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September 30, 2014
How to Become a Millionaire?
“Money Makes the Man.”
Unknown
Great amount of millionaires used to be poor before. Poverty and troublesome drove them to their wealthy. Although, we have a strong will to become a millionaire, we may not be able to make it comes true. If it is that easy, everyone could be wealthy, right? A millionaire knows necessary secret of richness well. Also, he knows how to use those secrets. He also never gives up even he fails again and again. Nevertheless, you can also become a millionaire one day if you follow the path of wealthy seriously as same as all the millionaires did. It may take you a long time but you will attain a worthy reward for your trial.
Think like a millionaire
Different thinking makes different results. First of all, you must have a strong will in order to be rich and think how to reach it. Think of your dream often and be brave to think out of the box. You don’t have to fear of anything, just think positive. Don’t forget to think of helping other people when you get rich; because, it will derive secret power for getting rich. Anyway, thinking changes all the times, be sure you can control it.
Do like a millionaire
A millionaire never stops learning because he needs enough knowledge to make him rich. Without knowledge, he can’t get rich or get successful at all. He will always save his knowledge for any interesting opportunity that may show up. And, he will be able to take it immediately. He always works very hard all the times as he never forgets his dream. He knows well how to inspire himself to work harder and harder. Many times, working hard is enjoyable for him.
When any problem occurs, he will try to solve it smartly. He never fears of making mistakes because he doesn’t fear of failure. This kind of man cares about the quality of his work. Every piece of work has to be done well. Even it is so difficult to get rich quick, he still be very bearable and keep trying. He doesn’t know the word “give up” and it has never been in his head. He follows his goal and plan strictly, dares to make decision and be able to control his life very well.
Believe and feel like a millionaire
Initially, a millionaire believes in himself that he has ability to get wealthy. Also, he believes in the law of nature which brings him powerful power for his success. He will be thankful for all the good things coming up in his life. He knows how to ask for what he wants from the universe. He imagines that he is wealthy and feels it every morning and night. Also, whenever he can, he doesn’t forget to affirm his goals towards himself. These laws of nature will respond him in a form of miracle power.
Even the path of wealthy is not so easy and beautiful; however, you can reach it one day. Fortunately, we have so many samples to learn from and have many great techniques for becoming a millionaire. Be strict, serious and try hard!
To read more, please visit www.christlewisbooks.com
Unknown
Great amount of millionaires used to be poor before. Poverty and troublesome drove them to their wealthy. Although, we have a strong will to become a millionaire, we may not be able to make it comes true. If it is that easy, everyone could be wealthy, right? A millionaire knows necessary secret of richness well. Also, he knows how to use those secrets. He also never gives up even he fails again and again. Nevertheless, you can also become a millionaire one day if you follow the path of wealthy seriously as same as all the millionaires did. It may take you a long time but you will attain a worthy reward for your trial.
Think like a millionaire
Different thinking makes different results. First of all, you must have a strong will in order to be rich and think how to reach it. Think of your dream often and be brave to think out of the box. You don’t have to fear of anything, just think positive. Don’t forget to think of helping other people when you get rich; because, it will derive secret power for getting rich. Anyway, thinking changes all the times, be sure you can control it.
Do like a millionaire
A millionaire never stops learning because he needs enough knowledge to make him rich. Without knowledge, he can’t get rich or get successful at all. He will always save his knowledge for any interesting opportunity that may show up. And, he will be able to take it immediately. He always works very hard all the times as he never forgets his dream. He knows well how to inspire himself to work harder and harder. Many times, working hard is enjoyable for him.
When any problem occurs, he will try to solve it smartly. He never fears of making mistakes because he doesn’t fear of failure. This kind of man cares about the quality of his work. Every piece of work has to be done well. Even it is so difficult to get rich quick, he still be very bearable and keep trying. He doesn’t know the word “give up” and it has never been in his head. He follows his goal and plan strictly, dares to make decision and be able to control his life very well.
Believe and feel like a millionaire
Initially, a millionaire believes in himself that he has ability to get wealthy. Also, he believes in the law of nature which brings him powerful power for his success. He will be thankful for all the good things coming up in his life. He knows how to ask for what he wants from the universe. He imagines that he is wealthy and feels it every morning and night. Also, whenever he can, he doesn’t forget to affirm his goals towards himself. These laws of nature will respond him in a form of miracle power.
Even the path of wealthy is not so easy and beautiful; however, you can reach it one day. Fortunately, we have so many samples to learn from and have many great techniques for becoming a millionaire. Be strict, serious and try hard!
To read more, please visit www.christlewisbooks.com
September 27, 2014
How to Achieve Your Goal?
Success is a wonderful thing everyone wants to own. Sometimes, when you see other people get successful in their lives, you may feel jealous. Those people are well-accepted, famous, wealthy and happy. You may not be jealous because of these properties but their luckiness. Again, you may think that why they are so lucky in life.
And, if you have as good education as they have or have enough fund to invest like them, you would get successful as well. In the contrary, the path of success is not so easy. It is not beautiful at all. Successful people have been fought hardly with the obstacles showed up all along the path. Troublesome and pain have driven them to this successful day. Are they not deserved that?
Initially, you must know what your goal is before you can make a clear plan to achieve it. But, this is not enough. You must have strong determination to achieve the goal. Furthermore, understanding that failure may visit you many times during the journey is so important. Get up again and again even how often you have fallen down. When you fail or confront with some obstacles you will grow better and better every time. In addition, don’t forget to use the power of the law of success. Afterwards, success will be yours, too!
