancers by disrupting tumor growth signals.

In terms of medical procedures, proton therapy represents a cutting-edge form of radiation treatment that precisely targets tumors while sparing healthy tissue, reducing side effects and improving quality of life. Surgical techniques have also become more refined, with minimally invasive and oncoplastic surgeries allowing tumor removal while preserving breast appearance, which can positively impact emotional well-being. Additionally, advancements such as augmented reality tools are helping patients make more informed decisions about surgical options.

Emerging technologies like artificial intelligence are beginning to play a role in breast cancer care by helping clinicians develop personalized treatment plans based on the latest guidelines, ensuring patients receive the most appropriate and evidence-based therapies. Overall, these innovations highlight the progress made and the hopeful future for breast cancer treatment, emphasizing tailored care that improves outcomes and patient experience.

14. Femininity Beyond Appearance: For women undergoing invasive treatments like mastectomies, lumpectomies, chemotherapy, or radiation who may face the loss of their breasts or hair. It’s important to remember that these physical changes do not define their femininity or beauty. True strength and grace come from within, and the courage shown in this battle is far more powerful than any outward appearance. Scars tell a story of resilience, and survival shines brighter than any physical trait. Femininity is not tied to hair or body shape. It is about the spirit, the heart, and the person as a whole. Women who face breast cancer are still wonderful, cherished, and deeply loved. Their bravery and strength make them truly radiant.

15. The Power of Sharing Your Story: For breast cancer survivors, sharing your journey can be a powerful gift—not just for yourself, but for the women and men in your life. Whether it’s your mother, sisters, aunts, daughters, friends, or even distant relatives, your story offers hope, comfort, and valuable insight. Hearing firsthand experiences reminds others that they are not alone in the fight. It also helps prepare those facing a diagnosis by giving them a real sense of what to expect. I often think of it like travel: having a trusted friend who knows the hidden gems and challenges of a place makes the experience richer and less intimidating than following a generic tour guide. Your voice can be that guiding friend in someone else’s journey.

16. Embracing Positivity: A breast cancer diagnosis can feel overwhelming, but maintaining a positive mindset is crucial. Hope is a powerful force in the healing journey. Studies suggest that managing stress can support overall health and may even influence how the body responds to treatment. Remember, countless success stories exist, thanks to advances in medicine and the dedication of skilled physicians, nurses, and radiologists who specialize in breast cancer care. Loved ones want you to thrive and will stand by your side every step of the way. Attitude truly matters—Helen Keller once said, “Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement. Nothing can be done without hope and confidence.” Holding onto hope and confidence can empower you to face each day with strength.

17. Finding Strength in Support Groups: Whether you’re newly diagnosed with breast cancer or supporting someone who is, joining a breast cancer support group can provide invaluable comfort and resources. These groups, available both in-person and online, offer a safe space to share experiences, ask questions, and gain encouragement from others who truly understand the journey. There’s no limit to how many groups you can join. Many are free and provide a wealth of information, emotional support, and practical advice. Being part of a community can make a world of difference in navigating the challenges of breast cancer.

18. Giving Back: Ways to Support the Cause: Supporting breast cancer research and those affected by the disease doesn’t always require a financial contribution. If donating money isn’t possible, consider offering your time, professional skills, or even a practical gift like providing transportation to treatment appointments. Donating hair for wigs is another meaningful way to help women facing hair loss during treatment. Every small act makes a difference, and there are many ways to contribute to the fight against breast cancer beyond monetary donations. Your generosity, in whatever form, can bring hope and comfort to those who need it most.

19. Wear Pink to Raise Awareness: Showing support for breast cancer awareness can be as simple—and powerful—as wearing pink. This iconic color symbolizes solidarity and hope, and it looks great on everyone, including men! During October, donning pink clothing or a pink ribbon can spark conversations and help raise awareness. Whether it’s a ribbon, shirt, or accessory, wearing pink is a meaningful way to stand together in the fight against breast cancer.

20. Spread the Word: Today, I ask you to share this post with the women in your life—mothers, sisters, daughters, friends, and colleagues—anyone you care about and want to protect. The more we spread awareness, the more lives we can potentially save. Together, we can make a difference by ensuring that everyone understands the importance of early detection, regular screenings, and self-care. Help amplify this message and be part of the fight against breast cancer.

21. Seek Professional Guidance: This article only scratches the surface of the complex topic of breast cancer. It serves as a brief guide, but there is much more to learn and understand. For anyone diagnosed with or concerned about breast cancer, it’s essential to ask questions and maintain open communication with healthcare professionals. Remember, only a trained and qualified physician can accurately confirm or rule out a breast cancer diagnosis. It’s important to seek care from trusted medical experts, as not all practitioners have the same level of expertise. Your health deserves the best guidance available.

Breast cancer is a complex and challenging journey, but awareness, early detection, and support can make all the difference. By taking time for self-examinations, staying informed, prioritizing your health, and leaning on your community, you empower yourself and others to face this disease with strength and hope. Remember, every small step—whether it’s sharing your story, wearing pink, or encouraging loved ones to get screened—adds to a greater movement toward awareness and survival. Together, we can create a chorus of voices that save lives. Stay vigilant, stay informed, and above all, stay hopeful.

For more information of breast cancer, visit the following sites:

American Cancer SocietyBreastCancer.OrgBreast Cancer Research FoundationCreole Magnolia CafeSusan G. KomenWebMD

That’s a wrap. Now, it’s your turn to sound off. What did you think? What is your take on the subject? Do you agree or disagree? Did you find this information helpful or informative? Did you learn anything new, or did it change your opinion? Let me know your thoughts in the comments section. Also, let me know if you would like me to cover more of these types of topics or dive deeper into this one. If you like this post, please click the like button and share it. Your feedback allows me to know the content that you want to read. If you’re not following me on Creole Bayou blog, what are you waiting for? There’s always room at the bayou.

If Brokeback Mountain, 8 Seconds, Poltergeist, and Supernatural had an orgy, Demon Rodeo would be the lovechild.

Demon Rodeo is available now on Amazon. For video book trailers, visit my TikTok page. The full blurb is on my Instagram and Amazon.

Demon Rodeo is the first book in the Chasing the Buckle series, but can be read as a standalone. It’s a friends-to-lovers romance set in the rodeo world. These are not your typical cowboys. It’s a widely diverse cast of characters and a mashup of genres that aren’t always seen together. If you’re looking for a palate cleanser, this may be a book for you.

Order

⇨ Amazon: https://readerlinks.com/l/4174852

⇨ All Stores: https://books2read.com/u/bP8RG7

Until next time, happy reading and much romance. Laissez le bon temps rouler.

If you’re not following my blog, Creole Bayou, what are you waiting for? There’s always room at the bayou.

NEWSLETTER! Want to get the latest information and updates about my writing projects, giveaways, contests, and reveals first? Click here and sign up today.

Want to chat about writing, mental health, Cajun cuisine, Creole culture, or just spill some tea? If yes, let’s get connected. Follow me on one of my social links. There’s plenty to choose from.

TikTok: CreolegurlNolaBluesky: Genevive ChambleeLemon8: CreolegurlNolaFacebook: Genevive ChambleeInstagram: genevivechambleeauthorThreads: Author Genevive ChambleeBookBub: Genevive ChambleeAmazon Authors: Genevive ChambleeGoodreads: Genevive ChambleeX (formerly Twitter): @dolynesaidso

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[image error] Locker Room Love Series [image error]

Are you searching for a sexy book boyfriend? You’ve come to the right place.

