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Friday Favorites {Book recs, herbs & recipe, plus party planning}

Hello friend!

Due to a change in our graduation party plans (sharing more below), I wasn’t able to include my Favorites in this week’s newsletter. So here I am at the end of the week, offering some of my favorite books, resources, and a recipe!

Favorite Resources and Recommendations On My Book Stack: Something New:

Not only do I consider Susan Yates a dear mentor, but she is also a good friend. I’m so grateful for her wisdom and her enthusiasm for life! I tell people, “I want to be just like her when I grow up.”

One of the (many) things I admire about Susan is her commitment to love her family well. And I LOVE the Yates’ tradition of an annual Cousin Camp—with all 22 grandchildren! Even if you don’t have that many grandchildren, perhaps any grandchildren at all, this book is full of fun and practical ideas on connecting with and loving the next generation. We are just starting our grandparenting journey, but the possibilities inspire me!

Content: Christian. The intended audience is grandparents, but it would be interesting and helpful to anyone looking for ways to connect with extended family.

Cousin Camp: A GrandparGrandparent'so Creating Fun, Faith, and Memories That Last

(I don’t know how long it will be on sale, but it was listed at 46% off on Amazon when I recently checked!)1

Something Old: 

Like many people, I’m quite taken with Wendel Berry, especially his Port Williams series. And if I had to pick a favorite, I’d say it’s Hannah Coulter. While this book is part of a series, it’s not one of those you must read in order, so you might as well begin with Hannah!

And if you’re new to Wendel Berry, I should tell you that this is slow, simple storytelling (in the best sense) that takes you back to a time when family and community were strong, kind, and loyal. When life wasn’t so fast-paced, the work was harder, and your neighbors cared about you. But I’ll also say this book wouldn't be for you if you’re looking for a thriller or complex plot.

I’ve read this book several times but have been listening to it on Audible for the last couple of weeks while I iron the linens (yes, you read that right :) for the Cascades Ranch Guesthouse. I’d iron all day if I could listen to this story!

Content: Secular. Generally wholesome, but not without some sadness or the world’s heartbreak.

Hannah CoulterHannah Coulter (on Audible)

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In Our Kitchen: 

Do you know how they say everyone has their passion? Well, mine happens to be fresh herbs. I first fell in love about 15 years ago with growing and cooking with fresh herbs; our lives (or at least our kitchen) have never been the same sense.

So, if you’re new to herbs or perhaps only thought of them as something you find in a spice jar, I will do my best to convince you that homegrown herbs are simply the BEST. They’re easy to grow, and the benefits are beyond worth the effort.

Honestly? Herbs are the secret ingredient for almost everything I make. Here are only a few of the ways I use them to turn an ordinary dish into an extraordinary one:

Chop herbs finely and sprinkle throughout your salad. Any combination works great! But some of my favorites are thyme, tarragon, chives, lemon balm, and mint. And I often combine several of these to make an everyday salad suddenly memorable.

My husband makes eggs for us every morning, and my “job” is to go out and cut the herbs for that morning’s eggs. He’ll fold the herbs in an omelet or sprinkle on fried eggs. Magic.

Making soup? Drop in fresh rosemary, sage, or oregano!

Or I’ll add chopped herbs to add to just about anything as a topping: cilantro, basil, chives, tarragon, parsley, or dill. Looks fancy, tastes fantastic.

Can you tell that I could go on and on? But I’ll stop there and encourage (urge?) you to start an herb garden if you haven’t already! Pick 3 or 4 herbs and see where it takes you.

I recently shared this same recipe with one of my daughters, so I thought I’d share it with you, too. My friend, Chels, has this delicious recipe for Roasted Chicken with Fresh Herbs—one of those easy but delicious (and impressive) dishes.

It’s also perfect for using the leftovers for a chicken salad or sandwiches the following day, so much so that I’m inclined to roast two chickens—one for dinner that night and another for “leftovers” for another meal.

Roasted Chicken with Fresh Herbs * Our Homeschool Graduate 2024Hospitality In Our Home:

So, the plan was to tell you all about the small dinner party we were hosting for Hakon’s homeschool graduation with family and a few close friends. However, the word got out that we were doing “a little something,” and yesterday (yes, yesterday!), a bunch of our wonderful friends weighed in and told Matt, “Hey, we want to celebrate Hakon too!”

So the next thing I knew, our (my) dinner party plans for 15 (white tablecloth, wildflowers, and china set out on the back patio…you can picture it, can’t you?) suddenly became a casual barbecue for 40. I quickly traded out the china for a tall stack of graduation paper plates and ordered mounds of hamburger from our favorite Larkin Valley Ranch and rolls from a local bakery. Our sweet friends are all pitching in and bringing watermelon, salads, brownies, and such.

And now, rather than going around the table and quietly sharing something special about Hakon, we’re going to be playing volleyball and cornhole. It will be loud and playful and tons of fun. And the more I think about it, probably much more enjoyable for our graduate than my original idea.

So, I hope you understand if I keep this short for today. I’ve got to get ready for the festivities tonight. Whew. But I look forward to telling you all the behind-the-scenes details next week!

In His grace,

Lisa Jacobson

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Why I'm happily looking for new opportunities to stretch and grow

It sounded like an incredible adventure. At least, at first.

