When the Spreadsheet Gets Real

I’m 58 and my wife is 56. We’ve been planning our retirement with care and intention for years—no debt, solid retirement savings, a well-diversified portfolio, and a liability-matching plan (LMP) that covers us until Medicare kicks in. We’ve talked through our priorities, run the numbers, and built our plan together. The core approach to our plan was heavily influenced by Bill Bernstein and Wade Pfau's writing and we are content with a good funded ratio.

One thing we agreed on early: when one of us loses or leaves work, we both retire.

Now, the time may be here. There’s a strong possibility I’ll lose my job in the next month or two, and while our Excel models say we’re ready, I’m realizing the emotional side of this transition is much harder than I expected. The idea of not working, shifting from saver to spender, and stepping into a whole new identity—it all feels very real now, and a little overwhelming.

We’re committed to retiring together, as we planned. But I’d love to hear from others who’ve walked this road:

What practical steps did you take as the date approached?
What helped you navigate the emotional side of leaving work—especially when the choice wasn’t entirely yours?
How did you manage the first few months after the transition?
What surprised you most about this phase of life—good or bad?
Looking back, is there anything you wish you had done differently in preparing for the leap?

I know we’ve done the work on the numbers. Now I’d love help making peace with the next step. Your insights would mean a lot.

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