How To Be A 3% Man, Winning The Heart Of The Woman Of Your Dreams

by Corey Wayne

That’s how you need to approach all the relationships and women in your life. Always go into it to have fun, be playful, and just be a strong, confident, centered guy.

The idea is, men will pursue in

the beginning of a relationship, usually through week 2, week 3 on average, and once the woman starts reaching out in between those dates, then the guy’s pursuit is over, and from that point forward, all he has to do is wait to hear from her, and then when he does, make the next date and then get off the phone.

The goal is to get her to start reaching out to you first, and then you set the next date and get off the phone. This is what causes her to start chasing you.

It always shows more confidence and masculinity if you call instead of texting her. However, if she texts you first, it’s okay to use texting to set the next date. Assume if she contacts you that she wants to see you. Therefore, make a date happen in as few steps as possible.

Typically what happens is after the 2nd or 3rd date, she starts texting or calling you a day or two later. Then the 2nd or 3rd week, you will start seeing her about twice a week, because she’s reaching out to you more and more. By week 5 or 6, you will be seeing each other about 3 times per week. By week 7, she should be starting to fall in love and starting to bring up the topic of being exclusive. Google “Corey Wayne How To Keep A Relationship Casual When She Wants To Be Serious.”

If she does happen to call you, remember: The phone is for making dates, not being her therapist, emotional tampon or gay male girlfriend. You need to maintain the attitude of a busy guy.

Regardless, for the first two months, the phone is for setting appointments, period. It is not for

getting to know her. Sales people sell you in person, not over the phone. If you give away all the information about yourself over the phone, it makes you boring and predictable. You are not being centered.

Initially, in the first month or two of dating, you haven’t built an emotional bond with her yet. Google “Corey Wayne You’ve Got Nothing To Prove To Women.” You are kind of on probation in her eyes. She is slowly opening up to you emotionally, as long as you continue to pass her tests and do things right.

Just remember: Until she is in love with you, you want to stay off the phone, even if she is the one calling you. When she calls you, take the opportunity to make the next date with her. If you are letting her come to you by setting dates when she contacts you, you’ll never have to worry about over pursuing and turning her off.

let’s say you are dating and she’s calling every day, and then all of a sudden she backs off, don’t call her because she didn’t call you. Nine times out of ten, it’s a test. You need to hang back and wait. Go back to the once a week rule.

The bottom line is that if she is interested in you, she is going to call you. Don’t start running after her.

If she is someone you have been dating and are in a serious relationship with, and she stops calling, you also need to let this go. Call her up the next week. Obviously, she is upset about something if she goes from calling and texting you 2-3 times a day for several months and then stops calling you suddenly. Be indifferent and say: Hey. How are things going? Sometimes women will stop calling to test you. If things are too easy and just going along, she will back off on purpose to see if you run after her. Stand your ground. You can’t react to the fact that she has all of a sudden

stopped calling you. If you do, she will see you as being needy and back off even more.

If a woman calls you in those early days of dating and has something she wants to talk about, just tell her: Honey, I want to hear everything about it. Why don’t you tell me all about it when I see you tomorrow night, or: Tell me all about it when I see you on Tuesday. I want to hear all about it then. That way, I can give you 100% of my attention. I’m really jammed up right now, and I can’t talk.

Stay off the phone until she is completely head over heels in love with you. By staying off the phone, you are limiting your contact with her. It builds anticipation and lowers your chances of talking her right out of liking you.

Once it gets to a 9, and she is completely head over heels in love with you, she is going to be calling you all the time anyway. She will start calling you every day.

How do you know when it’s time to go steady? When she is emotionally ready, usually by week 7 of dating, she will bring it up. Until then, hang out, have fun and hook up. Rinse. Recycle. Repeat. You just gently lead, so she thinks it’s her idea.

She’ll let you know when she wants to go steady. Keep dating other women until she tells you she wants to be exclusive, or until she does not want you to date any other women, because

she’s not dating anyone else. Remember: When she brings up the topic, don’t assume she wants to be exclusive. Ask her: what do you mean? If she says: where is this going?

Any time a woman senses a weakness, she is going to test you and exploit it more. If she senses you are needy, or maybe she has said something that made you jealous, then she is going to do a lot more of what made you jealous. She is going to do more of what made you feel needy, just to make sure you really aren’t needy. The more she senses the weakness, the more she’s going to push, and the more she’s going to test.

You have to become comfortable with being yourself. You need to make it part of who you are. Sooner or later, you will own it. And you have to own it, because if you can’t maintain it later in the relationship, if you ever let that down, you are not the person she thought you were in the first place. She will see weakness and test and pull away, which makes you start to pursue, and that will drive her away even more.

What happens if you have been seeing a woman consistently, and now she doesn’t seem to get excited about seeing you, or you can tell her attraction is dropping? You always want to be aware of that. What is happening is the anticipation is not where it needs to be, and you are not being mysterious and unpredictable enough. It is time to pull back a little bit. Back up.

Back up and let her find the thrill of the chase again. Guys should never call or pursue more than 20-30% of the time. Any time a guy does more than 30%, the woman slowly loses attraction.