Out of the Penalty Box (book #1) One minute in the box or a lifetime out. Defending the Net (book #2) Crossing the line could cost the game. Ice Gladiators (book #3) When the gloves come off, the games begin. Penalty Kill (book #4) Let the pucker begin. Future Goals (book #5) The future lies between a puck and a net.

About the Author:

Hi, I’m Genevive, and I am a contemporary sports romance author. My home is in South Louisiana. If you like snark and giggles with a touch of steamy Cajun and Creole on the side, I may have your poison in my stash of books. Drop by the bayou and have a look around. The pirogues are always waiting for new visitors.

Sweater Weather, Silent Pressure

Autumn arrives draped in golden leaves and crisp air, whispering promises of transformation. It’s the season of sharpened pencils, new planners, and motivational quotes about turning over a new leaf. The cultural narrative is clear: fall is for fresh starts. However, beneath this romanticized reset lies a quieter truth. For many, the pressure to reinvent can feel more like a demand than an invitation. See, autumn is often romanticized as a time of cozy reflection and fresh starts, but for many, that expectation can feel overwhelming. For those already carrying the weight of anxiety, depression, or burnout, autumn’s call to action can feel suffocating. Sure, the idea of starting fresh sounds empowering. But what if a person is too tired to begin again? What if a person’s mind is still tangled in the mess of last season’s unresolved struggles? The world may be turning over a new leaf, but you’re still buried beneath the old ones.

There’s a subtle urgency woven into the season — a sense that time is running out to become who one was supposed to be. It’s like the saying, “Fall doesn’t wait for anyone. You either catch the wind or get left in the chill.” Down here, folks know time doesn’t wait, but that doesn’t mean a person’s spirit is ready to move just because the leaves are shifting with the wind. The long, languid days of summer are gone, and with them, the illusion of endless time. The heat fades, the light shifts, and suddenly it feels like the world expects a person to have answers they’re still searching for.

Now, the calendar trades summer freedom for autumn structure. It’s like the rhythm of life speeds up, and if one’s not careful, they start to believe that constant movement must mean they’re moving forward. Deadlines loom. Even if the actual number of tasks doesn’t increase, the pressure of those tasks often intensifies because they’re tied to deadlines, performance, and external expectations. And speaking of expectations, they rise. Even when life looks steady on the outside (e.g., the job, the routine, the smile, the calendar full and the responsibilities met), there’s still that quiet unraveling inside, a slow ache that whispers they’re not doing enough, not being enough, and maybe none of it reflects who they really are. That voice of self-doubt grows louder.

There’s a kind of loneliness in watching others embrace change while one feels stuck. Social media floods with snapshots of productivity and progress. Morning routines, fitness goals, and cozy workspaces appear as curated glimpses of lives that seem to be moving forward with ease. It can leave a person feeling displaced, as if the world is accelerating around them while they are quietly struggling to keep pace.

As the season shifts, autumn often brings a renewed intensity in academic and professional spaces. Workloads increase, expectations sharpen, and the pace of life begins to accelerate. Many people may feel the need to prove themselves, especially after a slow or unproductive summer — a season that may have offered rest but also left lingering guilt or a sense of lost time. Perfectionism can spike as individuals try to meet internal or external standards of success, chasing validation through performance. The pressure to “catch up” or “start strong” can be unrelenting, especially for those who are grappling with ongoing self-doubt. It’s not just about doing well. It’s about convincing oneself (and others) that they’re still capable, still worthy, and still in control. This may lead to a person feeling that they need to make changes based on their insecurity rather than personal growth. This transforms how one defines and interprets intrinsic value into looking better, measuring up, or chasing approval from others.

This cycle of “self-improvement” can become exhausting, especially when it’s tethered to seasonal cues. Each fall, there’s a subtle societal push to “become better,” to reset, refocus, and rise to new expectations. While this narrative can be motivating for some, it often leads to burnout for others, particularly when the pressure to change feels externally imposed rather than internally inspired. Reinvention isn’t always healing. Sometimes, it’s simply avoidance dressed as progress and a way to mask unresolved struggles beneath the appearance of transformation.

And then there’s the mask of autumn aesthetics. Fall is often marketed as a season of comfort (e.g., pumpkin spice lattes, soft flannels, flickering candles, golden leaves that promise serenity, etc.). These cozy symbols, while inviting, can sometimes act as emotional band-aids to conceal deeper turmoil and distress that don’t align with the seasonal narrative. Beneath this tailored warmth lies a silent disconnect: the external softness of autumn doesn’t always match the internal experience. For many, the season’s aesthetic becomes a mask—soothing on the surface but unable to suppress the unrest within.

And yet, fall doesn’t have to be a season of unraveling. It can also be a time to slow down and listen—not to the noise of expectations, but to the quieter truths within. Instead of chasing reinvention or measuring worth against idealized and romanticized snapshots of productivity and progress, one can choose to reconnect with what’s real: rest, reflection, and small gestures of kindness. That might mean setting boundaries around efficiency and achievement, allowing space for uncertainty, or simply acknowledging that growth doesn’t always look like motion. Sometimes, it’s stillness that heals.

There’s power in identifying the things that drain one’s energy (physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually) and choosing not to carry them alone. Whether through journaling, therapy, meaningful conversation, or moments of solitude, people can begin to untangle the pressure from their purpose. Fall may bring structure, but it also brings clarity. Contrary to the pressure it carries, the season doesn’t demand transformation. It invites honesty, and that, too, is a kind of progress.

And that’s a wrap. Now, it’s your turn to sound off. What did you think? What is your take on the subject? Do you agree or disagree? Did you find this information helpful or informative? Did you learn anything new, or did it change your opinion? Let me know your thoughts in the comments section. Also, let me know if you would like me to cover more of these types of topics or dive deeper into this one. If you like this post, please click the like button and share it. Your feedback allows me to know the content that you want to read. If you’re not following me on Creole Bayou blog, what are you waiting for? There’s always room at the bayou.

If Brokeback Mountain, 8 Seconds, Poltergeist, and Supernatural had an orgy, Demon Rodeo would be the lovechild.

Demon Rodeo is available now on Amazon. For video book trailers, visit my TikTok page. The full blurb is on my Instagram and Amazon.

Demon Rodeo is the first book in the Chasing the Buckle series but can be read as a standalone. It’s a friends-to-lovers romance set in the rodeo world. These are not your typical cowboys. It’s a widely diverse cast of characters and a mashup of genres that aren’t always seen together. If you’re looking for a palate cleanser, this may be a book for you.

Order

⇨ Amazon: https://readerlinks.com/l/4174852

⇨ All Stores: https://books2read.com/u/bP8RG7

Until next time, happy reading and much romance. Laissez le bon temps rouler.

If you’re not following my blog, Creole Bayou, what are you waiting for? There’s always room at the bayou.

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Want to chat about writing, mental health, Cajun cuisine, Creole culture, or just spill some tea? If yes, let’s get connected. Follow me on one of my social links. There’s plenty to choose from.

TikTok: CreolegurlNolaBluesky: Genevive ChambleeLemon8: CreolegurlNolaFacebook: Genevive ChambleeInstagram: genevivechambleeauthorThreads: Author Genevive ChambleeBookBub: Genevive ChambleeAmazon Authors: Genevive ChambleeGoodreads: Genevive ChambleeX (formerly Twitter): @dolynesaidso

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Are you searching for a sexy book boyfriend? You’ve come to the right place.

Out of the Penalty Box (book #1) One minute in the box or a lifetime out. Defending the Net (book #2) Crossing the line could cost the game. Ice Gladiators (book #3) When the gloves come off, the games begin. Penalty Kill (book #4) Let the pucker begin. Future Goals (book #5) The future lies between a puck and a net.

