Oli Anderson's Blog, page 37

Reality is Never an Obstacle to Your Happiness; You Are.

People screw up their lives because they think that ‘reality’ is an obstacle to whatver they want. The TRUTH is that reality is never ever an obstacle, barrier, or blockage because to get what you WANT – which is always peace of mind or ACCEPTANCE in some form or another – you always always always need REALITY to get it. A lot of people think that being ‘realistic’ is DEPRESSING because it means facing all of the uncomfortable and BRUTAL truths about life – for example: -We’re all gonna be dead ...

If Your ‘Confidence’ is Based On Feeling Superior It Can Always be Taken Away

There’s a difference between REAL and unreal confidence. REAL is about KNOWING you’re unshakeable because you’ve found a way to be ROOTED in yourself and reality and devoted yourself to some TRUTH about life that’s ‘higher’ than just your limited ideas about ‘You’. When you’re rooted to the WHOLE in that way you understand who you are and what life is (and the connection between you and live itself) and nothing can ever take that away. Never. It can’t be taken because it’s not DEPENDENT on anyth...

Everything You’ve Been Through Was to Prepare You to Be Real Right Now.

Everything that either happens to you or that you make happen is a TEST of your REALNESS.

Only Trust Them If They’re (At Least) A Little Crazy.

It’s not the ‘crazy’ ones that you need to watch out for. It’s the ones who think they’ve got all the answers and got it all ‘together’ that you need to watch out for. The TRUTH is that all human beings are at least a LITTLE bit CRAZY because we all have chaos inside of ourselves, none of us know everything, and we’re all IMPERFECT in strange and BEAUTIFUL ways. To be REAL and to be able to RELATE to others on the LEVEL then we need to ACCEPT ourselves unconditionally and that means embracing al...

Waves Don’t Die – They Return to The Whole.

The waves comes and go but the ocean LIVES forever. If you can understand that then you can understand what it means to ride those REALITY WAVES: You know you SHARE an inherent connection to the WHOLE and that you can RIDE OUT anything that keeps you from it. On the level of our human experience as FRAGMENTED CREATURES in FRAGMENTED BODIES the surface-level waves of our lives will change day-after-day until eventually the wave crashes or fades and so we become ONE again. We’ve said it before and...

A Shout-out to All the Fake Friends, Haters, and Doubters for Making Us More Real than We Ever Imagined.

The World isn’t reality but it can be used to TEST how REAL you are. You might think that you’ve found something real or whole in yourself and that you’re ROOTED in a solid connection to the truth but every day something is gonna put your REALNESS to the test and see you’re fooling yourself or not. The bottom line is that in an UNREAL world, the more real you become the more you’ll be tested – especially by UNREAL people. Some will come with their best intentions and an ABUNDANCE mindset – in ot...

Don’t Waste Your Energy Trying to Look Like Something When You Could Become It.

A reminder for those at the back: The three most valuable things you have are your time, your energy, and your attention. That’s because you’re going to be DEAD one day and so with every breath you take you’re getting closer to having none of those things left at all. A general rule about life is what you CHOOSE to give these things to grows and so – if you wanna live your REAL life – you need to be conscious of where you direct these things. Unfortunately (or not, actually), growing REAL often ...

Your World is Just Your Old Thoughts and Beliefs Made Manifest Whilst You Try and Think of Something Better.

Your world today is a REFLECTION of the ‘Old’ You. When we’re being UNREAL, we get so caught up in thinking that the world we PERCEIVE ourselves to live in is the concrete TRUTH about life but it isn’t for a number of reasons: -First of all – as we say on here a billion times a week – the WORLD IS NOT REALITY. It’s just a set of ideas and concepts and the more closely these ideas and concepts ‘point’ to reality (though none can ever TOUCH it), the more truth you let into your world and the more

“I Don’t Like It/ It’s Not Nice / It Hurts Therefore It’s Not True” – Your Ego

“The truth will set you free (but first it will piss you off or make you miserable).” –Personal Revolutions: ASCIR We’re all walking around trying to live our lives with a REALITY DISTORTION device in our heads. More than just distorting our reality, this device wraps itself around our SOULS like a parasitic vine and makes us think that we ARE whatever it shows us. It’s kinda screwed up. For many of us, we decided to start using this device and buying into what it shows us because we’ve become c...

‘Happiness’ isn’t Just About Events…It’s a Process.

Anybody can be REAL whenever they want – all they have to do is remember. If you forget that you’re real – because you allow the world to condition you in to staying ASLEEP or because you hypnotise yourself with your own BS – then you take yourself out of the NATURAL process of moving and growing real and you just have unreal TENSION and friction in your life. When your life is defined by UNREAL tension and friction then you’re not living your REAL life but coping with an unreal life that is the...