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March 15, 2015
Make Use of Creative Dreaming
Dreams can be horrifying sometimes, that you wish it would never be true. However, all people dream. When your dream looks so good and you wish you would never wake up, you just feel like you cannot make it stay. They always come as a story that happens in your head and is probably stuck in your mind.
Dreams can be inspiring as they show you what is deep down, there, inside your mind. The stories that are more creative than the ones you try to come up when conscious. Nevertheless, many people underestimate the power of dreaming. They think that dreaming during the day is nonsense, so during sleeping?….is impossible to be true. However, when you sleep, your mind is totally empty, and so you can focus easier on that one thing important to you.
Dreams are what most people have, but are afraid to make them happen. Just like people who dream of going to a place beyond imagination. The place that no one would ever see or even understand. The experience you have, but can neither explain nor portray. Luckily, there are people who can. People who believe that their dreams are true and worth seeing by others.
Dreams allow you to fail. You can try as many times as you want because it will always be your dreams….until you decide to have them become real. Some might even think that they have no control over their dreams. Actually, they do as long as they believe. There are some people who have developed their dreams and make them come true. It is likely that most of us have seen the interpretation of their dreams many times, through their movies, music or work of art. Yes….Those masterpieces are what people like Josh Lucas or John Lennon do. They are the people who let others see and enjoy their dreams.
Dreamers are the people who grab every opportunity to make their dreams stay longer or even forever. Dreams can give you more than what others offer to you. If you have dreams, go for it, do not wait for anyone to tell you when it is time to shine…..last, never let them be just some dreams.
If you want to read more, please visit www.christlewisbooks.com
Dreams can be inspiring as they show you what is deep down, there, inside your mind. The stories that are more creative than the ones you try to come up when conscious. Nevertheless, many people underestimate the power of dreaming. They think that dreaming during the day is nonsense, so during sleeping?….is impossible to be true. However, when you sleep, your mind is totally empty, and so you can focus easier on that one thing important to you.
Dreams are what most people have, but are afraid to make them happen. Just like people who dream of going to a place beyond imagination. The place that no one would ever see or even understand. The experience you have, but can neither explain nor portray. Luckily, there are people who can. People who believe that their dreams are true and worth seeing by others.
Dreams allow you to fail. You can try as many times as you want because it will always be your dreams….until you decide to have them become real. Some might even think that they have no control over their dreams. Actually, they do as long as they believe. There are some people who have developed their dreams and make them come true. It is likely that most of us have seen the interpretation of their dreams many times, through their movies, music or work of art. Yes….Those masterpieces are what people like Josh Lucas or John Lennon do. They are the people who let others see and enjoy their dreams.
Dreamers are the people who grab every opportunity to make their dreams stay longer or even forever. Dreams can give you more than what others offer to you. If you have dreams, go for it, do not wait for anyone to tell you when it is time to shine…..last, never let them be just some dreams.
If you want to read more, please visit www.christlewisbooks.com
10 Tips on How to Raise Self Esteem
1. Evaluate your confidence
Some people might think that they are confident but actually…not really. Some students have confidence to speak their mind in class but when it comes to a bigger stage, they just do not know what to do. That is because when they are in class, they are with friends, with people they trust. But life is not always like that, so you should know the level of your confidence and then looking for ways to gain it more.
2. Set goals
Once you set your own goals, you will know what you have to improve. It is similar to a business that you should have strategies to achieve your goals. Those strategies are what you will do to differentiate yourself. Being different is not always a bad thing but it is something that makes you outstanding.
3. Pay attention to yourself
You should keep telling yourself how you want to be like. Then, try to find out what makes you happy and what does not. If you want to look good, take care of yourself. Be that one that people will not turn their face away from.
4. Accept the failure
When you make mistakes, remember that it is not the end of your life. You should give yourself a chance and time to start again. As life is a mystery, you can fail but never give up. You will never what is going to happen tomorrow.
5. Be positive
When you think about your life, you know that you have both good and bad experience. However, some people seem to be stuck with the bad experience. Something reminds you of the past. You think about it again and get sad. Let’s think about it this way that whatever bad happened, it happened to make you stronger and learn the lesson of life.
6. Take little steps
Sometimes, it is not that you cannot do but you just give up. Lots of people eventually give up when they try to do something big and have not seen any satisfied results. Most of them want to take a big one step to make it happen which is always impossible. Even singers, they do not just go to a stage and sing, then get famous. They keep practicing and increasing their courage until they know that they are ready for the real stage.
7. Do volunteer jobs
When you do good things for others, you feel important as you make others happy. Most jobs and projects lead you to meet new nice people. When you meet those who have the same intention as you, you feel like you belong to something. It is a great feeling of doing a big project together with others to help those who are in need.
