Sanjo Jendayi's Blog, page 7
April 26, 2014
He Transforms Her…
She was reluctant to tell him her storybecause men in the past either ran
or went hard just to get a taste of what others had…
stepping all over her heart.
But then their eyes met and he penetrated her soul,
made love to her mind & caressed her heart
all in that captivating stare.
She couldn’t take her eyes from his even if she wanted to…
before she knew it-she was in his arms
and his embrace air lifted her beyond her story.
His heart beating next to hers broke her cocoon
and she spread her wings…
she was no longer a caterpillar that others could step on,
she was a beautiful butterfly that he handled with loving care.
Instead of flying away,
she flew around him encircling him with her love
until they both had wings & flew away together. ~ Sanjo Jendayi
Filed under: Relationships
She Strengthens Him…
He felt the urge to tell her his dreams, aspirations & all about his life.
As he was speaking, he felt something he had never felt before…
he couldn’t explain it but the more he talked, the stronger he felt.
Unbeknownst to him, as she listened she mentally stroked his medulla & when she spoke…
She breathed new life into his mind.
Each word infused her energy into his spine.
Straightening his posture.
Strengthening his stature until he believed he could do anything…including love her. ~ Sanjo Jendayi
Filed under: Relationships
April 15, 2014
True Beauty DOES NOT Come In A Bottle!
It’s not easy in today’s society to truly feel beautiful. We as women are bombarded everywhere we turn by images and voices telling us we are imperfect creatures. Millions of dollars are made by various companies and advertisers telling us WE can achieve perfection via the purchase of some “beauty” product; eating or NOT eating certain foods, exercising with this piece of equipment or that one, camouflaging or uncovering certain body parts…Lawd, it never ends.
Unfortunately, for a vast number of women we ‘buy’ into it, literally. We spend dollar after dollar on cosmetic products that one by one pile up in our “make-up” drawer, exercise videos and exercise equipment by one ‘perfect’ physical specimen after another (who because of our hard-earned money can now afford liposuction), chemical processes and extensions in our hair to achieve the most “flattering’ styles, we offer bodies up to the sacrificial alter of beauty to be plucked, waxed, shaved , exfoliated, nipped, tucked and for what? So we can continue to chase the always unattainable beauty ideal?
Don’t get it twisted; I occasionally wear nail polish and lipstick and make-up. But I’d like to think that if one day I awoke and couldn’t wear one cosmetic product, relax my ethnic hair or lose that extra 5 lbs; I would know that I was still a beautiful woman. And extraneous physical accouterments aside, I would not cease to be a loving, unique, beautifully weird human being. True beauty doesn’t wash nor fade away.
This is what concerns me when I look at my granddaughter and mentor young girls. I look into the future and dread the day when they will go home crying (as many kids do) because someone at school called them ugly. As we all know kids can be cruel and most times they are repeating the things they hear and learn at home.
I like to be able to not just tell them with my loving words but also show them by my life example that they are beautiful girls…just as they are. I want them to see that they are beautiful; not because of what they wear on their bodies, apply to their face or hair or by how much they weigh. I want my granddaughter and other young ladies to grow up with the knowledge that true beauty is what comes from inside and radiates outside in the acts of kindness and consideration you give to others, the way you love and respect yourself, the joy you take in sharing time with family and friends, and the sacrifices you make so that others can be happy. True beauty is loving yourself no matter what your shade, size, financial or educational situation. I hope as they grow up in this increasingly appearance obsessed world, that they can pass every reflection of themselves with a smile of security and peace. As I am only just reaching that place myself.
It has taken me many years of spending and self-doubt to finally realize that you cannot find in a bottle that which can only come from within. Once I found and accepted MY beauty…freedom wasn’t far behind! Live Life & Love Yourself!
Filed under: Life
March 6, 2014
DO YOU REALLY BELIEVE IN WHAT YOU DESIRE?
Prior to co-writing the Amazon #1 BestSeller, “I Now Pronounce You Single & Happy” I had written 4 four books that did not fare so well. I asked myself why and could not come up with an answer that made perfect sense to me until I became a Reiki Master. I learned to really get in touch with my Higher Self and how important the energy that we emit is to our entire living experience. I was transported to my mindset when writing each of those prior books and although I desired the success of each one, although I desired to impact and change lives on a global level…I DID NOT BELIEVE I DESERVED IT. I did not believe 100% that I, a little S.E., DC girl could really reach out and grab my destiny AND impact others.