About the Author:

Hi, I’m Genevive, and I am a contemporary sports romance author. My home is in South Louisiana. If you like snark and giggles with a touch of steamy Cajun and Creole on the side, I may have your poison in my stash of books. Drop by the bayou and have a look around. The pirogues are always waiting for new visitors.

Creole Culture Meets Autumn: A Season of Spice, Soul, and Celebration

When you think of autumn, your mind might jump to pumpkin patches, cozy sweaters, and golden leaves crunching underfoot. But have you ever experienced autumn through a Creole lens? As the seasons shift and the air turns crisp, Creole culture brings its own bold flavors, rhythmic sounds, and colorful traditions of autumn.

What is Creole Culture? I’ve discussed this in length over the years on this blog, so I won’t rehash it here, especially given the complexity of it. However, a condensed version would be that Creole culture is a rich blend of African, French, Spanish, Caribbean, and Indigenous influences, deeply rooted in Louisiana but felt across the Gulf Coast and beyond. It’s more than just food (though the food is amazing). It’s language, music, family traditions, and a vibrant spirit of resilience and joy.

So, let’s talk food first. Oh, I’m about to make some of y’all for real mad. Forget the pumpkin spice! Yes, I said that with my full chest. Unapologetic. Why? Because during autumn, a Creole kitchen is all about real spice. I’m talking gumbo simmering on the stove, overflowing with okra, seafood, sausage, and that deep, smoky roux. It’s a seasonal staple; although, truth be told, there’s never a wrong time for gumbo. And while we’re on the subject of gumbo, it’s not really a gumbo without okra. That’s called a stew, and I will die on that hill.

Still on the subject of food, cooler weather brings out the slow-cooked dishes that fill the house with savory aromas and bring everyone to the table. We can’t mention jambalaya that warms you from the inside out. Et eh, étouffée makes every meal feel like a celebration, no?

But if you just have to have pumpkin, let’s just substitute it for sweet potato pie. I mean, they’re both orange. Who’s going to know the difference? Sprinkle a few pralines ontop (because no season is complete without pralines) and there you go. In the end, autumn is when families gather to cook, tell stories, and pass down recipes that have been loved for generations.

As the leaves fall, the rhythm slows but never stops. Creole music, from zydeco to jazz, may not be seasonal, but it’s always present. In the autumn, it shifts from packed festival grounds to porches, patios, and backyard bonfires. A washboard rhythm, a lazy accordion melody, and suddenly, a cool evening turns into a cozy jam session. It’s less about big stages and more about close-knit gatherings.

Creole culture embraces every season as a reason to gather, and autumn is no exception. As the weather cools, communities come together around boudin and bonfires, sharing stories and food under the stars. Outdoor markets brim with seasonal produce, from sweet potatoes to satsumas, while second line parades take on a cozy flair, with dancers donning scarves and boots as they move through the streets. Heritage festivals continue into the autumn months, offering rich celebrations of Creole music, food, and storytelling.

Autum might not be the flashiest season in Creole culture, but it’s one of the most heartfelt. It’s when flavors deepen, gatherings feel warmer, and traditions settle in like an old friend. Whether it’s the comfort of a home-cooked meal, the rhythm of familiar music in the background, or the joy of sharing stories under crisp evening skies, this season invites us to slow down and savor what matters. In true Creole fashion, it’s not just about the weather. It’s about the people, the heritage, and the soul that carries through every moment.

That’s all I got. Now, it’s your turn to sound off. What did you think? What is your take on the subject? Do you agree or disagree? Did you find this information helpful or informative? Did you learn anything new, or did it change your opinion? Let me know your thoughts in the comment section. Also, let me know if you would like me to cover more of these types of topics or dive deeper into this one. If you like this post, please click the like button, and share it. Your feedback allows me to know the content that you want to read. If you’re not following me on Creole Bayou blog, what are you waiting for? There’s always room at the bayou.

If Brokeback Mountain, 8 Seconds, Poltergeist, and Supernatural had an orgy, Demon Rodeo would be the lovechild.

Demon Rodeo is available now on Amazon. For video book trailers, visit my TikTok page. The full blurb is on my Instagram and Amazon.

Demon Rodeo is the first book in the Chasing the Buckle series but can be read as a standalone. It’s a friends-to-lovers romance set in the rodeo world. These are not your typical cowboys. It’s a widely diverse cast of characters and a mashup of genres that aren’t always seen together. If you’re looking for a palate cleanser, this may be a book for you.

Order

⇨ Amazon: https://readerlinks.com/l/4174852

⇨ All Stores: https://books2read.com/u/bP8RG7

Until next time, happy reading and much romance. Laissez le bon temps rouler.

If you’re not following my blog, Creole Bayou, what are you waiting for? There’s always room at the bayou.

NEWSLETTER! Want to get the latest information and updates about my writing projects, giveaways, contests, and reveals first? Click here and sign up today.

Want to chat about writing, mental health, Cajun cuisine, Creole culture, or just spill some tea? If yes, let’s get connected. Follow me on one of my social links. There’s plenty to choose from.

TikTok: CreolegurlNolaBluesky: Genevive ChambleeLemon8: CreolegurlNolaFacebook: Genevive ChambleeInstagram: genevivechambleeauthorThreads: Author Genevive ChambleeBookBub: Genevive ChambleeAmazon Authors: Genevive ChambleeGoodreads: Genevive ChambleeX (formerly Twitter): @dolynesaidso

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[image error] Locker Room Love Series [image error]

Are you searching for a sexy book boyfriend? You’ve come to the right place.

Out of the Penalty Box (book #1) One minute in the box or a lifetime out. Defending the Net (book #2) Crossing the line could cost the game. Ice Gladiators (book #3) When the gloves come off, the games begin. Penalty Kill (book #4) Let the pucker begin. Future Goals (book #5) The future lies between a puck and a net.

About the Author:

Hi, I’m Genevive, and I am a contemporary sports romance author. My home is in South Louisiana. If you like snark and giggles with a touch of steamy Cajun and Creole on the side, I may have your poison in my stash of books. Drop by the bayou and have a look around. The pirogues are always waiting for new visitors.

Let’s Get Cozy

Okay, let’s get the elephant out of the room first. I’m a southern girl. Everyone knows that. And down here, we’re not known for our “diversity of seasons,” shall we say. It’s like hot and hotter with a few days of lukewarm and the ridiculous week of stupid cold, which we always respond to poorly. And every few years, we get a snow flurry, which causes a run on milk and bread and shuts down every store in town—except for maybe Waffle House and Walmart. When those close… well, that usually means something else—something much worse—is headed this way. So, it’s fair enough to say, I’m not all that accustomed to what many would call fall.

Sure, we like to put on our sweaters, but usually, we’ve sweated out of them by noon. That’s why we call them “sweaters.” Not really. I mean, we do usually sweat (actually, the men “perspire” and the women “glow”) out of them, but that’s not why we call them that. We call them that because everybody else calls them that. Duh! But in all seriousness, we do have the occasion to bundle up in cable knit.  Usually, though, we do it more out of want than need. Many of us would love to have the “Hallmark” falls we see on television with the multicolored leaves and cool breezes. As is, we’re just thankful to get rid of the mosquitoes. Raise your hand if you’re with me on this.

But I’m not rambling for no reason. I do have a point. Fall is when we retreat from the hustle, light a candle that smells like pumpkin and nostalgia, and curl up with a story that feels like a hug. Cozy romances are the perfect match for this mood. They’re sweet, comforting, and full of heart.

