What keeps you going?

It is evident that we need a driving force to make us decide our goal for which we would start working thinking we have a purpose to survive. The thin line that comes all through the journey is setting our intention. Choosing the right destination will help us guide in choosing our directions to reach the end goal.

Choosing the right people: Staying motivated all day doesn’t just happen that way by one’s own self. You should be surrounded by people who support you in good times and oppose you when your decisions are wrong. I must say, I’m grateful to get optimistic people who comprehend my problems just by the utterance of a word from me from which I get a plethora of assurance about solving the issues. That makes me feel I have people who indeed care for me. Choosing the wise people was the first choice that turned my vision more clear. It is obvious sometimes we are left with no option in selecting people, but with God’s grace, we still tolerate, learn and experience even from those people.Staying optimistic: It is an undeniable fact that we do lose ourselves in certain circumstances though we think we are brave enough to tackle life issues. We all would have gone through this phase of life, but what makes up heal up again is by sharing your thoughts with loved ones, doing your favorite work, practicing mindfulness, and giving yourself some space in rejecting your unrelated thoughts. Choosing to be optimistic is a characteristic of becoming successful.Everything is an experience: It is not about winning or failing in the race, all that matters is that you had the experience of taking part in the event. Failing every time in the completion of orders of the clients, crying alone, and not repeating the same mistake with the next client gives you more confidence, self-reliance, and experience which transforms your mindset to tackle whatever situation may arise even in the future as this would reflect in the work-life. I believe effortful learning which is combined with education gives more value to an individual to have a lasting impact.Being self-reliant: All my life, I have learned to be self-reliant. Expecting from other people has never been my thing. Taking decisions, paying my own bills and solving problems by myself is what I always wanted to be. I have experienced that people are not always the same and I can never really trust them when I am in need as they might not adhere to the utterance of their words all the time. Not everyone can become me. So I’m the first priority for myself. That is when I started spending more of “me time” in which I started reading, writing, and other works.

Conclusion

I consider the above things to be vital as I’ve been experiencing much in recent days. I would always opt to be confident with whatever I have and not in a need to bother for the things that are missing out as same as staying away from negativity, discussing about the people, etc. Focussing more on what is important and the first things first was me.

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