Your Goal Must Be Defined and Sure
Discover yourself, what your goal is. Make sure that it is what you really want in life. Define it by imagine of your successful day and feel it like it is real. Also, make sure that you will not change or stop doing it later.
Make Your Plan Clear and Possible
Plan is a compass leading you to your goal. Therefore, you must make it clear and possible to be followed. The plan should contain of the goal, when to achieve or how much time you have, what are the sub-details of the big goal, amount of what you want, how to do it and who can help you. Don’t forget to make it easy to do and save your time at the same time. Nevertheless, plan is not everything. The most important thing is to do it determinately.
Determination
Determination is a powerful factor for any achievement. Without this you can’t achieve any goals. So you must always keep it strong all the times until you achieve your goal.
Failure Equals Stronger +Success
Any failure is a teacher teaching you valuable lessons. You may feel hurt and suffering the moment you fail. In the mean time, it is making you stronger and get closer to success. Successful people never fear of failure. Fight and Strong and Success!
Use the Law of Success
Frankly, the law of success is not different from law of karma, law of attraction, law of action and reaction, law of cause and effect, law of giving and receiving and law of consciousness. They are probably the same thing but are called in different names. The law of success is incredible powerful. You can use the law by many ways such as, meditation, pray, creative imagination and affirmation. Using the law of success is the most powerful way to achieve your goal.
Achievement belongs to everyone who has clear goal, knows how to achieve the goal, works very hard, never gives up and use the law of success!
To read more, please visit www.christlewisbooks.com
And, if you have as good education as they have or have enough fund to invest like them, you would get successful as well. In the contrary, the path of success is not so easy. It is not beautiful at all. Successful people have been fought hardly with the obstacles showed up all along the path. Troublesome and pain have driven them to this successful day. Are they not deserved that?
Initially, you must know what your goal is before you can make a clear plan to achieve it. But, this is not enough. You must have strong determination to achieve the goal. Furthermore, understanding that failure may visit you many times during the journey is so important. Get up again and again even how often you have fallen down. When you fail or confront with some obstacles you will grow better and better every time. In addition, don’t forget to use the power of the law of success. Afterwards, success will be yours, too!
Your Goal Must Be Defined and Sure
Discover yourself, what your goal is. Make sure that it is what you really want in life. Define it by imagine of your successful day and feel it like it is real. Also, make sure that you will not change or stop doing it later.
Make Your Plan Clear and Possible
Plan is a compass leading you to your goal. Therefore, you must make it clear and possible to be followed. The plan should contain of the goal, when to achieve or how much time you have, what are the sub-details of the big goal, amount of what you want, how to do it and who can help you. Don’t forget to make it easy to do and save your time at the same time. Nevertheless, plan is not everything. The most important thing is to do it determinately.
Determination
Determination is a powerful factor for any achievement. Without this you can’t achieve any goals. So you must always keep it strong all the times until you achieve your goal.
Failure Equals Stronger +Success
Any failure is a teacher teaching you valuable lessons. You may feel hurt and suffering the moment you fail. In the mean time, it is making you stronger and get closer to success. Successful people never fear of failure. Fight and Strong and Success!
Use the Law of Success
Frankly, the law of success is not different from law of karma, law of attraction, law of action and reaction, law of cause and effect, law of giving and receiving and law of consciousness. They are probably the same thing but are called in different names. The law of success is incredible powerful. You can use the law by many ways such as, meditation, pray, creative imagination and affirmation. Using the law of success is the most powerful way to achieve your goal.
Achievement belongs to everyone who has clear goal, knows how to achieve the goal, works very hard, never gives up and use the law of success!
To read more, please visit www.christlewisbooks.com
September 26, 2014
How Can You Stop Procrastinating?
Procrastinating is very similar to laziness, almost cannot be differentiated. However, we may say that laziness is a feeling of not want to do any work even we have something to do or not. We can be lazy at any situation. But, procrastinating is a feeling of not want to do any work even we have something to do. It is just a bit different, don’t you see?
I think it is one of human natures to be procrastinated. Most people prefer to wait until the last minute before starting to work. This is because they feel good to do nothing or don’t like to worry about anything if not necessary. On the contrary, this kind of good feelings will bring you big suffer later. Why is it like that? This is because when they wait until the last day, they will be too stressed to make it good. As the time is running every second, they will feel more and more stressed.
Finally, they will just do every way to finish the work without caring about its quality. The limitation of time will force them to produce a bad work. Moreover, some are worse than this. They may not be able to finish it on time so they have to postpone it to the next day. Don’t you think this is terrible? To be like this confirms that they are irresponsible and unreliable. However, this problem can be solved by us ourselves.
Some simple ways I am suggesting may encourage you to win your heart. Every way starts with your thought. Changing just a little bit of your thought may permanently stop your procrastinating forever. As soon as you know that you have something to do, just do it immediately. You have no reason to wait longer. But, if you are really busy at that time, you have to answer yourself immediately when will you do it. Promise yourself to finish it as soon as possible. You have to think like a competition. You must be the first one who finishes that job.
Compare yourself to your friends or colleagues. Win them by working faster. If you can do this, you will become one of the number one employees in your company. If you have nobody to compete with, you have to compete with yourself instead. Set up a proper period of time to finish that job and you must finish it on time. This is quite fun. I think you will enjoy it. Every time you can do that, you will feel proud of yourself, love and esteem yourself. In addition, you will feel that working is challenging and exciting. So, there will be no reasons to not working immediately anymore. You can do it!