Last year, I did my very first (and don’t ask me why I hadn’t thought to do it before) seasonal reading challenge. I heard so many people talking about it, and it looked like fun. So, in I dove. I began in the fall. It seemed that the selection was endless, and the books topping BookTok mostly were “cozy.” This was not a genre I’d really explored, but I don’t hate that I did. I truly enjoyed myself—once I figured out what the heck it was. Now, for many, this may seem like “common sense,” and I won’t argue that it isn’t. But in the “book world,” things aren’t always what they seem. Like, there’s a difference between fantasy romance and romance fantasy, just as erotic romance and erotica aren’t the same.

And this is where I made my first mistake. See, I thought cozy romances were the same as sweet romances. While many people use the terms interchangeably, they aren’t the same.

A cozy romance is the literary equivalent of a warm blanket and a cup of hot chocolate—comforting, heartwarming, and filled with emotional sweetness. These stories often emphasize meaningful connections, rich character development, and subtle romantic tension, prioritizing emotional depth over high-stakes drama or explicit content. The tone is typically light, hopeful, and endearing, with cozy settings such as small towns, bookshops, cafés, or holiday getaways that enhance the feeling of warmth and familiarity. Think apple orchards, slow burns, and hand-holding under fairy lights. Rather than rushing to a romantic conclusion, cozy romances take time to explore the small, intimate moments, filled with humor, personal discovery, and heartfelt interactions. They are all about the vibe, but the spice varies. Some are closed-door (fade to black). Some have light steam or even open-door scenes. The tone stays tender and heartwarming, steering clear of anything dark or intense. Kennedy Ryan, Lucy Score, and Abby Jimenez are some authors who write cozy romances with spice.

Sweet (or clean) romance refers to the content. These are romances that contain no sex scenes (or are strictly fade-to-black), no profanity, and often minimal to no alcohol, violence, or heavy subject matter.

Well, that’s all I got. Now, it’s your turn to sound off. What did you think? What is your take on the subject? Do you agree or disagree? Did you find this information helpful or informative? Did you learn anything new, or did it change your opinion? Let me know your thoughts in the comments section. Also, let me know if you would like me to cover more of these types of topics or dive deeper into this one. If you like this post, please click the like button and share it. Your feedback allows me to know the content that you want to read. If you’re not following me on Creole Bayou blog, what are you waiting for? There’s always room at the bayou.

If Brokeback Mountain, 8 Seconds, Poltergeist, and Supernatural had an orgy, Demon Rodeo would be the lovechild.

Demon Rodeo is available now on Amazon. For video book trailers, visit my TikTok page. The full blurb is on my Instagram and Amazon.

Demon Rodeo is the first book in the Chasing the Buckle series but can be read as a standalone. It’s a friends-to-lovers romance set in the rodeo world. These are not your typical cowboys. It’s a widely diverse cast of characters and a mashup of genres that aren’t always seen together. If you’re looking for a palate cleanser, this may be a book for you.

Order

⇨ Amazon: https://readerlinks.com/l/4174852

⇨ All Stores: https://books2read.com/u/bP8RG7

Until next time, happy reading and much romance. Laissez le bon temps rouler.

If you’re not following my blog, Creole Bayou, what are you waiting for? There’s always room at the bayou.

NEWSLETTER! Want to get the latest information and updates about my writing projects, giveaways, contests, and reveals first? Click here and sign up today.

Want to chat about writing, mental health, Cajun cuisine, Creole culture, or just spill some tea? If yes, let’s get connected. Follow me on one of my social links. There’s plenty to choose from.

TikTok: CreolegurlNolaBluesky: Genevive ChambleeLemon8: CreolegurlNolaFacebook: Genevive ChambleeInstagram: genevivechambleeauthorThreads: Author Genevive ChambleeBookBub: Genevive ChambleeAmazon Authors: Genevive ChambleeGoodreads: Genevive ChambleeX (formerly Twitter): @dolynesaidso

[image error]LOCKER ROOM LOVE[image error]

[image error] Locker Room Love Series [image error]

Are you searching for a sexy book boyfriend? You’ve come to the right place.

Out of the Penalty Box (book #1) One minute in the box or a lifetime out. Defending the Net (book #2) Crossing the line could cost the game. Ice Gladiators (book #3) When the gloves come off, the games begin. Penalty Kill (book #4) Let the pucker begin. Future Goals (book #5) The future lies between a puck and a net.

About the Author:

Hi, I’m Genevive, and I am a contemporary sports romance author. My home is in South Louisiana. If you like snark and giggles with a touch of steamy Cajun and Creole on the side, I may have your poison in my stash of books. Drop by the bayou and have a look around. The pirogues are always waiting for new visitors.

Why Do You Read?

Why Do You Read?

Do you read for realism or fantasy? I don’t mean fantasy as in dragons, fairies, and magical kingdoms. I’m speaking of the idealistic situations that rarely happen in real life; e.g., waking up to a perfect hair day, winning the lottery, and having a spotless house without lifting a finger to clean it. Okay, maybe that last one is pure fantasy and belongs up there with flying carpets, elves, and unicorns.

I’ve always viewed reading as a part of “escapism,” a way to get away from the problems served on a silver platter from everyday life. I enjoy getting lost in characters’ world, whether they are scaling a tall building to commit a jewelry heist, jumping oxers in the CHIO Aachen, or experiencing an awkward first kiss under a mistletoe beneath the desk of a grumpy supervisor’s office. (Don’t ask me why mistletoe would be beneath a desk. I don’t know.) It doesn’t matter the situation. If an author paints me a believable cognitive image, I’m there for it. All in. No questions asked. That’s the joy of reading—allowing someone to temporarily navigate one’s thoughts. And I recognize this as the author’s vision—one he/she is sharing with me and the rest of the world. I understand that the choices made aren’t mine and I may not like or agree with them. However, I have to accept the author’s vision. That being said… Sometimes, that is danggone hard.

Bear with me while I briefly digress with some background information. I promise I will tie it into the topic the title indicates.

This topic was spun from weekend boredom. Late one Saturday night, I found myself not tired and with nothing to do. It was too late to head out anywhere, and the weather wasn’t cooperating even if it had been early evening. I decided to stream something because, hey, I pay for it. Why not? And the truth of the matter is, I like to get my money’s worth. It ticks me off to have streaming services and not watch them. It’s a waste. So, there’s a story behind one of the services that I have.

It occurred during the college football playoffs, and I wanted to see a specific game. According to an internet search (and here’s proof as to why one shouldn’t believe everything one reads on the internet), the game was being streamed live on this particular service. Well, that wasn’t exactly true because it was: 1. not available in my area, and 2. embedded in a bundled package that wasn’t yet being offered anywhere. (Long story.) Before I realized all this, I had purchased the service for a year because, you know, they were having a promotional offer of 50% off. (Did I mention I love bargains?) By the time it dawned on me that I’d been played, it was too late—or rather, complicated to undo the transaction. However, it wasn’t all bad. I found several series that I enjoy.

One series that caught my interest was new; therefore, it didn’t have any reviews. After watching the pilot episode, I decided it wasn’t for me and moved on. But on Saturday night, when I was bored and couldn’t find anything else to watch, I decided to give it another chance. The second episode was much improved from the pilot, and the third was better than the second. I began to think that it had promise. And that was a colossal mistake.

I accidentally skipped episode three and watched episode four. While I thought this was just an oversight, it probably was the universe playing nice for a change. But did I know that? Heck no. So, what did I do? I went back to it, of course.