Our oldest son wanted everyone to go explore the Steen Mountains for Memorial Day weekend. Although I’d never been there, I’ve heard it’s one of the most beautiful places in Oregon, so it seemed like a grand idea.

But then, the more details I learned about the trip, the less “grand” it appeared.

For instance, we’d had a lot of rain recently, so it was muddy. We’d be far up into miles and miles of wilderness. Without running water or any type of *ahem* facilities whatsoever. All while off-roading with our four boys. (I mean, what could go wrong?)

This trip was the definition of “dirt camping,” as my husband calls it. And I happen to have a strong dislike for dirt camping. So, my happy excuse was that someone had to stay home with our Avonlea, and I was glad to volunteer.

Then I couldn’t help but question if our son’s bride of three months would also come along—especially after hearing the other two women who were originally going to join us . . . canceled. Then I thought for sure Amy would opt to stay back.

But no. As far as I know, she never wavered. She was all in.

One young bride amongst four brothers and their father. You have to admire her.

Beauty and Adventure

So when my husband returned from the weekend, crusted in dirt and smelling like thick smoke, I couldn’t wait to hear all about it. And believe me, he had lots to tell.

He told me about seeing the wild mustangs running along the ridge, eating homemade sweet rolls (by Amy), and drinking hot coffee by the fire in the morning. Described Britain’s truck getting stuck in the mud and how it took two other vehicles to pull it out. Coming across a snake and staring at the stars in the night sky.

The entire weekend was packed full of rugged beauty and adventure and blessings.

And Amy was right there in the middle of it.

Getting Comfortable With the Uncomfortable

So, this got me thinking. Amy’s willingness to dig in reminded me of something I’d heard on a podcast episode. It was one of those “8 Things You Should Do for Your Health”. The first seven were more or less what I expected, but the eighth caught my attention.

Number 8 was “Get comfortable with being uncomfortable.” Now, what is that supposed to mean??

In this case, the speaker was talking about things like “cold plunge,” “sauna sweat,” and “moving more.” And I’ll admit, I was convicted.

But I wasn’t only thinking of my physical health. I considered how I spend my time and energy. What I listen to or read or watch. What I think about. And this nice little bubble I’ve built.

Because if I – if you – continue to stay in our comfort zone, how will we ever mature? Not only that but what about all the beauty and blessings we’re missing out on?

Our Heavenly Father never intended us to stay safe and soft. Like any good father, He wants to see us stretch and grow. It might be awkward or unpleasant—even a bit painful—but it’s the way to enjoy a deeper, richer life.

Ready to Stretch and Grow?

I don’t know what stretching looks like for you in your current season. Maybe it’s not camping far up into the mountains (with a bunch of boys), but perhaps it’s learning a new skill or meeting new people. It could be inviting a few other women to your house for an informal Bible study or an afternoon of watercolor painting. Dancing, running, or making that difficult first call.

But whatever it is, it should involve stepping outside your comfort zone. Pushing your limits or stretching past your safe place.

At this point, you might be asking why anyone would intentionally push herself toward hard things. Aren’t there enough challenges in your everyday life?

Yes, and sometimes no.

I might only be talking to myself now, but I’ll admit I’ve pulled back these past few years. I’ve had some health challenges, so why risk getting sick or injured again? I have so many thoughts swirling in my head; why add more to the swirl? I’ve experienced deep relationship wounds, so why open myself up to hurt again?

Yet here I am. Making a commitment to the uncomfortable.

And now, do you want to join me?

Of course, your list will look different than mine, but here’s a peek into what I’m currently up to:

I’m getting up early and sitting outside for sunrise (which meant 5:21 am and 42 degrees this morning!)

Matt and I are taking ballroom dancing lessons. For real.

We’re also looking for opportunities to double-date, which has been a fun way to spend time with friends, both new and old.

We’ve become increasingly involved in Path of Hope, a ministry serving the most vulnerable young women in Mbale, Uganda. This mission both blesses and wrecks me regularly.

I’ve been going through the Old Testament with about ten other women from our house church—reading chapters in big chunks. Then, we meet monthly and discuss what we’ve read. This has been stretching in the best way!

So what about you? Ready to get a little uncomfortable?

I’d love to hear what you’ve been doing or even considering doing!

A Closing Blessing

I pray you will be willing to step outside your comfort zone.

That you will seek your Heavenly Father and all He has for you, even if it’s stretching and uncomfortable at times.

I hope you will enjoy unexpected beauty and blessings as you experience new things and meet new people along the way.

In His grace,

Lisa Jacobson

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How should you mark a milestone or celebrate a new season of life?

You're wondering how such a momentous life-change could "sneak up" on me. 

That's okay; I'm wondering that, too.

Yet there it is, after twenty-five years of homeschooling, I'm "suddenly" done, and that season of life is behind me. 

And to say this event feels strange is an understatement. Feels happy, sad, and a relief all at the same time. 

After pouring myself into this endeavor for decades, we are celebrating our youngest son's graduation from high school. 

He did it!

And we did it. 

So we're stopping to note this turning point, everyone gathering to applaud his achievement.

And I'm so proud and excited for his next steps!

Not All Milestones Are Marked

But privately, ever-so-privately, in the quiet part of my heart, I consider how there's no graduation party thrown for the woman behind the scenes.

