Turning negatives into positives

It took awhile to learn, but I think I have turned most of what I had been taught was negatives in my life to positives. I'm an unschooler at heart, an ungraduate, a two-spirited freethinker, polyamorous and pansexual, introvert but also extrovert, radically honest, an empath, an untraditional parent, and a weird friend whose best friend is finally myself.