8. Manage time
Time is what all people want the most. You can say it is actually money that people want, but time is the limited resource that you have to do anything to get the money. Therefore, make yourself a schedule and try to stick with it as much as you can. You will be productive and even less stressed.
9. Practice smiling in front of the mirror
This might sound crazy but it is one of many ways to let your personality shine and it is just easy. The thing is that you can see how you look like when smiling. If it is not impressive for you, change it! When you find a great one, keep using it with people you meet. It can be to random people and it does not hurt to do. This is the way to show yourself and others of your bright side.
10. Identify your ability
The ability is something that can be built up. To have the ability, you need either talents or skills. They are things that you do again and again until they become your ability. Nevertheless, the good ability is a capacity and a will to do and finish things. When you gain abilities, you also gain strengths, which make you have courage to do big things.
If you want to read more, please visit www.christlewisbooks.com
Some people might think that they are confident but actually…not really. Some students have confidence to speak their mind in class but when it comes to a bigger stage, they just do not know what to do. That is because when they are in class, they are with friends, with people they trust. But life is not always like that, so you should know the level of your confidence and then looking for ways to gain it more.
2. Set goals
Once you set your own goals, you will know what you have to improve. It is similar to a business that you should have strategies to achieve your goals. Those strategies are what you will do to differentiate yourself. Being different is not always a bad thing but it is something that makes you outstanding.
3. Pay attention to yourself
You should keep telling yourself how you want to be like. Then, try to find out what makes you happy and what does not. If you want to look good, take care of yourself. Be that one that people will not turn their face away from.
4. Accept the failure
When you make mistakes, remember that it is not the end of your life. You should give yourself a chance and time to start again. As life is a mystery, you can fail but never give up. You will never what is going to happen tomorrow.
5. Be positive
When you think about your life, you know that you have both good and bad experience. However, some people seem to be stuck with the bad experience. Something reminds you of the past. You think about it again and get sad. Let’s think about it this way that whatever bad happened, it happened to make you stronger and learn the lesson of life.
6. Take little steps
Sometimes, it is not that you cannot do but you just give up. Lots of people eventually give up when they try to do something big and have not seen any satisfied results. Most of them want to take a big one step to make it happen which is always impossible. Even singers, they do not just go to a stage and sing, then get famous. They keep practicing and increasing their courage until they know that they are ready for the real stage.
7. Do volunteer jobs
When you do good things for others, you feel important as you make others happy. Most jobs and projects lead you to meet new nice people. When you meet those who have the same intention as you, you feel like you belong to something. It is a great feeling of doing a big project together with others to help those who are in need.
8. Manage time
Time is what all people want the most. You can say it is actually money that people want, but time is the limited resource that you have to do anything to get the money. Therefore, make yourself a schedule and try to stick with it as much as you can. You will be productive and even less stressed.
9. Practice smiling in front of the mirror
This might sound crazy but it is one of many ways to let your personality shine and it is just easy. The thing is that you can see how you look like when smiling. If it is not impressive for you, change it! When you find a great one, keep using it with people you meet. It can be to random people and it does not hurt to do. This is the way to show yourself and others of your bright side.
10. Identify your ability
The ability is something that can be built up. To have the ability, you need either talents or skills. They are things that you do again and again until they become your ability. Nevertheless, the good ability is a capacity and a will to do and finish things. When you gain abilities, you also gain strengths, which make you have courage to do big things.
If you want to read more, please visit www.christlewisbooks.com
February 26, 2015
Money Doesn’t Buy Happiness
Have you heard what they say about money…”Money is not everything, but everything needs money”…? Well, even though it is true, it still depends on what kind of thing. There are always substitutes for lots of things, but there are some things that cannot be replaced or asked for more…..family, friends, love, and time.
When you are hungry, you think of what you are going to eat. You think of food that will make you full, while some other people also think of food that will help them live up to others’ expectations. This might sound ridiculous but you might have to ask yourself that how many times you take your phone out of you bag to take a picture of the food in front of you, and then post it online. Eating in a luxurious restaurant or having people giving you a great service while you are busy chatting and sharing your life to the world might make you feel special but sometimes, you just forget those people in front of you, people who are there for you.
These days, many people work so hard to earn what they think could fulfill their life which is always money. They think that money could buy things that would make them or their family feel happy. They spend money on their new phone, tablet, or nice bag, and hope that those things will make them feel like they belong to the society they live in. What about time to actually spend the money they earn with the people they love? Every day, people walk out from their house, say goodbye to their family…and hope for a better life. At the end of the day, they come back home and the first thing they do is to be online updating their life and learning what is going on in other people’s life.