Now, please don't misunderstand me or "hear" an underlying tone that isn't there. I am thrilled about this accomplishment in his life - and as this is our eighth child - in all their lives. 

I'm just saying that not every milestone is publicly marked in a woman's life. 

And I wouldn't be surprised if you know just what I mean.

Maybe you're a mom who is only now realizing you're past the toddler stage, and you've both grown in the process. Or perhaps you just came through some tough teenage years . . . and came out on the other side. 

You might be a grandmother who looks for a thousand tiny ways to help your adult children and love on your grandchildren. You might also be looking after your aging parents without them, or really anyone, realizing the cost to you. 

Or you're single, and you've served faithfully in your church or extended family. No one is throwing you a graduation or retirement party, but you've been so sacrificial…for many years now. 

Yes, how about you, my silent, new-season-of-life friend?

*Helping Hakon learn to read with Cowboy Sam books *Homeschooling the “little boys” Happy 18th birthday and high school graduation!!How to Celebrate a New Season of Life

So, for those of you who are smiling in recognition, but even more for those who are tearing up as you read this, I have some thoughts for you to consider. 

First, it's true: our efforts and sacrifices often remain unseen and uncelebrated. But none of it is lost or forgotten by your Heavenly Father. He knows what you've been through and the many ways you've sacrificed for those you love. 

Secondly, I hope you won't merely move on to the next thing when a particular stage or season is done. Trust me, there's always a "next thing," and if you're not intentional about marking and remembering it, your life will become a blur. 

Thirdly, sometimes be content to celebrate your season/event/accomplishment softly and privately. This may sound counterculture as it seems that if it doesn't have bright lights and a loud bang, then it doesn't count. I disagree. Some of my sweetest celebrations have been with only my husband or maybe a close friend. 

Or, yes, at times, alone. Just me before the Lord acknowledging what He's given me or enabled me to do. Maybe I’ll record it in my journal so that one of my grown children might come across it someday and join me (perhaps years later) in my personal celebration. 

Lastly, be willing to invite a few  - or maybe bunches of - trusted, special people in your life to help you celebrate. Does the very idea make you squirm? It doesn't have to be that way. 

We have dear friends who invite a dozen of their closest friends to help them celebrate their milestone anniversaries. Not a cruise or dining at an expensive restaurant. Instead, long-time friends gathered around their dinner table to laugh, reminisce, and remember what the Lord had brought them through. I love this. 

And to my single friends (and you know who you are), why not throw one of your lovely tea parties and invite those who love you and understand what you've been through this past year? Take an afternoon to pause and remember the hardships, sweet moments, and God's faithfulness. 

So now, as I write this, I can see that I'd better put something together to commemorate my own "graduation" from homeschooling after all these years. I am still trying to figure out what I should do, so if you have any suggestions, please pass them on in the comments below!

For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them. ~ Ephesians 2:10

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Favorite Resources and Recommendations On My Book Stack: Something New:

Finding a book that corresponds with the current topic might not always work out, but it did this time. Nicole Zasowski wrote this terrific book a couple of years ago, and I found it so timely: What If It's Wonderful?: Release Your Fears, Choose Joy, and Find the Courage to Celebrate. I appreciated her approach, and without downplaying the hard things, she encourages and helps you choose celebration.

I will also mention another Sara Hagerty book, Unseen: The Gift of Being Hidden in a World That Loves to Be Noticed. This is a beautiful book that encourages you in all those many unseen moments and ministry in your life.

God is inviting us to embrace this kind of hiddeness: When no one else applauds you, when life is hard and makes no sense or simply feels like drudgery in the still quiet, will you hide yourself in Me? ~ Sara Hagerty

Something Old: 

This one takes me back to my childhood, and while I enjoyed it back then, I'm an even bigger fan now. After watching the series All Creatures Great and Small (*ahem, three times and counting), I started listening to the original book on Audible, read by the leading actor, Nicholas Ralph, and it is such a delight! His accent(s) are simply fabulous. And such a fun, wholesome story! 1

In Our Kitchen: 

So, the good news? Our chickens love the warmer weather and are laying very well. Also, our family eats a lot of eggs. Like, a lot, a lot. It's a match made in heaven. However, you can only eat so many fried or scrambled eggs before you start feeling gaggy (in my personal experience).

So, I've been working on making deviled eggs—literally the perfect lunch or snack. I've always been intimidated by this one, but now I've found a recipe and a technique that's changed everything. 

First, here's the recipe – it's easy-peasy, and I appreciate the addition of dill pickles. 

Secondly, I'm one of those people who use their InstantPot nearly every day. So to discover you can make "perfect" hard-boiled eggs in 10 minutes? Fantastic! (and the recipe covers other methods, too). 

So try it and see what you think? And if you have any other tips or tricks, let me know in the comments! 

Hospitality In Our Home:

As it happened, our youngest son not only graduated but turned 18 the day after his last final exam! So we celebrated by throwing a big barbecue with his siblings, close friends, and ultimate frisbee team members. 

One of the challenges was that it was a mixed crowd, which meant that not everyone knew everyone else. This can be an awkward situation for many. So what is the solution? 

Here are some suggestions when you have a gathering of people who aren't acquainted with everyone: 

As people come through the door, be sure to introduce them to at least one other person at the party. 

Tap someone ahead of time to "look after" a newcomer. I asked a kind family friend if she would befriend a young girl who would be at the party and new to our area. She was more than happy to oblige!

