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Does Team Aspen Exist?
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He wanted her to have a good future and well, I hope America wins ((And no one spoil it for me!!)) because she should be queen.

Get over Aspen, guys. He's selfish. And when have he and America ever had a real conversation? They like each other for the way they look.

Get over Aspen, guys. He's selfish. And when have he and America ever had a real conversation? They like each other for the way they look."
I agree. I disliked how whenever America thought about Aspen in the books, all she could say she loved about him was that he was a part of her past, before she came to the palace. And she seems completely oblivious to the fact that he's a jerk—and I hate how she's always so ready to forgive him, but so wary of Maxon.
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I also think that Kiera writes so much about Maxon, that it's hard to get a good grip on Aspen's character. He was so hurt when America left, he even came back for her! Come on guys, he's a sweetie. Plus him and America have a history and a past, they have chemistry. I'm in love with Aspen. If America doesn't chose him, I'll have him. That's fine. GO ASPEN GO



I was actually shocked that so many people prefer Maxon. He creeped me out with his sleazy "my dears." And for being supposedly shy around the ladies he's awfully slick. I thought it was disgusting how he pretends to be interested in all of the girls but he admitted to America that he couldn't stand two of them in the Elite. He just seems very slippery (like an eel) and two-faced to me. His making out with Celeste also shows something about his character. He said that he did it because he wanted to feel that there was someone who "cared" about him because she was mad at him. So what happens when he and his future wife fight? He runs off to the first available woman? He said he wanted to be with America, so why can't he stay committed to her while she's deciding? If he didn't want to wait for her to make up her mind he should have admitted it instead of telling her he would give her time. Running off with other girls is not the way to show a girl who's already confused that you are the best choice. He should have waited until she cooled off after what happened with Marlee and then explained the situation. Of course she's going to be angry and unsure about him after that! I thought it was really selfish of him to expect her to just get over seeing her best friend beaten in public. There's a million other reasons I don't like him, but I will stop here.
As strange as this sounds, I greatly admire Aspen for breaking up with America. He did that because he was more concerned with her future happiness than his own. Poverty is nothing to sneeze at. It also showed that he was able to think clearly. He had a hard enough time making sure his mom and siblings were fed, adding a wife and future children would have been disastrous. Remember she said that the lower castes did not have access to birth control, so they probably would have had baby after baby (think 19 Kids and Counting). He saw that America had a chance at a better future and he knew she would never take it if they were together. When he was drafted as a guard that completely changed the dynamic. Being a 2 and having a good job he could now afford to support both a wife and his family. They would have access to birth control, so they wouldn't have kid after kid. I do dislike the way he keep putting America in danger by sneaking around with her, but all in all he is the better guy in my opinion.
Personally though, I think America is a pretty terrible person and not good enough for Aspen. I kinda think she and Maxon deserve each other.

I don't Aspen is selfish AT ALL; he wanted America to sign up for the selection so that she could have a better lifestyle, or try to get one, so she wouldn't have to keep starving or working. This pretty much shows that he cares more about her happiness than his own. He gave up his free time to work harder so the twins, Kamber and Celia, could continue their drama sessions and not work. He gave up a lot of his free time, actually, to provide for his family just so that they were strong and kept going. He was the oldest out of 7 kids and their father had passed away too. This guy has given up A LOT, and not just for America, for other people too. I think people think that, again, because we got to see Maxon and America's relationship grow and haven't seen enough with America and Aspen to compare. I admire Aspen as a person so much, I look up to him too. Yeah, he might be getting Mer into dangerous situations at times, but I can't even blame him. He's lost so much. If I was in his shoes, I'd give up everything to see the person who kept me going, who made him happy. Wouldn't you?
Also, people say that she did stay at the castle for a reason, but I'm thinking: ''wouldn't you if you were working hard and ate little food everyday?'' I'm sure anyone would want to live in a One's or Two's house after that.
I really do hope that Aspen is America's choice, because it feels so right to me that they're together. I hope Kiera Cass takes this into a lot of thought and consideration because I do dislike it sometimes when the author takes into consideration of what the fans want and not what would make sense, not saying that Maxon and Ames together wouldn't make sense, just that I feel as if [again] Aspen has so much to lose and I feel his love for Mer. So.Freakin'.Much.
I also hope we get more Aspen and Mer moments, because we definitely need to see and equal side to both relationships. To make it fair.
I realllly hope there is a big twist to all of this. I'd love for America to choose Aspen, though Maxon is also cool *I do prefer Aspen hehehehehe*, and we'll see who is ''The One.'' I just hope the story line is still strong because I don't want it to be just about her choice.
All in all, Aspen all the way! <3
p.S: I VERYYYYY much agree with Emma. Although I didn't find Maxon too bad, I just didn't love him like Aspen. He was kinda creepy at times, though, and I felt like he wasn't ''real'' enough. Aspen is; he's only doing the natural thing. Fight for what he loves. It might seem harsh to ''fight'', but really, I don't think he'd fight Maxon physically. Just try to win Mer back over.
God, I love Aspen so much.





i feel you

Well some people do like Aspen, but it doesn't mean they're right! ;) Honestly, I think people only liked Aspen for the first five seconds of the book before falling in love with Maxon. :D

I totally agree! I think that in the first book, Maxon and America were amazing, and then Keira Cass was too hard on Maxon in the second book, trying to make it more of a love triangle and not an "America x Maxon with Aspen randomly thrown in there". I like America better than Kriss though. Aspen is too impatient with America. He doesn't give her time and he wants to be with her right away. While I loved her in the 1st book, I didn't like her half and half attitude in the second. :D


Ofc there is. I'm right here. TEAM ASPEN! :)






You're not the only one, TRUST ME. Everyone I've heard from who's read The Selection says that they're in love with Maxon and they think Aspen is horrible too. However, I'm Team Aspen all the way.

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