This world has become globalized. Some people feel like they know everything, have friends from around the world, or even are famous. However, the world they see is just the first page of a book that they buy with their own money. Some people forget what happiness really is. They spend money to keep following the world that changes every single day. They pressure themselves and do not realize how tired they are. They miss the communication, affection, and tiny valuable things around them.
Ask yourself a lot every day of how you feel and why you want what you are trying to get….Is it really what you want or what the society wants? Living adequately does not mean that you are strange or poor, but it means that you are strong enough to be who you are really comfortable with regardless of expectations of others.
If you want to read more, please visit www.christlewisbooks.com
When you are hungry, you think of what you are going to eat. You think of food that will make you full, while some other people also think of food that will help them live up to others’ expectations. This might sound ridiculous but you might have to ask yourself that how many times you take your phone out of you bag to take a picture of the food in front of you, and then post it online. Eating in a luxurious restaurant or having people giving you a great service while you are busy chatting and sharing your life to the world might make you feel special but sometimes, you just forget those people in front of you, people who are there for you.
These days, many people work so hard to earn what they think could fulfill their life which is always money. They think that money could buy things that would make them or their family feel happy. They spend money on their new phone, tablet, or nice bag, and hope that those things will make them feel like they belong to the society they live in. What about time to actually spend the money they earn with the people they love? Every day, people walk out from their house, say goodbye to their family…and hope for a better life. At the end of the day, they come back home and the first thing they do is to be online updating their life and learning what is going on in other people’s life.
This world has become globalized. Some people feel like they know everything, have friends from around the world, or even are famous. However, the world they see is just the first page of a book that they buy with their own money. Some people forget what happiness really is. They spend money to keep following the world that changes every single day. They pressure themselves and do not realize how tired they are. They miss the communication, affection, and tiny valuable things around them.
Ask yourself a lot every day of how you feel and why you want what you are trying to get….Is it really what you want or what the society wants? Living adequately does not mean that you are strange or poor, but it means that you are strong enough to be who you are really comfortable with regardless of expectations of others.
If you want to read more, please visit www.christlewisbooks.com
February 19, 2015
Goals Setting Will Lead to a Successful Life
What are the keys to success?
Are they hard work, persistence
good support from other people, luck,
or the combination of these kinds of things?
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Each person may have different answer to that question based on their personal experiences. Definitely, some people are often successful in whatever they do, while the others have to be disappointed because they cannot get what they want. One key factor that separates people who always succeed and those who struggle is that the first group knows exactly what they really want.
It is very important to have an image of your goal as detailed as possible because it will make you become much more committed than a general and unclear goal. Anthony Robbins, an entrepreneur, author, and peak performance strategist, wrote in an article on his blog that “Clarifying your results (or outcome) helps you focus on your desired target.” No matter if it is a small target or big one, seeing it clearly in your mind increases your eagerness to find the ways to make it real.
Even though this might be just a small and not very difficult goal, it can show how a clear and specific goal setting can greatly help you come up with good plans and most importantly the motivation to keep on going until it is done.
The decision to set a goal results from dissatisfaction with current performance levels. People need to set goals in order to manage their time well to be successful in life.
Setting a goal should include setting a structure that directs actions and behaviors which improve the unsatisfactory performance. Also, setting a goal will change a person’s behavior in order to work towards achieving the set goal. For example, Locke and Latham stated that “the goal setting theory was based on the premise that much human action is purposeful, in that it is directed by conscious goals”.
However, before setting a goal there are necessary conditions that must be met to make goals effectively: (1) goal acceptance (2) goal specificity and purpose (3) goal difficulty, (4) goal possibility and (5) goal feedback. Moreover, to be successful in the future people have to set crisp, clear and specific goals by using the theory of ‘SMART goals’. The idea of setting SMART goal was conceived by a business psychologist named George Doran. SMART is an acronym standing for goals that are:
- Specific
- Measurable
- Achievable
- Relevant
- Time-bound
In conclusion, goals can provide directions and are good for planning progress. This helps the people to be able managing their actions step-by-step to reach their goals which will help them to be successful not only in occupations or studies but also in relationships.
If you want to read more, please visit www.christlewisbooks.com
Are they hard work, persistence
good support from other people, luck,
or the combination of these kinds of things?
iStock_000008380085XSmall
Each person may have different answer to that question based on their personal experiences. Definitely, some people are often successful in whatever they do, while the others have to be disappointed because they cannot get what they want. One key factor that separates people who always succeed and those who struggle is that the first group knows exactly what they really want.