Just break the ice. Go around the room and have each person say how they know the birthday boy (the guest of honor, etc.). As a classic introvert, trust me, this just about kills me. But even I must admit that everyone always feels much better once we've all met!

*Bonus: Another benefit of throwing an event with a "mixed crowd” is that it also gives other people a chance to make new friends. It’s a win-win!

A Closing Blessing

I pray you will feel God's pleasure as you faithfully serve your people.

May you remember to celebrate others, even as you desire to be celebrated and remembered.

I hope you pause today to consider how you might celebrate a new season or recent victory. To drink it in. To give God the glory. 

In His grace,

Lisa Jacobson

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You’ll find that I’ll recommend secular books as well as Christian ones. I will try to include a “parental advisory,” such as mentions of alcohol and romance (both the case here). However, as always, it will be up to you to discern whether this book is a good fit for you.

A Miraculous Answer to Prayer (with pretty pictures)

 I’m still not sure how I could’ve been so bold.

Although I’d been praying for our oldest son for over a decade. Lifting up the same prayer request over and over again. But this time, it was different. 

This was a clear request with a specific deadline: “Lord, help him find his wife before he turns 30.”

What made it particularly bold was that our son was already 29 years old without anyone special on the horizon. 

Yet I prayed anyway, writing it down in my journal so I wouldn’t forget what I had asked—right there on paper in my scrawling cursive in black ink. 

And while it already felt like a “longshot” back when I’d declared it in the spring, imagine what it felt like come fall and still . . . nothing and no one.

So, I wasn’t feeling particularly hopeful when our son flew back home (to Oregon) from his place in Texas for a family friend’s wedding—a quick two-day trip here and back. And, privately, it felt like an unwise expense, considering it was a long way to travel for a four-hour event.

But our son is a show-up guy, so he showed up. 

That Hallmark Moment

The wedding was out in the country, on our friend’s acreage. The kind of wedding where you’ve known the groom since he was a little boy and you’ll likely know most of the other guests there as well.

And that’s just how it was, too. Including the young woman we knew back when our older kids were homeschooling through high school. 

We immediately recognized her beautiful smile, so my husband (her former sports coach) walked over to speak with her. He then reintroduced her to our son after all these years and left them alone to catch up. 

And they caught up alright. 

They talked for several hours, standing near the dance floor as if they were the only two people in the world. Everyone tiptoed around them; no one wanting to interrupt the moment, all sensing something magical was happening. Like one of those cheesy scenes from a Hallmark movie, except that we were watching it in real-time. 

We were watching an answer to a mother’s bold, but heartfelt prayer—a miracle.

The Miracle Timeline: 

Britain and Amy reconnected on October 21, 2023 (after 10+ years).

They got engaged on November 24, 2023 (not a typo).

Britain moved back home to Oregon from Texas on December 3, 2023.

Britain and Amy were married on February 17, 2024. 

Britain turned 30 on March 22, 2024 . . . a few weeks after his wedding day.

God heard and answered my prayers (not only mine but those of many others). 

*Our four sons *The Jacobson family **Britain’s dad officiated their wedding

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What If You’re Still Waiting for Your Miracle?

In truth, this answer to prayer came toward the end of a particularly heavy and discouraging season. Not that I didn’t believe in the goodness of God or that He hears our prayers, but that I wondered if I’d ever again experience such goodness “in the land of the living.” 

In heaven, certainly. But here? And now? Less certain. 

I believe that I shall look upon the goodness of the Lord
    in the land of the living!
 Wait for the Lord;
    be strong, and let your heart take courage;
    wait for the Lord!

~ Psalm 27:13-14

And maybe that’s where you’re at, too. Perhaps you’re struggling to see the “goodness of God” or wonder if He’s heard your cries and prayers. If so, I’m right there with you. 

Above, I’ve shared with you a most amazing answer to prayer, but I’ll tell you that I have other heart cries that remain just that—quiet cries. I am still painfully waiting for another miracle. 

If that is your current situation and “miracles” seem like something that only happens to other people, I want to offer you encouragement and a glimmer of hope. Because our Heavenly Father cares about our anguish, and we can trust Him to be at work, even when we can’t see it. 

We can be confident that He is good, always good. And that He hears your prayers, my friend. 

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Favorite Resources and Recommendations On My Book Stack: Something New:

I have long been a big fan of Sara Hagerty’s writing and have read all of her books, so when I say that her new release, The Gift of Limitations: Finding Beauty in Your Boundaries, is my favorite so far? Well, that’s saying a lot! I highly recommend this beautifully written, deeply profound, and practical book. 

P.S. If you enjoy listening to books, my daughter raved about the Audible version of Sara’s book (read by the author).

Something Old: 

Even if you’re unfamiliar with or not particularly interested in mission books, Evidence Not Seen: A Woman's Miraculous Faith in the Jungles of World War II is a highly faith-building and powerful read. It’s one of the few books that I read over and over again every few years. I LOVE this book! I predict you’ll have a hard time putting it down, and the story will stay with you for a long time to come.

In Our Kitchen: 

If asked what is one of my most-used kitchen gadgets, I’d have to answer that it’s my garlic press. It gets daily use around here! And because I’ve been using the same press for a couple of decades, I was concerned when my husband recently informed me that he’d purchased a new one. 

