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Ways To Help Single Parents Over The Summer

Most schools are out for the summer. It’s time for vacations and resting. Wrong! Not for single parents. For singles with kids, no school could mean no rest while they try to entertain the kids or keep them from boredom and trouble. Single moms and dads have to worry about the cost of childcare and […]

Surviving Father’s Day Dread

Last Sunday was Mother's Day and although it's a holiday that celebrates the wonder and beauty of mothers, you can't help but envy the honor and attention they get, knowing in about 30 days you're probably going to experience something quite different.

SINGLE PARENTING: Making Assumptions On Mother’s Day

Mother’s Day is upon us. If you’re a single parent, are you making assumptions about spending time with your kid? Have you discussed it with your ex and your child? During the first few years following our divorce, my ex-wife and I were awarded joint custody. We lived close by so everything worked out well. […]

7 Sarcastic Things Yoda Would Say About Helicopter Parenting

I had the opportunity to interview Yoda from Star Wars, asking him advice on parenting as research for my newest book. I asked him why he thinks so few Jedi warriors can be found these days. Of course, he quickly replied, “Children I do not have, but advice for parents I have plenty.” He gave me these 10 […]

Is it Wrong to Brag About Your Middle Schooler?

I’m not a big fan of bragging about my kids. My parents had some close friends when I was growing up and all they talked about was how amazing their kids were. It was annoying.  As a parent now, what I do want to make sure I do is encourage my kids, without prideful statements. As […]

Blogger, Beth Lueders talks about the gift of a father’s hug. http://ow.l

The gift of a father’s hug. http://ow.ly/ybCN30jt5UT 

MOVIE REVIEW: “I Can Only Imagine”

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I love MercyMe so when Christine and I had the privilege of previewing this film several months ago, we jumped at the chance.

The movie, I Can Only Imagine (in theaters now) tells the story behind the 2001 hit song by Mercy Me.

I have to say, the Erwin brothers (Directors for Mom’s Night Out, Woodlawn and October Baby) have done it again. It’s the emotionally-charged life story, so far, of the MercyMe’s frontman, Bart Millard, and how he came to eventually write the tune about heaven.

The film opens in 1985, when the young care-free Bart Millard lives on a farm with his parents in Texas. But we quickly see his dad Arthur is not a nice guy. He does some pretty rotten things that hurt Bart and tick us off too. Like always, Hollywood veteran, Dennis Quaid (Vantage Point, Frequency, The Parent Trap and Soul Surfer) shines in this film.

Bart goes to church camp and becomes a Christian, where he meets Shannon a girl who obviously likes him. Although Bart return home spiritually renewed, he finds his mother has left. No way! So this is what she was planning all along…for Bart to be gone when she packed up and abandoned the family?

Left with his abusive father, the young dreamer continues trying to earn his father’s approval by joining the high school football team. But during a game, when an accident breaks both of Bart’s legs, he’s told he can never play again.

So much for pleasing Dad.

In the months that follow, Bart discovers he can sing. Who knew? And… he likes to write songs.

Eventually, Bart forms a band, MercyMe. But when he returns home one day to confront his father, he finds a different man there. That’s all I can say without spoilers.

For a main character that we’re supposed to love, Bart (played by newcomer J. Michael Finley) has a lot of faults and he’s a little pushy (prideful?) about his talent. But I’ve always heard your protagonist should be flawed if viewers are to like him…so there you go. Many characters model patience and grace toward Bart, especially his girlfriend (whom he dumps) and his band’s manager.

I love the spiritual content of this film. Faith, fear and eventually forgiveness intertwine as we follow Bart’s journey to overcome the deep damage caused by his mom and dad.

We see Bart with a Bible, singing in church, practicing forgiveness, helping the less fortunate (a.k.a. his dad) and other signs of fruit.

While obviously a Christian film, I Can Only Imagine is rated PG, so parents will want to be careful if your kids are sensitive to some of the following images:

Bart’s parents have a fight and we hear screams and breaking glass off camera.
His dad stands outside his room holding a belt.
His father throws things when angry, breaking windows and dishes, even breaking plate over Bart’s head. There is blood.
He throws a gallon of milk at Bart’s head another time.
You’ll hear the crunch of bones when Bart breaks his legs and the Xray might be graphic to some viewers.
Also, Bart’s dad is ill at one point and screams while clutching his stomach.

 

But that aside, there’s no sex, no alcohol, drugs or cussing. Still, I Can Only Imagine is about pain and redemption, brokenness and forgiveness. I think they portray this beautifully and realistically.

All of us have broken places inside in need of redemption. I liked it. Fans of MercyMe will love it. You just might want to add this one to your collection.

 

Can Movies Spark Spiritual Conversations with Your Kids?

A new blog post from Jesus Film Project written by Tez 

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Are We Raising a Nation of Wimps?

Are We Raising a Nation of Wimps? http://ow.ly/dUa030iEgZh

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