The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire

by David Deida

She can’t trust what you say. And this hurts her, deeply.

You must listen to your woman more as an oracle than as an advisor.

She is revealing your unconscious habits that prevent your fullest awakening in consciousness.

You know the amount of bullshit you are kidding yourself with. So does she. It just hurts her more than it does you.

She Doesn’t Really Want to Be Number One

A woman sometimes seems to want to be the most important thing in her man’s life. However, if she is the most important thing, then she feels her man has made her the number one priority and is not fully dedicated or directed to divine growth and service.

Although she would never admit it, she wants to feel that her man would be willing to sacrifice their relationship for the sake of his highest purpose.

Although your woman seems to want to be the most important thing in your life, she actually can trust and love you more if she is not.

A man’s highest purpose is his priority, not his intimacy. Your woman knows this. Deep inside, she really wants it to be this way.

If a woman has become the point of your life, you are lost. You have a gift to give, a purpose to fulfill, a deep heart-impulse that moves you.

Yet, you can only be a superior professional, father, husband, and friend when you are living these relationships as gifts given from your core, not as what’s left over because you don’t have the guts to discover your core impulse and live on its basis.