Forgive and Forget: Do You Excuse Hot Guys Too Easily

I’m going to ask you a question, and I want you to answer honestly: are you choosing men based solely on looks? Even if appearance isn’t the only thing that draws you to someone, do you find that you’re more apt to ignore red flags if you think that a man is red hot? If you know deep down that you tend to excuse a man’s bad behavior when you’re seriously attracted to him physically, don’t beat yourself up—you’re not alone.

Our culture prioritizes looks and money over deeper values, so it’s not u...