“Simply stated, life’s greatest paradox can be summed up in the words, True strength is found in humility. The apostle Paul tells us as much in 2 Corinthians 12 when he reveals a struggle in his own life with what he calls “a thorn in the flesh.” He asks God to remove the pain and the suffering of this affliction. God’s response is no, and instead He tells Paul: “My grace is sufficient for you, for power is perfected in weakness.”
― The True Measure of a Man, How Perceptions of Success, Achievement & Recognition Fail Men in Difficult Times
― The True Measure of a Man, How Perceptions of Success, Achievement & Recognition Fail Men in Difficult Times
“When J. R. R. Tolkien’s Lord of the Rings trilogy was published in the 1950s, a woman named Rhona Beare wrote Tolkien and asked him about the chapter in which the Ring of Power is destroyed in the fires of Mount Doom. When the ring is melted, the Dark Lord’s entire power collapses and melts away with it. She found it inexplicable that this unassailable, overwhelming power would be wiped out by the erasure of such a little object. Tolkien replied that at the heart of the plot was the Dark Lord’s effort to magnify and maximize his power by placing so much of it in the ring. He wrote: “The Ring of Sauron is only one of the various mythical treatments of the placing of one’s life, or power, in some external object, which is thus exposed to capture or destruction with disastrous results to oneself.”
― Walking with God through Pain and Suffering
― Walking with God through Pain and Suffering
“Paul said to his Ephesian readers, discouraged because of his imprisonment, “My suffering is for your glory.” Why? Because that is how it works. Suffering and glory are closely linked. Suffering glorifies God to the universe and eventually even achieves a glory for us. And do you know why suffering and glory are so tied to each other? It is because of Jesus. Philippians 2 tells us Jesus laid aside his glory. Why? Charles Wesley’s famous Christmas carol tells you. Mild he lays his glory by; born that men no more may die; Born to raise the sons of earth. Born to give them second birth. Jesus lost all his glory so that we could be clothed in it. He was shut out so we could get access. He was bound, nailed, so that we could be free. He was cast out so we could approach. And Jesus took away the only kind of suffering that can really destroy you: that is being cast away from God. He took that so that now all suffering that comes into your life will only make you great. A lump of coal under pressure becomes a diamond. And the suffering of a person in Christ only turns you into somebody gorgeous. Jesus Christ suffered, not so that we would never suffer but so that when we suffer we would be like him. His suffering led to glory. And you can see it in Paul. Paul is happy to be in prison because “my sufferings are for your glory,” he says. He is like Jesus now. Because that is how Jesus did it. And if you know that that glory is coming, you can handle suffering, too.”
― Walking with God through Pain and Suffering
― Walking with God through Pain and Suffering
“Humility helps you to recognize that all you are and all you have is a gift from God and a result of other people contributing to your life.”
― The True Measure of a Man, How Perceptions of Success, Achievement & Recognition Fail Men in Difficult Times
― The True Measure of a Man, How Perceptions of Success, Achievement & Recognition Fail Men in Difficult Times
“But at the heart of character is the ability to restrain our desires. As a man grows in character, he builds the muscles of self-restraint.”
― The True Measure of a Man, How Perceptions of Success, Achievement & Recognition Fail Men in Difficult Times
― The True Measure of a Man, How Perceptions of Success, Achievement & Recognition Fail Men in Difficult Times
NetGalley Addicts Support Group
— 3107 members
— last activity Feb 12, 2026 01:39PM
Warning: If you're not already a NetGalley addict, joining this group will likely turn you into one. Proceed with caution! Do you ever catch yourself ...more
Dan’s 2025 Year in Books
Take a look at Dan’s Year in Books, including some fun facts about their reading.
More friends…
Favorite Genres
Polls voted on by Dan
Lists liked by Dan




























































