How To Be A 3% Man, Winning The Heart Of The Woman Of Your Dreams

by Corey Wayne

You can put a negative spin on things, or you can put a positive spin on it. If you put a negative spin on it, and you keep talking about negative things, you will lower her attraction. Nobody wants to be around someone that is negative all the time.

I think it is good to share things, but before you do, ask yourself this first: If I tell her this, is it going to have a positive effect on her attraction toward me, or is it going to have a negative effect? Is it going to make me look more confident and sure of myself, or is it going to make me look weak like a beta male?

You do not buy a woman gifts. Why? They come off as a bribe for sex. You really don’t buy a woman anything until she is completely head over heels in love with you. Don’t send flowers as an apology. Send them as a surprise to your girlfriend or wife. I used to do this a lot when I didn’t know any better. I used to send flowers after the first date. Women respond by saying: Oh, this is so nice… but it’s really not helping. You are giving away all the mystery.

It is easy for a guy to get satisfied by having sex, but for the woman, it is the whole process – the backing off a little bit, moving forward a little bit. It’s like you take two steps forward, and then one step back. Two steps forward, and then one step back. It is a constant building up of anticipation.

Remember, people can hide who they really are for about the first ninety days of a relationship. So until the first ninety days have

passed, and until the infatuation period has worn off, the honeymoon period if you will, which usually takes six months to at least a year before you get to the brass tax of what you’ve really got on your hands, don’t do it.

A woman is just unable to walk away from a strong, centered guy that is doing everything right to show her that he is in his masculine.

What you do to get her is what you are going to have to do to keep her. As long as you stay in your center and do not become complacent, the testing will be minimal. If the testing starts, you know you are not doing something right, and you need to switch gears. Recognize it for what it is: An opportunity for growth and change from stagnation and complacency.

Most women have a fantasy about being dominated. A woman wants the man to take control and handle everything. She has nothing to worry about, because he takes away all of her pain and worry. She wants to submit to all his love and strength,

when he is centered and in his core.

Once a guy really understands women and is able to get into a relationship, they are going to realize, as I did, that every relationship is an opportunity for growth. Just because you absolutely adore and treasure the person you are with, doesn’t mean you are going to spend the rest of your life with this person, or that you are going to marry her.

You may start dating a woman and think for the first few months that this is your soulmate, and you’re going to spend the rest of your life together. In a true relationship, people either grow together, or they grow apart.