We don’t have much time left for this life. Our main responsibility in life is to build ourselves up. Prove ourselves valuable and are deserved living. Only working can justify that. Remember, everything we have done must be the best thing we can do. A good work proves a man good. Stop procrastinating now!
To read more, please visit www.christlewisbooks.com
I think it is one of human natures to be procrastinated. Most people prefer to wait until the last minute before starting to work. This is because they feel good to do nothing or don’t like to worry about anything if not necessary. On the contrary, this kind of good feelings will bring you big suffer later. Why is it like that? This is because when they wait until the last day, they will be too stressed to make it good. As the time is running every second, they will feel more and more stressed.
Finally, they will just do every way to finish the work without caring about its quality. The limitation of time will force them to produce a bad work. Moreover, some are worse than this. They may not be able to finish it on time so they have to postpone it to the next day. Don’t you think this is terrible? To be like this confirms that they are irresponsible and unreliable. However, this problem can be solved by us ourselves.
Some simple ways I am suggesting may encourage you to win your heart. Every way starts with your thought. Changing just a little bit of your thought may permanently stop your procrastinating forever. As soon as you know that you have something to do, just do it immediately. You have no reason to wait longer. But, if you are really busy at that time, you have to answer yourself immediately when will you do it. Promise yourself to finish it as soon as possible. You have to think like a competition. You must be the first one who finishes that job.
Compare yourself to your friends or colleagues. Win them by working faster. If you can do this, you will become one of the number one employees in your company. If you have nobody to compete with, you have to compete with yourself instead. Set up a proper period of time to finish that job and you must finish it on time. This is quite fun. I think you will enjoy it. Every time you can do that, you will feel proud of yourself, love and esteem yourself. In addition, you will feel that working is challenging and exciting. So, there will be no reasons to not working immediately anymore. You can do it!
We don’t have much time left for this life. Our main responsibility in life is to build ourselves up. Prove ourselves valuable and are deserved living. Only working can justify that. Remember, everything we have done must be the best thing we can do. A good work proves a man good. Stop procrastinating now!
To read more, please visit www.christlewisbooks.com
September 23, 2014
Failure is a Path to Success
“Develop success from failures. Discouragement and Failure are two of the surest Stepping Stones to success.”
Dale Carnegie
“Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.”
Winston Churchill
“… failure is absolutely necessary for success, in fact in many ways, it defines success. It’s like that hot and cold type of things, one would never know exactly what hot is without cold, and vice versa. If no one ever failed at anything, we would never be able to appreciate our successes. Most successful people will tell you, the moments that affected them the most, the ones that they will never forgot, were the ones where they failed, because in those moments, you realize exactly what you are made of. Do you rise from the ashes like the phoenix, or do you let yourself be defeated.”
J.K. Rowling
Failure is a big obstacle that always happens together with success. They are harmoniously combined. I mean that there is no success without failure. Before you get any success, failures will prove that you are qualified to be successful. Failure is a difficult test you have to pass. And, if you pass, you will succeed. Success will be the wonderful reward you will never forget.
Therefore, you don’t have to fear of failure for you will face it for sure as long as you still stay on the path of success. When you fail, tell yourself that it is making you stronger and smarter every time. Use it as a stair to step higher. Try to see what is wrong and how you would make it better for you can continue walking. For sure it is very hard but you must fight.
Sometimes, you may need help from other people. Friends and family are the greatest sources of encouragement and solution. You may have to confront with many failures during your path; however; never give up. You know at the beginning that this will happen somehow, so don’t give up. Every problem has its own solution. “Life is a fighting”. So why should you not fight? Fight like many successful people do!
There are plenty of successful people who can teach you about failure and success such as J.K. Rowling, Steve Jobs, Hillary Clinton, Charles Darwin, Vincent Van Gogh, Douglas MacArther and so on. Their biographies will show you how they failed and how they fought. Leaning from biographies is a great way to build your encouragement and see some useful approaches to fight for your success. After this, you may pick one of them you like most as your idol. Keep him deeply in your mind as a reminder when you fail. Get up, not give up!
The beauty of these people’s successes had been dealt with a lot of failures before. No path of success is beautiful. But as a result, it makes them feel proud of themselves and appreciate their successes every time they look back to the path. Failure is a path to success!
To read more, please visit www.christlewisbooks.com
Dale Carnegie
“Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.”
Winston Churchill
“… failure is absolutely necessary for success, in fact in many ways, it defines success. It’s like that hot and cold type of things, one would never know exactly what hot is without cold, and vice versa. If no one ever failed at anything, we would never be able to appreciate our successes. Most successful people will tell you, the moments that affected them the most, the ones that they will never forgot, were the ones where they failed, because in those moments, you realize exactly what you are made of. Do you rise from the ashes like the phoenix, or do you let yourself be defeated.”
J.K. Rowling
Failure is a big obstacle that always happens together with success. They are harmoniously combined. I mean that there is no success without failure. Before you get any success, failures will prove that you are qualified to be successful. Failure is a difficult test you have to pass. And, if you pass, you will succeed. Success will be the wonderful reward you will never forget.
Therefore, you don’t have to fear of failure for you will face it for sure as long as you still stay on the path of success. When you fail, tell yourself that it is making you stronger and smarter every time. Use it as a stair to step higher. Try to see what is wrong and how you would make it better for you can continue walking. For sure it is very hard but you must fight.
Sometimes, you may need help from other people. Friends and family are the greatest sources of encouragement and solution. You may have to confront with many failures during your path; however; never give up. You know at the beginning that this will happen somehow, so don’t give up. Every problem has its own solution. “Life is a fighting”. So why should you not fight? Fight like many successful people do!