Before I continue, let me frame this next part by stating the series is mainly a comedy and has many guest stars. In this episode, the guest characters were unusually odd, ones that I wouldn’t say, “Oh, yeah, I want to spend forty-five minutes watching them.” To my surprise, I got hooked and actually fell for one of the characters—the one I initially disliked the most. The writers did a wonderful job fleshing him out and bringing him beyond the stereotypical. The episode went swimmingly, and then the bumholes killed him off. Just without warning, iced him. Now, because the show has dramatic elements, I thought, “Oh, he’ll be okay in the end. He’ll wake up.” Nope. He was dead. All dead. And stayed dead, which meant I was upset. It also meant that the writers had done their job. They had intended to upset the audience. But here was the problem. I no longer wanted to watch any more episodes, even though I’d already seen the episode and knew there were no sad parts. This is what made me pause. Was my reaction fair to the series?

Most writers and authors hope and seek to connect with readers. I say most because there are always exceptions to the rules. How much responsibility is it for the writers to give readers what they want? Granted, there’s no way to make everyone happy, but where is the line? Is it fair to label a book as “bad” or “one-star” because the ending didn’t stick to how readers wanted? And this excludes endings that are rushed, Deus Ex Machina, or poorly developed plots and characters. I’m talking preferences. For example, a romance novel was slammed because the main character was part of a throuple. Was it a surprise? Yes, and no. Here’s what I mean.

This book was part of a series. At the beginning of the series, being a part of a throuple wasn’t in line with the character’s view. However, slowly throughout the series, hints of the character developing and changing are given. Thus, for readers who read the entire series, the character’s romantic relationship choice was predictable. But most importantly, the author states it in the blurb of that book. It’s also how the book is marketed. So, when the book is criticized for this inclusion, is that fair? And if it’s not, should sites like Goodreads allow those types of reviews to be public? I mean, I get it. It’s not for everyone, and everyone’s entitled to an opinion. My question is: where is the line? But beyond that, why does one read? Is it to allow authors/writers to create an experience for us? Or is it to be given exactly what we want and expect?

Do we read to experience what we would like to happen in our lives? Or do we read to be thankful that certain situations haven’t happened in our lives? When books fail to follow the traditional story beats and arcs and dare to be different, are they unacceptable? Do we read for the expected or the surprise?

That’s a wrap on today’s topic. Now, it’s your turn to sound off. What did you think? What is your take on the subject? Do you agree or disagree? Did you find this information helpful or informative? Did you learn anything new, or did it change your opinion? Let me know your thoughts in the comments section. Also, let me know if you would like me to cover more of these types of topics or dive deeper into this one. If you like this post, please click the like button and share it. Your feedback allows me to know the content that you want to read. If you’re not following me on Creole Bayou blog, what are you waiting for? There’s always room at the bayou.

If Brokeback Mountain, 8 Seconds, Poltergeist, and Supernatural had an orgy, Demon Rodeo would be the lovechild.

Demon Rodeo is available now on Amazon. For video book trailers, visit my TikTok page. The full blurb is on my Instagram and Amazon.

Demon Rodeo is the first book in the Chasing the Buckle series but can be read as a standalone. It’s a friends-to-lovers romance set in the rodeo world. These are not your typical cowboys. It’s a widely diverse cast of characters and a mashup of genres that aren’t always seen together. If you’re looking for a palate cleanser, this may be a book for you.

Order

⇨ Amazon: https://readerlinks.com/l/4174852

⇨ All Stores: https://books2read.com/u/bP8RG7

Until next time, happy reading and much romance. Laissez le bon temps rouler.

If you’re not following my blog, Creole Bayou, what are you waiting for? There’s always room at the bayou.

NEWSLETTER! Want to get the latest information and updates about my writing projects, giveaways, contests, and reveals first? Click here and sign up today.

Want to chat about writing, mental health, Cajun cuisine, Creole culture, or just spill some tea? If yes, let’s get connected. Follow me on one of my social links. There’s plenty to choose from.

TikTok: CreolegurlNolaBluesky: Genevive ChambleeLemon8: CreolegurlNolaFacebook: Genevive ChambleeInstagram: genevivechambleeauthorThreads: Author Genevive ChambleeBookBub: Genevive ChambleeAmazon Authors: Genevive ChambleeGoodreads: Genevive ChambleeX (formerly Twitter): @dolynesaidso

[image error]LOCKER ROOM LOVE[image error]

[image error] Locker Room Love Series [image error]

Are you searching for a sexy book boyfriend? You’ve come to the right place.

Out of the Penalty Box (book #1) One minute in the box or a lifetime out. Defending the Net (book #2) Crossing the line could cost the game. Ice Gladiators (book #3) When the gloves come off, the games begin. Penalty Kill (book #4) Let the puckery begin. Future Goals (book #5) The future lies between a puck and a net.

About the Author:

Hi, I’m Genevive, a contemporary sports romance author. My home is in South Louisiana. If you like snark and giggles with a touch of steamy Cajun and Creole on the side, I may have your poison in my stash of books. Drop by the bayou and have a look around. The pirogues are always waiting for new visitors.

Sharing Book Love

More often than not, the inspiration for my post sprouts from something that I’ve seen or heard from family, friends, or coworkers. Today’s no different. Shocker! As I was searching for a blog topic, my friend called me. She was excited because a book she had pre-ordered months ago was scheduled to arrive today. So, she and I took a moment to talk about some books, and it felt good. This post is based on a conversation that (unfortunately) turned ugly quickly. When I walked away from it (because I was there when this conversation took place), it left a sour taste in my mouth—so sour, that naturally, I have to share it in a blog… cos, you know, that’s what writers do. We write our experiences sometimes. Again, shocker!

This conversation began innocently enough. One of my friends has rediscovered her love for reading. It wasn’t that she ever fell out of love with it, but her life had become so busy that she didn’t have time for it. Sure, she’d pick up a book here and there when she could, but it was nothing close to her reading two to three novels a week. So, after some life changes, she was excited to get back to reading. She dove in last year, and it has been wonderful to see her enthused. However, this time around, she has been branching out in her reading by exploring genres she’s never read and discovering new authors.

Several weeks ago, she was scrolling book recommendations—you know, the ones that pop up from the big-brother-is-watching-everything-you-do-online algorithm. One looked interesting, and internet marketing gobblers got their hooks in her. She loved the book, and, naturally, it just so happened to be book one in a series of six. So, she bought book number two and then three, and we all know how this story ends. However, she had to wait for book six to be released, which, fortunately for her, was only a few weeks. She couldn’t stop talking about the series and didn’t hide her eagerness for the release of the last book.

Finally, it arrived, and she devoured it in a day. I can’t say that any of us were surprised. And we were there to hear her final verdict. Was it worth it? Was it what she expected? We wanted all the details from her because as friends, you get excited when they are. You’re interested in what interests them even if you’re not interested in doing it for yourself. Common interest is one thing that helps bond people. But even when interests differ, frequently, people still share. I’ve attended many events solely to support friends and family. Fortunately, I love reading; so, listening to her share by far wasn’t a hardship for me. On the contrary, I was there for it.

Well, she couldn’t wait to share the book with some of us, and she loved it. When she concluded telling us about it, a lightbulb went off over her head like in the comics. Her eyes lit up, and her face became all animated. She stated that she was going to find a book-reading buddy. I would have gladly volunteered, but right now, my schedule won’t allow for much reading. I’m playing catch-up as is, and my TBR list literally will come off the shelves and avalanche me in my sleep. (Yes, I just turned avalanche into a verb.)

