How To Be A 3% Man, Winning The Heart Of The Woman Of Your Dreams

by Corey Wayne

moving. Now you have shown up, toasted them and asked if they are having a good time, and then walked away. You leave them wondering: Who are those guys?...

this is a very important point that I need to make: If a woman only perceives you as a 4 or below on a scale of 1-10, there is nothing that you are going to be able to do that will convince her to go out with you. At that point, you are wasting your time. If her attraction level is a 5 and above, she will ask you personal questions. She will be making eye contact with you.

Is she standing extra close? Is she bumping into you when you are talking? Is she touching your arm when you talk? Is she playing with her hair? Is she exposing her neck to you? These are all signs that her attraction level is a 5 or higher. If you ask her for her phone number, she doesn’t hesitate at all and gives you her number, that is a good indication that her attraction level is a 5 or higher.

A woman is rarely going to come right out and say: Hey, you’re a really good looking guy, and I want to go out with you. I want you to ask me out. Here is my number and all my contact information. I am available Sunday through Thursday, and you can call me. I’ll go out any time you want, and I’d like to do anything you want that’s fun. This is just not typical. Women like mystery. They like the process of dating. They want to discover, and they want to be discovered. They want and expect you to be a man who is a leader. Women don’t want any responsibility for sex, setting dates, picking where to go, etc. That is why it is up to you to lead

things to a successful conclusion in the bedroom.

This also means they don’t want to know everything about you when first meeting you. Most guys, when they meet a woman, spend a lot of time telling her everything about them. In essence talking her right out of liking them by talking too much. At

that point, you have totally taken the mystery out of it. Now that she knows your whole life story, what does she need to go out with you for? If you go out on a date, she already knows everything about you. There is nothing left for her to discover. You have taken it all away and made it too easy for her. You are predictable and boring.

If a woman asks you: Do you have a girlfriend? Again, that is a sign of high attraction. How do you respond to a question like that? Do you have a girlfriend? You are not going to say: Well, I broke up with my girlfriend two years ago and I haven’t had a date since. The best response is not to say: No, I don’t have a girlfriend. When she asks: Do you have a girlfriend? Just say: I’m just dating and having a lot of fun right now… or… I’ve always got room for one more... or… Can we get to know each other a little bit better before we start talking about relationships? With a smirk on your face, of course. That can mean that you have five girlfriends. That can mean you have one. It leaves her wondering and helps to build the anticipation of what she may find out about you.

Just remember the key point that I mentioned earlier: The one who is asking the questions is the one that’s in charge of the conversation.

The goal when you first meet a woman is to read her level of attraction and to get her phone number so you can later call to take her out; or if you’ve got really big balls, make a date on the spot. You are not going to tell her you are going call and take her out. You are not going to give her any hints about what you may or may

not do on a first date. You are simply going to ask for her number. When you are entering her number into your phone, text her yours also. Why? She may text you first if you wait a few days to call. Another good way to do it is to give your p...

Once you have achieved that goal, you are going to say: Well, I’ve really enjoyed meeting you and have a great evening, Jessica. Give her a hug goodbye, and then move on. If it is a party or a social event, and there are other beautiful ladies there, you are going to want to get as many numbers as possible. You don’t want all these women to see you getting phone

numbers from different women, so be discreet about it. Women like you more if you’ve got options, but you want her to feel like she is the most special out of all the women you’re talking to; not just another notch in your bedpost, which will cause her to reject you.

The place where you always want to come from, not only when you are in the relationship, but also before you have met someone, is to not take rejection personally. You have to go through life, give your gift, give your presence, and give who you are. People are either going to accept you or not. You can’t take it personally. It’s a numbers game.

You have to get through the nos in order to get to the yeses.

While your goal is driving you to meet the kind of woman you feel you deserve, this also means you want to be screening others out. You do not want someone that is a user or into only material things. If a woman asks: What kind of car do you drive? Not that it matters… It says it really does matter to her. Tell her you rode the bus, walked, came on skates, etc. If she asks where you live, tell her something silly like: Well, actually, I was hoping to move in with you and have you support me and wait on me hand and foot. Be silly, outrageous, or be stupid. Do not

give these types of obviously materialistic questions a straight answer. There are women that look for security and will marry a guy they do not love. These types of women are only looking for security and don’t care who you are or what you are all about.

If a woman tells you looks are not important, point out some unlikely man in the bar and ask: What about that guy? A lot of women will respond with: He’s not my type, even though she has never spoken to him before. It shows that looks are important to her. It’s not that she is necessarily being dishonest with you, but it does give you further evidence of what I mentioned before: What a woman says is not necessarily what

she responds to.

If a woman asks: Do you have a girlfriend? Be playful. You do not want her to think you haven’t had a date in 2 years. Respond with indirect or playful answers like: I’m just out dating and having fun. Or: There is always room for one more. When you come off with confidence, she may further test you with: Are you a player? You could reply playfully: Sure, I play sports. Or: I played sports in high school.