There are plenty of successful people who can teach you about failure and success such as J.K. Rowling, Steve Jobs, Hillary Clinton, Charles Darwin, Vincent Van Gogh, Douglas MacArther and so on. Their biographies will show you how they failed and how they fought. Leaning from biographies is a great way to build your encouragement and see some useful approaches to fight for your success. After this, you may pick one of them you like most as your idol. Keep him deeply in your mind as a reminder when you fail. Get up, not give up!
The beauty of these people’s successes had been dealt with a lot of failures before. No path of success is beautiful. But as a result, it makes them feel proud of themselves and appreciate their successes every time they look back to the path. Failure is a path to success!
To read more, please visit www.christlewisbooks.com
September 21, 2014
Easy Steps to Amazing Public Speaking
Mentioning about public speaking may make many people nervous. This is sure true. Do you believe that even a good speaker can also feel very nervous every time he has to speak in public? It means not only you who feel nervous but also most of other people do. Basically, different person has different levels of the feeling depending on his ability in self-controlling. Do you know what the causes of this problem are?
There are at least three main causes, fear, ignorance and lacking of self-confidence. The fear can be fear of many things such as, fear of making a bad speech, fear of forgetting what to speak and so on. For ignorance, this can be about the information or the facts of the speech content and the principles of speaking. And for lacking of confidence, it can be because of lacking of speaking experience, bad preparation, less practicing, bad personality and illness. Despite the pact that public speaking is scary yet, it is something that is very challenging. In addition, you can also make it an amazing experience just to follow the easy steps below!
Get Well-Prepared for Your Speech
When you know that you will have to make a speech in public, you have to make a plan and prepare for it. Preparing is the most important step so that you have to make it clear and sure. The first thing you have to prepare is the content of your speech which needs to be written in well-organized, informative and impressive one.
The next thing is to prepare yourself. You have to make sure that your health will be alright on your speaking day, so try to stay healthy. Also, think about appropriate costume you will wear (Make sure that it is really appropriate). Importantly, your mind is the key factor for making your speech amazing. You will have to try finding effective techniques to empower your confidence. If you can do all these stuff, it ensures you at least 50% that you would get successful.
Drive Away Your Nervousness
Though, nervousness is a nature of public speaking; however, it is scared to be driven away. You just have to change a little bit of your thought. Try to imagine that the audiences are not human beings or being something else that cannot see you and understand what you talk about. Imagine that you are speaking to no one like when you practice it in front of the mirror.
So, you don’t have to worry about anything when getting on the podium. I know that this may be difficult to believe it that way. But, if you keep practicing thinking like that every time you stand in front of the mirror, thing will go much easier for you when your speaking day comes. When you feel free to speak or you have no worries during your speech, you will not forget what to speak and can speak it naturally. If you can speak what you have prepared, it is for sure that your audiences will be amazed.
Add Some Techniques to Your Speaking
These techniques will bring the audiences’ impression to you. To do this naturally, you need enough experiences. Nevertheless, you can practice using them any time even when you talk to your friends or even to yourself. The techniques contains of using your body language, the tones of your voice, your powerful eyes, your energetic performance and your sense of humor.
To be successful in public speaking, you need to understand both the sciences and the arts of speaking which can be practicable. Apart from the easy steps above, improving your speech is necessary. Evaluate yourself after speaking every time and improve it next time. Then you will become an amazing public speaker.
To read more, please visit www.christlewisbooks.com
There are at least three main causes, fear, ignorance and lacking of self-confidence. The fear can be fear of many things such as, fear of making a bad speech, fear of forgetting what to speak and so on. For ignorance, this can be about the information or the facts of the speech content and the principles of speaking. And for lacking of confidence, it can be because of lacking of speaking experience, bad preparation, less practicing, bad personality and illness. Despite the pact that public speaking is scary yet, it is something that is very challenging. In addition, you can also make it an amazing experience just to follow the easy steps below!
Get Well-Prepared for Your Speech
When you know that you will have to make a speech in public, you have to make a plan and prepare for it. Preparing is the most important step so that you have to make it clear and sure. The first thing you have to prepare is the content of your speech which needs to be written in well-organized, informative and impressive one.
The next thing is to prepare yourself. You have to make sure that your health will be alright on your speaking day, so try to stay healthy. Also, think about appropriate costume you will wear (Make sure that it is really appropriate). Importantly, your mind is the key factor for making your speech amazing. You will have to try finding effective techniques to empower your confidence. If you can do all these stuff, it ensures you at least 50% that you would get successful.
Drive Away Your Nervousness
Though, nervousness is a nature of public speaking; however, it is scared to be driven away. You just have to change a little bit of your thought. Try to imagine that the audiences are not human beings or being something else that cannot see you and understand what you talk about. Imagine that you are speaking to no one like when you practice it in front of the mirror.
So, you don’t have to worry about anything when getting on the podium. I know that this may be difficult to believe it that way. But, if you keep practicing thinking like that every time you stand in front of the mirror, thing will go much easier for you when your speaking day comes. When you feel free to speak or you have no worries during your speech, you will not forget what to speak and can speak it naturally. If you can speak what you have prepared, it is for sure that your audiences will be amazed.
Add Some Techniques to Your Speaking
These techniques will bring the audiences’ impression to you. To do this naturally, you need enough experiences. Nevertheless, you can practice using them any time even when you talk to your friends or even to yourself. The techniques contains of using your body language, the tones of your voice, your powerful eyes, your energetic performance and your sense of humor.
