5 Surprising Truths About Introverts

There are several misconceptions about introverts. We tend to associate introverts with undesirable qualities like being nerdy or awkward or uncomfortable. But these are distortions. Take a look.  

Myth:  Introverts don’t do well in social situations.

Truth: Sure they’re probably not going to be the person standing in the middle of the room saying, “Trump, am I right?!” But they do their fair share of socializing. They just prefer to have people approach them, or feel more comfortable talking to people they have things in common with.

Myth: They have a hard time finding their “voice”.

Truth: Some of the best speakers, like Emma Watson or Audrey Hepburn have considered themselves introverts. When an introvert has something substantial to say, they’re going to say it. They simply are a little more selective about what they put out into the world.

Myth: They’re loners.

Truth: One of the defining qualities of an introvert is how they use their energy. Introverts tend to see time alone as a chance to recharge when they’re spent. But that doesn’t mean they don’t have a close group of friends.

Myth: They’re rude or awkward.

Truth: Introverts can get a bad rap because they don’t enjoy “small talk”. It may feel phony to them and can be draining. But when you get to know them, you’ll quickly realize they’re actually great listeners and easy to talk to.

Myth: They’re boring.

Truth: Introverts are deep thinkers. They spend a lot of time reflecting. They may come across as dull. If only you knew what really went on...

- Bre Glynn