Keep in mind that the emotions of women who are on the rebound are very raw, and they may display very high levels of attraction. You could go out and have a great date, and all of a sudden they don’t ever want to see you again.

don’t cry every night in your woman’s arms. It might be okay the first night, but if it’s an on-going thing, and you are looking for someone to take care of and baby you, it is one of the quickest ways to turn your lady off. Why? You’re simply acting like a woman. You MUST be the leader. Save your sad stories and insecurities for your best buddies.

If you are looking for a woman that is that giving, you are looking for someone that is totally in her feminine energy. If that’s where she is at, she isn’t going to want to deal with your neediness. A woman in her full feminine wants a man that’s in his full masculine. She wants a strong, centered, confident guy.

When she does call you to talk, you just make your date on the phone and say: Great. Tell me all about it when we go to dinner, etc. It will make her anticipate spending time with you: Oh, I can’t wait to see him. When you finally pick her up and go out, she can just completely unload all this stuff she has wanted to share with you.

Once you have passed the first two months of dating, you are going steady with your girlfriend and everything is going well, paying attention becomes an important part of maintaining what you have worked so hard for.

That’s why it’s so important to watch what a woman does, so you can tell whether or not you’ve got a woman with a healthy self-esteem or a woman who’s going to call other guys as soon as you start doing something wrong.

Women are not going to come right out and say it. They are a lot more subtle, and you have to learn to read between the lines. If you are screwing up and not spending the time with her that you should, or you are not treating her like you should, you can always tell by how she is acting toward you. Has she stopped lovemaking, kissing, and is no longer touching you? Does she not seem as happy to see you any more? Maybe she’s a little bitchy when you get home?

It is also why, when she says: Hey, look. I had my nails done today. If you say: Honey, I’m watching TV, this is the worst thing you can do. You are basically saying to her: I don’t love you. I’m not giving you any of my presence. Get the hell out of my way. You are unimportant to me right now. You are invalidating what is important to her.

When she says: I just had my hair done. What do you think, honey? You have to stop what you are doing, and say: You look beautiful. You look great… she did a great job. I love your nails… I love that new dress you just bought. Your new hair color looks great. That new handbag? I think it goes great with that outfit. You look really hot. Women want to be noticed. Everything they do is about getting your attention. That is why it’s so important to understand what your attention means to them.

If you tell her you love her, and you don’t show it by your actions that you love her it’s just an: Oh, I love you. It means nothing to her if you are not still romancing her. In her mind, if you really did love her, you would be showing her that you loved her.

Acknowledge it. Kiss her, hug her, and say: It was really good hearing for you. I just love hearing your voice. That’s all you have to say. It makes her feel as though: He really does care. Again, pay attention. Women want your attention all the time when you’re in a relationship. You have to acknowledge the things they do to get your attention. This keeps them open.

Acknowledge everything they do, because you are the one who opened them up, and you worked hard at always building anticipation. Now they are always looking at receiving your

love and receiving your presence. That’s what the purpose is to her phone calls during the day, the e-mails, the messages, why they write you little cards, why they leave you little notes, and go shopping. It is why they spend two or three hours at the salon getting their hair done. They are just a big billboard that’s saying: Show me how much you adore me, and worship me, and love me.

guys have to understand that your lady doesn’t want you to solve her problems. She just needs you to listen to them. If you are unsure when she starts talking say: Do you want my advice or do you just want me to listen?

The reason she was angry was that you gave her your word and then didn’t keep it. When a guy does that, it does not make his lady feel safe. It makes her doubt his masculine core. When she doubts his core, she either has to test him to feel his strength, or to help get him to step up and be a stronger man.

I’m the man and I set the tone… always. If I were to give in to her attempt at drama and negativity, I’m letting her be the leader. That would only make things worse. Women don’t want the power anyway. Be her rock. Be her mountain.

Psychological studies have shown, over and over, that with the long-term relationships that last many years, the one thing they all have in common, including relationships that last for

many decades, is that communication is so important and so essential to both people in the relationship, they will talk things out and work things out before they got to bed. Couples who let things stew, or when you’re with somebody who refuses to communicate or they threaten you with the end of the relationship, in the long run, those relationships will never work out. If you spot that kind of a pattern with the person you’re with, it’s best to walk away and find somebody else, because they’re not mature enough to communicate. It’s not your job to fix them if they refuse to participate.

Remember: Women have an emotionally based operating system. You need to keep working with her, pulling the information out, until you hear those magic words: I feel so much better, I’m so glad we talked. I love you. Thank you honey.

It’s a big mistake to try to use logic and reason to win an argument, because even if you win, you’ll lose.

Women don’t think like that. All she is trying to say to you is: You hurt me in this moment and you need to make it right. You do

not get points for what you did in the past. What you did for the first ten years of the marriage doesn’t matter. What does matter to her is that you’ve been screwing up today.

Women are emotionally based. I always hear guys saying: Women aren’t rational. I say: To me they are completely rational, once you understand where they are coming from. When you understand that everything they say and do is emotionally based.

A woman knows that when you comment on another woman, you are making a comparison. They certainly don’t like it.

Women have their own secret language, and yet they expect men to understand it. Pay attention guys. It is not what she says, but what she does that is the key to breaking this code. They are more subtle in their responses, instead of direct, like men are.