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  • #1
    Jeanette Winterson
    “Books, for me, are a home. Books don’t make a home--they are one, in the sense that just as you do with a door, you open a book, and you go inside. Inside there is a different kind of time and a different kind of space.”
    Jeanette Winterson, Why Be Happy When You Could Be Normal?

  • #2
    Ursula K. Le Guin
    “It is good to have an end to journey toward; but it is the journey that matters, in the end.”
    Ursula K. Le Guin, The Left Hand of Darkness

  • #3
    Brené Brown
    “Vulnerability is not winning or losing; it’s having the courage to show up and be seen when we have no control over the outcome. Vulnerability is not weakness; it’s our greatest measure of courage.”
    Brené Brown, Rising Strong: The Reckoning. The Rumble. The Revolution.

  • #4
    “The difference between an adventure and an ordeal is attitude.”
    Bob Bitchin

  • #5
    Joyce Meyer
    “Patience is not the ability to wait but the ability to keep a good attitude while waiting.”
    Joyce Meyer, Battlefield of the Mind: Winning the Battle in Your Mind

  • #6
    Theodore Roosevelt
    “It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat.”
    Theodore Roosevelt

  • #7
    Brené Brown
    “Daring to set boundaries is about having the courage to love ourselves, even when we risk disappointing others.”
    Brené Brown

  • #8
    Brené Brown
    “Owning our story can be hard but not nearly as difficult as spending our lives running from it. Embracing our vulnerabilities is risky but not nearly as dangerous as giving up on love and belonging and joy—the experiences that make us the most vulnerable. Only when we are brave enough to explore the darkness will we discover the infinite power of our light.”
    Brene Brown

  • #9
    Anaïs Nin
    “We write to taste life twice, in the moment and in retrospect.”
    Anais Nin

  • #10
    Diane Ackerman
    “I don't want to get to the end of my life and find that I have just lived the length of it. I want to have lived the width of it as well.”
    Diane Ackerman

  • #11
    Julia Cameron
    “People frequently believe the creative life is grounded in fantasy. The more difficult truth is that creativity is grounded in reality, in the particular, the focused, the well observed or specifically imagined. As we lose our vagueness about our self, our values, our life situation, we become available to the moment. It is there, in the particular, that we contact the creative self. Until we experience the freedom of solitude, we cannot connect authentically. We may be enmeshed, but we are not encountered. Art lies in the moment of encounter: we meet our truth and we meet ourselves; we meet ourselves and we meet our self-expression. We become original because we become something specific: an origin from which work flows.”
    Julia Cameron, The Artist's Way: A Spiritual Path to Higher Creativity

  • #12
    Jeanette Winterson
    “Why is the measure of love loss?”
    Jeanette Winterson, Why Be Happy When You Could Be Normal?

  • #13
    Jeanette Winterson
    “There are times when it will go so wrong that you will barely be alive, and times when you realise that being barely alive, on your own terms, is better than living a bloated half-life on someone else's terms.”
    Jeanette Winterson, Why Be Happy When You Could Be Normal?

  • #14
    Jeanette Winterson
    “I have noticed that doing the sensible thing is only a good idea when the decision is quite small. For the life-changing things, you must risk it.”
    Jeanette Winterson, Why Be Happy When You Could Be Normal?

  • #15
    Jeanette Winterson
    “Growing up is difficult. Strangely, even when we have stopped growing physically, we seem to have to keep on growing emotionally, which involves both expansion and shrinkage, as some parts of us develop and others must be allowed to disappear...Rigidity never works; we end up being the wrong size for our world.”
    Jeanette Winterson, Why Be Happy When You Could Be Normal?

  • #16
    Jeanette Winterson
    “The more I read, the more I felt connected across time to other lives and deeper sympathies. I felt less isolated. I wasn’t floating on my little raft in the present; there were bridges that led over to solid ground. Yes, the past is another country, but one that we can visit, and once there we can bring back the things we need.

    Literature is common ground. It is ground not managed wholly by commercial interests, nor can it be strip-mined like popular culture—exploit the new thing then move on.

    There’s a lot of talk about the tame world versus the wild world. It is not only a wild nature that we need as human beings; it is the untamed open space of our imaginations.

    Reading is where the wild things are.”
    Jeanette Winterson, Why Be Happy When You Could Be Normal?

  • #17
    Jeanette Winterson
    “Living with life is very hard. Mostly we do our best to stifle life--to be tame or to be wanton. To be tranquillised or raging. Extremes have the same effect; they insulate us from the intensity of life.

    And extremes--whether of dullness or fury--successfully prevent feeling. I know our feelings can be so unbearable that we employ ingenious strategies--unconscious strategies--to keep those feelings away. We do a feelings-swap, where we avoid feeling sad or lonely or afraid or inadequate, and feel angry instead. It can work the other way, too--sometimes you do need to feel angry, not inadequate; sometimes you do need to feel love and acceptance, and not the tragic drama of your life.

    It takes courage to feel the feeling--and not trade it on the feelings-exchange, or even transfer it altogether to another person. You know how in couples one person is always doing all the weeping or the raging while the other one seems so calm and reasonable?

    I understood that feelings were difficult for me although I was overwhelmed by them.”
    Jeanette Winterson, Why Be Happy When You Could Be Normal?

  • #18
    Jeanette Winterson
    “I have noticed that doing the sensible thing is only a good idea when the decision is quite small. For the life-changing things you must risk it.
    And here is the shock- when you risk it, when you do the right thing, when you arrive at the borders of common sense and cross into unknown territory, leaving behind you all the familiar smells and lights; then you do not experience great joy and huge energy.
    You are unhappy. Things get worse.
    It is a time of mourning. Loss. Fear. We battle ourselves through with questions. And then we feel shot and wounded.
    And then all the cowards come out and say, 'See I told you so.' In fact, they have told you nothing.”
    Jeanette Winterson, Why Be Happy When You Could Be Normal?

  • #19
    Jeanette Winterson
    “I did not realize that when money becomes a core value, then education drives towards utility or that the life of the mind will not be counted as good unless it produces measurable results. That public services will no longer be important. That an alternative life to getting and spending will become very difficult as cheap housing disappears. That when communities are destroyed only misery and intolerance are left.”
    Jeanette Winterson, Why Be Happy When You Could Be Normal?
    tags: money

  • #20
    Henry David Thoreau
    “Disobedience is the true foundation of liberty. The obedient must be slaves.”
    Henry David Thoreau

  • #21
    Paulo Coelho
    “We never lose our loved ones. The accompany us; they don't disappear from our lives. We are merely in different rooms.”
    Paulo Coelho, Aleph

  • #22
    Byung-Chul Han
    “The violence of positivity does not deprive, it saturates; it does not exclude, it exhausts. That is why it proves inaccessible to unmediated perception.”
    Byung-Chul Han, The Burnout Society



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