It is very important to have an image of your goal as detailed as possible because it will make you become much more committed than a general and unclear goal. Anthony Robbins, an entrepreneur, author, and peak performance strategist, wrote in an article on his blog that “Clarifying your results (or outcome) helps you focus on your desired target.” No matter if it is a small target or big one, seeing it clearly in your mind increases your eagerness to find the ways to make it real.
Even though this might be just a small and not very difficult goal, it can show how a clear and specific goal setting can greatly help you come up with good plans and most importantly the motivation to keep on going until it is done.
The decision to set a goal results from dissatisfaction with current performance levels. People need to set goals in order to manage their time well to be successful in life.
Setting a goal should include setting a structure that directs actions and behaviors which improve the unsatisfactory performance. Also, setting a goal will change a person’s behavior in order to work towards achieving the set goal. For example, Locke and Latham stated that “the goal setting theory was based on the premise that much human action is purposeful, in that it is directed by conscious goals”.
However, before setting a goal there are necessary conditions that must be met to make goals effectively: (1) goal acceptance (2) goal specificity and purpose (3) goal difficulty, (4) goal possibility and (5) goal feedback. Moreover, to be successful in the future people have to set crisp, clear and specific goals by using the theory of ‘SMART goals’. The idea of setting SMART goal was conceived by a business psychologist named George Doran. SMART is an acronym standing for goals that are:
- Specific
- Measurable
- Achievable
- Relevant
- Time-bound
In conclusion, goals can provide directions and are good for planning progress. This helps the people to be able managing their actions step-by-step to reach their goals which will help them to be successful not only in occupations or studies but also in relationships.
If you want to read more, please visit www.christlewisbooks.com
January 29, 2015
You are What You Think
When you were young, you wished to be lots of things. You wished to be a doctor. You wished to be a teacher. You wished to be an angel. You even wished to be some animals, a shark, a unicorn, or a rabbit. You came up with all the reasons why you wanted to be this or that. But once you grew up, you have learned many things that end up scaring you. You fear of losing and fear of failure. Then, you forget the reasons you have ever thought of, because you think that your dreams are impossible.
What you also do not remember is that what you want to be is never wrong. Some people might not understand. They are not you. They do not know what you can do. Also, you are actually just afraid of the way you have to walk through. When you think about what you want to be, you also think about what it takes to be what you want to be. Well, yes, you have to think about that, but do not let it fear you. It is just that your plan might have to become more realistic. However, you should think ahead about what you have to do to pursue your dreams if you have no limit….money….risk of failure.
It is all about trying. Everyone always has to do something for the first time. You have to taste some dish for the first time to know how it tastes like. You might hate it, but at least, you know that you will never have it again. It is just like your life. You try something. You fail. You win. You learn the lesson. You learn what your mistakes are, and you also learn what is good to keep doing. You might have to question yourself a lot while trying to be what you want to be…Do I like it? Is this right for me? Questions spark ideas and help you make sure that you are on the right track.
If you believe that you can be what you want, you will be encouraged by yourself to make it happen. This thought gives you the power to inspire yourself and change your life for the better. Keep thinking positively and believing in yourself…and you will never regret!
To read more, please visit www.christlewisbooks.com
What you also do not remember is that what you want to be is never wrong. Some people might not understand. They are not you. They do not know what you can do. Also, you are actually just afraid of the way you have to walk through. When you think about what you want to be, you also think about what it takes to be what you want to be. Well, yes, you have to think about that, but do not let it fear you. It is just that your plan might have to become more realistic. However, you should think ahead about what you have to do to pursue your dreams if you have no limit….money….risk of failure.
It is all about trying. Everyone always has to do something for the first time. You have to taste some dish for the first time to know how it tastes like. You might hate it, but at least, you know that you will never have it again. It is just like your life. You try something. You fail. You win. You learn the lesson. You learn what your mistakes are, and you also learn what is good to keep doing. You might have to question yourself a lot while trying to be what you want to be…Do I like it? Is this right for me? Questions spark ideas and help you make sure that you are on the right track.
If you believe that you can be what you want, you will be encouraged by yourself to make it happen. This thought gives you the power to inspire yourself and change your life for the better. Keep thinking positively and believing in yourself…and you will never regret!
To read more, please visit www.christlewisbooks.com
January 22, 2015
Plan Your Life, Motivate Yourself and Transform Your Wellbeing
In this century, most of us live much of our life in our heads. We often have ideas of what we want to pursue, dreams of what we want to achieve. Yet, most of the time we encounter a chasm between dream and reality, between what we say we want and actually understanding it step by step. Setting appropriate goals are the main ingredients to achieving success. Whatever roles we perform, we all want to create our road map to success.
In truth, many of us in this world never achieve great results in their lives regardless how smart they are. Have you ever wondered why? This is because they don’t have a goal and motive to search for. Setting a goal is the most important process of creating your dreams into actions and accomplishes your tasks. Prior to your goal setting outline, you need to program your mindset.
