Matters of Trust
WHEN MY WIFE AND I got married, she had a credit card with an outstanding balance. Back then, you could write off the interest on your tax return. Still, I hate debt and I paid off her balance. Ever since, she’s continued to maintain a separate credit card because I wanted her to have a credit history, so she could take out a loan on her own if I died. We’ve always paid off her monthly balance in full.
I’m responsible for paying our bills. In the beginning, when I reviewed my wife's credit card statement, if I saw a large amount, I'd ask her what she’d bought and why she bought it. That didn’t go over so well. My wife has a different financial philosophy from me. She’s not foolish, just more easy going.
I decided I’d trust her judgment, even if I wouldn’t have bought the same item, and just verify that the amount she spent was registered correctly on the statement. I would then pay off the balance. That system has worked for us, for the most part.
The only glitch occurs when she doesn’t have a receipt. I have to rely on her memory to trust the amount billed is correct. When she doesn’t have a receipt, she says, “Don’t worry about it,” which is the direct opposite of what I do. I take a deep breath, write the check and hope we aren’t getting screwed.
Who do you trust? That was the name of a quiz show that was hosted by Johnny Carson of Tonight Show fame. When should you trust others?
Billy Joel has a song called, “A Matter of Trust,” which apparently is about his former brother-in-law, whom Joel sued, claiming he ripped him off for millions of dollars. I guess Billy shouldn’t have trusted him as much as he did.
Who is handling your money? Is it your spouse? Your financial advisor? Your brother-in-law? Can you trust them? What safeguards do you have in place to make sure you don’t lose it all? Remember Bernie Madoff? Everyone trusted him. Look what happened to their money.
Checks and balances are a common practice in business to prevent one person from stealing money from the firm. Usually, there’s a requirement for two signatures on checks, or something similar.
What checks and balances do you have in place to protect your money? It's lazy to just sit back and hope the person handling your finances is honest and trustworthy. Some folks are trustworthy, some aren’t. What about the person managing your money? Are you sure? Better to be safe than sorry.
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