Marguerite Bennett's Blog, page 38
August 20, 2017
livebloggingmydescentintomadness:
terapsina:
annerbhp:
tchalla...
livebloggingmydescentintomadness:
Would you like to buy an ice cream?
Okay, so it’s even the small things. The way she eats the ice cream. She just eats it. No coy lick or self-conscious taste. There’s no male gaze here. No oral/sexual pleasure of the viewer. Just she eats the ice cream and it’s the kind of sloppy big bite of someone who is not self-conscious of eating, who hasn’t been trained from birth to think about how she looks as she does everything, even eating. Hasn’t spent her life being told that her purpose is in being attractive, even as she does a vital daily thing like eating. Doesn’t have a voice in her head saying, oh but ice cream, it’s kind of fatty, and what will people think.
She’s just, wow, this thing is delicious, I think it’s great, the person who makes it deserves to be told how great their skill is. How great their actions that have lead to this product are. Even in this she demonstrates valuing people by their actions and abilities and choices and who they are, not what they look like.
Fuck. This is agency. And the fact that is so rare and startling and obvious to me, the fact that Diana Prince eating ice cream moves me so much is So Terrible and makes me despair for our civilization and (nearly) all media produced before this.
And during the shot when she takes the first bite, Steve is reaching his arm out to pay the ice cream seller. That movement is much bigger and more eye-catching than Diana eating the ice cream. This scene normalizes females eating on screen (which shouldn’t have fucking been a problem in the first place), through both subverting the erotic eating trope and allowing women to eat and enjoy whatever they want without feeling self-conscious. Kudos to Patty Jenkins.
Yes! Excellent point!
And even more, Steve isn’t looking at Diana as she eats. A big part of the male gaze is that the default POV of films is generally that of the straight, white, male viewer. And generally Steve would be the stand in for that default gaze, but he doesn’t even look at her! He doesn’t buy it for her so he can watch. And he doesn’t even pull some Nice Guy bullshit like, I did something nice for you now do something nice for me, even as a vague joke or subtext. He isn’t trying to get anything out it. He just thinks she’s probably never had it and might enjoy it. It’s about her enjoyment, not his. Despite everything trying to tell us that women feed appetites but aren’t meant to have any of their own.
Apparently I am never going to get over Diana Prince eating ice cream.
Yes, all this. But I’d like to mention that IN ADDITION to that, there’s also the overt humor of the moment that could have been gross too but wasn’t.
The ice cream seller offers her the ice cream but Diana is not familiar with the concept of ‘goods for money’ so they could have made a big joke about it with Steve basically giving her an immediate ‘lesson’ about how she can’t just TAKE the ice cream and how you’re supposed to pay for it.
That’s basically how introducing a character from an Utopian society to a capitalist world always works. And that’s always the joke ‘oh look how silly and uneducated this person is, doesn’t even know they have to pay for stuff!’.
But here though Diana does take the ice cream without planning to pay (because yes, she doesn’t know that she’s supposed to) Steve doesn’t make it into a ‘big deal’, he just reaches over and pays.
And so the scene flawlessly skips over any need to publicly shame or embarrass Diana and we can just focus on how adorable Diana is when eating ice cream for the first time in her life.
And I really truly appreciate that a lot.
This may have already been said, but I’m also going to add how great it is that a woman is simply being allowed to eat ice cream - a “fatty” food - and enthusiastically enjoy it without the slightest hint of body shaming. I don’t think I need to say how rare that is.
She’s allowed to say “This food is so good, I love it!” and the joke is simply that she hasn’t tasted it before, so of course she’s enthusiastic about ice cream, because ice cream is good. She’s naive, but not infantilized. Steve grins when she says “it’s wonderful”, because he’s happy she enjoys ice cream.
Pure.
dispatchrabbi:
mollyfondle:
twelfth-doctor:
this comic is...
this comic is everything I’ve ever wanted
NO CHILL DAD
For the last line. That amazing last line! The writer must have laughed for hours.
August 19, 2017
lissabelle116:
blacksirencry:
so this is basically the premise...
so this is basically the premise of justice league, right?
This is the premise of Aquaman as a character.
archiemcphee:
Every day is Caturday for Turkish musician Sarper...
A post shared by Sarper Duman (@sarperduman) on Mar 1, 2017 at 4:54pm PST
Every day is Caturday for Turkish musician Sarper Durman, who shares his home in Istanbul with lots of cats, one of whom loves nothing more than sitting on Durman’s lap as his human plays the piano.
A post shared by Sarper Duman (@sarperduman) on Mar 4, 2017 at 5:58pm PST
This handsome tabby appears quite soothed by the music as he rests his paws on the keyboard, sometimes contributing to the performance himself.
A post shared by Sarper Duman (@sarperduman) on Mar 7, 2017 at 4:19pm PST
He’ll often gaze adoringly up at Durman and then get up to nuzzle his human chin with his own head.
A post shared by Sarper Duman (@sarperduman) on Feb 28, 2017 at 3:20am PST
Judging by this sleepy pair, Durman’s other cats also seem to enjoy the evening ambience of cozy candlelight and piano music.
A post shared by Sarper Duman (@sarperduman) on Mar 5, 2017 at 3:25pm PST
Follow Sarper Durman on Instagram for many more videos of him and his serene and musical cat friends.
[via Laughing Squid]
pizzaotter:
chaston96:
starwarsgraphictee:
WOW. Lmao
All of...
WOW. Lmao
All of that bullshit for this one gif are you kidding me
August 18, 2017
cheyennecheyenne:women are socialized to be so accommodating of others and you don’t even realize it...
women are socialized to be so accommodating of others and you don’t even realize it until you’re already in the middle of some elaborate favor for someone and you’re wondering what the fuck you’re even doing
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