Susan L. Edelman's Blog, page 7
August 1, 2020
Forgive and Forget: Do You Excuse Hot Guys Too Easily
I’m going to ask you a question, and I want you to answer honestly: are you choosing men based solely on looks? Even if appearance isn’t the only thing that draws you to someone, do you find that you’re more apt to ignore red flags if you think that a man is red hot? If you know deep down that you tend to excuse a man’s bad behavior when you’re seriously attracted to him physically, don’t beat yourself up—you’re not alone.
Our culture prioritizes looks and money over deeper values, so it’s not u...
July 25, 2020
How to Feel Grateful During a Pandemic
With the first half of 2020 already spent and very little light shining through at the end of the proverbial pandemic tunnel, it’s safe to say that COVID-19 has turned all of our lives upside down in some measure. The pervasive sort of panic that accompanies a global pandemic leaves us all feeling vulnerable—no one can escape the danger and uncertainty. How can you possibly manage to stay positive, let alone happy, when you feel that you’re losing your entire way of life?
It’s not easy to mainta...
July 18, 2020
How to Break the Curse of the 90 Day Relationship
Picture this: you strike up a new relationship, and there are fireworks right away. You begin to feel awash with happiness, and you start to think that you’ve finally found that special someone. Fast forward 90 days, and the magic is gone—you’re left wondering how your intoxicating relationship could have changed so drastically in such a short period of time. Does this sound familiar? If so, don’t despair, it’s an all-too-common problem.
The 90-day curse can be incredibly frustrating if you’re r...
July 11, 2020
Is It True Love? 7 Signs to Know for Sure
When you first dive into the tumultuous waters of a budding potential relationship, your emotions can be confusing; you may start to feel attached and attracted to a new man almost immediately, but it’s too early to know in those fledgling days whether the relationship has the legs to go the distance. Could these feelings merely be infatuation, or perhaps lust? Or is this true love?
There are some telltale signs to help you distinguish between these different emotions. If you’re infatuated with ...
July 4, 2020
Stressed about Being Single? 5 Reasons Not to Worry
Some of the most powerhouse women in the world worry about being single, regardless of how capable and successful they may be. Sprinkle in the odd comment from a stranger, like “do you have a boyfriend?” or “why aren’t you married?” and these wildly intelligent and competent women will throw themselves into a critical frenzy.
This underlying current of pressure makes it more difficult to bounce back when a budding relationship ends, or when a potential partner disappears without a word. Women fi...
June 27, 2020
How to Find Love after 50: 7 Proven Secrets
If you’re over 50, you’re not a newbie in the relationship department. Perhaps you’ve been married in the past, or simply had a string of unsuccessful relationships; in any case, if you find yourself single now, you likely feel like you’re starting from scratch. The good news is, your life experience will aid you in finding love again.
Dating When You’re Older Is a Whole Different Ball Game
You’re not 20 anymore, and some of the romantic sheen has probably worn away from your ideal of love. Mayb...
June 20, 2020
The Golden Rule You Need to Know to Simplify Your Love Life
It’s human nature to want to be challenged, but it doesn’t always work out when that challenge comes from your love life. A little bit of mystery and uncertainty can spark the fires of love and attraction, and too much can translate to unrequited love. But how can you stay on the right side of love?
Simple: Choose Men Who Choose You
Take Hannah’s story here. Does it sound familiar?
Hannah and John met online. They first talked through video chats , but Hanna felt very comfortable with John and de...
June 13, 2020
Can You Get Social During a Pandemic? Here Are 4 Ways
Human beings need connections. It’s how we are built. Our brains need consistent bonding and nurturing, which we can only get from interacting with other people. But right now, this is a need that’s been put on the sidelines, as people’s ability to connect is limited by the distancing recommendations.
Some people are lacking in some of the most basic of activities, like going out with your family to dinner, hugging a dear friend, or having that first date which may end up in a first kiss. All of...
June 6, 2020
Old Fashioned Romance Is Back in Style and That’s Actually a Good Thing
Our current adventures with social distancing have truly changed the life of a single person looking for a relationship. In a way, it completely turned it upside down.
If you’re the kind of person used to looking for hookups or basing all your connections on physical chemistry, which rely on you meeting the guy face to face, these days you may be facing a complete halt in your usual activities. Now, you may even be looking for a good conversation with a guy, maybe even some form of companionship...
May 30, 2020
The 5 Skills You Will Need to Find the Man of Your Dreams
As a relationship and dating expert, one of the most common questions a lot of women ask me is: “How do I meet the man of my dreams?”
The answer to this burning question can be different for each woman who asks it, which I know is something rather disappointing to learn. Finding the right man is a journey specific to you, and you alone. Sure, you may find some similarities between your story and someone else’s, but when you really get down to it, the journey itself is unique. So instead of focus...
