648 Answering Your Qs About Boundaries + High-Functioning Codependency

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“I don’t choose people who make my pain about them. Those are not the people I’m confiding in, because they’re not emotionally trustworthy and they don’t have the capacity to see you as a separate human being.” – Terri Cole

Intro

Do you believe that setting boundaries means being confrontational?

Do you wish you knew how to cut someone off nicely, especially if it involves a professional relationship?

Are you tired of confiding in others only for them to make your own pain into something about them?

Or have you wondered if it’s ever okay to “jump in and fix things” for someone who is struggling?

These are just some questions I’m answering about boundaries and high-functioning codependency in this episode. Let’s dive in.

Highlights:4:00 How can I stay soft and feminine and set boundaries? (Addressing limiting beliefs around boundary-setting)8:10 How can I avoid jumping in when it’s not my side of the street as a high functioning codependent?15:00 Am I on my side of the street if I keep things to myself so that others don’t worry?18:00 How do I handle it when I tell people things and they make it about themselves?21:50 An exciting announcement!Links Mentioned:

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