And here is where the story turns south. (I think I’m beginning to dislike that phrasing seeing how I live in the South, and it isn’t all bad. But that’s a different discussion for a different day. Let me stay on point.) The man who…how shall I say this?… wants to date her ruined her high. This is the reason they aren’t truly a couple…because he’s always doing stuff (I really want to use an expletive but won’t) like this. He came in like a torpedo, accusing her of… well, I don’t know what exactly, but trust me, it was an accusation. See, he doesn’t read. I mean he can…I suppose. Okay, that was pretty petty of me. I’m sorry—not really. But let me back this up with a bit of a back story that is probably where the issue originated.

Several months back, the two of them had a conversation where he mentioned he had begun reading a book. It hadn’t sounded like a book she’d select for herself, but she listened as he told her what it was supposed to be about. At the time, he’d only read a few pages according to him. Fast forward several weeks. They were engaged in another conversation. He’s not a good conversationist in my opinion. He interrupts, abruptly changes topics for no apparent reason, and makes comments that seem out of place. There was a lull in their conversation, and he was doing his general bump-on-a-log routine where he wasn’t contributing much, and when he did it was like a fly on acid. Since he wouldn’t focus and didn’t seem interested in anything she had to say, she decided to let him lead the conversation. Of course, this isn’t something he generally can do without verbal prompts. So, she asked him if he was enjoying the book he was reading. He responded that he hadn’t been reading because he was reading his mail.

Seeing how he’s not a celebrity or politician, she questioned how much mail he had. After circling Grandma’s barn and back, he admitted it was his usual amount. He said some were bills that he needed to write checks to pay. So, she asked how long that took him. He said thirty minutes to an hour a day. This is someone who no longer works and has all day to engage in whatever he feels like. He’s not tied to a rigid schedule. Thus, she was confused as to why reading his mail interfered with him reading the book. That’s because it didn’t. However, he attempted to gaslight her. I mean he hurled barrels of petrol on the dumpster fire he started. When everything was said and done, he hadn’t read the book because he hadn’t found it interesting.

There is nothing wrong with losing interest in a book. It has happened to most readers at one time or the other. It’s not a big deal. So, why hadn’t he said that at the beginning instead of leading her on a goose chase about mail and bills and writing checks? She wouldn’t have judged him. She would have moved on to another conversation instead of being bewildered by him possibly having piles of mail in his kitchen like freaking Santa Claus. I don’t know the answer, but here’s my guess.

Prior to all this occurring, she had discussed with him a book that was receiving a lot of publicity and she was considering reading. She told him about the summary but because it would be venturing into a new genre for her that she was nervous about reading. He responded by saying the book sounded interesting. That sparked an idea, and she suggested that they read the book together. Initially, he said yes, but by the end of the conversation, he said, “Why don’t you read it and tell me about it?” Well, that’s not the same thing. She wanted to discuss it with him and not lecture it to him. And after she read the book and told it to him, she confided to her other friends (me included) that he hadn’t seemed all that interested in what she had to say.

Now, let’s hop back to the present day. She enjoys reading, and he knows this. She’s a fast reader, he isn’t. She is an excellent conversationalist. He isn’t. She asked him to be a reading buddy in the past, and he declined. His problem is that she is going to share a passion with someone else. He won’t do it, and he doesn’t want anyone else to do it with her. It’s like the sports fan who has season tickets, and his significant other refuses to go but also doesn’t want him to attend with any of his/her friends. The solution for the significant would be to sell or allow the tickets to go to waste. In the instance of the book buddy, he attempted to guilt-trip her for wanting to ask someone else.

That’s a wrap on today’s topic. Now, it’s your turn to sound off. What did you think? What is your take on the subject? Do you agree or disagree? Did you find this information helpful or informative? Did you learn anything new, or did it change your opinion? Let me know your thoughts in the comment section. Also, let me know if you would like me to cover more of these types of topics or dive deeper into this one. If you like this post, please click the like button, and share it. Your feedback allows me to know the content that you want to read. If you’re not following me on Creole Bayou blog, what are you waiting for? There’s always room at the bayou.

If Brokeback Mountain, 8 Seconds, Poltergeist, and Supernatural had an orgy, Demon Rodeo would be the lovechild.

Demon Rodeo is available now on Amazon. For video book trailers, visit my TikTok page. The full blurb is on my Instagram and Amazon.

Demon Rodeo is the first book in the Chasing the Buckle series but can be read as a standalone. It’s a friends-to-lovers romance set in the rodeo world. These are not your typical cowboys. It’s a widely diverse cast of characters and a mashup of genres that aren’t always seen together. If you’re looking for a palate cleanser, this may be a book for you.

Order

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⇨ All Stores: https://books2read.com/u/bP8RG7

Until next time, happy reading and much romance. Laissez le bon temps rouler.

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Out of the Penalty Box (book #1) One minute in the box or a lifetime out. Defending the Net (book #2) Crossing the line could cost the game. Ice Gladiators (book #3) When the gloves come off, the games begin. Penalty Kill (book #4) Let the pucker begin. Future Goals (book #5) The future lies between a puck and a net.

About the Author:

Hi, I’m Genevive, and I am a contemporary sports romance author. My home is in South Louisiana. If you like snark and giggles with a touch of steamy Cajun and Creole on the side, I may have your poison in my stash of books. Drop by the bayou and have a look around. The pirogues are always waiting for new visitors.

How Not to Feel Discouraged

Feeling discouraged is easy. Actually, it’s easier than one might expect. As one of my college professors once lectured, it is easier to pull a mood down than to bring one up. I call it the natural disaster effect. It may take months or even years to build a structure but only minutes or seconds for a natural disaster such as a wildfire, earthquake, hurricane, or tornado to completely destroy it beyond repair. Moods are similar. A group of partier goers may be riding high until a Debbie Downer appears on the scene and sucks out every molecule of joy.

Another added component is so much negative stuff happens during the day that people get exposed to without anything positive to balance with, it can drag one’s mental state into the dumps. It is looking for the light at the end of the tunnel when it’s still a hundred miles away.

No one is immune to feeling discouraged, but some people are better prepared to deal with it. For some, it may come naturally. For most, it’s likely learned. So, how do they? Let’s get to it.

One way is to make a list. Making lists can be helpful and beneficial in many ways.

First, it frees the mind from having to think or remember. Just look at the list and wah-la. Whatever you need to recall or remember will be staring you in the face, unless of course, you forget to read or make a list. It is a sort of roadmap that allows the mind to rest and cruise on autopilot.Lists can allow you to readily see how tasks need to be prioritized and a schedule of when to get them done. This increases efficiency.When a list is utilized, it reduces the anxiety and stress of decision-making. All one has to do is follow the list like the Yellow Brick Road, and it will lead to the desired designation—no evil witches on broomsticks or flying monkeys.Being able to check off tasks as they are completed allows the list creator to visually see the progress being made. This can be great satisfaction and may lead to increased motivation.Last on this brief list but certainly not least or the only reason left, a running list of tasks helps one to better plan her day.

That brings to the surface the next question. What goes on this list?