To be successful in public speaking, you need to understand both the sciences and the arts of speaking which can be practicable. Apart from the easy steps above, improving your speech is necessary. Evaluate yourself after speaking every time and improve it next time. Then you will become an amazing public speaker.
To read more, please visit www.christlewisbooks.com
September 20, 2014
Dealing with Anxiety
“Anxiety is a thin stream of fear trickling through the mind. If encouraged, it cuts a channel into which all other thoughts are drained.”
Robert Albert Bloch
“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.”
Mark Twain
“You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You must do the thing which you think you cannot do.”
Anna Eleanor Roosevelt
Anxiety a kind of stress called “emotional and psychological stress” which is caused by thinking too much about some strong incidents that happened in the past and something that would happen in the future. When you are anxious, you will take big breath often. This is because you can’t breathe evenly to take enough breath for your body.
It is clear that anyone who is anxious will have a short life. This is because anxiety is very harmful to human health for it effects towards the blood circulation. Moreover, he will never be happy with anything because anxiety is also a strong habit that is not easy to be removed. And, we can’t deny that unhappiness is a part of having short life. As a result, we should find out how to deal with our anxiety.
Initially, you have to examine yourself to see that you are anxious or not. If you feel unhappy, cannot sleep, take big breath often, thinking too much about something, it means you are anxious. When you know that, you must realize that this is dangerous. You must try to stop it. The next thing you have to do is to find out why you are anxious. What do you fear of? Basic of fear is divided into six types, fear of poverty, fear of elderly, fear of criticism, fear of losing of love, fear of unhealthiness and fear of death. Which one do you fear of? Take your time to think.
However, to deal with anxiety is a possible thing. There are many ways to removed it. For instant, you can keep yourself busy with something (something you enjoy doing) for you won’t have time to worry about anything. On the other hand, learn to think positive. You are not the worst person in this world. There are so many people who have worse lives than you. Repeating thinking about the same thing too often won’t help but enlarge the problem. Whatever will happen let it happens. You just have to make “today” your best day. Yesterday passed already and tomorrow is not coming yet. Nothing you can do with that. Stay with your present and you will overcome anxiety. Robert Albert Bloch said that “Anxiety is a thin stream of fear trickling through the mind. If encouraged, it cuts a channel into which all other thoughts are drained.” Don’t you think this is true?
To read more, please visit www.christlewisbooks.com
Robert Albert Bloch
“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.”
Mark Twain
“You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You must do the thing which you think you cannot do.”
Anna Eleanor Roosevelt
Anxiety a kind of stress called “emotional and psychological stress” which is caused by thinking too much about some strong incidents that happened in the past and something that would happen in the future. When you are anxious, you will take big breath often. This is because you can’t breathe evenly to take enough breath for your body.
It is clear that anyone who is anxious will have a short life. This is because anxiety is very harmful to human health for it effects towards the blood circulation. Moreover, he will never be happy with anything because anxiety is also a strong habit that is not easy to be removed. And, we can’t deny that unhappiness is a part of having short life. As a result, we should find out how to deal with our anxiety.
Initially, you have to examine yourself to see that you are anxious or not. If you feel unhappy, cannot sleep, take big breath often, thinking too much about something, it means you are anxious. When you know that, you must realize that this is dangerous. You must try to stop it. The next thing you have to do is to find out why you are anxious. What do you fear of? Basic of fear is divided into six types, fear of poverty, fear of elderly, fear of criticism, fear of losing of love, fear of unhealthiness and fear of death. Which one do you fear of? Take your time to think.
However, to deal with anxiety is a possible thing. There are many ways to removed it. For instant, you can keep yourself busy with something (something you enjoy doing) for you won’t have time to worry about anything. On the other hand, learn to think positive. You are not the worst person in this world. There are so many people who have worse lives than you. Repeating thinking about the same thing too often won’t help but enlarge the problem. Whatever will happen let it happens. You just have to make “today” your best day. Yesterday passed already and tomorrow is not coming yet. Nothing you can do with that. Stay with your present and you will overcome anxiety. Robert Albert Bloch said that “Anxiety is a thin stream of fear trickling through the mind. If encouraged, it cuts a channel into which all other thoughts are drained.” Don’t you think this is true?
To read more, please visit www.christlewisbooks.com
September 19, 2014
Daily Habits towards Your Success
Mentioning about success encourages me to think about a famous person named “Napoleon Hill”. You may have heard about him before. He spent 20 years to interview a great number of famous people at that time till he discovered the “16 Law of Success”. I think these are the great habits leading you to your success. But, I would like to explain only 9 of them here so you won’t feel too tired reading my long article.
1. The Master Mind
Napoleon hill defines it “as a mind that is developed through the harmonious cooperation of two or more people who ally themselves for the purpose of accomplishing any given task.” According to the definition, you should find some people who have the same goals as you have. Working together harmoniously with these people will build the third great power called “Master Mind” which enables you to achieve your goal.
2. Definitiveness of Purpose
This will help you to get rid of unnecessary works that are not involved with your purpose. When you know exactly what you really want, you will concentrate on it instead of doing something in a wrong direction. Think about your fixed goal daily and it will show you how to avoid doing aimless works.
3. Self-Confidence
As you know that lacking of confidence comes from the six basic fears. To be self-confident, you need to remove those fears. Check yourself if you have anything you fear of and learn how to cut those fears.
