“If you believe that you can use sex to shore up your fragile self-esteem by stealing someone else's, we feel sorry for you, because this will never work to build a solid sense of self worth, and you will have to go on stealing more and more and never getting fulfilled.”
― The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities
― The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities
“Then I realized that we all think we might be terrible people. But we only reveal this before we ask someone to love us. It is a kind of undressing.”
― The First Bad Man
― The First Bad Man
“Once you have a handle on loving yourself, you can practice sharing that love with others. You’ve probably been taught to reserve the language of love for when you’re feeling overwhelmingly tender and passionate, and only for those who have made huge commitments to you. We recommend instead learning to recognize and acknowledge all the sweet feelings that make life worthwhile even when they don’t knock you over—and, moreover, learning to communicate those feelings to the people who inspire them.”
― The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities
― The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities
“Sometimes I looked at her sleeping face, the living flesh of it, and was overwhelmed by how precarious it was to love a living thing. She could die simply from lack of water. It hardly seemed safer than falling in love with a plant.”
― The First Bad Man
― The First Bad Man
“Fighting is the ultimate act of intimacy.
(...) Intimacy is based on shared vulnerability.”
― The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities
(...) Intimacy is based on shared vulnerability.”
― The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities
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