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A Solivagant on the Inselberg
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Nov 20, 2017 06:18AM

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Your singing is amazing!!

Your singing is amazing!!"
My phone decided to take out the s in singing 😂

Lol Kavy! xD That's weird but hilarious!"
XD singing without the s is inging 😂 That sounds weird 😂






Thanks Jingle! I appreciate it! And I apologize on behalf of Ben!

Ben, you can say what you want and I respect that. I don’t want an apology. However, the same respect should be given to me in which I can express concern for my friend on her journal. Sharing personal information on the Internet is something a person needs to consider and do so of their own will, and I was simply trying to tell Hallie she had a right to think about it. Forgive me if I'm wrong, but when Hallie said "let's skip that" I assumed it meant she already said no. There have been other instances (e.g pg 72 where you asked her to link a picture of herself) which made me worry, and therefore I expressed this concern.
I'm not sure why you deleted your earlier comment to me, but what I can remember to reply to is yes, I back off and apologise if I in any way sounded like I was bossing you around. However, if you agree with the fact that we should respect her privacy, I feel that we should both agree on my above comment :)

What did Jingle say anyway? All she said was to respect my privacy, and I'll point out, diplomatically as well. That is common courtesy and anyone can say that if they think you're pushing too much. As a wiser friend, I would expect her to look out for me. Most of her message was directed to me. If something goes wrong online, then she or anyone would feel responsible. Besides, online bullying and asking for private information isn't something that should be checked only by the victim - but rather everyone who has seen it. I'm indecisive and to prevent me from making the mistake of doing something I should not do is not them trying to speak for me. It's them protecting me. I'm sorry, but I disagree. They are not being my mouthpiece; they are being my true friends.
Alright, then, you said they can't gauge how I feel - which actually they can - but yesterday, you did something similar to this. When Ahana said she wanted to hear me sing, you said I wouldn't do it. However, you didn't know I had done it before. Yet you said that because you knew I most likely wouldn't do it. In fact, I'm surprised I did actually do it. I did it for a reason and like you rightly said yesterday, I'm not the kind who does that. But you don't know me well enough to know that I was less shy to share that. If you could say it yesterday, why can't Jingle, who has known me longer, ask you to politely keep a little distance? It wasn't an order, but a general precaution. I personally think you have no right to object to that.
I'll repeat again - I was not on when this happened. So you can expect a good friend to speak for me. Also, I'm stressing on this - she knows how I feel about this. I also did say the same earlier, so she can confirm that I would say the same thing. She did it because I wasn't around. She isn't me, but she knows me enough.
I don't care whether you're sorry or not - I owe her an apology, and I will let her have it. If not on your behalf, I'll still apologize on my own behalf.
Edit: I see you deleted that comment. That act earns a cold shoulder for me if that matters anymore.


Jingle, I'm so sorry that I never responded on my own journal! I saw your message, got busy, and then posted again and forgot :( I need to head off to school, but I'll reply when I get back because it's my first evening of break!!!! :D
Good luck getting home Hallie :)
Thanks, brain... XD

Speaking of which, I still need to respond to your PM. I'll get to that when I'm home!
Thank you! :) For both telling me not to sleep and the wishes. I don't like sleeping during the day or in class, but I'm really tired today. I couldn't sleep due to all the coughing and throwing up last night, and I've seen the same teacher for three hours already. Even the board in turning blur - which is why I'm staring at my phone so that I don't fall on my desk. I'll put in some extra effort to not fall asleep now xD

To-do List
• That thing with the paper clip• Biology record
• Zoology assignment - draw diagram of the human brain thrice
• Physics• Geography assignment
• Economics flashcards
• Work on roleplay group
• Start new story

Umm...guys, not to be rude but I think you should keep the situation out of here. This is Hallie's journal so I think you should talk about this situation in your own journals.

Alia, no worries about it, also *pops firecrackers* enjoy your break!

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