You must believe in your goal and have solid motivation before you can actually achieve it. It is essential that your goals are specific, measurable, attainable, realistic and Time bound. It is believed that goals point you direction in all areas of your personal, career, spiritual. It ultimately gives you a purpose in life and replenishes your spirit. A day of new resolution on the every New Year Day will not transform your well-being if you don’t maintain your focus and follow your outlined goals.
Do an informal assessment of your abilities and redefine your goals from your reflections of strengths and weaknesses. You will eventually hit the target and notice an escalation in your energy level as you initiate to live your life with motives and passion. Consequently, you would be able to control your life and determine the attainable direction for you to head on. Remember, your life does not have to be determined by fate or chance alone, with your belief, focus and goal you can create your own perfect destiny!
To read more, please visit www.christlewisbooks.com
In truth, many of us in this world never achieve great results in their lives regardless how smart they are. Have you ever wondered why? This is because they don’t have a goal and motive to search for. Setting a goal is the most important process of creating your dreams into actions and accomplishes your tasks. Prior to your goal setting outline, you need to program your mindset.
You must believe in your goal and have solid motivation before you can actually achieve it. It is essential that your goals are specific, measurable, attainable, realistic and Time bound. It is believed that goals point you direction in all areas of your personal, career, spiritual. It ultimately gives you a purpose in life and replenishes your spirit. A day of new resolution on the every New Year Day will not transform your well-being if you don’t maintain your focus and follow your outlined goals.
Do an informal assessment of your abilities and redefine your goals from your reflections of strengths and weaknesses. You will eventually hit the target and notice an escalation in your energy level as you initiate to live your life with motives and passion. Consequently, you would be able to control your life and determine the attainable direction for you to head on. Remember, your life does not have to be determined by fate or chance alone, with your belief, focus and goal you can create your own perfect destiny!
To read more, please visit www.christlewisbooks.com
January 16, 2015
Simple Tips How To Cure Anxiety and Stress
When you are stressed, you might not know what to do. You will be stuck in the problems you have, and then feel like you can never get out. People all have anxiety and they treat it differently. You might have to ask yourself how you deal with it. Think about how you cope with your stress and anxiety, and ifyou find that it does not work for you, try to find a way that does.
You have to find out what the true causes of your problem are and should not be afraid to face the truth. Accept the reality is the only way to help you heal yourself. When you realize what is going on around you, you will be present and be able to concentrate more on what is most important to you.
Talking to someone you trust can also help you unburden yourself. Keeping everything with you is not going to make anything better. Ask them to help you gain positive attitudes towards your life again, and you will be incredibly relaxed and calm. You might not feel like talking about it, but try to open your mind and let them ask you “why…?” until they understand you, so they can also help you find the answer for your problem.
Some activities can help you forget about your anxiety for a while, and eventually help you find good solutions for yourself. Breathing deeply can help you focus more on what you are doing. You will see that things are going slower and that you have time to think your problems through. Eating healthy and exercising are other ways to help you reduce the stress. Not only food can impact your emotions in a good way, it makes you physically stronger. At least, you do not have to be worried about your health and your body. Working out regularly can also help you feel better about yourself. However, the most important activity is sleeping. Getting enough sleep and sleeping at the right time can boost up your brain and help you think more logically.
Always give yourself a break and find time to travel. Traveling is not just for fun, but will help you see the world in many different ways. You might see things that most people do not see or choose not to see. You will meet lots of people. You will see their problems, and you will be likely to accept the reality easier as you actually see it.
Sometimes, something might not be easy to fix and you have to know that nothing can be made or fixed perfectly, so it might be better to just let go of some things and laugh at them like you do not care. It might not improve the situations, but it will definitely help you get getter.
To read more, please visit www.christlewisbooks.com
You have to find out what the true causes of your problem are and should not be afraid to face the truth. Accept the reality is the only way to help you heal yourself. When you realize what is going on around you, you will be present and be able to concentrate more on what is most important to you.
Talking to someone you trust can also help you unburden yourself. Keeping everything with you is not going to make anything better. Ask them to help you gain positive attitudes towards your life again, and you will be incredibly relaxed and calm. You might not feel like talking about it, but try to open your mind and let them ask you “why…?” until they understand you, so they can also help you find the answer for your problem.
Some activities can help you forget about your anxiety for a while, and eventually help you find good solutions for yourself. Breathing deeply can help you focus more on what you are doing. You will see that things are going slower and that you have time to think your problems through. Eating healthy and exercising are other ways to help you reduce the stress. Not only food can impact your emotions in a good way, it makes you physically stronger. At least, you do not have to be worried about your health and your body. Working out regularly can also help you feel better about yourself. However, the most important activity is sleeping. Getting enough sleep and sleeping at the right time can boost up your brain and help you think more logically.