I needn’t have worried. This has got to be the best garlic press I’ve ever had (and hopefully, it’s still ON SALE)! 

And here’s a recipe worthy of bringing out the garlic press! I made this Creamy Lemon Thyme Chicken, which was a big hit in our home (and easy!). I found thyme that survived the winter in my herb garden (speaking of miracles!), but any fresh grocery-store thyme would work well too.

*The spring view from our GuesthouseHospitality In Our Home:

If you’re new here, my husband and I run the Cascades Ranch Guesthouse, a short-term rental, on our property. 

It’s been relatively quiet the past few months, but bookings are picking up now that spring is here. One of the comments we keep hearing is how “thoughtful” the little touches are around the place. And that’s the thing---they really are simple little offerings, such as a small breakfast offering and a basket full of snacks and goodies. 

But you don’t have to host a guesthouse to be thoughtful. Consider what you can offer your own guests – strangers, friends, or family – things that will say, “I’m so glad you’re here” when they arrive.

If you’re stuck, let me offer some starter ideas: 

A specialty tea or coffee (maybe local or out-of-the-ordinary)

Anything homemade (cookies, bread, or a healthy snack)

A small gift (perhaps a favorite book to share or an artisan soap)

A handmade craft (confession: I’m not “crafty,” but I love it when my friends are!)

It is surprising how something so small can communicate such care to your guests.

A Closing Blessing

I recently hosted a Baby Blessing for one of the young moms in our church family, and it reminded me once again of the power of speaking words of blessing.

Rather than simply throwing a baby shower, we began a tradition of offering a blessing over the mama and her little one—speaking words of hope and promise over them both. And each time, it’s always been a deeply touching and memorable event.

So, with that in mind, I’d like to close with a word of blessing over you, too.

I pray that you will know God’s love and be bold to make your requests before Him.

May you have a fresh sense that your Heavenly Father hears your prayers and cares for you.

I hope your eyes are open to the many miracles around you — big and small — that you may be reminded of His goodness to you.

In His grace,

Lisa Jacobson

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Can I invite you to join me for A Faithful Life?

Hello friend,

I know. It’s been a while!

You may know me from Club31Women, and we're only now bumping into each other over here. Or you may recognize my name as an author of one of the books you've read or heard my husband and me on the FAITHFUL LIFE podcast.

But then again, maybe we're meeting for the first time.

Either way, I want to welcome you to A Faithful Life, this new-to-me sweet spot on Substack.

A Little About Me

If we haven't met, I've been married to Matt for nearly 32 years. We're the parents of eight children — four boys and four girls, ranging from their late teens to our oldest, who just turned 30. We also recently became grandparents (which is as wonderful as they say!). Most of our family lives near the Cascades Mountains in beautiful Central Oregon.

I started Club31Women in 2012, a wonderful ministry I have enjoyed tremendously and recently handed over to new owners. (I still write over there; I’m just not in charge anymore!)

After much prayer, I've decided to settle in here on Substack. My reasons are many, but mostly, I'm ready for a quieter space where we can enjoy more personal communication—away from the noise of the internet and the distraction of social media.

The closest thing to a "real" conversation while making the most of modern technology.

Now Something About You

I hope to encourage your heart and strengthen your faith, offering a gentle challenge along the way. While I always aim to inspire, I’ll also include practical applications and recommendations so you can apply what you read here to your everyday life.

What I'll Be Offering

Each week, I’ll offer a share a personal word from my life and experience, in addition to reading and resource recommendations, plus helpful tips on home and hospitality:

From My Heart: 

I'll share with you what's been on my heart and mind—what I've been wrestling with or enjoying—life lessons, home habits, and family adventures.

On My Book Stack: 

This is where you'll find my best reading recommendations, including new and old books, interesting articles, and resources. Be forewarned: I'm an enthusiastic reader and reviewer!

In Our Kitchen: 

After more than 30 years of experience in the kitchen, I'd love to share my favorite recipes, kitchen gadgets, and more.

Hospitality In Our Home:

Sometimes, I’ll pass along tips and experience on extending hospitality- not only as hosts of the Cascades Ranch Guesthouse but also what we offer in our own home.

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And Why You Might Want to Subscribe

Mostly, it's so you don't miss these weekly encouragements and practical help. But it's also so you can become a part of a community that shares your heart and interests in building a beautiful life—for yourself and your family.

Help Me Understand . . . Why the Small Payment?

Good question. And I asked the same question when I started following some of my favorite writers on Substack (such as Sara Hagerty and Barbara Rainey). However, the question was quickly answered when I realized how much I benefited from their consistent, encouraging, helpful content.

And honestly? As a writer, I know the cost of pouring your heart, time, and gifts into writing words and content with others. So, the way I look at it, it's a way to support Sara and Barbara (for instance) while investing in your own personal growth.

Another bonus is that you’ll find my writing is free from advertisements, sponsored content, or even affiliate links. It’s just me—sharing my heart, life, and experience with you.

A win-win.

And I hope you'll feel the same way about being here.

Can I still follow along as a free subscriber?

Absolutely! I plan to send out monthly (or more!) letters, and you'll have access to much of my archives. At any time, when you're ready, you can become a paid subscriber and jump right in!

And, as always, I’d be grateful for your generous support.