The first step has already been mentioned. Know that you are alone.Accept that it is okay to make mistakes (most people do) or not to be perfect (most people aren’t).Acknowledge that your feelings of sadness or disappointment are valid and appropriate. Here’s where one needs to be wary of being gaslit or toxic positivity. Unfortunately, I have a person in my life who any time I experience disappointment and complain is quick to say, “You’re always so negative.” It’s a rude blowoff as if I don’t have the right to feel what I feel or that my feeling isn’t legitimate. It’s okay to feel sad, frustrated, or upset when something we really want or work hard to obtain falls through. What isn’t okay is wallowing in those negative feelings.Create a list of all of your strengths and positives. For anything negative you think or feel, list three positive traits/aspects about yourself. The idea here is to have the positives/good outweigh the negatives/bad.Along similar lines, make a list of things that you are thankful and grateful for. This allows one to have a positive balance in life and a reminder of all the things that are going right currently. This is different from listing personal strengths because things that a person is grateful for may not necessarily be something within his/her control. For example, one may be grateful that the person he/she was paired to complete a project with had an easy nature and was knowledgeable of the task. Or one may be thankful for pleasant weather on his/her wedding day. When I had a blowout on the highway, I wasn’t thankful for the blowout, but I was thankful that the eighteen-wheeler behind me saw and was able to avoid crashing into me.

A second way to avoid feeling discouraged is to talk to someone. Again, know that you are not alone. Sharing how you’re feeling with others not only lifts the weight, but others may have useful input that will help you solve or resolve whatever has you feeling discouraged. However, there is a cravat to this. It goes without saying that one should only share with someone who is both knowledgeable and trustworthy.

Let’s be real. Some people are more than willing to dole out advice and they are dumber than a post. When I began my writing journey, I was part of an online writing group that allowed “newbies” to ask questions to “established” writers. The problem was that the “established” writers had not been vetted. They would spit out generic advice, and others in the group would repeat it. It was by far some of the worst advice I’ve ever received, only, at the time, I didn’t know it. It wasn’t until I asked a question and received an answer that I knew 100% was incorrect did I started to clue. When I politely questioned the response and was met with hostility and belittlement, I knew I was onto something. My father always warned if a person immediately takes offense or quickly goes onto the defense about something relatively harmless or innocent, the person likely is overcompensating because he/she has something to hide. I should also note that I wasn’t the only or the first person to question some of the responses. I just hadn’t paid enough attention to those, either. Eventually, these “established” writers were exposed, but the damage had been done.

Simultaneously, I was part of another online writing group where the established writers were truly established and had sound advice. Did their advice work for everyone? No. Were they always correct? Of course not. No one is perfect. However, they were honest in their responses and did not claim to give absolutes. They also refrained from tossing about generic responses and explained their responses.

When one talks about discouragements, it should be with someone who is willing to listen to the issue and work with you through it. If they offer advice, it will be based on what you’ve said and not some fortune cookie slip. It also should be a person who isn’t going to put your business in the streets. This means avoiding the town gossip.

If you don’t have anyone in your circle that you feel comfortable sharing or who you think will understand, speak to a professional counselor or therapist. Many are affordable or work on a sliding scale. If scheduling or transportation is an issue, some reputable online resources are available. Just be sure to thoroughly do your research before beginning any therapy. Remember, the aim is to make the situation better. Confiding in the wrong person could possibly make you feel even more discouraged.

That’s a wrap on today’s topic. Now, it’s your turn to sound off. What did you think? What is your take on the subject? Do you agree or disagree? Did you find this information helpful or informative? Did you learn anything new, or did it change your opinion? Let me know your thoughts in the comment section. Also, let me know if you would like me to cover more of these types of topics or dive deeper into this one. If you like this post, please click the like button, and share it. Your feedback allows me to know the content that you want to read. If you’re not following me on Creole Bayou blog, what are you waiting for? There’s always room at the bayou.

If Brokeback Mountain, 8 Seconds, Poltergeist, and Supernatural had an orgy, Demon Rodeo would be the lovechild.

Demon Rodeo is available now on Amazon. For video book trailers, visit my TikTok page. The full blurb is on my Instagram and Amazon.

Demon Rodeo is the first book in the Chasing the Buckle series but can be read as a standalone. It’s a friends-to-lovers romance set in the rodeo world. These are not your typical cowboys. It’s a widely diverse cast of characters and a mashup of genres that aren’t always seen together. If you’re looking for a palate cleanser, this may be a book for you.

Order

⇨ Amazon: https://readerlinks.com/l/4174852

⇨ All Stores: https://books2read.com/u/bP8RG7

Until next time, happy reading and much romance. Laissez le bon temps rouler.

If you’re not following my blog, Creole Bayou, what are you waiting for? There’s always room at the bayou.

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Are you searching for a sexy book boyfriend? You’ve come to the right place.

Out of the Penalty Box (book #1) One minute in the box or a lifetime out. Defending the Net (book #2) Crossing the line could cost the game. Ice Gladiators (book #3) When the gloves come off, the games begin. Penalty Kill (book #4) Let the pucker begin. Future Goals (book #5) The future lies between a puck and a net.

About the Author:

Hi, I’m Genevive, and I am a contemporary sports romance author. My home is in South Louisiana. If you like snark and giggles with a touch of steamy Cajun and Creole on the side, I may have your poison in my stash of books. Drop by the bayou and have a look around. The pirogues are always waiting for new visitors.

The Not Stalker Syndrome of Social Media

I would say this post isn’t meant as shade to people who take everything too literally, but that would be a lie. Therefore, here is a disclaimer This post consists of what is likely controversial and an unpopular opinion. Readers are, of course and as always, free to disagree. All I ask is for any disagreeing or dissenting comments to be respectful. Every person is entitled to his/her opinion, and I wouldn’t dare take the elitist view that mine is the only correct one or even that it is correct.

I consider myself to be an open-minded person. However, two things happened when a friend shared her story with me. First, I was outraged on behalf of her, and second, I knew I had to blog about it. So, here we are.

This is a story of two cousins—one several years older than the other. I know in the big scheme of things that age and gender don’t really matter because stalking isn’t something that discriminates. However, sometimes common sense has to take precedence and all factors must be considered seriously. As they say in the intro of Law and Order, here’s their story.

My friend (we’ll call her Sue) has a brother (we’ll call him Jeb). Jeb has a son. We’ll call Jeb’s son Marcus. Sue has a daughter. We’ll call her Linda. Recap, the four key players in this saga are Sue, Sue’s daughter Linda, Sue’s brother Jeb, and Sue’s nephew Marcus. Of course, this makes Jeb Linda’s uncle and Marcus Linda’s cousin. Jeb has other children, all with drama, but they don’t have a role in this.

Marcus is in his mid-thirties and doing okay in life. It’s no secret that he’s had a rough go and plenty of struggles. It’s suspected that he suffered from an undiagnosed learning disability but when he was enrolled in school, Jeb had labeled it as “laziness.” Despite what it was, Marcus dropped out (or flunked out depending on who is asked) of school around tenth grade. (It’s unknown specifically what grade because he’d been held back a few times by then.) He struggled to find employment, and when he did, he often didn’t keep the position for long. He didn’t enjoy working and preferred to live off his parents. He was enabled by his mother, and Jeb who cowards to his wife (despite complaining to anyone willing to listen) went along with it. And so it existed for several years.

Linda is now in her early twenties, but at the time the school stuff was happening with Marcus, Linda was a tweenie and ignorant of the drama. By the time Linda was old enough to enroll in college, Marcus had found a low-paying job (nothing wrong with that because it’s an honest living) and had gained slight recognition for his job performance. He was charged with coaching the company’s sponsored basketball team which consisted mainly of employees’ children. Turned out, that Marcus had a natural talent for coaching and took the team to the championship. An article was written about it in the paper. And here’s where the situation begins going south.

