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July 20, 2016
RD Life Maximization System [Be Incomparable]
RD Life Maximization System [Be Incomparable]
In life we all want to –
Be happy in present and hopeful for the future
Enjoy good health and vigour
Be considered a leader in our field and profession
Be intelligent and taken seriously
Socially accepted and respected
Live a life of immense credibility and honour
Leave this world with an incomparable legacy
This System helps you magnify your life by achieving all the above in a scientific, structured manner.
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July 16, 2016
Want to Grow? Then Teach…
It is human psychology that when you have to teach - you learn differently. The added pressure of being a performer makes you learn more thoroughly, completely and with a outlook as to how this should be explained to others. If you don’t teach, you forget the subject and the learnings fast, as day to day trivia soon take over your life.
When you teach, on occasions you invariably have to preach and tell about some dos and don’ts of life. This puts a public pressure on you to actually practice what you preach. This improves self-discipline and self-control.
When you have taught a topic, you understand the subject matter and the associated philosophies and concepts in a deeper way. This raises your self-awareness and self-esteem.
To explain to different types of people, you develop the ability to describe the same concept in different words, styles, phrases and sentences. This improves your power of expression and self-confidence.
When you teach well, the sense of having given a good performance and the feeling of influencing an audience and having the power to mould their thinking to your way is one of the greatest feelings which truly makes life worthwhile.
As an authority on the subject, the gratitude and respect you get from listeners is an added bonus.
As a good teacher, you are revered and respected for aspects which don’t just stop at the subject matter. People look up to you also as a life coach and as a councillor for other personal issues in their life. This expands your footprint in the learners’ life.
When you know your own topic better, it increases your quest to study even more about the related aspects of the subject and its better usage in day to day life.
While or after you speak, you generally face questions from the audience related to the subject matter. This makes you think deeply as well as broadly. Even if you are unable to answer all the questions at that time, the quest to find the answers deepens your knowledge and makes you more confident.
When you make preparations to present your subject in an interesting and illustrative manner – you search for related images, videos, statistics, quotes etc. to enthral your audience. You explore how different authors and teachers have dealt with the same subject differently. This improves your research abilities, and who knows; you could be setting up the foundation of your own book or article some day!
Go on. If you want to grow in life, teach. You need not be a lecturer in a school or college to be able to teach. In fact the role of a teacher is all-pervading. Your audience can be your family, colleagues or juniors, or even a single interested person. Teaching will enrich your life in more ways than just a better grip on the subject or issue at hand.
You will become a better person with a better perspective of life, and will be enriched with a quest to learn even more.
Want to Grow? Then Teach…
You read a great book and are really influenced to implement its learnings in your life. You attend a great training and are really serious about changing your life according to what the trainer taught you. But in 99% of cases you go back to your old ways of life after the learning ends. Why does this happen? This happens because the subject matter has come to you in only one dimension – that of the “receiver of knowledge”. But when you teach the same to someone else, you also achieve the dim...
April 7, 2016
A TRIBUTE TO PRATYUSHA BANNERJI
Dear Pratyusha –
I was your fan – you were so beautiful and talented. I didn’t know you personally, but I do know that to achieve even 50% of fame and love which you achieved in your young life, most youngsters would readily make far greater sacrifices in life.
Life is nothing but a series of challenges. The issue is not of a guy called Rahul, but a mismatched relationship which teaches us far more about life and people than successful relationships. I am not interested in the personal detail...
April 6, 2016
A Road Less Travelled
Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth…
… I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I,
I took the one less travelled by –
And that has made all the difference.
“To be, or not to be, that is the question” – by Shakespeare from “Hamlet”, 1602, is the most famous quote of the great play...
March 25, 2016
The true meaning of Maturity
“I think part of maturity is to know who you are.” [Rob Lowe]
According to the dictionary, mature means full-grown; fully developed physically, mentally or emotionally; having reached the advanced stage in a process, person or thing; become fully grown or developed, etc. It has both physical and emotional aspects. For the sake of this column, we will deal with the emotional aspect of maturity.
As a child grows, he emotionally gropes and copes with the confusing realities and illusions of an e...
March 8, 2016
Book Synopsis – God Proposes – Man Disposes
God Proposes – Man Disposes –
A 21st Century Concept of Success
Author – Dr Ajay Shesh
* Inspirational Speaker and Life Coach * Management Consultant * Blogger and Columnist * Pathologist
* Twice Guinness World Record Achiever
* Chhattisgarh Bhushan Awardee
About the Book :
“God has proposed greatness for each of us and has sent us to fulfil a specific purpose of this Universe. It is up to man to understand his specific role and strengths to fulfil that purpose.” [Dr. Ajay Shesh]
“God Propos...
February 22, 2016
Organize and execute around Priorities
This learning from Stephen Covey – this simple phrase has deeply affected my course of life ever since I first read it. And even today, with different experiences, I keep marvelling at the depth of its meaning. This little phrase of five words projects the essence of the whole gamut of time and life management. Just remembering this phrase will grant a new perspective of our adult life as a whole. I will explain how.
We have been continuously discussing the importance of purpose in other blog...
January 5, 2016
The Compass vs. the Speedometer
Direction is infinitely more important than the Speed.
Does your speed really ma
tter if your direction itself is wrong? You will only reach the wrong place – faster. Modern life sets a premium on speed – fast cars, fast food, crash diets, quick service joints, fast money, faster loans, quick fixes and even quickie affairs…the list can go on. Speed has a macho appeal to it. It denotes urgency – and anything urgent holds our attention, and gives it a façade of importance. Working overnight on a...
January 2, 2016
Ajeya Bharat Mission – a budding international phenomenon
“Ajeya Bharat Prakalp” is a youth empowerment initiative founded by yours truly to inspire and transform the thinking of the youth across the state.
Situations earlier that led to this key initiative –
As a doctor, I was always troubled by the poor health of the youth and their tendency towards negativity, depression, intoxication, or even crime. I discovered that working on their bodies is not going to have a lasting impact. The challenge was to improve and clean their thinking process which...
