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Jun 16, 2024 01:07PM

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Had a video visit with a doctor today - didn't have to move heaven and earth to get to Sacramento, have a 15 minute visit, and get home. I've been discharged, so it's "nothing we can think to do" but I'm more or less coping.

Sorry that they can't think of anything more for you Alicia, but glad you are more or less coping, and checks without leaving your house are nice (though sometimes I'd prefer face to face with my rheumatology, trying to describe things like swelling isn't always easy)


Work sounds stressful right now - hope it settles down. Having to chase people to get information is unprofessional - they should hand it over if it's part of their job without having to be nagged!

Finally got probate through on Mum's estate but it's left me with loads of crap to do which is a pain.

I'm not sleeping well either but it's probably stress! Father in law's estate papers are now off to the Court of Session for confirmation (that's what probate is called in Scotland) so that's nearing completion. Then the house will need to be sold although a lot of clearing has now been done. My mother is hugely improved so now she'll be lined up for the valve replacement that she was due to have five days after she had the stroke... And we're also waiting for a date for husband's surgery. I'm fine (!) but clearly have had such a drastic haircut today that even the engineers working on rebuilding the storm damage at the harbour noticed!!
Today was the first warm day we've had this year - sunrise 4.23 this morning (I saw it) and sunset will be 22.02 (I'll be asleep by then!)

Please accept my condolences at this very difficult time for you and your family.
May your memories be a comfort.

I've always worked with people (mainly men) I've had to nag for information Alicia, so it's normal to me! Plus he is only covering, it isn't his usual job, and at least today he has e-mailed things rather than ring me. Sorry that things still aren't sorted with your mum's affairs MT. Janet, I'm so sorry to hear that, hope you are OK x Sounds very hectic R, no wonder you aren't sleeping well!

I'm not sleeping well either but it's probably stress! Father in law's estate papers are now off to the Court of Session for confirmation (that's ..."
We've just had probate granted so now it's all hands to the pump to pay the bequests and clear the house.

A sad indictment, but if you know that's true, you don't wait around for people to provide you with information - you nag it out of them. Perfect revenge! I hope it gives you some internal satisfaction. And yes, I have some experience with the problem.




Yes, it was a good day Alicia

It's a nightmare for a lot of people. A friend of mine has just finished the process.





Hope you get your foot sorted out soon






They (and you) do good work.
All my kids have rescue cats.

Well, this is just them letting stallholders have a stall, not sure if the table fee went to the charity or the venue, though I did take some cat food mine don't like for them.



If you say it hurts, they should pursue it until they figure out why, and FIX it.
Hoping your elections reduce the stress.



It is a bit worrying that you've got a bigger workload coming down the track towards you

It is Jim, there is one day where out of the 4 of us, there is only me in work, really not looking forward to that. I also feel bad making manager do some of the work, I try and steer her to the things that I either can't do, or could do, but it would take a while for me to work out, and we might not have the time for that.

Here the management fills in if there are problems getting worker bees - not common, but they do it - there's no one to pass the buck to.

That's sensible, even the manager should be happy with it because they're not being dumped with stuff, just given the stuff that they are needed for


Yeah, and one of the good things is that we work well together and if you get fed up of the task allocated, it's OK to say so and ask to swap, or if you aren't up for a certain task, it's also OK to say so and you aren't forced to do things, I'm not really used to that.
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