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Vagabond Treehouse ~ [Fall 2025: World of Chains #1-3 (Wayward Bard) | The Perfect Run 1-3 (alternating)]

Ditto... Women deserve better! Still tempted to go full on monster... Something with a bit of physical power at least!

Haha that last one is definitely tough! But yeah I need to try focusing on the good things :)
Narilka wrote: "I've been doing a bunch of de-cluttering. It feels good even if it doesn't look like I've accomplished much yet. You'll get there :)"
Thanks for the encouragement! I know it always feels nice getting stuff done

And your sacrifice is very much appreciat..."
Looked at everyone's reviews for that... Almost sad I missed out on that debacle :D


I'm half way through Ch 9 and it made me sad. (view spoiler)
Reading brings stuff out sometimes... can be cathartic or triggering, depending...
Choko has plenty of life experiences that get referenced sometimes...
I mention stuff sometimes, especially when I get morbid about my mom (3 more years and I'll be older than she was when she passed 15 years ago... few days before she would have turned 40 and I turned 22)...
Choko has plenty of life experiences that get referenced sometimes...
I mention stuff sometimes, especially when I get morbid about my mom (3 more years and I'll be older than she was when she passed 15 years ago... few days before she would have turned 40 and I turned 22)...

Choko has plenty of life experiences that get referenced sometimes...
I mention stuff sometimes, especially when..."
It can be a beautiful thing, esp when it helps you process and release something that happened.

Yeah, she's one of the strongest people I know... Had I gone through even half of what she did, I would have just given up honestly.
The Pol Pot regime and the genocide by the Khmers rouges isn't a very well known part of history, weirdly (or not so weirdly depending on how cynical you are :p). I was amazed at the sheer number of tourists going to Cambodia to see the temples of Angkor (Angkor Vat being the most famous) and realizing the country has a bloodier history than they thought.

Stories have so much power that it scares me sometimes. I read/watch very emotionally charged stories once in a while to help me process 'cause I can't seem to let go of the tight leash I have on my emotions on my own.
Narilka wrote: "Timelord Iain wrote: "Reading brings stuff out sometimes... can be cathartic or triggering, depending...
Choko has plenty of life experiences that get referenced sometimes...
I mention stuff some..."
For sure... I felt like a bit of a sociopath for awhile, failing to process several family deaths when I was a kid through college... but I cried it out, a decade later, with the right book :D ... it's all good / healing...
Choko has plenty of life experiences that get referenced sometimes...
I mention stuff some..."
For sure... I felt like a bit of a sociopath for awhile, failing to process several family deaths when I was a kid through college... but I cried it out, a decade later, with the right book :D ... it's all good / healing...

Virginie, I am so sorry your family has gone through all this! I remember thinking how horrible Pol Pot must have been, when China and Vietnam had to intervene and get rid of him themselves... Another "mistake" the US government did at the time, supporting him... I will never forget one of his sayings, which sounds completely insane today "To spare you is no profit, to destroy you is no loss" ... He was the prototype for an ideological dictator!

Love how supportive this group is, sometimes it can really feel like group therapy :)

I have watched a couple mini documentaries on the Pol Pot years (less than an hour each) and if they are anything close to reality, I would not have survived. Nor do I want to know just how bad the reality was.
That said, I'd love to visit Cambodia and see Angkor Wat and other ancient sites now that the country is turning around. No idea if the opportunity will present itself yet though as I'm not actively working to make this happen due to other obligations :)

To get philosophical... is that not what we are? The stories that we tell ourselves? ;) The ability of a well told story to move us in almost magical ways never ceases to amaze and delight. It's part of why I love books so much.
Choko wrote: Books are very cathartic! They honestly keep me surviving through the rough days, but having a great group of people to discuss them and the feelings they provoke, is priceless! You have no idea how many times having been really down in Real Life, I dragged myself back here, and just reading and being..."
Big virtual hugs Choko :) We've all been there. We'll all be there again. This is my favorite group on the internet hands down.

This group is my favorite place on the internet <3

I am sorry to hear you all went through so much bad stuff in your lives. Makes me appreciate how my life is basically a smooth sail compared to many people. First world problems and all. Even as a woman, I never had those experiences, never really felt looked down at because I am a woman. But maybe you don't get those experiences being shut at home reading.
I feel like books made me meet so many people. I am a big introvert who was actually mostly happy during COVID at home. I have my family and my husband but no other friends to speak of. I think books can really help you understand others and be empathetic. And I have no clue where I am going with this as it's 6:30 in the morning and cat woke me up vomiting at 5:30 so I am too sleepy to think.