If she gives you the: That’s not what I mean. Look at her with curiosity, and ask her straight out: What do you mean? The point is, that no matter what her question, no matter how she tries to

test you, you can’t let her think she can get under your skin. Keep it positive. Keep it playful.

When a woman tells you: Well, I don’t date guys who are players. You can ask her straight out: Who said I wanted to date you? Or: When I meet someone who is worthy of my time, I will be exclusive with her. I haven’t determined whether I want to go out with you or not. At that point, start asking her: Why should I go out with someone like you? Are you hitting on me? Are you fun?

show that you could care less whether she likes you or not. Have her try to prove to you why she is worth your time.

A good rule of thumb on when to call a woman is this: If you met her on a Friday or Saturday, call her on a Tuesday or Wednesday and set up a date for the following week.

If you met her on a Sunday through Thursday, call the following Monday or Tuesday, and ask her: When are you free to meet up for a drink? The goal is to leave days where she is going to be wondering about you, anticipating your call, and raising

her level of att...

So now that you have built her anticipation, you are going to call her. When you do call, if you get her on the phone, you are going to say: This is Bob. You are not going to say: This is Bob Smith. We met the other night. I was wearing a purple shirt, and it had pink polka dots on it, and we were at such and such a party. We were talking about this and that… No. You are simply going to say: Hey Jessica, this is Bob. How are you?

Then you are going to shut up. You want to wait to see what her response is. Her response is going to tell you everything about her level of attraction for you.

Anyone in sales will tell you that the phone is for setting appointments, not for giving out information.

Let’s assume she remembers who you are, and she was wondering when you were going to call. Now you are going to be direct, confident, decisive, and you are going to say: Jessica, when are you free to meet up for a drink? You are not going to say: I was wondering if you would like to go out sometime. That shows your schedule is wide open, you don’t have anything else going on, please pick a day where I actually get to spend some time with you and have you grace me with your presence, your highness.

A strong, confident guy is sure of himself, is direct, decisive, quickly gets to the point, makes decisions and knows he can have other women if he chooses.

If you are asking a woman out for a date, she makes the plans, gives her address and then gives

you the: Call back to confirm or she says: What is your number in case something comes up? Please call me later in the week to confirm, etc. That means it is more than likely that something is going to come up, and she is going to cancel. My response in this situation is something along the lines of: Jessica, I have a really busy schedule, and I would definitely like to see you, but if you can’t make definite plans with me, then how about we just do it some other time? Then you are going to wait for her response. It is what we call in sales, the Take Away or Negative Sale. If she says: Yes. Give me a call and we’ll make it for some other time… her attraction is low.

Tip: don’t do lunches. Hang out, have fun and hook up. Do evening dates. If you want to be her lover, do things a lover would

do. It’s hard to seduce a woman when you go to lunches,

I used to do this a couple years ago: At the end of one date, I was already asking her out for the next one. You should never do this. It shows that you are weak, needy, and you are afraid if you try to call again that she won’t go out with you. You should always leave her wondering where she stands with you, raising the level of attraction and anticipation.

It is all about building anticipation and raising her attraction level to you. She doesn’t know when you are going to call. You have not told her when you are going out. Then you call and you make the date. You have waited a few days. Her attraction level has gone up, and now you are making a date for some time the next week.

The point is, once again, the higher her level of attraction, the easier she is going to make it for you to go out on a date with her. The lower the level of attraction, the more roadblocks she will put in your way, or the more testing she will do.

It is important to always stay aware, and to always underrate her level of attraction. You need to pay close attention to where she is at with her attraction level, because it drops slowly.

When a woman is in love, she wants your attention all of the time. She thinks about you and sings about you and is totally consumed by you and thoughts of you. She tells you all the time how much she loves you. She tests you very little, and when she does, they are easy tests to pass.

Also, don’t ask her what she wants to do. Invite her to join you. You want it to be a surprise. You want it to be an unfolding of the evening. Be the leader and lead. The word lead means to go first.

It is the experience of having the nice dinner, drinks, bowling, shooting pool, darts, great conversation, etc., and just having a good time. Whatever it is you are doing, for a woman, the whole experience of the date is important. The less she knows, the more it heightens her anticipation and the more her

attraction grows.

To give her a kiss on her lips shows confidence. It tells her: I know I’m good enough for you. Here, let me show you. You are showing her your strength and that you are totally in your masculine. Remember, women are designed to receive a man. It’s up to you to be the leader.

After you give her a goodnight kiss, you are going to say: I had a good time. Or: It was a nice evening. Don’t elaborate. Stay in your center, and leave her wondering just how good of a time you had. Make her think about whether everything went all right or not. She will replay the date over in her mind, looking back on all the clues. You are not going to give her the answer. You are remaining a mystery.

Now you are going to leave. You are not going to tell her that you will call her. You are not going to set up the next date, or even talk about going out again. You are going to leave her wondering. It’s a scientific fact that women are more attracted to men whose feelings are unclear.

Otherwise, unless she brings it up, don’t ask.

When you don’t call her the next day after your date, she is going to wonder whether you liked her or not. If she is wondering about you, she

will like you more.