When my Co-Author Mu Tariq and I set out to write this book, we verbalized the outcome. I had already gotten to a place of remarkable belief in my gifts and talents. At the time he approached me…I KNEW MY WORTH. We envisioned the marketing and we saw it as a bestseller. That wasn’t enough though, we both believed in our heart of hearts that IT WOULD CHANGE OUR LIVES FOR THE BETTER, ALL WHILE CHANGING MALE/FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS FOREVER! We emitted that energy, we operated in the belief that it was already done and you know what happened? Our video promo hit over 20,000 views in less than 24hrs and our book hit Amazon’s Bestseller list in less than 24hrs! We were able to see 1st hand how much power we as individuals possess and the power of merging our energy. We have even started a publishing company, MUSABooks Literary Coaching to assist others in manifesting their dreams of becoming a published author.
The universe is nothing but a big bowl of energy…energy that attracts and repels. That is how dreams and desires are either manifested or avoided.
Imagine carrying a walkie-talkie. Although two people can be miles and miles apart, they can still talk to each other. How can that be, since there is no connection between one another? The illusion is that they are separated; however, the truth is…they are still connected invisibly by a stream of energy.
Depending on the strength of the frequency, the louder and clearer they can communicate with one another. That is assuming that both are communicating on the same channel. Life operates the same way. When we have a desire, we are sending a frequency to the Universe and the Universe responds to us immediately.
Most people would argue that their requests are not being granted. The truth is, that each request is always granted, what they don’t seem to understand is that their request is either not clear or that they may be operating on a different channel or frequency. You may ask; “How could that be?” Simple.
On a conscious level we send our request. On an unconscious level we decide which channel we are communicating on. For example, “more money” might be set on channel 3. So consciously people would be broadcasting, “I desire more money.” The problem is, they are broadcasting it on channel 5.
That being the case, what governs the channels unconsciously? Our beliefs. The Universe is always giving you that which you “believe” you deserve, not that which you desire. When what you desire and what you believe are the same, the Universe will manifest it immediately? Why, because all you need to do is ask and you shall receive.
So how do we change our channels unconsciously so that it will match our request? The same way we created them. We created our beliefs by using life experiences that we attached a meaning to. For example, we asked someone out and the person said no. The truth, is, there are many reasons why that person said no. It could be that she/he is in a relationship or that she/he just got out of a relationship and is still grieving it. Who knows, she/he may have really wanted to go out with you but felt they needed to get some things in order first. Notice that the reasons had nothing to do with you. However, most people take things personally and/or just add their own story.
In this case, since the person might have felt rejected, he/she might have thought that there was something wrong with him/her. And since the feeling was not pleasant, the person uses that as a reference point which stops him/her from asking someone else out.
So later on, he/she wants a loving relationship which can be broadcast on channel 7, however, his/her beliefs operate on channel 2 which avoids relationships for fear of being hurt or rejected.
So to change that belief the person would need to change the channel to let’s say 4 which might be, “giving a chance to just meet someone.” Once they see how the universe brings someone into their space, they can use that as reference for future request. That way a new belief is being cultivated so in the future, that person is operating on a frequency that is more consistent with the frequency he/she is broadcasting consciously.
That is exactly why the rich get richer because once they have attuned themselves to the frequency of abundance; they simply keep attracting more of that abundance which solidifies their belief that they deserve it. It becomes a never ending cycle. Mind your thoughts and ask yourself; “Does my desires line up with my beliefs?” If the answer is no, you have to begin the process of clearing old beliefs so you can manifest that which is deep within your heart.
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January 2, 2014
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TONIGHT, Midnight January 3, 2014-Midnight January 6, 2014.
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If you don’t win, you still get to download and read this explosive book on love, sex, relationships and embracing the single life that you definitely would want to own anyway…all for under $1! After this promotion, we will be raising the price back to retail.
Our official book release will be February 14, 2014 the day of love, of course! We will take all of the reviews directly from Amazon, place them in a box and randomly pull out the winner of the Kindle Fire. This will be recorded and uploaded to YouTube, sent to everyone in an email after the winner is notified. Then, we are going to ship the brand new Kindle Fire directly to your home simply for purchasing a $1 book and leaving a review!
Thank you for helping us launch our book as an Amazon Best Seller by clicking on the CLICK HERE TO DOWNLOAD YOUR E-BOOK button on this page. We greatly appreciate you!
