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PDA: love it or hate it?

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message 1: by smetchie (new)

smetchie | 5731 comments I'm sort of on the fence. I saw a couple kids dry humping against the refrigerator case @ the grocery store this afternoon. It made me a little uncomfortable. But it also made me a little nostalgic.


message 2: by [deleted user] (new)

It totally depends on who/where/what. I mean, hand-holding is totally cool. Lap-sitting makes me uncomfortable with certain people, but not with others. A hug and a peck while standing in line at a grocery store is fine. "Making out" in public is for teenagers, though. After that it's pretty tacky. But, whatever.


message 3: by [deleted user] (new)

My two friends, though, are so anti-PDA that one is considering omitting the kiss at her wedding ceremony and the other is encouraging her to drop it as well. I think that's a little bananas. If you're that uncomfortable with physical affection in others, that could signal something weird about you. Maybe.

Then we talked about another sorta friend of ours who always sits on her boyfriend's lap and one of them said, "That's why we'll never be close."


message 4: by smetchie (new)

smetchie | 5731 comments The humpers were teenagers. So is it ok? Is making out in public for teenagers because they have nowhere else to go?


message 5: by [deleted user] (new)

It totally depends on who/what/where.

The grocery store is a bit much.


message 6: by Tom (new)

Tom Foolery (tomfoolery) Just stop and watch. If they say anything to you, you tell 'em "hey, if you're gonna put on a free show, i'm gonna watch."


The Crimson Fucker (tcf123) | -3 comments Hahaha, I love giving shows! The things I've done in taxis, movie theathers, trains, concerts ,parks and rooftops, hell do I need to keep going cuz trust me I can!... I'm pretty sure could have get me arrested. Anywhere... and it would have been worthy every single time... I had no problems with ermmm public affection


message 8: by Rusty (new)

Rusty (rustyshackleford) | 2198 comments Please see my comment about people who talk a lot about how much they're getting.


The Crimson Fucker (tcf123) | -3 comments I did... also public bathrooms, beaches, rivers, buses, balconys, restaurants, bars, bus stops, train stops, hotel windows, fuck I think that's about it! Wait boats! Ahhaah that was nice!


message 10: by Rusty (new)

Rusty (rustyshackleford) | 2198 comments Was Morgan Fairchild one of your conquests?


The Crimson Fucker (tcf123) | -3 comments Who the fuck is that?


message 12: by smetchie (new)

smetchie | 5731 comments I don't get it.


message 13: by Rusty (new)

Rusty (rustyshackleford) | 2198 comments I'm not spending any more time looking for videos on Youtube.

Jon Lovitz, Tommy Flanagan, SNL, pathological liar, Morgan Fairchild.


message 14: by smetchie (last edited Mar 16, 2010 04:20AM) (new)

smetchie | 5731 comments Oh yeah. That's right.


I just don't understand how you aren't 67.


message 15: by smetchie (new)

smetchie | 5731 comments hah! do they still make that?


message 16: by smetchie (new)

smetchie | 5731 comments Unfortunately, me too.


message 17: by Harry (new)

Harry  (harry_harry) My nose hairs are burning just thinking about it.


Servius  Heiner What have you girls been sniffing.


message 19: by [deleted user] (new)

These days it's all about Axe. Last year a kid sprayed some Axe Body Spray in the library and I suffered for days.


message 20: by Harry (new)

Harry  (harry_harry) Did you just call me a girl SSH?


message 21: by Harry (new)

Harry  (harry_harry) As for the Drakar, I was more of a Polo guy. I picture SSH as a Brut by Fabergé kind of guy.


Servius  Heiner Harry wrote: "Did you just call me a girl SSH?"

yes, I believe I did.


I am actually more of the bathing sort of guy, so you know, I don't require smelly stuff to mist about my body...

As to the PDA: Within reason is fine, there are limits, a handshake is the preferred mechanism of PDA if you have known the other party for a considerable amount of time... if you are just some over sexed teenie bopper then no, go sodomize one another in some dark seedy alley way where there is a high chance you will be molested in some other fashion by some other seedy character. if you are an adult then you have no business being all touchy feely with anyone- grow up.


message 23: by Harry (new)

Harry  (harry_harry) Servius Sextus Heiner wrote:
I am actually more of the bathing sort of guy, "


So gay.


Servius  Heiner Says the pussy, with a penis.


message 25: by Harry (new)

Harry  (harry_harry) I know you are just dying to ask me out on a date. If Alaska wasn't so far away I might even throw you a bone.


message 26: by [deleted user] (new)

Haha!

I ♥ Harry.


message 27: by smetchie (new)

smetchie | 5731 comments I just caught 2 co-workers smooching it up in the break-room. Ah spring.


message 28: by Sally (new)

Sally (mrsnolte) | 0 comments Are they teenagers?


message 29: by smetchie (new)

smetchie | 5731 comments Nope. She is my age with a daughter in college and a son in middle school. The guy lives with his Baby Mama so they aren't supposed to be smooching!

But they weren't going at it like the kids at the grocery store the other day. That was almost embarrassing!


message 30: by [deleted user] (new)

What did they do/say when you walked in?


message 31: by smetchie (new)

smetchie | 5731 comments I came in at the end. She walked past me real fast without making eye contact, even though I know her pretty well. He tried to give me a nonchalant "hey honey. How you doin?" Which was annoying because he does NOT call me "honey".


Servius  Heiner the break room pimp~!


I'm curious, because I can't think f a single guy willing to say anything remotely sexist like that at work. Either you really caught him off guard or... I don't even know but you should have jumped in his shit to see what his reaction was. Your friend might have ambushed him, and he was still dazed. It happens and not just in lame as porn mag either.


message 33: by [deleted user] (new)

He probably felt like a fool for being caught AND calling you honey. Calling you honey was probably a misguided impulse to butter you up so you don't rat on him.


message 34: by Rusty (new)

Rusty (rustyshackleford) | 2198 comments You're probably right, honey.


message 35: by [deleted user] (new)

Thanks, sugar.


message 36: by smetchie (new)

smetchie | 5731 comments Servius Sextus Heiner wrote: "the break room pimp~!


I'm curious, because I can't think f a single guy willing to say anything remotely sexist like that at work. Either you really caught him off guard or... I don't even know ..."


Yeah come to think of it no one calls me anything like "honey" at work. I don't have the most PC work environment either. There are all kinds of really inappropriate things said.

Sarah:"probably a misguided impulse to butter you up"
I'm in awe of you right now. That's exactly what it was but I don't think I could have put it so concisely.


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