Always give yourself a break and find time to travel. Traveling is not just for fun, but will help you see the world in many different ways. You might see things that most people do not see or choose not to see. You will meet lots of people. You will see their problems, and you will be likely to accept the reality easier as you actually see it.
Sometimes, something might not be easy to fix and you have to know that nothing can be made or fixed perfectly, so it might be better to just let go of some things and laugh at them like you do not care. It might not improve the situations, but it will definitely help you get getter.
To read more, please visit www.christlewisbooks.com
January 4, 2015
7 Habits of Successful Women That You Should Have
1. Deal with their fears and accept failure
They always try to find the way to get rid of their fears. They know that there is no fear in this world that cannot be overcome. And failure is one of the biggest fears that all people try to defeat. They know that they can fail many times but they will always learn.
2. Socialize
This habit is what most men might not consider having. As women, they know how to get to people’s heart. They know how to ask people for favors and to willingly do any jobs for them because they care and pay attention to all details. Working is not just about following orders, but also following what the heart says, so if you cannot convince others’ mind to do the jobs for you, the work they do might not come out as you want.
3. Do their best
As women, they know that they have to work even more than two times harder than men. Since they know that they are likely to be judged by society thoroughly, and most of them are naturally neat and methodical, their work always comes out very neat and impressive.
4. Do it now
They do not procrastinate as they cannot stand seeing anything unorganized or undone. It might sound silly for some people but it is the habit that all successful people have. For example, if you are making a business plan and find that some parts still need to be done or fixed, but just leave it like that for tomorrow, who knows if tomorrow you will have the same motivation you have today, and your work might not ever be done.
5. Taking risks
They take risks every day. Even the way they choose to dress each day can kill them in some situations. They will never know what kind of people or what situation they are going to face tomorrow, so they have to prepare themselves to be ready in every situation. And that is how they see the opportunities that make them very stand out.
6. Make time for family and friends
They never forget people who matter and are important. They know that without these people, they would never have today. They work hard but never leave these people behind. These people always give them courage to grow and to stand up straight again when they fall.
7. Exercise
All women want to have a good body. They know if they can work hard for themselves to look better, they can make everything happen. Taking good care of their appearance make them look professional, and they are also more active and faster than others who do not work out.
To read more, please visit www.christlewisbooks.com
They always try to find the way to get rid of their fears. They know that there is no fear in this world that cannot be overcome. And failure is one of the biggest fears that all people try to defeat. They know that they can fail many times but they will always learn.
2. Socialize
This habit is what most men might not consider having. As women, they know how to get to people’s heart. They know how to ask people for favors and to willingly do any jobs for them because they care and pay attention to all details. Working is not just about following orders, but also following what the heart says, so if you cannot convince others’ mind to do the jobs for you, the work they do might not come out as you want.
3. Do their best
As women, they know that they have to work even more than two times harder than men. Since they know that they are likely to be judged by society thoroughly, and most of them are naturally neat and methodical, their work always comes out very neat and impressive.
4. Do it now
They do not procrastinate as they cannot stand seeing anything unorganized or undone. It might sound silly for some people but it is the habit that all successful people have. For example, if you are making a business plan and find that some parts still need to be done or fixed, but just leave it like that for tomorrow, who knows if tomorrow you will have the same motivation you have today, and your work might not ever be done.
5. Taking risks
They take risks every day. Even the way they choose to dress each day can kill them in some situations. They will never know what kind of people or what situation they are going to face tomorrow, so they have to prepare themselves to be ready in every situation. And that is how they see the opportunities that make them very stand out.
6. Make time for family and friends
They never forget people who matter and are important. They know that without these people, they would never have today. They work hard but never leave these people behind. These people always give them courage to grow and to stand up straight again when they fall.
7. Exercise
All women want to have a good body. They know if they can work hard for themselves to look better, they can make everything happen. Taking good care of their appearance make them look professional, and they are also more active and faster than others who do not work out.
To read more, please visit www.christlewisbooks.com
January 1, 2015
Change Your Mind, Change Your Destiny
What do you have in your mind? Everyone always has something in their mind. Maybe, something about themselves or others. You might think that your mind tells you to do things. But actually, you are the one who convinces yourself to do what you do and to be what you are. The way you believe in yourself makes you a person you are today.
If you open your mind, you will see lots of things in many perspectives. Being a person who is not afraid of taking risks will help you see lots of opportunities around you. It gives you a chance to explore so many things in your life. You might find yourself being in a place that you have never been before even though it is just an inch away from you.