Mu Tariq & Sanjo Jendayi
Filed under: Life
December 6, 2013
For Immediate Release! Amazon Best Seller #INPYSH Is Changing The Dating Game
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
Contact: Sanjo Jendayi ~ 202.710.0966 ~ inpysh@gmail.com
Company: MUSABooks
Address: Washington, DC
Website: www.inpysh.com
I Now Pronounce You Single & Happy is Changing the Dating Game
Imagine seeing your unfiltered thoughts in the pages of a book! I Now Pronounce You Single & Happy, a game changer book by Mu Tariq and Sanjo Jendayi on love, relationships, sex and embracing the single life, will officially hit stores on the day of love, February 14, 2014 however, it has already hit Amazon’s Best Sellers List in less than 24hrs of its E-book release! There really is no rating for this…it’s so hot we had to make up our own: Rated!
After all these centuries, men and women still don’t seem to get things right when it comes to dealing with each other. This book shows a bold, daring, non-conforming view on relationships from a male and female’s perspective. I Now Pronounce You Single & Happy is not just for single people; its aim is to help men and women understand each other in a better way.
“It has been said that ”Love is Blind” but I beg to differ, based on personal experience, I can honestly say that the euphoric feeling of falling in love or infatuation can blind you to all the red flags waving above a person’s head and before you know it, you are knee deep in a drama-filled relationship that feels like walking through quicksand to get out! Sometimes you have to take a step back to see things clearly and other times you have to walk away completely to regain 20/20 vision. Allow this book to serve as your eye exam. Let me forewarn you that this book is NOT for the faint at heart. Those with sensitive ears (or in this case, eyes) or those too religious for any earthly good, STOP RIGHT HERE, DO NOT PASS INTRO!
N ow, I’m not going to lie to you like dudes do to some females when they want it real bad saying, “I’m only gonna put the head in.” I will truthfully paraphrase a quote from doctors when they say to their patients before giving them a needle to heal them, “This may sting a bit; but it’s only for a minute and you’ll feel much better afterward.” This is a no holds barred, raw, straight no chaser type of book so strap up…we’re going in; ALL THE WAY IN!”~ I Now Pronounce You Single & Happy
Relationships have their ups and downs but when all cards are on the table, you are guaranteed to have more ups than downs. I Now Pronounce You Single & Happy is not filled with conversations one will usually have every day. This book is what ladies’ night and locker room conversations are made of. All the hardcore, uncut and raw things we say privately about the opposite gender, but cannot say to them directly are fearlessly exposed in this book in an un-restricted manner. I Now Pronounce You Single & Happy will guide everyone in fostering better and everlasting unions.
A MUST READ FOR MARRIED, SINGLE, WOMEN, & MEN!!!!!, January 5, 2014
By tiffany jackson
This review is from: I Now Pronounce You Single & Happy (Kindle Edition)
I’m so excited and encouraged about this book that I’m telling all my family & friends about it. It’s very engaging and thought provoking. I love the transparency of the author’s heart and how each of us can walk away with something to better ourselves as a whole. This book has blessed me 10x’s over!!!!!
10 stars!!!, January 4, 2014
By Charisse O.
Amazon Verified Purchase(What’s this?)
This review is from: I Now Pronounce You Single & Happy (Kindle Edition)
This is hands down one of best book desicions I’ve made in a while! A magnificent learning tool filled with very relatable realism! An amazing read!! The authors are being robbed this book deserves 10 stars!!
I Now Pronounce You Single & Happy is the fruit of Mu Tariq and Sanjo Jendayi’s collaboration to write a life-changing book on love, relationships, sex and the single life.
ISBN: 978-0-9776740-9-1
Binding: Hardback
Trim: 6″x9″
Pages: 175
Genre: Human Sexuality/Sex/Mate Seeking
Target Audience: Adult
Cover Price: Retail 19.99
Publication Date: January, 2014
Author Location: Washington, DC
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For more information, please feel free to visit www.inpysh.com.
