Kathryn Perez > Quotes

“Sometimes pain and hurt are good things because it means you strived for something in your life.”
― Kathryn Vance-Perez, Love and Truth

“If you told me today our being together would result in heartbreak I would still choose to be with you because I believe that truly living life is in the experiences not the outcomes.”
― Kathryn Vance-Perez, Love and Truth

“They say monsters live under beds. They're wrong because our mind is where monsters truly reside.” —Kathryn Perez”
― Kathryn Perez, Therapy

“I’m not saying it will always be easy because we are human. Two people in love will always have uphill battles but it’s how you handle those challenges that truly matter.”
― Kathryn Vance-Perez, Love and Truth

“Everyone is struggling with something.”
― Kathryn Perez, Therapy

“It’s amazing and sad what we have to do to survive sometimes.”
― Kathryn Perez, Therapy

“Until you've experienced depression, or a form of depression, you can't ever really know how strongly it controls you.”
― Kathryn Perez, Therapy

“Accepting the ugly part of life is just part of living. Pain tells us we are still here; it lets us know we’ve survived. When you really think about it, pain can free you, because without pain there is no pleasure in anything.”
― Kathryn Perez, Therapy

“We don’t meet people by accident. They’re meant to cross out path for a reason.”
― Kathryn Perez, Therapy

“I’m so very tired of being held prisoner by my own mind.”
― Kathryn Perez, Therapy

“You’re worth more than you think. You just have to believe that; then everyone else will too.”
― Kathryn Perez, Therapy

“Self-doubt can cripple a person faster than fear ever will.”
― Kathryn Perez, Therapy

“I know you like to be in control and you operate a lot from fear but you have to break the bounds of your past Nicole and rewrite the story you’ve been telling yourself based off of others experiences. You have to create your own experience, write your own story.”
― Kathryn Vance-Perez, Love and Truth

“You deserve a man who falls in love with your mind, wants to undress your very conscience, and make love to your every single thought. You deserve a man who wants to see you slowly let down every wall you’ve ever built up. You deserve a man that will work hard for you until you let him inside your heart.”
― Kathryn Perez, Therapy

“Regret is a painful thing. Few people understand that there are three important things that leave us and can never return. Words. Time. Opportunity. These are things we can never get back.”
― Kathryn Perez, Letters Written in White

“I wonder what's worse-the invisible scars they leave or the visible scars I inflict upon myself?”
― Kathryn Perez, Therapy

“The words on the pages within this book are solely dedicated to victims of bullying, those that ever have or still do suffer from depression, mental illness, and the struggles that accompany it.   You are brave.   You are strong.   You are smart.   You are beautiful.   You are worth it.”
― Kathryn Perez, Therapy

“Perfection is not attainable,” he used to say, quoting Vince Lombardi. “But if we chase perfection, we can catch excellence.”
― Kathryn Vance-Perez, Love and Truth

“Keep reaching out because you may help pull someone out of darkness and guide them into light.” —Caroline Naoroji”
― Kathryn Perez, Therapy

“Their weapons aren’t illegal, yet they cut me deeper than a blade ever could.”
― Kathryn Perez, Therapy

“I want you. I want you to be mine. I want to be yours. Because even though none of this makes sense, it just feels right.”
― Kathryn Vance-Perez, Love and Truth

“I hate myself most of all because no matter how strong I try to be, I know the truth. I’m weak. I’m fucking dirty. I’m used up. And no man will ever love me, because I hate me.”
― Kathryn Perez, Therapy

“Needing someone to love me and want me has always driven me to the brink of madness.”
― Kathryn Perez, Therapy

“Why in the name of God do you wear these ugly ass granny panties? I swear it looks like you could parachute from the Dallas Lincoln Plaza with these and have a nice soft landing! Why don’t you get on the internet and apply your online shopping skills while purchasing some panties that do not look like they came from your Grans drawer?”
― Kathryn Vance-Perez, Love and Truth

“If love was just a label how could it hurt so badly?”
― Kathryn Vance-Perez, Love and Truth

“Jessica, falling in love can’t always be a happily ever after or a once in a lifetime kind of story.”
― Kathryn Perez, Therapy

“I’m no one. I barely exist.”
― Kathryn Perez, Therapy

“My truth is everyone else’s lies. My lies are their comfort. Telling the truth makes people uncomfortable. Who am I to cause anyone discomfort on purpose? Lying works. Lying makes it all better. Lying is my gift to everyone around me. They never even say thank you.”
― Kathryn Perez, Letters Written in White

“When I met you, I knew I would love you. When I lost you, I knew I hadn’t loved you enough.”
― Kathryn Perez, Letters Written in White

“In the end, we are two people who exchanged our love story for broken souls. I’m no longer his rain. He’s no longer the drought. We’ve become a tsunami, and left in its path of our destruction are two little cups of sunshine striving to keep shining. Ultimately, our children pay the price for our mistakes.”
― Kathryn Perez, Letters Written in White