4. The Habit of Saving
This rule is very fixed. Saving is a basic habit for success and no one can get successful without this habit. It will teach you how to manage your income systematically. When you have this habit, a great personal power will be cultivated. Don’t be extravagant!
5. Initiative and Leadership
With no doubt, these two properties will lead you to your success for sure. Learn how to develop initiation and leadership. Then, practice with any situations you confront daily.
Imagination
Einstein said that “Imagination is more important than Knowledge”. I think this is sure true; because, imagination is a great source of miracle power for success. Imagine about your goal every day when you wake up in the morning and just before you sleep. Try to define the image, believe that you already achieve it and feel it. This will attain a great miracle power for your success.
6. Enthusiasm
It is said that enthusiasm is foundation of a pleasing personality which will persuade other people to cooperate with you. This is very easy to develop. You just start with walking faster and doing everything faster than usual.
7. Self-Control
Not everyone is self-controlled. This needs to be developed in everyday life. Think before doing something and remind yourself not to be uncontrolled. This will enable you to control your life as well as your fate. Don’t let anything else controls you except yourself. Everything will be possible.
8. A Pleasing Personality
A pleasing personality is a great tool helping you to deal with any obstacles. It will help you to fight with failures. Learn to develop your personality and practice it daily. Then, you will become an impressive person.
The rest of the rules contains of accurate thinking, concentration, cooperation, profiting by failure, tolerance and the golden rule. You can search for more information on the internet or bookshops. Anyway, if you cultivate all these habits by practicing them daily, you will be sure that your success is not too far. Start doing it now!
To read more, please visit www.christlewisbooks.com
1. The Master Mind
Napoleon hill defines it “as a mind that is developed through the harmonious cooperation of two or more people who ally themselves for the purpose of accomplishing any given task.” According to the definition, you should find some people who have the same goals as you have. Working together harmoniously with these people will build the third great power called “Master Mind” which enables you to achieve your goal.
2. Definitiveness of Purpose
This will help you to get rid of unnecessary works that are not involved with your purpose. When you know exactly what you really want, you will concentrate on it instead of doing something in a wrong direction. Think about your fixed goal daily and it will show you how to avoid doing aimless works.
3. Self-Confidence
As you know that lacking of confidence comes from the six basic fears. To be self-confident, you need to remove those fears. Check yourself if you have anything you fear of and learn how to cut those fears.
4. The Habit of Saving
This rule is very fixed. Saving is a basic habit for success and no one can get successful without this habit. It will teach you how to manage your income systematically. When you have this habit, a great personal power will be cultivated. Don’t be extravagant!
5. Initiative and Leadership
With no doubt, these two properties will lead you to your success for sure. Learn how to develop initiation and leadership. Then, practice with any situations you confront daily.
Imagination
Einstein said that “Imagination is more important than Knowledge”. I think this is sure true; because, imagination is a great source of miracle power for success. Imagine about your goal every day when you wake up in the morning and just before you sleep. Try to define the image, believe that you already achieve it and feel it. This will attain a great miracle power for your success.
6. Enthusiasm
It is said that enthusiasm is foundation of a pleasing personality which will persuade other people to cooperate with you. This is very easy to develop. You just start with walking faster and doing everything faster than usual.
7. Self-Control
Not everyone is self-controlled. This needs to be developed in everyday life. Think before doing something and remind yourself not to be uncontrolled. This will enable you to control your life as well as your fate. Don’t let anything else controls you except yourself. Everything will be possible.
8. A Pleasing Personality
A pleasing personality is a great tool helping you to deal with any obstacles. It will help you to fight with failures. Learn to develop your personality and practice it daily. Then, you will become an impressive person.
The rest of the rules contains of accurate thinking, concentration, cooperation, profiting by failure, tolerance and the golden rule. You can search for more information on the internet or bookshops. Anyway, if you cultivate all these habits by practicing them daily, you will be sure that your success is not too far. Start doing it now!
To read more, please visit www.christlewisbooks.com
September 18, 2014
What Behaviors Bring You to Happiness?
We may say that happiness is what every man wants but, each one has different ways to make him happy. But unfortunately, most people all around the world completely misunderstand about happiness. They forget their real life goals or even don’t know about that. Their ignorance is leading them to a fake happiness. Sometimes, it is hard to differentiate between fake and real things. The happiness that comes up from the deep inside the heart is supposed to be a real one. Many people try very hard to be happy by trying to earn as much money as they can without caring of right and wrong. Many of them want to be accepted, successful, good looking and whatever a man could desire. And, it is hard to explain what human needs are.
However, you may have heard about Maslow’s theory of Hierarchy of Human Needs Model. He proposed the theory in psychology by portraying human needs in the shape of a pyramid with the largest, most fundamental levels at the bottom and the need for self-actualization at the top. He classified human needs into five levels; those are physiological needs, safety needs, love and belonging, esteem and self-actualization, respectively. It is said that happiness comes from the satisfaction of what a human has.
Frankly, not all the needs Maslow proposed can bring true happiness to humans because these needs are expectations. I think that true happiness doesn’t need to come from expectation but from doing anything without expecting to receive something back in return. It means that there are so many behaviors that humans may forget to think about. The behaviors suggested below are so easy to try.