Linda had graduated and gone away to college. Being away from home, she was starving for family connections. Therefore, her friend requested family on social media platforms. One of those people was Marcus. Each day, she would go through her newsfeed to read about and see photos with family. It was her way of keeping in touch as it wasn’t like any of her family were attempting to keep in contact with her. It isn’t that Linda was ostracized by her family. Rather, the majority of her family was not the “keeping in touch” type. They pretty much kept to themselves and their immediate family. Sue was different and had always encouraged Linda to form bonds with the rest of the family. Perhaps this was because Sue was a single parent and Linda was her only child. Sue worried that if something happened to her, Linda would be left alone in the world. And while her family wasn’t ideal, it was the only one she had.

Linda saw the post on social media about Marcus’ pee wee team going to the championship and looked up the full article in the newspaper. Her heart filled with pride that her cousin was doing well. She mentioned it in a phone conversation with Sue. Ironically, Sue didn’t know anything about it but was happy to hear the news. So, the next time Sue saw Jeb, she passed along congratulatory sentiments and made a joke about her learning about Marcus’ accomplishment because Linda was “stalking” him. Yes, stalking was the word she used, and that upset Jeb.

“Stalking?” He had screamed with wide, wild eyes and outraged expression.

Taken aback, Sue clarified that she’d intended it as a joke but perhaps it was a poor choice of words. But the fact Jeb had taken it literally and seriously gave Linda great pause. It also caused her to question if Linda should continue to follow Marcus on social media. And here’s why.

Sue had encouraged Linda to friend request Marcus as well as other family members.Marcus had accepted the friend request.Marcus had posted on his social media account about the team going to the championship.

So, if Linda each day intentionally visits the social media pages of people she’s friends with, does that constitute stalking? Or are only posts that organically (by organically, I mean the site’s generated algorithm) pop up one’s news feed the ones that she’s allowed to read? In other words, Linda is never allowed to search a friend’s page regularly.

Here’s another question. People who post on public media do so in order for the post to be read by people who follow them. If it’s private information that is supposed to be kept secret, a person wouldn’t post it on their account for everyone to bear witness. Now, an argument could be made if someone hacked into a private account it would be a violation. But even private account has followers who are allowed to see posts. However, that wasn’t what happened here. Marcus’ account wasn’t hacked nor was it private. Linda didn’t repost, but she did like the post as did dozens of others. Yet, Jeb was extremely alarmed to learn that Linda regularly read Marcus’ posts.

Now, let’s put the dynamics into place. Prior to going away to college, Linda hadn’t been friends on social media with any of her family. She didn’t regularly call, text, or interact with them. Once she became friends with them on social media, she would occasionally like their posts and even more rarely comment a word or two but never attempted to contact them outside of social media. She didn’t repost or share any of their social media comments or photos. Plus, she physically was hundreds of miles away from them. While Marcus isn’t incredibly tall in height, he has a stocky statue and has at minimum sixty pounds on Linda. At the time, Linda had no means of transportation, and both Jeb and Marcus knew this. Marcus lived with his family (Jeb, his mother, and brother). Had Linda shown up at his door unexpectedly, the chances are Marcus would not have been alone. Besides, Linda is family—Jeb’s niece and Marcus’ first cousin. Could they really view her as a threat? Someone they had known and seen grow up since birth?

Sure, anyone can be a stalker. But what is a stalker? According to the dictionary, a stalker is a person who harasses or persecutes someone with unwanted and obsessive attention. Linda scrolled through relative social media posts daily. If there were no posts, she had nothing to read.  Additionally, a stalker is defined as a person who hunts game stealthily. I suppose scrolling is hunting and entering a name into a search bar would be considered stealthy.

Another definition of a stalker includes making threats and non-consensual communication. So, if a person makes ten posts on social media, and another person likes each post, that constitutes stalking? Is there a set number of posts one is allowed to like or a maximum number of times allowed to read a particular person’s newsfeed? Seriously, what is cyberstalking?

The definition I found for cyberstalking is using the internet to harass someone by threatening, tracking, doxing, and/or intimidating. But I also found the word “monitoring” in this definition. So, when someone clicks to be notified every time another person posts (as on YouTube), is this stalking?

The amount of visceral ire Sue indicated Jeb expressed toward Linda I can believe. I’ve seen him behave that way in other situations. But never would I have guessed he’d act that way toward his own flesh and blood who’d never raised a hand to harm anyone. At the time, Linda had just turned eighteen and had moved away from the hometown she’d lived her entire life. In fact, until moving away to college, Linda had only been anywhere overnight without Sue twice.

The conversation I had with Sue about this resonated with me because a few days prior about possibly having to stalk someone regarding semi-hard-to-get fundraiser tickets. My exact words were, “I guess I’m going to have to begin stalking his page so I’ll know when tickets go on sale and can make arrangements.” By arrangements, I mean rearranging my schedule so I can purchase the tickets since there is no online purchasing option. Another friend who is looking to purchase a home stated that he’d been “stalking” a neighborhood for houses to come on the market.

I understand that language needs to be considerate and tolerant. It is wrong to be insensitive in our words. But is there a need to be so careful that some words can’t be used? Are we losing figurative speech and making everything literal?

Well, that’s all I got. Now, it’s your turn to sound off. What did you think? What is your take on the subject? Do you agree or disagree? Did you find this information helpful or informative? Did you learn anything new, or did it change your opinion? Let me know your thoughts in the comment section. Also, let me know if you would like me to cover more of these types of topics or dive deeper into this one. If you like this post, please click the like button, and share it. Your feedback allows me to know the content that you want to read. If you’re not following me on Creole Bayou blog, what are you waiting for? There’s always room at the bayou.

If Brokeback Mountain, 8 Seconds, Poltergeist, and Supernatural had an orgy, Demon Rodeo would be the lovechild.

Demon Rodeo is available now on Amazon. For video book trailers, visit my TikTok page. The full blurb is on my Instagram and Amazon.

Demon Rodeo is the first book in the Chasing the Buckle series but can be read as a standalone. It’s a friends-to-lovers romance set in the rodeo world. These are not your typical cowboys. It’s a widely diverse cast of characters and a mashup of genres that aren’t always seen together. If you’re looking for a palate cleanser, this may be a book for you.

Order

⇨ Amazon: https://readerlinks.com/l/4174852

⇨ All Stores: https://books2read.com/u/bP8RG7

Until next time, happy reading and much romance. Laissez le bon temps rouler.

If you’re not following my blog, Creole Bayou, what are you waiting for? There’s always room at the bayou.

NEWSLETTER! Want to get the latest information and updates about my writing projects, giveaways, contests, and reveals first? Click here and sign up today.

Want to chat about writing, mental health, Cajun cuisine, Creole culture, or just spill some tea? If yes, let’s get connected. Follow me on one of my social links. There’s plenty to choose from.

TikTok: CreolegurlNolaBluesky: Genevive ChambleeLemon8: CreolegurlNolaFacebook: Genevive ChambleeInstagram: genevivechambleeauthorThreads: Author Genevive ChambleeBookBub: Genevive ChambleeAmazon Authors: Genevive ChambleeGoodreads: Genevive ChambleeX (formerly Twitter): @dolynesaidso

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[image error] Locker Room Love Series [image error]

Are you searching for a sexy book boyfriend? You’ve come to the right place.

Out of the Penalty Box (book #1) One minute in the box or a lifetime out. Defending the Net (book #2) Crossing the line could cost the game. Ice Gladiators (book #3) When the gloves come off, the games begin. Penalty Kill (book #4) Let the pucker begin. Future Goals (book #5) The future lies between a puck and a net.

About the Author:

Hi, I’m Genevive, and I am a contemporary sports romance author. My home is in South Louisiana. If you like snark and giggles with a touch of steamy Cajun and Creole on the side, I may have your poison in my stash of books. Drop by the bayou and have a look around. The pirogues are always waiting for new visitors.