Sneak Peak INPYSH Quotes
“Society accepts single men with open arms as they put marriage off to establish careers, live adventurous lifestyles and sow their wild oats; all the while looking down on single women who used to be called spinsters for centuries. It is assumed that a single woman is lonely, sad, boring and bored out of her mind. People say, “Girl your clock is ticking,” “You are so beautiful, why aren’t you married yet?” “You aren’t getting any younger,” “I have just the right guy for you!” “You need to get out more.” Although most of these people mean well, I sometimes want to scream, “SHUT THE FUCK UP!” Society then and now cannot accept that a woman could be fulfilled without a man.” ~ Sanjo Jendayi
“Ladies, I am going to break this down as simple as I can without all the psychological bullshit. You give us too much credit! A “REAL MAN” wants to fuck!”~Mu Tariq
“You can be drop dead gorgeous, shaped like the original coke bottle but as soon as you open your mouth…the wrong bitch spills out and trust me, NO MAN wants to come home after fighting for or to maintain his position in society and verbally spar with his woman. Home is supposed to be a place of peace, his refuge if you will and turning it into a place where his mind cannot rest away from all the bullshit will surely have him calling you a bitch and fleeing as fast as he can.”~ Sanjo Jendayi
“Dick Worshipping is a silent ritual that women conduct on a daily, weekly, monthly basis. Please don’t be a fool and believe any woman that says “I ain’t trippin off no dick!” She is blatantly lying! If you are in a relationship with a woman and she says this to you; what she is really saying is that she is not trippin off YOUR dick. More than likely, she has already cheated or she is having memories of the dick she was getting before yours. Fellas it’s like this, the ball is in your court when it comes to providing. Providing GOOD DICK is a necessity! If you care about a woman, love and cherish her you must hold her down in the bed, car, woods, roof top or wherever you choose. It is your responsibility to find out how much she requires it and when she needs and/or wants it the most. Bottom line, know your woman well and follow through with action; otherwise, don’t take it personal when the funny man tickles more than her funny bone!”~Mu Tariq
“Fella’s do you know how to make love to a woman without penetration? Have you gotten so skilled with the art of verbal and non-verbal communication that you can make her pussy wet just from conversation, make her cum without touching her pussy at all? Does your woman’s body instantly react to your smallest touch? All of this is possible you know? It’s a skill, an art to truly know your woman. See boys find it challenging to fuck many women and see what makes each one tick but a MAN, ooohhhhh, a MAN will find it tantalizingly challenging to study one woman…HIS WOMAN and count the many titillating ways he can turn her on, make her pussy squirt and her body jerk.”~Sanjo Jendayi
“I’m referring to these bitch ass; bitch type niggas that feel the need to damage a dude’s reputation by sharing negative information about that dude, all in an effort to get close to a female. Yes, I will be referring to this type as “nigga” because that’s precisely what they are; bitch niggas!”~Mu Tariq
“I would be remiss if I didn’t touch on this…there’s always much controversy over the word submission. As a woman, let me set the records straight. KINGS, we do need you. We need to feel the strength of your arms wrapped around us in loving embraces. We love how the timbre of your voice reverberates through our soul. How your touch lingers even when you aren’t there and the warmth of your smile melts our heart. Yes, we NEED you to say everything is ok when all seems to be falling apart. Even when it appears we have it all together, we NEED you and you need us; after all we are bone of your bone and then man was born from woman. We’re connected.”~Sanjo Jendayi
“Ladies, when you are in full bloom, the world is a wonderful place. Your happiness and positive energy spreads to places seen and unseen by the naked eye. As birds carry seeds to the soil and bees pollinate the flower, we provide you with the seeds necessary for your health, beauty and wellness. The planet Earth is not only somewhere we exist, we exist because of it and it thrives off of us and the things we do; same as a man to a woman and a woman to a man…”~Mu Tariq
Filed under: Relationships
For Immediate Release! #INPYSH Revealed and It Will Change The Dating Game
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
Contact: Sanjo Jendayi ~ 202.710.0966 ~ inpysh@gmail.com
Company: MUSABooks
Address: Washington, DC
Website: www.inpysh.com
I Now Pronounce You Single & Happy Will Change the Dating Game
Imagine seeing your unfiltered thoughts in the pages of a book! I Now Pronounce You Single & Happy, a game changer book by Mu Tariq and Sanjo Jendayi on love, relationships, sex and embracing the single life, will officially hit stores on the day of love, February 14, 2014. There really is no rating for this…it’s so hot we had to make up our own: Rated “RX!”
After all these centuries, men and women still don’t seem to get things right when it comes to dealing with each other. This book shows a bold, daring, non-conforming view on relationships from a male and female’s perspective. I Now Pronounce You Single & Happy is not just for single people; its aim is to help men and women understand each other in a better way.
