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Sorry that you had a frustrating day yesterday Alicia, hope daughter recovers well. Shame that you had a wasted visit and used up energy needlessly. Hope you will get a new assistant. Nice to hear from you again Janet. Glad you managed yoga.

My assistant put back together an enameled clay mask my husband dropped accidentally - I don't have that kind of fine motor control any more - she just did it. And a host of little chores. And she's finding me a replacement. Plus she'll be available part of the time.
I'm a pig in mud!

I really miss being able to do yoga! Enjoy!

We sort of drifted into this. Indeed I realised the only TV I was watching was when I sat and watched Last of the Summer Wine with my mother
After she died I realised I'd left a computer tower in front of the TV for three weeks and nobody had noticed, and we haven't had a TV or a licence for twenty years

I wonder if memories are selective, in that I tend to be able to remember what coffee people drink, black, white, with or without sugar etc, from times when I make the coffee after church services (or in one of our more civilised services, before :-) )

I did drinks for so many meetings that I did remember what most of them drank, and to make sure they didn't get the wrong cups, I made sure that they were all slightly different cups so I could tell them apart without labels! I remember chuckling at one colleague who just made tea white none or coffee white none for everyone, and if you wanted sugar, had to put your own in!

They've turned out rather well, if I do say so.
Hope your friend is okay with a later child, Desley. It is definitely harder in some ways.

Well, she started earlier with her others, her oldest is just about to start college and think the other is at high school.

My next younger sister got married a few months before we did - but came back from the honeymoon expecting twins! We waited 11 years. The cousins are more like aunts and uncles.
But the children of my YOUNGER sisters are very close in age to mine - they got married later, but had children more quickly.
I've known people like your friend who have late children - have one in my novels (it's going to be a shocker). Makes relationships interesting.



I've figured out, when I woke up grumpy from yet another nap, that I can listen to a bit of music, watch a piece of a Sarah Millican comedy show, and come back to a more centered view of life.
Somehow I had been shorting myself - but these things are nice as secondary painkillers.
I'm losing a trained (she has been wonderful at following instructions to do what we need) assistant - and hope the next one is as nice as her predecessors. I've been exceedingly lucky on my helpers, and so far in Davis, each has found me her successor. But I miss them a lot when they leave after a year or so, finishing college, moving on to their more adult lives.

Good luck for your new assistant Alicia, shame that you only get them for a year or so.

The current assistant was a junior when I got her (3rd year college here), so I was supposed to get two years - but then she figured out she could save a lot of money by taking some extra classes and graduating a year early! I don't begrudge her that - she was paying for a lot, if not all, of it herself - but it dumps her into the 'I need a real full-time job' that much sooner, so she needs far more hours than I could possibly use her.
It's fine - I'm happy for HER - but I'll miss her. It's interesting when your assistant is getting a degree in HISTORY, and you've LIVED through some of the periods she's studying! There are over 50 years between us - I'm surprised it doesn't make me feel horribly older.
She has skills! Including sewing! And lovely handwriting. Told her she can use me as a reference as long as she needs - already did the first one for the job she starts next Monday.


Shame your assistant hasn't stayed as long as you hoped Alicia, she does sound good. Sounds worse than here then Jim!

A branch blew off and blocked the lane so I had to drag it home this morning with the quad bike, I'll get it sawn up later :-)
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Saw my doctor by video visit - much easier.
New assistant provided by the old one - seems lovely. We've emailed and texted. Our facility requires people to fill out forms, get fingerprinted, and be up to date with vaccines because we're all older, and the state of California has requirements.
It's fun each time to see the new person's new skills. This one will be a sophomore (2nd year college student here) - may last a couple of years if it works out.
I've enjoyed every one - keep up connections.

Wow, that's a bit more than a 'branch' Jim!. Glad you got a video doctor appointment, as long as it was enough to get what you needed. Glad your potential new assistant seems lovely, hope all the paperwork goes smoothly.

But I'm happy without the high winds - this area gets some days during the year with very high winds, and it numbs my brain, because I can't get away from the sound.

Yes, been classed as a storm.



I'm impressed stuff is only shut till 8am on a Bank Hol Jim, thought they were open Sunday hours. Sorry it messed your day up, but don't worry, last of the year!


Weather yesterday was just drear, sometimes it wasn't raining, you just walked through a sheet of fine water

She's in New York state, and I'm in California, so I can't just up and go. It is quite terrifying to have someone you know on the other end of the internet is struggling to breathe and can't find a position in which she doesn't cough.
Thank goodness for steroids and antibiotics. A couple hours later caught her again, and it was getting a bit easier.
I expect it should get better now.

Oh no Alicia, must be a worry when you are so far away. Hope she gets better soon and doesn't have any long lasting effects.

She is feeling a bit better, but worried it's the steroids (which are temporary), and not the antibiotics (which she still doesn't know if they are the right ones, since the steroids help) doing the improvement. I hope her doctors catch anything that isn't right when the steroid part of the treatment is over. I have no experience with pneumonia. Thanks for asking.


Then went to have a look round Swarthmoor Hall which is well worth a look, not a grand building but interesting
https://www.swarthmoorhall.co.uk/
They have a good little café, with 'Black Olive and Sundried Tomato scones.'
But I had carrot cake :-)

Hope your daughter's improving Alicia.

Glad you had a nice time with your daughter Jim, even if you couldn't go where you planned. I'd have gone with carrot cake over that savoury scone too!

Just sitting watching something like a young deer can be fascinating

Thanks, Desley. Our youngest daughter, Rebecca, finally saw turnaround from the antibiotics and steroids - and is planning to go to work on Monday.
God is good, I'm exhausted from being point person, and I don't care - they're both going to be okay.

Glad that it was second time lucky for hubby's procedure Alicia, and glad that daughter is feeling better. Hopefully you can have a break now.

We will both spend a lot of today asleep. I can't really do what I've been doing, and he had some problems, very little sleep, and wasn't allowed to sit up or roll over for a very long time. He just walked in, needs food - and will crash.
All minor, compared with the procedure having been actually better than planned, and not having to do it again. He's too tired to say whether he can tell the blood flow is better yet, but I think it's going to be, since they cleaned out the arteries and stented them so they stay open. Boggles the mind: those arteries have been closed for almost 26 years!


He seems in fine fettle today, slept through without getting up once after I slathered Aspercreme (painkilling stuff) on his back and massaged it in (he had to lie on his back for a very long time), so is much more himself, and I woke to him cooking himself a very big breakfast. So good to have that whole thing behind us.
Daughter's pneumonia seems under control - she's playing Dungeons and Dragons with friends all today, and going back to work tomorrow! Modern medicine for the win in some things.
Hope you don't have anything major, Desley. I recommend extra rest.

Glad hubby seems in fine fettle after his procedure and that daughter feels up to going back to work Alicia.

Housekeeping crew broke (and didn't mention!) a ceramic toothbrush holder which was a mate to my soap holder, both with little embedded pieces of colored glass - I still miss it, ten years later, because a dear friend gave me the pair.



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Normal gym class this week so my shoulder is fine! I managed yoga on Monday without too much bother from the aching arm.
My brother & SIL have been at their caravan this last fortnight. He is coming over tomorrow and hopefully bringing the bag of mum's paintings. I had been searching for them and mentioned it to my SIL and she said oh i think we have them!
I swapped electricity suppliers and am wondering whether to try their offer of using at off peak times/not using at peak times.
I got used to not watching much TV whilst mum was ill, and haven't bothered much since - whenever I look there doesn't seem to be much that I want to watch.
Next weekend I can go to the Blues Festival or a Canal Festival or stay at home and do some sorting. Can't decide.