The Dictionary of Lost Words Quotes

“Words define us, they explain us, and, on occasion, they serve to control or isolate us.”
― Pip Williams, The Dictionary of Lost Words

“I cannot overstate the benefits of a busy day for an anxious mind or a lonely heart.”
― Pip Williams, The Dictionary of Lost Words

“Some words are more than letters on a page, don't you think? They have shape and texture. They are like bullets, full of energy, and when you give one breath you can feel its sharp edge against your lip.”
― Pip Williams, The Dictionary of Lost Words

“A vulgar word, well placed and said with just enough vigour, can express far more than its polite equivalent.”
― Pip Williams, The Dictionary of Lost Words

“...I realized that the words most often used to define us were words that described our function in relation to others. Even the most benign words- maiden, wife, mother - told the world whether we were virgins or not. What was the male equivalent of maiden? I could not think of it. What was the male equivalent of Mrs., of whore, of common scold?... Which words would define me? Which would be used to judge or contain?”
― Pip Williams, The Dictionary of Lost Words

“Words are like stories ... They change as they are passed from mouth to mouth; their meanings stretch or truncate to fit what needs to be said.”
― Pip Williams, The Dictionary of Lost Words

“LOSS
'Sorry for your loss, they say. And I want to know what they mean, because it's not just my boys I've lost. I've lost my motherhood, my chance to be a grandmother. I've lost the easy conversation of neighbours and the comfort of family in my old age. Every day I wake to some new loss that I hadn't thought of before, and I know that soon it will be my mind.'
Vivienne Blackman, 1915”
― Pip Williams, The Dictionary of Lost Words

“I feel like a dandelion just before the wind blows.”
― Pip Williams, The Dictionary of Lost Words

“[Esme] 'And then I was born and then she [her mother Lily] died.'

[Edith 'Ditte' Thompson, her godmother] 'Yes.'

'But when we talk about her, she comes to life.'

'Never forget that Esme. Words are our tools of resurrection.”
― Pip Williams, The Dictionary of Lost Words

“...convention [is] the most subtle but oppressive dictator.

[Edith 'Ditte' Thompson]”
― Pip Williams, The Dictionary of Lost Words

“It’s not about forgiveness, Essymay. We can’t always make the choices we’d like, but we can try to make the best of what we must settle for. Take care not to dwell.”
― Pip Williams, The Dictionary of Lost Words

“Some words are more important than others—I learned this, growing up in the Scriptorium. But it took me a long time to understand why.”
― Pip Williams, The Dictionary of Lost Words

“It struck me that we are never fully at ease when we are aware of another's gaze. Perhaps we are never fully ourselves. In the desire to please or impress, to persuade or dominate, our movements become conscious, our features set.

[Esme Nicholl]”
― Pip Williams, The Dictionary of Lost Words

“I often wondered what kind of slip I would be written on if I was a word. Something too long, certainly. Probably the wrong colour. A scrap of paper that didn't quite fit. I worried that perhaps I would never find my place in the pigeon-holes at all.”
― Pip Williams, The Dictionary of Lost Words

“Me needlework will always be here,” she said. “I see this and I feel…well, I don’t know the word. Like I’ll always be here.” “Permanent,” I said. “And the rest of the time?” “I feel like a dandelion just before the wind blows.”
― Pip Williams, The Dictionary of Lost Words

“But when we talk about her, she comes to life.” “Never forget that, Esme. Words are our tools of resurrection.”
― Pip Williams, The Dictionary of Lost Words

“The past came towards me, and I closed the book.”
― Pip Williams, The Dictionary of Lost Words

“[Esme Nicholl] 'Morbs, Mabel? What does it mean?'

[Mabel O'Shaughnessy] 'It's a sadness that comes and goes... I get the morbs, you get the morbs, even Miss Lizzie 'ere gets the morbs, though she'd never let on. A woman's lot, I reckon.'

'It must derive from morbid,' I said to myself....

'I reckon it derives from grief,' said Mabel. 'From what we've lost and what we've never 'ad and never will. As I said, a woman's lot....”
― Pip Williams, The Dictionary of Lost Words

“He shook his head. ‘I don’t think so. The war has made the present more important than the past, and far more certain than the future. How I feel right now is all I can rely
on. And after all that you’ve told me, I think I love you more.”
― Pip Williams, The Dictionary of Lost Words

“It is context...that gives meaning.

[Harry Nicholl]”
― Pip Williams, The Dictionary of Lost Words

“We can't always make the choices we'd like, but we can try to make the best of what we must settle for.'

[Lizzie Lester]”
― Pip Williams, The Dictionary of Lost Words

“You are correct in your observation that words in common use that are not written down would necessarily be excluded. Your concern that some types of words, or words used by some types of people, will be lost to the future is really quite perceptive.”
― Pip Williams, The Dictionary of Lost Words

“Our thinking was limited by convention (the most subtle but oppressive dictator).”
― Pip Williams, The Dictionary of Lost Words

“You are not the arbiter of knowledge, sir. You are its librarian.’ I pushed Women’s Words across his desk. ‘It is not for you to judge the importance of these words, simply to allow others to do so.”
― Pip Williams, The Dictionary of Lost Words

“The Dictionary is a history book, Esme. If it has taught me anything, it is that the way we conceive of things now will most certainly change.”
― Pip Williams, The Dictionary of Lost Words

“How reassuring it must be to know how you should act: like having a definition of yourself written clearly in black type.”
― Pip Williams, The Dictionary of Lost Words

“Was I better? Before Shropshire I'd felt broken, as though I would fall should the scaffold of my work be removed. I didn't feel that now, but there was a fine crack through the middle of me, and I suspected it might never mend. I remembered Lizzie apologising to Mrs Lloyd the first time she stayed to chat, for the chip in the cup. 'A chip doesn't stop it from holding tea,' Mrs Lloyd had said.”
― Pip Williams, The Dictionary of Lost Words

“A poet, perhaps, could arrange words in a way that creates the itch of fear or the heaviness of dread. They could make an enemy of mud and damp boots and raise your pulse just at the mention of them. A poet might be able to push this word or that to mean something more than what has been ordained by our dictionary men. I am not a poet, my love.”
― Pip Williams, The Dictionary of Lost Words

“I clean, I help with the cooking, I set the fires. Everything I do gets eaten or dirtied or burned—at the end of a day there’s no proof I’ve been here at all.”
― Pip Williams, The Dictionary of Lost Words

“Once the question of women’s political suffrage has been dealt with, less obvious inequalities will need to be exposed. Without realising it, you are already working for this cause. As grandfather said, it will be a long game. Play a position you are good at, and let others play theirs.”
― Pip Williams, The Dictionary of Lost Words