Never Chase Men Again: 38 Dating Secrets to Get the Guy, Keep Him Interested, and Prevent Dead-End Relationships (Smart Dating Books for Women)

by Bruce Bryans

But even a good woman could become dull and uninteresting if she cares little for the process of captivating a man.

Simple. Know what you want and stick to your standards, but don’t forget to be enchanting, flirty, and fun during the dating process.

Don’t merely depend on your substance alone to draw him in; you have to know how to market that substance to keep a man’s interest keen.

Do not allow a man’s love for you to stagnate because of your own unawareness or complacency. Use the possibility of your absence in his life to stir a man to action when his desire is weakening.

If you’ve been dating a guy seriously for some time and you’re quite sure that he’s started taking you for granted and has become apathetic to the relationship…you need to make him anxious. This is your best option if you don’t want his love to stagnate.

Assuming he’s your boyfriend you should first have a heart-to-heart conversation with him in order to alert him to your sincere concerns.

after that time he shows no signs of changing, it might be time for you to withdraw your attention and affections from him.

create enough space between you two so that he has time – time away from your warmth, generosities, and affections – to realize that you value your own sanity enough not to remain on a sinking ship.

Force will not work with men (the kind of men you want to be with at least) and here’s why: If you use force, you’ll stir his anger, which may lead to resentment and/or complete disinterest.