Get up be for the sun rises
Embrace yourself in the nature
Look up into the sky in the night
Sing songs and listen to music
Do meditation
Appreciate your self
Exercise
Breath in the fresh air of early morning
Think creatively or positively
Think about funny experiences and laugh
Give something to other people
Stay healthy
Write a love letter to yourself
Do some hobbies
Learn doing new things
Read good books
Be imaginative
Do something good for the ones you love
Watch the world with sympathetic eyes
Be independent
Respect all lives
Believe in yourself
Release yourself from everything
Do what you love to do
Searching for good elements in other people
Develop yourself
Always smile even in a hard situation
The true happiness is already in you. In the depth of everyone’s mind contains of happiness that is waiting to be shown up. Just a simple behavior may make a great change in your life. Forget everything and stay with yourself. Examine what you really want in life. And, all you have done are the right thing you want or not? What type of lifestyle do you prefer to have? You need to answer yourself all these questions as soon as possible.
To read more, please visit www.christlewisbooks.com
However, you may have heard about Maslow’s theory of Hierarchy of Human Needs Model. He proposed the theory in psychology by portraying human needs in the shape of a pyramid with the largest, most fundamental levels at the bottom and the need for self-actualization at the top. He classified human needs into five levels; those are physiological needs, safety needs, love and belonging, esteem and self-actualization, respectively. It is said that happiness comes from the satisfaction of what a human has.
Frankly, not all the needs Maslow proposed can bring true happiness to humans because these needs are expectations. I think that true happiness doesn’t need to come from expectation but from doing anything without expecting to receive something back in return. It means that there are so many behaviors that humans may forget to think about. The behaviors suggested below are so easy to try.
Get up be for the sun rises
Embrace yourself in the nature
Look up into the sky in the night
Sing songs and listen to music
Do meditation
Appreciate your self
Exercise
Breath in the fresh air of early morning
Think creatively or positively
Think about funny experiences and laugh
Give something to other people
Stay healthy
Write a love letter to yourself
Do some hobbies
Learn doing new things
Read good books
Be imaginative
Do something good for the ones you love
Watch the world with sympathetic eyes
Be independent
Respect all lives
Believe in yourself
Release yourself from everything
Do what you love to do
Searching for good elements in other people
Develop yourself
Always smile even in a hard situation
The true happiness is already in you. In the depth of everyone’s mind contains of happiness that is waiting to be shown up. Just a simple behavior may make a great change in your life. Forget everything and stay with yourself. Examine what you really want in life. And, all you have done are the right thing you want or not? What type of lifestyle do you prefer to have? You need to answer yourself all these questions as soon as possible.
To read more, please visit www.christlewisbooks.com
September 17, 2014
Value of Life is in Yourself
The one who best builds yourself up is you “yourself”. And the one who best destroys yourself is also you “yourself”. Once, to be born as a human being, you should prove yourself deserve it. You should prove your life valuable. Besides yourself, no one else can pull you down. No one can make you invaluable. Everyone has his value in him and he should show it to other people. Be helpful and not selfish so you can call it “a valuable life”.
Life value is expressed by doing good deeds especially, doing them for other people. Indeed, to be good or valuable is not as difficult as you think and everyone can be. Your life is valuable just to “live with love”.
Be Aware of the Time You Have Left in Your Life
Life is short actually. Less than a hundred years of time is not much, isn’t it? Take some times and think whether you have anything you want to do before you die or not? And, what do you want in your life? Will the time you have left be enough for everything or not? Be aware of time and don’t forget your goals.
Always Love and Respect Yourself
First of all, you need to love yourself, before sharing your love with other people. To love other people without to love one’s self is ashamed. Moreover, it is not “valuable” but “silly”. How can you contribute your value to the outside world if you don’t even have it in your world yet? Is that right?
Health is the Most Important
In order to help other people, you need to be enough healthy. You can’t pay for being healthy but you can be careful about it. Don’t let illness be an obstacle for doing good things for the ones you love. Staying healthy by getting up early, exercising, eating healthy food, drinking lots of water, sleeping enough and getting rid of worries and stress are the basic ways anyone can do.
Life-Long Learning
Learning makes development in life as well as life needs to be developed. It is very easy to learn because you can learn from anything around you. Everything you do or get involved with always teaches you something. Don’t stop learning. Don’t you think it is interesting to get new knowledge?
Appreciate What You Have and How You Are
Your self is valuable. Appreciate it and realize that you have many good elements in you. Be happy with how you are. You don’t have to try being like other people because everyone is different. Appreciating yourself will increase your value of life.
Key Virtue – Be Grateful!
One basic virtue all lives must have is gratefulness. Don’t forget the people who used to help you something and try to give them something back in return as much as possible. Grateful people will always be successful in life. Without gratefulness, you can’t help anyone. And, this can be called “selfish”. All successful people are aware of this key virtue.
Prove yourself valuable. All the good things you have done for other people don’t have to be returned by something. Learn to give without a get-back purpose and you will get the real happiness for your reward.
To read more, please visit www.christlewisbooks.com
Life value is expressed by doing good deeds especially, doing them for other people. Indeed, to be good or valuable is not as difficult as you think and everyone can be. Your life is valuable just to “live with love”.
Be Aware of the Time You Have Left in Your Life
Life is short actually. Less than a hundred years of time is not much, isn’t it? Take some times and think whether you have anything you want to do before you die or not? And, what do you want in your life? Will the time you have left be enough for everything or not? Be aware of time and don’t forget your goals.
Always Love and Respect Yourself
First of all, you need to love yourself, before sharing your love with other people. To love other people without to love one’s self is ashamed. Moreover, it is not “valuable” but “silly”. How can you contribute your value to the outside world if you don’t even have it in your world yet? Is that right?
