The Double Comfort Safari Club Quotes

“Be content with who you are and where you are, and do whatever you can do to bring to others such contentment, and joy, and understanding that you have managed to find yourself.”
― Alexander McCall Smith, The Double Comfort Safari Club

“(Mma Ramotswe thinking about what her father taught her…)

“Having the right approach to life was a great gift in this life….Do not complain about your life. Do not blame others for things that you have brought upon yourself. Be content with who you are and where you are, and do whatever you can do to bring to others such contentment, and joy, and understanding that you have managed to find yourself…You can do that in the company of an old friend—you can close your eyes and think of the land that gave you life and breath, and of all the reasons why you are glad that you are there, with the people you know, with the people you love.”
― Alexander McCall Smith, The Double Comfort Safari Club

“...this woman, moved by some private sorrow as much as the words being spoken, cried almost silently, unobserved by others, apart from Mma Ramotswe, who stretched out her hand and laid it on her shoulder. Do not cry, Mma, she began to whisper, but changed her words even as she uttered them, and said quietly, Yes, you can cry, Mma. We should not tell people not to weep - we do it because of our sympathy for them - but we should really tell them that their tears are justified and entirely right.”
― Alexander McCall Smith, The Double Comfort Safari Club

“I think that the measure of whether a life has been a good one is how much love there has been in that life--love both given and received.”
― Alexander McCall Smith, The Double Comfort Safari Club

“The realisation of our mortality came slowly, in dribs and drabs, until we bleakly acknowledged that everything was on loan to us for a short time—the world, our possessions, the people we knew and loved. But we could not spend our time dwelling on our mortality; we still had to behave as if the worst would not happen, for otherwise we would not do very much, we would be defeated and give up.”
― Alexander McCall Smith, The Double Comfort Safari Club

“Everything, all those great things, had happened so far away--or so it seemed to [Mma Ramotswe] at the time. The world was made to sound as if it belonged to other people--to those who lived in distant countries that were so different from Botswana; that was before people had learned to assert that the world was theirs too, that what happened in Botswana was every bit as important, and valuable, as what happened anywhere else.”
― Alexander McCall Smith, The Double Comfort Safari Club

“Do not complain about your life. Do not blame others for things that you have brought upon yourself. Be content with who you are and where you are, and do whatever you can do to bring to others such contentment, and joy, and understanding that you have managed to find yourself.”
― Alexander McCall Smith, The Double Comfort Safari Club

“Yes, wisdom: that was something that came to everybody, although it came in varying quantities and at different times.”
― Alexander McCall Smith, The Double Comfort Safari Club

“That was the way the world was; it was composed of a few almost perfect people (ourselves); then there were a good many people who generally did their best but were not all that perfect (our friends and colleagues); and finally, there were a few rather nasty ones (our enemies and opponents).”
― Alexander McCall Smith, The Double Comfort Safari Club

“And Mr. J.L.B. Matekoni was at that moment on the verge of an exceptionally important thought, even though its final shape had yet to reveal itself. How much easier it was for Mma Ramotswe—she put things so well, so succinctly, so profoundly, and appeared to do this with such little effort. It was very different if one was a mechanic, and therefore not used to telling people—in the nicest possible way, of course—how to run their lives. Then one had to think quite hard to find just the right words that would make people sit up and say, “But that is very true, Rra!” Or, especially if you were Mma Ramotswe, “But surely that is well known!”
― Alexander McCall Smith, The Double Comfort Safari Club

“She was of traditional build herself, but her figure was largely concealed by the folds of a generously cut shift dress made out of a flecked green fabric. It was like a tent, thought Mma Ramotswe--a camouflage tent of the sort that the Botswana Defence Force might use. But I do not sit in judgement on the dresses of others, she told herself, and a tent was a practical enough garment, if that is what one felt comfortable in.”
― Alexander McCall Smith, The Double Comfort Safari Club

“suggestion”
― Alexander McCall Smith, The Double Comfort Safari Club

“It was not really like a person moving, thought Mma Ramotswe; it was more a geological movement,”
― Alexander McCall Smith, The Double Comfort Safari Club

“She used the expression that the Batswana preferred: to become late. There was human sympathy here; to be dead is to be nothing, to be finished. The expression is far too final, too disruptive of the bonds that bind us to one another, bonds that survive the demise of one person. A late father is still your father, even though he is not there; a dead father sounds as if he has nothing further to do--he is finished.”
― Alexander McCall Smith, The Double Comfort Safari Club

“Yes," she agreed, "there are times when I am unhappy and times when I am happy. There are more happy times than unhappy ones, I think.”
― Alexander McCall Smith, The Double Comfort Safari Club

“The world was an imperfect place--as the events of the last few days had demonstrated--but within that vale of tears there were many sites and times of quietude and contentment, and this place and this moment on the veranda was one such.”
― Alexander McCall Smith, The Double Comfort Safari Club

“But some of us cannot see love, she said to herself, even when it is there, right before us, asking us to invite it in.”
― Alexander McCall Smith, The Double Comfort Safari Club

“Mma Ramotswe had heard of the operation’s success. She too had been going over various possibilities; in particular she had been thinking of the threat posed by the aunt. Mma Ramotswe had gone out of her way to reassure her, but when the other woman had simply brushed her off she realised that this was one of those people with whom there simply could be no dealing. They were few and far between, thankfully, but when you encountered one of them it was best just to recognise what you were up against, rather than to hope for some miraculous change of mind, some Road to Damascus improvement.”
― Alexander McCall Smith, The Double Comfort Safari Club

“He had very few criticisms to make of Precious Ramotswe, his wife and founder of the No. 1 Ladies’ Detective Agency, but if one were to make a list of her faults—which would be a minuscule document, barely visible, indeed, to the naked eye—one would perhaps have to include a tendency (only a slight tendency, of course) to claim that things that she happened to believe were well known.”
― Alexander McCall Smith, The Double Comfort Safari Club

“YOU DO NOT CHANGE PEOPLE BY SHOUTING AT THEM”
― Alexander McCall Smith, The Double Comfort Safari Club

“Sometimes wickedness prevails.”
― Alexander McCall Smith, The Double Comfort Safari Club

“Never be put off by rudeness, Mma,” she whispered. “It is the rude person who is rude, not you.”
― Alexander McCall Smith, The Double Comfort Safari Club

“Yet she was determined that when she married she would not forget who she was and who her people were. She would not affect any airs.”
― Alexander McCall Smith, The Double Comfort Safari Club

“And she began to weep, dropping her head onto her forearms and rocking backwards and forwards in that curious motion that is perhaps a subconscious attempt to mimic the movement that brings comfort to a tiny baby. That we should in moments of sorrow seek to return to a time when the harshness of the world could be forfended by the simple reassurances of our parents; that we should do that …”
― Alexander McCall Smith, The Double Comfort Safari Club

“He could not imagine being interested in that way in somebody like Mma Mateleke; how would one ever get to plant a kiss on such a person if she was always talking? It would be difficult to get one’s lips into contact with a mouth that was always opening and shutting to form words; that would surely be very distracting for a man, he thought, and might even discourage him to the point of disinclination, if that was the right word.”
― Alexander McCall Smith, The Double Comfort Safari Club

“Perhaps her shoes would say something; Mma Makutsi had told her once, jokingly— and she must have been joking— told her that her shoes occasionally gave her advice. Well, perhaps they could tell her not to be so bossy. They must have witnessed it after all— shoes see everything; there are no secrets we can keep from our shoes.”
― Alexander McCall Smith, The Double Comfort Safari Club