What to Expect Next

I’ll be sending out a special newsletter (that includes a surprisingly sweet answer to prayer with lots of pictures) next week! So watch your inbox and you’ll see an example of the kind of letters you’ll be receiving from me when you subscribe.

I am genuinely looking forward to connecting with you.

A Closing Blessing

I hope this new space will be an encouragement and helpful resource to you.

That you find it a calming and reassuring spot to rest in and grow in.

And that you enjoy the blessings and beauty of living a faithful life.

In His Grace,

Lisa Jacobson

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The Body of Christ: How Others Can Pray for You When You Can't

What if you desperately need prayer, but can't seem to pray for yourself? Here's encouragement to find prayer support from the sisters in Christ around you!

Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person has great power as it is working.
James 5:16

"Praying for your broken heart and Him to be SO near. This morning I’m praying Psalm 27 for you…"

This is the text message I woke up to recently. Written by a dear friend who lives far away, but who somehow manages to keep close in heart…and prayer.

And it’s impossible to describe how comforting it was to hear she was lifting me up that day.

It’s not that I didn’t want to pray about my situation, but that I was having the hardest time finding the words---let alone sorting through the pain and many conflicting emotions that went with it.

So you can imagine the relief it was to know that someone who deeply cared about me was doing what I could not in that moment.

She was holding me up in prayer.

And I'll be forever grateful for that friend who prayed for me, over me, and with me.

When We Can't Pray

Have you ever had a time when you didn’t know how to pray? Didn’t know if you even could pray?

Maybe you felt guilty that you were struggling to pray when it's what we’re “supposed” to do. And while it’s true that we are to pray about “all things,” it’s also true that God has compassion on us when we find ourselves in a place where we don’t know what to say.

And that’s where the body of Christ comes in.

As believers, we have both the privilege and the responsibility to lift one another up in prayer.

And, as believers, we also get to communicate our needs and heartaches to the other saints around us.

When you stop to consider it, if I hadn’t shared with that sister in Christ what I was going through, she couldn’t have known what to pray---or even to pray at all.

So sister, can I encourage you to be bold about asking for prayer when you need it? Maybe it's a sensitive issue that only a few would understand and know how to pray. Or perhaps it's something your entire church body should be lifting up!

Either way, remember God never intended for us to carry our burdens alone.

In His Word

And so, from the day we heard, we have not ceased to pray for you, asking that you may be filled with the knowledge of his will in all spiritual wisdom and understanding, Colossians 1:9 (ESV)

...praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, being watchful to this end with all perseverance and supplication for all the saints—Ephesians 6:18 (ESV)

In Your Life

Is there something heavy on your heart right now? Stop to think if there's someone in your life that you can ask to pray for you. Maybe you've been hesitant to ask, but you might be surprised at how willing others are to lift you up, if they only knew the need.

Take a few moments to consider if there's someone you should be praying for---even if you don't know the specifics. It's possible you should only quietly pray. But it's also possible that they would be encouraged if told them you're lifting them up. (Several people messaged me in my difficult time to let me know they were praying for me and it meant so much for me to hear it!)

If you have someone who is your "prayer warrior," then take a minute to tell them how much you appreciate their prayer ministry in your life!

We Recommend

Do you need encouragement in your marriage? Matt and Lisa recently shared their hearts for a loving marriage on The Huckabee Show.

You can check out their 100 Ways to Love books which offer wives who want to love their husbands and husbands who want to love their wives practical, hands-on advice to start applying immediately.

Let's Connect

Join Lisa and her husband, Matt, as they cohost FAITHFUL LIFE, a weekly podcast focusing on what it means to be a biblical Christian in marriage, parenting, church, and culture. You can also connect with Lisa on Instagram for more biblical encouragement!

How Your Marriage Has Surprising Power to Preach the Gospel

Our flight attendant was probably trying her best, but you couldn’t miss the edge in her voice as she made her way down the narrow airplane aisle, rattling off instructions we’d all heard countless times before.

Not that I blamed her for her monotone. It was a night flight, and I think nearly every one of us felt done right from the start. So many tired people squeezed into such a small space, most of us just wanting to get home and get to bed.

My heart went out to her, so I did what I could to win her over, smiling warmly as she passed my row, but no luck there. I thanked her for the plastic bottle of water, later adding a polite “excuse me” while inching my way around her to reach the restroom.

Yet the woman remained visibly irritable from takeoff to landing.

You could practically hear the collective sigh of relief when the plane touched the ground at last. Matt and I gladly grabbed our carry-ons and started to head off the plane when the attendant stopped us just before we reached the door. She pulled me off to one side, whispering that she had something to say to me. Tired and confused, I couldn’t think of what I possibly could have done to warrant a pull-over such as this.

There I waited at the front of the plane to hear whatever grievance our grumpy attendant might have against me.

Silently Preaching the Gospel

But I’d misjudged the situation.

She didn’t have a complaint; she had a question. A little haltingly at first, she asked softly, “Do you mind if I ask . . . what you two are celebrating?” And, for the first time that evening, I saw the young woman venture a smile.

I was quite unprepared for her question and didn’t have an answer. How could I tell her we weren’t really celebrating anything? That we were merely flying home from a Focus on the Family interview and were eager to return to our family.

“Celebrating? Oh, I don’t know; love , I guess. We’re just loving each other.” I shrugged.