Sometimes, when you think that you cannot do something. Try to think of the reasons why you cannot do it. Some people cannot even think of a word because they realize that they can actually do it, but are just too afraid of doing it. So you might have to ask yourself if you want it more than you are afraid of it. However, it is not about risking your life. You have to also know your limit.
Only you that can see what and where is good for yourself. You are always at a place where you want to be. Sometimes, you might think that everything depends on luck and destiny, but it actually depends on you. If you keep telling yourself that you are good at anything, you are. Every good thing that you tell yourself will also raise your confidence. You gain it without realizing it and then, you are able to allow yourself to make mistakes so that you can learn how to find solutions for any problems.
You have to tell yourself that challenge is not scary, but it leads you to the direction that will make you know the value of yourself. Keep seeking for new experience and write yourself a new journey every day, so you will never regret any moment in your life.
To read more, please visit www.christlewisbooks.com
If you open your mind, you will see lots of things in many perspectives. Being a person who is not afraid of taking risks will help you see lots of opportunities around you. It gives you a chance to explore so many things in your life. You might find yourself being in a place that you have never been before even though it is just an inch away from you.
Sometimes, when you think that you cannot do something. Try to think of the reasons why you cannot do it. Some people cannot even think of a word because they realize that they can actually do it, but are just too afraid of doing it. So you might have to ask yourself if you want it more than you are afraid of it. However, it is not about risking your life. You have to also know your limit.
Only you that can see what and where is good for yourself. You are always at a place where you want to be. Sometimes, you might think that everything depends on luck and destiny, but it actually depends on you. If you keep telling yourself that you are good at anything, you are. Every good thing that you tell yourself will also raise your confidence. You gain it without realizing it and then, you are able to allow yourself to make mistakes so that you can learn how to find solutions for any problems.
You have to tell yourself that challenge is not scary, but it leads you to the direction that will make you know the value of yourself. Keep seeking for new experience and write yourself a new journey every day, so you will never regret any moment in your life.
To read more, please visit www.christlewisbooks.com
December 23, 2014
15 Habits to Become a Happier Person
1. Enjoy the present
Some people seem to look over what is in front of them and only think ahead. It is good but sometimes, they just forget to enjoy the details. Then they end up worrying about things they have to do tomorrow. For example, you are driving in a very bad traffic. You get frustrated and upset and think about what you will do when you get home instead of enjoying the nice music and the fact that you do not have to stand for hours in a public bus….because you have a car.
2. Exercise
Exercise makes you energetic. It also reduces stress. You will be healthier, looking better and so gaining confidence. Once you are confident, you can do anything and be happy about it.
3. Eat right and sleep
Once you eat well and are in a good shape, you feel good. When your stomach feels good, you feel calm. And sleep is what everyone needs. It improves your mood and is definitely beneficial for your brain and look.
4. Understand yourself
You have to accept yourself, accept who you are. Understand your actions, why you do what you do. Understand your feelings, why you are happy, sad, or angry. It is important because when you know yourself, you will know what you want and what will make you happy.
5. Understand others and let go of things that you have no control over
Others are others. They are not you. Sometimes, they do something differently from you, but that does not mean they try to make you feel bad. People have been raised in a different way. What they think is right might be wrong for you. Or what they want might not be what makes you happy. For example, you want someone to do something for you or to be someone for you, but if that someone does not want to, you can do nothing about it. So just let it go.
6. Limit your time for social media activity
When you see what people do or have, you might have some pressure on yourself. For example, when you see your friends having a new expensive bag or phone, you want to be like them, you want to be what society wants you to be, so you tell yourself that you will do everything to own things like others do. Eventually, you end up being tired and questioning yourself…why you work so hard to live in the life of others.
7. Make friends
There are many types of people on earth. You will experience both good and bad friends. Take longer time to get to know someone. Listen to their stories and be happy with their happiness. Once you find good friends, you will have someone to have fun with and cheer you up when you are sad.
8. Work hard
When you do everything your best and put more effort, you will be proud. You will enjoy the work you do. You will get compliments and people will admire you. The feelings you gain will make you know that you are valuable.
9. Leave your work behind
Of course, you have to be really responsible for your duties and jobs. But sometimes, keep working all the time will just make you be stressful, tired, and want to give up. Stop being a perfectionist and find time for breaks and to be with yourself so that you can have time to appreciate your life.
10. Give and do something for others
You can decide to give or not to. Just remember that you do because you want to, not because you expect something back from a person you give. Once you do something for others without asking for anything back, you will get a feeling that will make you overwhelmed.
