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Aug 03, 2024 05:36PM

Btw, I recently read the author's A Fine and Private Place which is also both light and dark, funny and serious. I guess to reflect real life?

None end on a cliffhanger (and in fact there may be another in the works but it's not necessary).

https://www.goodreads.com/topic/show/...
Seems I did not note a least favorite.

Anxiety Is the Dizziness of Freedom:
"We like the idea that there's always someone responsible for any given event, because that helps us make sense of the world. We like that so much that sometimes we blame ourselves, just so there's someone to blame. But not everything is under our control, or even anyone's control."
"We've all made mistakes.... But there's a difference between accepting responsibility for our actions and taking the blame for random misfortunes."
"If Vinessa hadn't gotten her act together by now, it was her own fault, not Dana's."
"... if you act compassionately in this branch, that's still meaningful, because it has an effect on the branches that will split off in the future. The more often you make compassionate choices, the less likely it is that you'll make selfish choices in the future, even in the branches where you're having a bad day."
"If the same thing happened in branches where you acted differently, then you aren't the cause."
Basically it's pretty much the same theme hammered home in multiple ways ... but we all either are, or know, people who need to understand that concept! :)

This week's, um, I'm sure there are some, but any good examples, can't recall. The best books hold up to rereading well, like The Hobbit, The Martian, and Becky Chambers' stories. So, a book with a surprise ending might work? I'll think further, and hope others' responses prompt my memory.
As far as BotM, I'd participate more if my taste/interests happened to match the majority. But it's nbd to me to skip the ones I'm not interested in. I'm still enjoying the group!
Possibly have theme months? Perhaps, sometimes, to correspond to some of the more extensively answered Questions of the Week? I mean, if we do get enough answers to this question, we could have a month when we nominate from the titles listed here.
Or possibly a month when we read what we each choose a book or two from a given theme, then share. Might work best if the theme is made fairly narrow. For example, one month we could all talk about various sapient pets/sidekicks, and another month about androids who are people, rather than a month that broadly talks about non-human people.
(Sorry for poor grammar etc. Rough night; festival in town kept me awake and woke me early.)

Not sure so far about Just One Damned Thing After Another. The foolhardiness of the MC and the quirky humor are not my usual thing, but it's for the Time Travel group read so I'll keep trying for a bit.





I have a question in my review that it's possible you could answer:
I'm still bothered by the tea leaf embedded in the doorknob. It'd be very cool, but what the heck does a tea leaf look like? Is it a leaf from a peppermint plant, or oolong, or Da Hong Pao, or what?
Jun 26, 2024 06:00PM

Apparently I read this before I joined this group. I guess there's a spoiler thread I should use for my remaining question....


For adults (and interested teens), I highly recommend Better Living Through Birding: Notes from a Black Man in the Natural World and Slow Birding: The Art and Science of Enjoying the Birds in Your Own Backyard.
Speculative fiction gets a bit harder. Much of Digger: The Complete Omnibus is spent outdoors (and it's a great book).