“It has been said that ”Love is Blind” but I beg to differ, based on personal experience, I can honestly say that the euphoric feeling of falling in love or infatuation can blind you to all the red flags waving above a person’s head and before you know it, you are knee deep in a drama-filled relationship that feels like walking through quicksand to get out! Sometimes you have to take a step back to see things clearly and other times you have to walk away completely to regain 20/20 vision. Allow this book to serve as your eye exam. Let me forewarn you that this book is NOT for the faint at heart. Those with sensitive ears (or in this case, eyes) or those too religious for any earthly good, STOP RIGHT HERE, DO NOT PASS INTRO!
Now, I’m not going to lie to you like dudes do to some females when they want it real bad saying, “I’m only gonna put the head in.” I will truthfully paraphrase a quote from doctors when they say to their patients before giving them a needle to heal them, “This may sting a bit; but it’s only for a minute and you’ll feel much better afterward.” This is a no holds barred, raw, straight no chaser type of book so strap up…we’re going in; ALL THE WAY IN!”~ I Now Pronounce You Single & Happy.
Relationships have their ups and downs but when all cards are on the table, you are guaranteed to have more ups than downs. I Now Pronounce You Single & Happy is not filled with conversations one will usually have every day. This book is what ladies’ night and locker room conversations are made of. All the hardcore, uncut and raw things we say privately about the opposite gender, but cannot say to them directly are fearlessly exposed in this book in an un-restricted manner. I Now Pronounce You Single & Happy will guide everyone in fostering better and everlasting unions.
For its e-book version, a 3-day 99 cents sneak peak promotion is offered with a chance to win a Kindle Fire HD January 3-6, 2014. All you need to do is purchase the e-book for 99 cents, read it and leave a review on Amazon. If you don’t win, you will have downloaded and read this page-turner for under $1. After the promotion, the e-book will be available at its original retail price of $9.99 and the hardback will be $19.99.
I Now Pronounce You Single & Happy is the fruit of Mu Tariq and Sanjo Jendayi’s collaboration to write a life-changing book on love, relationships, sex and the single life.
ISBN: 978-0-9776740-9-1
Binding: Hardback
Trim: 6″x9″
Pages: 175
Genre: Human Sexuality
Target Audience: Adult
Cover Price: Retail 19.99
Publication Date: January, 2014
Author Location: Washington, DC
###
For more information, please feel free to visit www.inpysh.com.
Sneak Peak INPYSH Quotes
“Society accepts single men with open arms as they put marriage off to establish careers, live adventurous lifestyles and sow their wild oats; all the while looking down on single women who used to be called spinsters for centuries. It is assumed that a single woman is lonely, sad, boring and bored out of her mind. People say, “Girl your clock is ticking,” “You are so beautiful, why aren’t you married yet?” “You aren’t getting any younger,” “I have just the right guy for you!” “You need to get out more.” Although most of these people mean well, I sometimes want to scream, “SHUT THE FUCK UP!” Society then and now cannot accept that a woman could be fulfilled without a man.” ~ Sanjo Jendayi
“Ladies, I am going to break this down as simple as I can without all the psychological bullshit. You give us too much credit! A “REAL MAN” wants to fuck!”~Mu Tariq
“You can be drop dead gorgeous, shaped like the original coke bottle but as soon as you open your mouth…the wrong bitch spills out and trust me, NO MAN wants to come home after fighting for or to maintain his position in society and verbally spar with his woman. Home is supposed to be a place of peace, his refuge if you will and turning it into a place where his mind cannot rest away from all the bullshit will surely have him calling you a bitch and fleeing as fast as he can.”~ Sanjo Jendayi
“Dick Worshipping is a silent ritual that women conduct on a daily, weekly, monthly basis. Please don’t be a fool and believe any woman that says “I ain’t trippin off no dick!” She is blatantly lying! If you are in a relationship with a woman and she says this to you; what she is really saying is that she is not trippin off YOUR dick. More than likely, she has already cheated or she is having memories of the dick she was getting before yours. Fellas it’s like this, the ball is in your court when it comes to providing. Providing GOOD DICK is a necessity! If you care about a woman, love and cherish her you must hold her down in the bed, car, woods, roof top or wherever you choose. It is your responsibility to find out how much she requires it and when she needs and/or wants it the most. Bottom line, know your woman well and follow through with action; otherwise, don’t take it personal when the funny man tickles more than her funny bone!”~Mu Tariq