I'm also a fellow introvert! Other than my brother I see once a week, I basically have one friend, and he doesn't live in the same city :p
Also... You're a manga reader, yay! I watched a lot more anime than read manga, but I've read a LOT of manwhas though


I used to watch A LOT of anime, now not so much... Most of my free time is taken up by books and crafts which I can't do while reading subtitles lol

Basically what Choko said. There's no pressure at all to join whatever the book is. Just chat any time.

Looking forward to adding some more books to my TBR. It's not like I don't already have so many books there I would need 10 lifetime's to read them all 🙃

Putting in well-wishes for @Emily too--mashed potato brains! Such a great description. I'm also very familiar with the momentum issues dealing with packaging returns... then actually getting them sent...
Really loving the DCC notes @Virginie & Narilka!! Dittoing Emily--getting really excited for the next one.
I also love the Anime comparison--and not just for selective mental editing--one of my friends mostly only reads manga & fanfiction, because he feels like mainstream fiction just isn't as inventive... LitRPGs like DCC have the same level of insane creativity that breaks the box of mainstream publishing... and often make me think of Anime in that regard... love that this led to more conversation into manga & anime... I'm like Emily, I used to read/watch more than I do now, but I'm trying to get back into it some... I'm slower though, 'cuz I insist on reading in Japanese and not translation, and I have trouble processing text with pictures... I just want more text...
And OMG Virginie that clown story!!! And wow family history! And personal history! Thank you for sharing--dittoing everyone in admiration for your mother and family. I love that this group is a safe place for us to share experiences, even painful ones, and I feel like I grow to a better person from listening to y'all.
It's been a real slumpy week for me... lots of excess TV watching, less reading... good thing my BRs have been relatively caught up and light this week, or I'd be way behind... got alot coming up soon, tho... we'll see what happens...
This happens a bit each year, when it gets warmer out...
This happens a bit each year, when it gets warmer out...


It took me two weeks to get through Game of Scones. You're doing great :)
I've gotta constantly be making progress, because I'm signed up for like 40 BRs/month (my own fault)
I make do, and ride my whims if I have to, plans be damned... just lingering in the back of my mind...
This is also a hectic work week this week... I have to work a 6th day in a row and come in at midnight instead of 4am on Tuesday, for the yearly inventory audit... off Wednesday/Thursday instead of Tuesday/Wednesday... also be a walking-heavy day while still dealing with lingering occasional foot discomfort...
I make do, and ride my whims if I have to, plans be damned... just lingering in the back of my mind...
This is also a hectic work week this week... I have to work a 6th day in a row and come in at midnight instead of 4am on Tuesday, for the yearly inventory audit... off Wednesday/Thursday instead of Tuesday/Wednesday... also be a walking-heavy day while still dealing with lingering occasional foot discomfort...


I make do, and ride my whims if I have to, plans be damned... just lingering in the back of my ..."
It will pass soon enough. Take care of yourself and try not to stress.

I make do, and ride my whims if I have to, plans be damned... just lingering in the back of my ..."
Oh yikes, six day workweek with messy hours... I feel like mentally patting you on the shoulder and saying "ganbatte!" which is like "good luck" and "you can do it" in Japanese but actually means "work harder." Just keep swimming, just keep swimming...
Narilka wrote: "How do you know you're really into your book? You start yelling "Dammit Donut!" when any of your cats make a mess or are annoying lol My husband has started giving me the side eye."
LOLOLOL


Oh no... Take good care of yourself, and especially of your foot, otherwise a certain AI is going to be mad!

I'm saying "New achievement! You have done something incredibly stupid! Are you sure you're an adult?" every time I'm being an idiot (which happens a lot more than I'd like to admit)

hehehehe good one :)

I make do, and ride my whims if I have to, plans be damned... just lingering in the back of my ..."
Yeah that's always the worst.. I usually have to work 10 days straight and then be off for 4 days so that it's "not OT" but its certainly rough. Hope your foot keeps getting better!
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Yeah (view spoiler)[Clowns are creepy! Good for little Virginie for sticking up for herself when dad was a bit of a jerk to not recognize your distress and "volunteer" you anyway.
Young me would definitely have chosen something other than human, probably in the elven/fae realm. Adult me would also pick non-human though it would be a different as I'd want to see what all the options are. I'd stay humanoid though. Not sure I'd want to figure out tentacles or something. I like Carl's choice a lot.
I hope we get to meet back up with the group of geriatrics and see what other race/class combos people picked.
I stopped listening this morning before right right at the start of Ch 7. Looks like it may be a boss fight incoming. Or an arena style fight? While I get Mordecai's idea to stay away, that lady at level 60 could be a good ally too especially since it seems everyone's boxed in by the circus right now. (hide spoiler)]