I could’ve kicked myself. Why couldn’t I have come up with a better response than that? Never thought to mention that we’d been married for nearly thirty years or that we had eight children or to say a single word about the faithfulness of God! Such an awkward answer.

She seemed to like my reply all the same. As if this simple “loving each other” was somehow better than a second honeymoon or an important anniversary. There we were, just an older married couple holding hands and sharing tiny airplane pretzels. Talking, laughing, snuggling. Nothing too special. Without a thought that we might be observed.

But someone was paying attention. And it was a good reminder that you never know who might be watching—and what might whisper a word of hope to someone who desperately needs it.

Sending Out a Message

So whether you’re mindful of it or not, your marriage is sending out a message. The way you communicate your love for one another—that visible display of affection, kindness, joy—says a lot about the God you serve.

For some people, it might be the only sermon they ever hear. Or at least listen to.

It’s a fact: Your marriage has tremendous power to preach the gospel to everyone around you, and that’s just what God intended! Your outward expressions of love for each other are an unmistakable testimony of what He has done and continues to do in your life. You don’t have to say a thing; they “hear” the gospel by viewing your relationship.

By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another. (John 13:35)

Your Marriage as a Gospel Message

So how about you? Have you ever considered your marriage as a gospel message to those around you? And how would you describe the “message” of your relationship with your husband?

Maybe this is the first time you’ve thought about your marriage in this way, and you’re not even sure how to answer those questions. If so, here’s a good place to begin:

First, take a few minutes to reflect on what is meant by the gospel. You might even want to write out the definition for future reference, highlighting the words or phrases that stand out to you.

Next, list out the many different ways your marriage can reflect the Good News of Jesus Christ. For example, here are a few ideas that come to my mind:

When I show kindness to my husband, I give others a small glimpse of the kindness that’s been shown to me.

When my husband and I offer grace to one another, we are a testimony of the grace God has given us.

The joy we take in one another reflects the joy we experience knowing Christ Jesus as our Lord and Savior.

Can you come up with any other mini-sermons for your own marriage preaching? The possibilities are endless! What a beautiful way to share the gospel as you grow in love and grace in your marriage.

In His grace,

Lisa Jacobson

*Adapted from Loving Your Husband Well: A 52-Week Marriage Devotional

Those First 30 Minutes That Determine the Rest of Your Day

You probably already figured out that I'm not exactly a morning person.

As in, not really at all.

If I had my way, I'd stay in bed until the sun came streaming in through my bedroom window. Heard the birds chirping and could smell the coffee brewing.

And then I'd probably lay there for another half hour . . . or more.

No, you could never describe me as a Morning Girl.

What Makes a Big Difference in Starting Your Day

But I've learned something that has made such a difference in my heart and home that it now motivates me to get up. Early. Even set my alarm.

If she tells me that I should simply wake up earlier and read my Bible, I just might scream.

Okay, wait.

It's that.

But it's not just that.

Somewhere along my journey of walking with God and raising a family, I learned something. Something super important.

You might even say it's my secret.

The way I start my morning is what determines the rest of my day.

Maybe you think I'm exaggerating. Possibly making this up.

Except I'm not.

I couldn't be more serious.

How the day begins has not only a profound impact on me and my attitude . . . .it affects the rest of our home and our life together.

It's those first 30 minutes that set us up for the entire day.

And I mean all of us.

Because the spirit that I bring with me when I walk out my bedroom door is the spirit that pervades my home. If I can greet my family with a peaceful spirit - with a heart focused on God and His goodness and grace, rather than my to-do list or other pressures and troubles - then I am infusing our home with that same spirit.

Beginning the day with a kiss and loving eyes for my husband is a powerful thing. Starting off with a hug and cheerful "good morning" for our children does wonders for establishing the spirit of our home. But I find I can't fabricate those feelings---they have to come from the overflow of a full heart.

In other words, how I begin my day is how they begin theirs.Turning Our Hearts to God

So you're saying that dutifully reading the Bible decides whether you're going to have a good day or not?

No, I'm not saying that.

Duty doesn't do it.

But worship? Adoration? Intentionally handing my day over to Him?

Yep. That does it.

Because when I begin the day by turning my heart to God and looking to Him for all I need?

I remember that we have everything necessary for whatever the day holds. From spilled milk to hurt feelings to serious illness. All things that I encounter in our home on a fairly regular basis.

And, to be honest, it can be a little overwhelming.

Sometimes a lot overwhelming.

So that little half hour? That one small start is a significant and sure-footed beginning to my day and the same with your day.

In those first thirty minutes, we are setting the tone for our hearts and our homes and, in many real ways, setting the course for our lives.

And that, my friend, is enough to turn anyone into a Morning Girl.

In Those First Thirty Minutes of Your DayWorship

Why limit worship to that thing we do on Sunday mornings at church? Our God and Savior is worthy of so much more than that! So begin by acknowledging Who Christ is, what He has done, and all He is touching in your soul and life. (John 4:23)

Prayer

Spend a few minutes to thank God for the new day and ask Him to fill you with His strength and to reveal His purposes in it. If you wake up with a burdened heart, turn those requests over to Him, trusting Him who hears you and cares for you. (Philippians 4:6)

Meditation

While I save my more in-depth Bible study for later in the afternoon, I like to begin the day with one or two verses to focus my mind on His Word and cling to the truths found there. (Colossians 3:16)

Praise

I'm not sure if you're supposed to have "favorites," but when it comes to starting out the day, this one would be it. Humming a hymn or listening to a powerful song of praise while going about morning chores prepares and fills you up for the whole day. (Psalm 95:1-2)

Yes, in the morning when I rise, Give me Jesus . 