Health is the Most Important
In order to help other people, you need to be enough healthy. You can’t pay for being healthy but you can be careful about it. Don’t let illness be an obstacle for doing good things for the ones you love. Staying healthy by getting up early, exercising, eating healthy food, drinking lots of water, sleeping enough and getting rid of worries and stress are the basic ways anyone can do.
Life-Long Learning
Learning makes development in life as well as life needs to be developed. It is very easy to learn because you can learn from anything around you. Everything you do or get involved with always teaches you something. Don’t stop learning. Don’t you think it is interesting to get new knowledge?
Appreciate What You Have and How You Are
Your self is valuable. Appreciate it and realize that you have many good elements in you. Be happy with how you are. You don’t have to try being like other people because everyone is different. Appreciating yourself will increase your value of life.
Key Virtue – Be Grateful!
One basic virtue all lives must have is gratefulness. Don’t forget the people who used to help you something and try to give them something back in return as much as possible. Grateful people will always be successful in life. Without gratefulness, you can’t help anyone. And, this can be called “selfish”. All successful people are aware of this key virtue.
Prove yourself valuable. All the good things you have done for other people don’t have to be returned by something. Learn to give without a get-back purpose and you will get the real happiness for your reward.
To read more, please visit www.christlewisbooks.com
September 16, 2014
Techniques to Rehabilitate for Your Impressive Image
Image means a mental picture that you have of what somebody or something is like or looks like (Oxford Advanced Learner’s Dictionary, 2010). Therefore, impressive image is a mental picture that you have towards someone or something in a positive way. Impressive image is an important factor influencing the relationship among you and other people. Furthermore, it is very helpful for gaining co-operation from other people very well. As a result, you should impress your image to the public. There are many techniques to rehabilitate for impressive image.
Self-Confidence
To cultivate self-confidence is not so easy. It needs quite a lot of time to practice. Even though everybody still wants to be confidence and tries to develop it. Lacking of self-believe makes people lack of confidence. You must believe in yourself by beginning with changing the way of thinking. Just believe without reasons that you have ability to do everything. A book named “Maximum Confidence Mind Power” written by Pol.Lt.Col. Arnan Chinnabut (Thai) is a powerful inspirited source for this point. The author suggested nine methods to get into your real image. Those methods consist of meditation, contemplation, pray, chanting, inner voice or intuition, serenity or silence, surrounding oneself with nature, creative visualization and affirmation.
Good Personality
Personality is a permanent behavioral characteristic which differentiate each person. If you want to improve your personality, you have to know yourself and accept your own weaknesses. Then find the right standard that fit you the best for you can compare the progress. For your weaknesses, they can be improved by allocating clear goals for changing the behaviors. Giving yourself encouragement will enable you to meet the goals faster. After that, you just have to wait and see how they have been changed.
Responsibility
Every piece of work you are assigned to do must be master piece of work. Don’t just finish it without appropriate working standard. Be responsible in both your working life and your everyday life. Be responsible for everything you have done and have spoken. Responsible people will get successful in every way of their lives.
Punctuality
Punctuality is a kind of discipline that is supposed to be built up. Make yourself as a model of punctuality for other people. Time is valuable.
Understanding
Telling yourself whether every human is different from one another is a sign of understanding. When you aware of the differences among people, you will respect whatever they do or however they are even sometimes you don’t agree with them. Everyone has his own reason to do something and maybe you don’t nee to know it. When you understand people and not complain, they will respect and appreciate you.
Impressive image equals success. Rehabilitate to be self-confident, develop your personality, be responsible in everything you do, aware of the importance of time and live with understanding other people. Keep practicing more and more until you are satisfied. After that, you will see that how much your life has been changed since then.
To read more, please visit www.christlewisbooks,com
Self-Confidence
To cultivate self-confidence is not so easy. It needs quite a lot of time to practice. Even though everybody still wants to be confidence and tries to develop it. Lacking of self-believe makes people lack of confidence. You must believe in yourself by beginning with changing the way of thinking. Just believe without reasons that you have ability to do everything. A book named “Maximum Confidence Mind Power” written by Pol.Lt.Col. Arnan Chinnabut (Thai) is a powerful inspirited source for this point. The author suggested nine methods to get into your real image. Those methods consist of meditation, contemplation, pray, chanting, inner voice or intuition, serenity or silence, surrounding oneself with nature, creative visualization and affirmation.
Good Personality
Personality is a permanent behavioral characteristic which differentiate each person. If you want to improve your personality, you have to know yourself and accept your own weaknesses. Then find the right standard that fit you the best for you can compare the progress. For your weaknesses, they can be improved by allocating clear goals for changing the behaviors. Giving yourself encouragement will enable you to meet the goals faster. After that, you just have to wait and see how they have been changed.
Responsibility
Every piece of work you are assigned to do must be master piece of work. Don’t just finish it without appropriate working standard. Be responsible in both your working life and your everyday life. Be responsible for everything you have done and have spoken. Responsible people will get successful in every way of their lives.
Punctuality
Punctuality is a kind of discipline that is supposed to be built up. Make yourself as a model of punctuality for other people. Time is valuable.
Understanding
Telling yourself whether every human is different from one another is a sign of understanding. When you aware of the differences among people, you will respect whatever they do or however they are even sometimes you don’t agree with them. Everyone has his own reason to do something and maybe you don’t nee to know it. When you understand people and not complain, they will respect and appreciate you.
Impressive image equals success. Rehabilitate to be self-confident, develop your personality, be responsible in everything you do, aware of the importance of time and live with understanding other people. Keep practicing more and more until you are satisfied. After that, you will see that how much your life has been changed since then.
To read more, please visit www.christlewisbooks,com