11. Say yes
Take opportunities that come to you. It does not mean that you have to say yes to everything, but just say it to everything that you want to do. Do not be so afraid of the consequences, even though you have to think about them. You just have to always look for both advantages and disadvantages. You will never know if you never try.
12. Be debt free but not stingy
Stay away from debts gives you more time to do something else that is more pleasant. Try to work hard to earn enough money for what you need, not always what you want. And when you earn it, do not be so scared to buy yourself happiness. Just have to make a good budget and spend within it.
13. Learn something new and practice your memories
It is like reading a book. You find something new. You get excited. It makes you want to learn more. Learning helps you boost up your memories. When you find yourself remember all important things, you will feel like you are one of the smartest people on earth.
14. Listen to good songs
Good music can calm you down and make you relax and be in a good mood. If you are listening to good music while working, you might find yourself getting jobs done faster, and do not even think that you are working.
15. Avoid negative people
These people are the people who will always bring you down. They will keep telling you all the negatives opinions and things that will make you question yourself if you do it right, all the time. These people never matter. What they think is what they want. You are another person, so believe that your life is good. No need to follow them.
To read more, please visit www.christlewisbooks.com
Some people seem to look over what is in front of them and only think ahead. It is good but sometimes, they just forget to enjoy the details. Then they end up worrying about things they have to do tomorrow. For example, you are driving in a very bad traffic. You get frustrated and upset and think about what you will do when you get home instead of enjoying the nice music and the fact that you do not have to stand for hours in a public bus….because you have a car.
2. Exercise
Exercise makes you energetic. It also reduces stress. You will be healthier, looking better and so gaining confidence. Once you are confident, you can do anything and be happy about it.
3. Eat right and sleep
Once you eat well and are in a good shape, you feel good. When your stomach feels good, you feel calm. And sleep is what everyone needs. It improves your mood and is definitely beneficial for your brain and look.
4. Understand yourself
You have to accept yourself, accept who you are. Understand your actions, why you do what you do. Understand your feelings, why you are happy, sad, or angry. It is important because when you know yourself, you will know what you want and what will make you happy.
5. Understand others and let go of things that you have no control over
Others are others. They are not you. Sometimes, they do something differently from you, but that does not mean they try to make you feel bad. People have been raised in a different way. What they think is right might be wrong for you. Or what they want might not be what makes you happy. For example, you want someone to do something for you or to be someone for you, but if that someone does not want to, you can do nothing about it. So just let it go.
6. Limit your time for social media activity
When you see what people do or have, you might have some pressure on yourself. For example, when you see your friends having a new expensive bag or phone, you want to be like them, you want to be what society wants you to be, so you tell yourself that you will do everything to own things like others do. Eventually, you end up being tired and questioning yourself…why you work so hard to live in the life of others.
7. Make friends
There are many types of people on earth. You will experience both good and bad friends. Take longer time to get to know someone. Listen to their stories and be happy with their happiness. Once you find good friends, you will have someone to have fun with and cheer you up when you are sad.
8. Work hard
When you do everything your best and put more effort, you will be proud. You will enjoy the work you do. You will get compliments and people will admire you. The feelings you gain will make you know that you are valuable.
9. Leave your work behind
Of course, you have to be really responsible for your duties and jobs. But sometimes, keep working all the time will just make you be stressful, tired, and want to give up. Stop being a perfectionist and find time for breaks and to be with yourself so that you can have time to appreciate your life.
10. Give and do something for others
You can decide to give or not to. Just remember that you do because you want to, not because you expect something back from a person you give. Once you do something for others without asking for anything back, you will get a feeling that will make you overwhelmed.
11. Say yes
Take opportunities that come to you. It does not mean that you have to say yes to everything, but just say it to everything that you want to do. Do not be so afraid of the consequences, even though you have to think about them. You just have to always look for both advantages and disadvantages. You will never know if you never try.
12. Be debt free but not stingy
Stay away from debts gives you more time to do something else that is more pleasant. Try to work hard to earn enough money for what you need, not always what you want. And when you earn it, do not be so scared to buy yourself happiness. Just have to make a good budget and spend within it.
13. Learn something new and practice your memories
It is like reading a book. You find something new. You get excited. It makes you want to learn more. Learning helps you boost up your memories. When you find yourself remember all important things, you will feel like you are one of the smartest people on earth.
14. Listen to good songs
Good music can calm you down and make you relax and be in a good mood. If you are listening to good music while working, you might find yourself getting jobs done faster, and do not even think that you are working.
15. Avoid negative people
These people are the people who will always bring you down. They will keep telling you all the negatives opinions and things that will make you question yourself if you do it right, all the time. These people never matter. What they think is what they want. You are another person, so believe that your life is good. No need to follow them.
To read more, please visit www.christlewisbooks.com