How about you?

Let me hear in the morning of your steadfast love, for in you I trust.  Make me know the way I should go, for to you I lift up my soul. ~ Psalm 143:8

In His grace,

Lisa Jacobson

*Special note for nursing moms: I found that I needed to adapt this practice somewhat---things like posting verses on 3x5 cards nearby and singing and praying while I nursed and changed the baby.

Why God Doesn’t Need You to Change That Other Person

Why is it so easy to see what needs work in others? It's not up to us to change that other person, and it's a weight we don't need to bear.

Praying at all times in the Spirit, with all prayer and supplication. To that end, keep alert with all perseverance, making supplication for all the saints.
Ephesians 6:18

People never change. That's what I've always heard and, up until that unusual Saturday morning, what I had always experienced.

I'm not saying people never grow or mature, but to really change? Rarely.

So, after nearly five years of sharing our home with Matt's parents, and due to his mother's increasingly frustrating behavior, I told Matt I couldn't take it any longer. Despite having invited them to stay with us "until the end of their days," I was in a place where another week felt too burdensome for me, much less another year . . . or decade or two.

I'm sorry, but I just couldn't do it.

Matt had tried addressing my grievances with his mom after I had gotten nowhere with her. Even my father-in-law had spoken to her on my behalf—asking her to be kinder and more respectful—but to no avail. She was not one to budge and certainly not one to apologize.

She was one strong, set-in-her-ways pioneer woman. And I'd had enough. But before we took the drastic step of disinviting his parents, Matt asked if I would be willing to pray about it for another week.

Yet here's the thing: I had been praying about this painful situation and for my unmoving mother-in-law—going on five years now—and as far as I could tell, it hadn't made a bit of difference.

Still, I reluctantly agreed to pray for one more week.

Then six days later, early on a Friday morning, I knocked on Mom's door to borrow a cup of flour to make biscuits. However, when she opened the door, I was alarmed to see she had been weeping. My heart dropped as I knew something truly awful must have happened since I'd never caught her crying before—not one time.

And that's when I heard the words I never thought I'd hear from her lips: "Oh Lisa, can you ever forgive me? I've been such a tyrant, and I don't know how you've put up with me all these years." She made those astonishing statements and then explained how she had been in the middle of her morning devotions when suddenly the Holy Spirit convicted her.

Just like that. An impossible answer to prayer.

Now, friend, if God can turn around my never-say-sorry mother-in-law, then I can tell you two things for sure: One, He does hear and answer our prayers. Two, He doesn't always need us to change someone else. Sometimes He does it without any help at all but through the Holy Spirit in response to our faithful prayers.

So, if you're in a place where you're beginning to wonder if God is listening to your prayers for your marriage, let me reassure you: He is listening, and He does care.

Indeed, He doesn't always answer our requests when and exactly how we want them answered. At times it might feel slow in coming; other times, it's our heart or perspective that He changes, not the situation. But this you can count on: He is both sovereign and loving, and you can fully trust Him with your marriage. He perfectly loves you both.

In His Word

Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. (Phil. 4:6–7 NKJV)

In Your Life

While prayer can often be viewed as something we save for church or around the dinner table, in truth, God invites us to talk to Him about everything and at any time. He wants you to take your concerns, hopes, challenges, and victories before Him! You can entrust all aspects of your marriage to the hands of Him who cares for you.

Perhaps this is a good week for you to start a regular practice of prayer. Maybe you'll want to get up a little earlier in the morning or ask your husband if he'll pray with you before turning in for the night. Or you can develop the habit of praying as you drive to work or on your way to pick up the kids. Maybe you'll decide to start a prayer journal and write down your requests—and answers!—in a notebook for this specific purpose.

We Recommend

This devotional is a sample chapter from Lisa's new marriage devotional, Loving Your Husband Well: A 52-Week Devotional for the Deeper, Richer Marriage You Desire. The companion book, Loving Your Wife Well, written by her husband, Matt Jacobson, is also available. Matt and Lisa hope you find these books helpful, encouraging, and a resource to strengthen your faith and marriage!

5 Strategies for Relieving Stress

I had a headache for 2 years straight. I’m not kidding. Nothing I did made the pain go away. It took a while but I finally realized that the problem was stress. ��Now I know the signs. For me, not sleeping, not eating, tummy aches, and headaches are all signs that I need to start looking for��ways to relieve stress ASAP.

I imagine that if you are a mom you can relate. I bet if you are a single mom like me this sounds all too familiar. Here’s the thing: we have to learn to manage our stress levels if we are going to be able to parent the way we want to. Stress can make you sick, short-tempered, and could even cost you your life if it gets bad enough.

So what are we to do when stress threatens to take over and take us out?

5 Ways to Relieve Stress for Moms

Stay positive

I know this can be easier said than done but it is important to keep a positive and hopeful perspective on life. When we are able to stay positive then we aren’t focusing on all the bad and stressful things in our lives.

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