“Fella’s do you know how to make love to a woman without penetration? Have you gotten so skilled with the art of verbal and non-verbal communication that you can make her pussy wet just from conversation, make her cum without touching her pussy at all? Does your woman’s body instantly react to your smallest touch? All of this is possible you know? It’s a skill, an art to truly know your woman. See, boys find it challenging to fuck many women and see what makes each one tick but a MAN, ooohhhhh, a MAN will find it tantalizingly challenging to study one woman…HIS WOMAN and count the many titillating ways he can turn her on, make her pussy squirt and her body jerk.”~Sanjo Jendayi
“I’m referring to these bitch ass; bitch type niggas that feel the need to damage a dude’s reputation by sharing negative information about that dude, all in an effort to get close to a female. Yes, I will be referring to this type as “nigga” because that’s precisely what they are; bitch niggas!”~Mu Tariq
“I would be remiss if I didn’t touch on this…there’s always much controversy over the word submission. As a woman, let me set the records straight. KINGS, we do need you. We need to feel the strength of your arms wrapped around us in loving embraces. We love how the timbre of your voice reverberates through our soul. How your touch lingers even when you aren’t there and the warmth of your smile melts our heart. Yes, we NEED you to say everything is ok when all seems to be falling apart. Even when it appears we have it all together, we NEED you and you need us; after all we are bone of your bone and then man was born from woman. We’re connected.”~Sanjo Jendayi
“Ladies, when you are in full bloom, the world is a wonderful place. Your happiness and positive energy spreads to places seen and unseen by the naked eye. As birds carry seeds to the soil and bees pollinate the flower, we provide you with the seeds necessary for your health, beauty and wellness. The planet Earth is not only somewhere we exist, we exist because of it and it thrives off of us and the things we do; same as a man to a woman and a woman to a man…”~Mu Tariq
Filed under: Relationships
December 4, 2013
Speak Your Desires Into Existence!
I know it’s been awhile since I’ve written here. As you know, the last two years have been a roller coaster ride full of ups, downs, bends and curves. At one point, I just wanted off! I was not seeing the joy of this ride at all. Then things began to change through a series of events beginning with me finding my inner Artist and peace in re-creating furniture. I then studied and became a Reiki Master Teacher balancing my mind, body and spirit. Updating my vision board became of utmost importance and speaking my desires into the atmosphere took top priority. I began speaking desire statements and feeling the joy of the words as they rolled off my tongue. So that is what I have been busy doing…speaking my desires and Lawd have mercy…have they been manifesting! I wanted to drop you all a quick line so you can get all you want out of life too, there’s enough for all of us!
The purpose of the Desire Statement is to support you in giving attention, energy and focus to your newly birthed desire. It teaches you how to language desires so they feel good to you. The key to the Desire Statement is it needs to be TRUE for you. I often start my statement off like this, “I love how it feels knowing…” Using this sentence allows you to state your desire in a way that makes it true for you. When it is true for you, you send out a positive vibration. It doesn’t matter of how often you read or say your Desire Statement each day. Your goal is to give your desire positive attention, knowing that as you do that you are sending out a positive vibration. I use all of my senses to bring this statement to life for myself; I think it, visualize it, smell what the atmosphere around it would be like, taste whatever foods, teas, etc… that accompany the desire, hear the sounds of the desire and I imagine all that it would feel like.
Once you create a Desire Statement, you have completed step 1 and 2 of the three step Law of Attraction formula. Now your work is to simply Allow. Spend most of your time and energy there. Keep finding proof that you are manifesting something that is in alignment to your desire. When you celebrate and acknowledge something you have manifested, this proof helps remove the doubt and negative vibrations that prevent you from receiving your desire.
Trust me, this works! My story will be unfolding soon and you will hear all about how I spoke my desires into existence and allowed them to manifest. God/Goddess, The Universe aligned everything just so and I am still speaking desires and smiling like a little kid for every negative vibration that shows up…two positives knock it right back down! Don’t delay…put this into practice today. What do you really desire? Do you believe you can have it?
In short, it’s not about how often you do each step of the Law of Attraction. The key point is to send out or offer a positive vibration with respect to your desire. Identify what you want, give positive attention, energy and focus to it, and remove the doubt and negative vibration you may be sending by celebrating proof as you find it. Happy Manifesting!
Filed under: Life
August 7, 2013
Take The Juicy Journey!
Ladies! My life has been spinning on it’s axle, some might even say out of control.
