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2020 Challenge - Regular
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02 - A book by a trans or nonbinary author

This looks up my alley! I can't find anything saying she identifies as genderqueer though-- just as queer more generally, so I'm not sure if it would tick this challenges box... would love to be proven wrong though, as this seems like my best bet of all I've found books wise.


I'm currently reading and really enjoying Real Queer America: LGBT Stories from Red States, if anyone is looking for more non-fiction.
My possible reads for this one:
King and the Dragonflies
The Deep
I Wish You All the Best
Caroline's Heart
Small Beauty
Ida

From his wikipedia page it says he felt like he was trapped in a man's body (suggesting he is trans even if he hasn't transitioned) and he's happy to be called he or she. Not everyone likes singular they as a pronoun even if they feel they are non-binary. I think either way he fits the prompt.




It is really gorgeous!

I'm currently reading and really enjoying "
I just read The Deep and it was really good!

You’re absolutely right. I swear when I added this the other day the profile said genderqueer. I’m sorry for the confusion! I’ll let you know if I come across anything else.


But I do have Courtney Love: The Real Story by Poppy Z. Brite so I'm going to go with that. Just thought I'd flag up Juno for anyone still looking for an author.




Space Struck by Paige Lewis
something by Meg-John Barker
Upright Women Wanted by Sarah Gailey

Oooh any excuse for a re-read of Lost Souls!

not that I know of"
okay. I know she is tagged as queer and I'm a bit confused on the terminology. Thank you.
Virginia Woolf was married to Leonard Woolf and also had a long term relationship with Vita Sackville West, but so far as I know, both Virginia & Vita identified as women throughout their lives.
I’m probably not the best person to define things, but here’s my understanding:
queer = not straight and/or not cis (so yes Virginia Woolf was queer); “queer” includes lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, and asexual people.
cis = identifies with the gender assigned at birth
transgender = identifies with a gender not assigned at birth
non-binary = does not identify as a man or a woman (in other words, does not see gender as only those two choices)
I believe both “genderqueer” and “genderfluid” fall under the “non-binary” umbrella. (No, I do not understand the differences in these terms.)
I’m sure there are nuances, subtleties, and other facets that I am completely unaware of and leaving out. Maybe someone more knowledgeable can step in.
I’m probably not the best person to define things, but here’s my understanding:
queer = not straight and/or not cis (so yes Virginia Woolf was queer); “queer” includes lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, and asexual people.
cis = identifies with the gender assigned at birth
transgender = identifies with a gender not assigned at birth
non-binary = does not identify as a man or a woman (in other words, does not see gender as only those two choices)
I believe both “genderqueer” and “genderfluid” fall under the “non-binary” umbrella. (No, I do not understand the differences in these terms.)
I’m sure there are nuances, subtleties, and other facets that I am completely unaware of and leaving out. Maybe someone more knowledgeable can step in.

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Thank you for clarifying! I greatly appreciate it.

I'm going to read Birthday because I already have the book, but I won't read anything by the author after that probably ever again.
Here's why, if anybody's interested: x
I don't judge anyone who still wants to read her books because lbr, If I Was Your Girl was absolutely amazing and books like hers are so important, but I personally just can't bring myself to support her anymore.

I'm going to read Birthday because I already have the book,..."
I clicked on your link and I can't even say that I understand what she was getting at with her tweets. Was she saying that all straight women are abused because all men are abusers, and then every single straight woman she knows complains about the abuse to her? I find that hard to believe. But, if so is her point that nobody, except for perhaps cis-men, should date men? Because they can abuse themselves?


all of that was already problematic, but that's not the main thing that's putting me off her. have you guys kept reading? I cannot and will not support an abuser. or someone who refuses to pay child support if the kid doesn't live with them. (I don't know if the latter is definitely true, but you know, abusing your wife or whoever is bad enough)

I loved Dragon Pearl, I'd definitely recommend it!









Not sure if Beyond Magenta counts because I don’t think the person putting it all together is trans or enby but it does feature the life stories of trans and enby teens as told by themselves.

The author, Susan Kuklin, is not trans/non binary, so no, that book would not fit the prompt.

Ok, thank you for letting me know! I’ll remove it from my list.

Thanks, Stina. I have Dragon Pearl and could read that for this task.



Daring to be Myself by Laverne Cox, Stuck in the Middle With You by Jennifer Finney Boylan, and A Queer and Pleasant Danger by Kate Bornstein (which appears further down my list) wil also work.
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Ouch. Because being ugly or "below their station in life" is totally comparable to being an a-hole or abusive.
(This is not a comment on Drakeryn or who ever it is they are talking about, just reacting to the words.)

Ketutar wrote: "Drakeryn wrote: "lamenting the fact that straight women often go for guys who are ugly, or below their station in life, or assholes, or abusers."
Ouch. Because being ugly or "below their station i..."
Ugh there is this whole ridiculous society - incels, mgtows, and all the rest - that gets really worked up about these things. Drakeryn is just sort of summarizing their nonsense. It's unfortunate that this author seems to have bought into some of this crap.
Ouch. Because being ugly or "below their station i..."
Ugh there is this whole ridiculous society - incels, mgtows, and all the rest - that gets really worked up about these things. Drakeryn is just sort of summarizing their nonsense. It's unfortunate that this author seems to have bought into some of this crap.




(This is not a comment on Drakeryn or who ever it is they are talking about, just reacting to the words.) "
Yeah, the juxtaposition is exactly that weird in the tweets in the article. "Here's a woman with an ugly husband, here's another woman who I'm afraid for her safety and slipping her info for women's shelters. lmao men am i rite" (paraphrased obviously)
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Homesick: Stories looks really interesting!
In stories that foreground queer relationships and transgender or nonbinary characters, Cipri delivers the origin story for a superhero team comprised of murdered girls; a housecleaner discovering an impossible ocean in her least-favorite clients’ house; a man haunted by keys that appear suddenly in his throat; and a team of scientists and activists discovering the remains of a long-extinct species of intelligent weasels.