Carolin’s Comments (group member since Jan 02, 2014)

Carolin’s comments from the Spells, Space & Screams: Collections & Anthologies in Fantasy, Science Fiction, & Horror group.

Hi Paul! Is it a movie?

I'm drunk, about to sleep. I love to have a weekend off!

Hiiii! What are you all doing?

Good evening.. I'm at home, making myself ready for derby practice tonight. What are your plans for the weekend?

I'm reading the short story The First Fall by Seanan McGuire, and I'm crying so hard. They've lost their three-year-old and the sorrow is so tangable I don't know what to do. Can't help but to put myself in their situation and it's heartbreaking. I'm at work (in my reception desk) and people soon start getting in to work, I can't be sitting here crying so I don't know if I can finish it tonight. I don't want to put it off, I just want to read it so I can put it behind me. But it's good. But heartbreaking.

Btw I had my prejudices tried earlier today. A truck driver came in to ask if he could unload his carriage, and I told him he couldn't because they've gone home for the evening. And he was just like "ok" and was really nice. It's fucked up when your surprised when someone is nice.

I hope my new job is better!

That sounds like a good plan Ian.

But over all I feel like people stay in relationships way past the best-before-date for is passed. People let the person that is supposed to lift, love and care for them most theat them like shit, using all info gathered in cofidence as ammo in fights and just being disrespectful for years before breaking up. And now I'm not talking about abusive realtionships, but your everyday relationship. It's sad really.

And, thinking more about it - that it's a long relationship doesn't mean that it should have a free card on being shit. I feel that people often excuses behaviour from their partner with that they have been a couple so long, and I just feel like then it's even more important to treat each other with respect. When you've been close to someone for years it's an even bigger betrayal to treat them bad than if you've only known each other fo a short amount of time.

Carolin wrote: "Ian wrote: "I dont know about new love kim. Isnt the start of a relationship supposed to be fun ?"

It is. If it isn't fun in the beginning why keep on going, is my opinion in the matter. Ok if you..."

But then, sometimes other things in peoples lifes makes them a little bit grumpier than other times. And then you have to go to yourself, can you don't overlook that she's not chipping when she have had a rough day at work your feelings for her might not as strong as they should be. If that is the case for you Ian I don't know, but in relationships at large.

L.J. wrote: "Me too. And the disappointment always feels worse than if you just didn't like a random book."


Yes! I can take it if a book isn't ok but if it's a book I've waited on it really brings my mood down.

Ian wrote: "I dont know about new love kim. Isnt the start of a relationship supposed to be fun ?"

It is. If it isn't fun in the beginning why keep on going, is my opinion in the matter. Ok if your have a rough patch after a couple of years, but in the beggining it's supposed to be all pink Clouds in my opinion. A small fight is one thing, but over all it should be fab, why bother otherwise?

Ian, I understood that. ;)

I'm a little sad, I had looked forward to this book and it didn't live up to my expectations. Hate when they do that!

Nick wrote: "I may have to withdraw his "shagger" nickname..."

Just put an A in front to make in a negative, he can be called Ashagger from now on?

Nick wrote: "Ian wrote: "Thats a shame kim.

Im not bad nick fucking girlfreind is pissing me off."

Fucking your girlfriend is pissing you off? o_O"

I agree with the o_O Nick!

Ian you must be doing it wrong!

(view spoiler)[Stupid book, I'm crying. (hide spoiler)]

Hasan, uh too bad ablout the flu, hate studying while sick!

I'm fine, last night at work for this week, and everything is great acutually. I have another education next week, but I hope it'll be good. People who done it says it's not hard to learn, but I'm still a little nervous about the test at the end of week.

Kim I have no selfie skills at all!

Hi Hasan! I got my horns polished, splendid right?

How are you today?

Anyone else reading? I have some things distrubing me, about this theme that's bugging you as well Rachel.

Ian, I probably should, sometimes there are Always other books wanting my attention when I'm about to read it.