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Screw the Labels. Bring the Energy.

The ego is insecure because it knows it’s not REAL. Because it’s not REAL, it will try and trick you into finding ideas or concepts that give it the ILLUSION and weight of realness.. One way that it does this is through LABELS and self-serving descriptions that allow it to feel more complex and IMPORTANT than it really is. These labels can be as far-fetched as you like – basically, anything that helps you to keep hiding from the emotional ‘stuff’ that led you to CREATE your ego in the first plac...

Sex, Death, and Reality: The Basic Building Blocks of the ‘Good Life’

Building with the Basics so that You Can Live Your Real Life, No Matter What Keeping it Simple This article is about the most basic building blocks of real life: sex and death. There are so many complicated theories and ideas floating around online about what you need to be able to do to live

The Void: Becoming Whole by Becoming One with the Hole

Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About the Void but Were Afraid to Ask The Void 101 This article is going to tell you everything that you need to know but were afraid to ask about ‘The Void’ – the hole inside you that is aching to be filled and which is calling you back

Outcome-Independence: The Art of Living Badly

How to get it together by forgetting about perfection, being real, and staying in motion. This article is going to teach you how to live your best possible life by improving your relationship with the ‘inner’ and ‘outer’ worlds so that you can develop an attitude of outcome-independence and free yourself from the mental barriers

Energy and Reality: How to Improve Your Relationship with Reality to Increase Your Energy Levels and Go Crush Life

Recharging your batteries by revamping your relationship with reality and letting go of illusions. Energy is for Everybody This article is going to show you how you can increase your energy levels and have more fire in your belly to go out there and crush your goals.  We’re gonna remind you of some basic stuff

What if you weren’t afraid? Fear: How to Live Without it by Living With it

Getting your real life back by getting your edge back. I know a lot about fear because I used to fear a lot. I used to be afraid of what people might think. I used to scared about what might happen if I did or didn’t do [X]. Mainly, I used to be scared about

Balls Back 101: A Master Class in Reclaiming Your Balls and Living Your Truth

Balling Up: How to get your self-respect back, improve your relationship with fear, and stop hesitating by embracing reality and being real. Who is this article for? This article is dedicated to anybody who lost their way because, somewhere along the line, they started listening to the world instead of themselves and so derailed the

The Drama Killer: Growing Real Through Conflict

How to avoid unnecessary drama and BS in life by living real through conflict.  Drama: A Sign of Conflict Denied This article is going to help you remove drama from your life by showing you the difference between unnecessary and necessary conflict. We’re gonna work together to help you see that all drama is an

Say ‘No’ to Unicornitis: A Public Service Announcement

Protecting your mental and physical health by staying clear of UTIs (Unicorn Transmitted Irritations) Overview Unicornitis is a common irritation that can eventually lead to friction, frustration, and then misery if left untreated. It is most common in men and women who have been suffering from a terminal case of infatuation, or limerence, but it

The Train: A Metaphor for the Good Life and Growing Real

Always be asking yourself: Am I on the Train or is this just a station? This article is about living the Good Life and growing real by riding with reality. It will help you to decide whether or not you’re on the right track (pun intended) by helping you to assess your progress by prioritising