Not My Thing
IN RICH DAD POOR DAD, author Robert Kiyosaki touts the virtues of owning real estate as a way to reach financial independence. He explains the difference between how his father handled money and invested in his education, versus his friend's dad, who gained his wealth by investing in businesses.
There’s controversy over whether this is a true tale or just a literary device to explain how to invest in real estate. Either way, there’s a lot to learn from Kiyosaki’s book. One thing I learned: Real estate investing isn’t for everybody. That would include me.
I’ve been aware of real estate’s appeal since Robert Allen’s 1984 book Nothing Down. I would see his late-night infomercials and think, “That’s what I need to do to reach my dream of personal wealth.” I attended free seminars on real estate investing. It all made sense, except for one thing: It didn’t excite me.
At the time, I was renting a studio apartment in Brooklyn. I kept hearing about how all these people were making a killing in real estate. I wanted to be rich. But why would I buy a rental property when I was paying rent myself? Why wouldn’t I buy my own place first?
I’ve owned two pieces of real estate in my life, a condo and my current single-family home. Kiyosaki talks about the joy he feels owning real estate. But I didn’t feel joy buying either home. I decided real estate investing wasn’t for me.
That decision was confirmed by watching reality TV shows about real estate investing. One show stands out in my mind. It was based in South Carolina. The main character was a visionary with money. He could look at a house and see what needed to be done to make the house attractive to potential buyers.
He had a general contractor on his payroll who could tell him how much it would cost to make the necessary changes. Assuming the cost was reasonable, the visionary would buy the property using his real estate broker, who was also on his payroll.
The general contractor would hire quality sub-contractors to do the work. They’d improve whatever needed correcting and fix the house up to be more attractive. This included flooring, roofing, appliances, and painting or vinyl siding. The general contractor would oversee the work and guarantee it was done right. There would be a before and after view. It always impressed me. The visionary’s real estate broker would advertise the house and, of course, it would sell at a handsome profit.
My takeaway from watching the show: I had none of the resources this visionary had. I can’t look at a house and see what needs to be done. I don’t know any general contractors who I can call upon to review a potential buy and tell me the total projected fix-up cost. I don’t have a real estate broker at my disposal who could sell this newly formed real-estate masterpiece. In short, I have neither the resources nor the desire to run a successful house-flipping business.
I’m not saying real estate isn’t a good investment. It is for the right person. But just because someone has made a killing in real estate doesn’t mean we all can. Slick salesmen are skilled at convincing us all that, if we only buy what they’re selling, all our troubles will be over. If it were only that simple. Success is a personal pursuit. It’s not a one-size-fits-all type of activity.
Doing something that’s “not you” probably won’t end well. Instead, stick to your strengths and the things that interest you. That’s more likely to lead you to personal satisfaction and wealth.

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