Sanjo Jendayi…Author/SpokenWord Artist/Speaker yes, that’s me. Four books completed and a CD. From the outside looking in, most think I’m living my dreams. What they don’t know is dis-ease tried to steal my dreams away from me and even as I write this, I am positioning my life to be upright again. Even those closest to me are like outsiders looking in because they really don’t know how these life transitions have affected me. One minute I was on top of my game, good job. Releasing books. Speaking. And then…it all stopped! Sickness came like a stalker watching my every move, following me until finally hurting me, damaging me enough to cause a rippling effect of loss.
The writing on the wall was clear and some decisions had to be made… my daughter and I moved in together to soften the blow of me losing my home. My job was next…I could no longer function at my full capacity and was missing more days than I was there. It wasn’t fair to the staff that I was overseeing, my Project Manager who I was assisting nor myself. Quickly, things began to spiral out of control…hospital bills were mounting and I could no longer pay my bills. Books stopped selling and I stopped speaking. While awaiting a disability decision, I lost my car and my credit suffered a heavy blow as I now had no income for about 7 months. Family and friends stepped right in financially to keep me afloat during this time but trust me no one really knew what this was doing to me.
It’s one thing to fight illness and a whole different thing to fight for your life on all fronts…physical, spiritual, mental, emotional and financial. There were days I thought I would lose my mind! Things changed so rapidly my head is still spinning. A friend introduced me to Reiki and I began to channel my energies for self healing, peace and manifestation. I enjoyed it so much that we journeyed together to Reiki Master and I will be joining her practice to assist others in self healing. I began taking control of my life and the situation!
I also utilized acupuncture which balanced my body as well. Then I went on this women’s getaway, GirlTalk Unplugged Getaway founded by my mentor Vikki Johnson that changed my life! The women were so authentic and the wisdom flowed freely. It was there I met La Tonia Taylor, The RevCoach and babbbbbyyyyy! She was nothing but the Truth! After some brief exchanges upon returning home from the getaway, I embarked on the Juicy Spirit Journey and in the 1st week I realized the root of all my dis-eases. See, I have been sickly since childhood and I remembered a few incidents where my illnesses inconvenienced or shall I say angered my mother. I remembered hating being sick and fearing illness not realizing that I indirectly manifested more illness from that fear.
Since that 1st week, more revelations have been surfacing and I am more aware of what I really want! As I write this I am in the process of selling everything I own and moving in with a friend to rebuild my life and guess what? Letting go…getting empty never felt so fulfilling! My life is changing, my energy is rising and I see God’s blessings in the midst of what looks like a mess. I am emitting my own frequency and it is so juicy!
Why JUICY SPIRIT? Because women have been taught to compartmentalize their power, pleasure & spiritual presence. Sisters you are a living breathing HOLY TRINITY & your sensuality and spirituality work together for your healing, prosperity, communication, relationships or the desire for one and orgasms are the by-product. YOU are the main ingredient! Are you JUICY?
Come EMIT your own frequency by taking the JUICY JOURNEY: http://www.rebirthinternational.net/go/juicyspirit
When I speak about it
I’m asked about it
Huh? What. Is. Juicy Spirit?
My response, sshhh…say it slowly & you’ll hear it
J-u-i-c-y S-p-i-r-i-t
When you think of juicy
You think of ripe fruit
Juicy & sweet dripping deliciously
You think of Spirit you think all things righteous, Godly, loving be-ing.
Somehow the two don’t seem to merge
in what most of us have learned
Leaving us in need of a ReBirth
A re-AWAKENING of your own voice
Amidst all that you’ve been hearing
A digging of some roots & some clearing
A sensual seduction of self
A new definition of wealth
A metamorphosis is happening
As you emerge a Juicy Butterfly each with unique wings
Ready, mature, Godly, Loving & Free!
Ripe for the picking, a Juicy Spirit is Me!
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July 18, 2013
Indeed, Count Your Chickens Before They Hatch!
“If you paint in your mind a picture of bright and happy expectations, you put yourself into a condition conducive to your goal.”~Norman Vincent Peale
At some stage in your life, you’ve probably been told not to count your chickens before they’ve hatched. You were probably told to not get your hopes up and to not expect too much – just in case you might be disappointed. For most of us, this or some variation of it was told to us over and over again by well meaning, but ill informed people. From an early age the idea of staying in an emotional “safe zone” was instilled in most of us until it eventually became belief systems that now control our behaviors.
We live in a culture where the predominant psychology is based in fear. The fear of loss drives and motivates most people’s decisions and behaviors. From this mindset the culture invented mechanisms to protect itself and sayings like “don’t count your chickens before they’ve hatched” is but only an illustration of how the culture prepares and “grooms” us from an early age to settle for the lowest denominator. “Go for the lowest and easiest to make sure that you at least get something.” “Don’t expect too much, just in case you don’t get anything at all.” From this mindset we lose all of our power; the power that is born in the belief that we are indeed worthy of all the success and all the abundance that we can possibly dream up.
Expectation is indeed one of the most powerful resources that you possess. An intense anticipation can transform possibility into 
reality. One of the biggest reasons why most people never get to live their dreams is because they lack the motivation to follow their dreams. The real purpose of a goal is to act like a directional mechanism that guides your life in a specific direction. A strong and exciting goal has the power to motivate and inspire you. When you fuel this goal with expectation and intention you set in motion an unstoppable force that will give you that internal drive that will enable you to create virtually anything you desire. When you count your chickens before they’ve hatched you create a sense of excitement and enthusiasm that has immense power to motivate you. Success and achievement are rarely the result of your ability but rather the product of your motivation; of your ability to consistently take action on your dreams and goals.
Expectation is not the same as hope. Most people hope that one day they will get what they really want or that one day they will get lucky and all their dreams will come true. Hoping is nothing but a weak prayer. Hoping always includes success and failure while expectation is solely fixed on one single outcome. When you count your chickens before they’ve hatched you nurture your expectation; your faith; you make it stronger and most importantly, you make it real. It is fixity of purpose where no one or no-thing can throw you off course because you know that you know that the outcome is going to be great! When you create that intense feeling of expectation you not only imagine having what you want but you start to create the feeling of already having it.
Whatever you expect with certainty will become your own self fulfilling prophecy. We all long for certainty on some level. For most people certainty comes from seeing and experiencing things before they “believe” it. This is why they keep re-creating and experiencing the same old things over and over again. When you use your mind, your emotions and your imagination to create the certainty within you, then anything is possible. Expectation goes beyond hoping. You want to be like the little kid on Christmas who knows that he’s getting a new bike, but he has to wait until Christmas morning before he can actually feel and touch it.
Have you ever ordered something really exciting and then had to wait for it to be delivered? You knew you were going to get it and you anxiously wait for the moment of delivery. You anticipate the moment where the image in your mind’s eye becomes real and where you can touch it, even though the imaginary experience felt just as real. This is what expectation really is. It is getting excited in advance. It is feeling the feelings in advance. It is the most powerful motivator there is. Expectation fueled by emotion, acts like a vacuum within you. It is like a thirst that forms a burning desire that you will do anything to fulfill. This is when your “should’s” become “musts” and when it is a must you will get it.
With expectation you can start to transform your perception of life, especially your life. Because you no longer hope for what you want, you expect it to come along any second. There are no more doubts and no more hoping. There is only a knowing and a feeling of certainty. When you know something you can stop doubting and questioning. Now, every situation becomes an opportunity to receive your goal. Every person becomes a player in the process and every problem becomes a stepping stone towards the realization of your dreams. You have that certainty that the outcome is resolved and that you are merely in the process; waiting for “Christmas morning” to come.
You have to let go of the mentality that is based on the fear of loss; the mentality that is grounded in the belief that you are not worthy of having it all. Let go of the beliefs that you might be disappointed when you give it your all and it doesn’t work out. All they do is lock you up in a world where you never even “try” just because you might not make it. If anything you want to overestimate your abilities. Over estimate your capability. When you feel like you are running up a hill that is too steep, don’t turn back and run down hill. Instead, up the prize for getting to the top. Make the reward more compelling and you will find within yourself a strength that was previously unavailable. This is how you access your real resources, those resources that lie asleep within you waiting to be called upon. Nothing of significant value has ever been created without enthusiasm.
Do whatever it takes to “count” your chickens; whatever it takes to create the feeling of already having it. If you have goals you need to start living them and the way you do that is to build your expectation. Do whatever it takes to create the feeling of already having it. Make it real. The legendary musician, Jackson Browne once said that whenever he gets nominated for an award he always expects to win, even when he is the underdog. He always prepares a victory speech. What is your victory speech? How can you prepare for what you desire most from life? What can you do to make it real? Most people plan to fail by never expecting to succeed. Remember that your results will rarely exceed your expectations.
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