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���Lord, I���m On ���E������Can I Get a Refill…Fulfilled?��� Blog Series

Have you ever thought or even uttered the phrase, ���If it ain���t one thing it���s another?���


Feel like every time you take one step forward, you���re knocked 2 steps back?


Does something always seem to happen that stops you from living your dreams?


Have people counted you out? More importantly, have you counted yourself out?


Have you been raped, molested, physically or verbally abused?


Have you lost a family member to murder, drunk driving or a deadly illness?


Are you battling a debilitating disease? Are you caring for someone who is sick or elderly?


Did your husband decide that he doesn���t want to be married anymore?

Maybe, you���re dealing with another type of tragedy and you are simply tired….

By now you���re probably nodding your head emphatically and/or screaming YESSSS! Well, honey I was living these thoughts too and after writing and releasing Girl, Get Empty, I identified that I was viewing my past negatively and allowing it to ruin my future when I was already over that part! I began the process of getting empty in order for God to fill me. In Girl, Get Empty I spoke about emptying being a continuous process of purging and releasing. Well, soon after releasing that book, I released my first children���s book; NyAshia���s Freedom Ride which I had put off for 10yrs. ��I prayed over these books, I prayed for God���s direction and I KNOW I heard Him clearly in my direction. I KNOW I saw the visions in living color and I felt them as if they were happening. So I hit the ground running, emptying myself of dreams deferred and purging myself of negative thoughts, things and even some people that were holding me back. I had no idea that a greater emptying was about to take place.

This was the intro to my follow-up book to Girl, Get Empty however, after overcoming some major obstacles I heard the God in me whisper, ���Give it away��� and I know that may sound strange to some of you because I just said I am living on a fixed income but I am going to follow my instructions. This will be the beginning of a Blog Series entitled, ���Lord, I���m On ���E������Can I Get a Refill Fulfilled?��� Please subscribe and take this journey with me! There will be a new blog entry EVERY MONDAY to give you a little Monday Motivation!

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Your Smile Was My Shift

In today���s world of technology we do not have ample opportunity to get personal. Life is fast-paced and everyone seems to be in a rush. We dial the phone and we talk to machines. We spend long hours on the computer playing games, emailing one another, facebooking, tweeting, IG’ing or working with our web pages. Even in the office environment, we email the person in the cubicle 3 feet away instead of walking over to hand them a task list.

Don���t get me wrong. I love technology. I cannot imagine ever being without my computer and am guilty of spending a large part of my day working on line. The computer and Internet afford many opportunities. Now at no charge outside of my Internet connection I can communicate with persons all over the world. If screened carefully young people have a world of education available at their fingertips. I could continue to expound on the many benefits that technology has brought into our lives. However, that is not the gist of this blog post.

As a result of the technological age of today���s world, our personal touch with one another is decreasing. We need to take full advantage of the opportunity to be personal. Humans are becoming strangers to one another. People are in a hurry to get on with the business of living and walk past each other on the street without even a nod.

Have you wondered why there is so much clinical depression in the world today? Ask yourself why our young people are so distressed. Why are so many attempting or committing suicide or worse suicide/murder. Do you conclude as I do that we need more of a personal touch?

Have you taken notice to how you felt when you were standing in a long line at a bank or grocery store and someone turned and smiled at you. Prior to that smile you were feeling very anxious, possibly tapping your foot in impatience. You weren���t very happy to be there waiting in a long line. You had things to get done and you were getting more frustrated by the minute. It was one of the mundane drudgeries we all have to go through. Then comes this smile from the person in the line next to you and suddenly you feel much better. You are compelled to smile back. You do so without giving it thought, as though it is a natural inclination to reciprocate the smile.

Think about it, don���t you feel compelled to smile back when someone smiles at you? Doesn���t it lift your mood, and bring you out of a frustrated frame of mind? But that smile does so much more than that. It touches a core need within you for joy. It reminds you that things aren’t really that bad. It sends a signal to your brain that no matter what is going on…YOU have the power to shift a bad situation into a better one.

There is power in the smile, you see. It���s as though in that instant someone waved a wand and all the drudgery disappeared. You suddenly feel warm and responsive and the person who offered you a smile has just gone from a stranger to be wary of to a kindred spirit. Sometimes a conversation is started and now the mundane drudgery has actually become an enjoyable experience. You no longer feel frustrated and rushed and in spite of yourself; you are enjoying yourself. The world is now warm and fuzzy instead of cold, fearful and bitter.

I do not mean to imply that giving and receiving a smile is the solution to the world���s problems, but it is a very good place to start. We all need to feel that sense of belonging. We are after all members of the same human family. We should feel moved to embrace each other in our hearts and minds.

So go ahead and smile. I dare you. But be careful. You might find the world a friendlier place to live. You might find that people are warm and kind and appreciative. Your smile might just make someone’s day or save a life! Thank you to the friendly elderly woman in the Giant grocery store who saw fit to smile at me when I needed it most…Your Smile Was My Shift and your hug was just the personal touch my soul was craving. Smile and the world smiles with you.

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A Conversation with My Higher Self…

The human self is a temple of the Divine.

Things happen in life���You get hurt, disappointed, frustrated, everything seems off, things fall apart or don’t go as planned but guess what? Life goes on. You can choose to let life flow or get stuck and just keep spinning your wheels. Each day offers a chance to look at the brighter side of life and enjoy it. Each day is a chance to be connected with your divinity. Each day heralds a new beginning. You have to be part of it.

The world never stands still. The time comes when battles that were once critical no longer top the list of priorities. That is���if you learn to reconcile yourself with the past, sort out the precious lessons and move on.

Take control of your life, validate yourself, honor and respect your being and most of all, love yourself. This is not about being aggressive, domineering and always in control and confrontational. It is not about becoming self-absorbed.

Far from it, it is about offering a more compatible YOU in life and relationships. There are inevitable bumps in all relationships, unavoidable falls and pitfalls. No problem lasts forever. There has to be ways to adjust your sails and enjoy the breeze, sometimes you must sail in different directions but DO NOT get lost in the storm.

Take stock of your life. What are your illusions? What is your reality? How do you deal with failure, with disappointments and the other elements that fuel stress? Are you just coping, mostly in a crisis management mode? Or do you try to sweep it under a rug? What can you do?

Sometimes, one’s world, one’s hopes and dreams come crashing with a big bang, a major shaking up of life. This is a chance to take a great leap of faith, to grow and strengthen your self-trust that is eroding. Move on without fear. Fear can be paralyzing. Move on instead with self-confidence. Have faith in yourself. Faith is enduring.

Grab the chance to harness the power from the river of knowledge already flowing through your being, to take that first step to get up and move on to the next phase. Time to let go and really let go. Hanging onto personal loss builds up powerful negative blocks; these fuel anger, grief, bitterness, vindictiveness, distrust, confrontation, erodes self-confidence- all negative but very powerful energies. Over time, accumulation of these takes its toll on your health.

Why allow a negative influence to knock on the door? Hurtful issues tend to get remote and forgotten. Over time. Why dwell on these, the negative energy gets very powerful and takes on a life of its own. What purpose does it serve? NOTHING!!!!!

Take peace over misery any day, any time. In a world of turmoil, deception, hypocrisy and insensitivity, not to mention fighting with inner demons, peace can be elusive. Believe in the power of love and peace. Loving yourself first no matter how crazy it may look to those on the outside looking in enhances your capability to share the fullness of that love with others.

Strengthen your personal power. Nurture your spirit; let it bring forth deep insight, thus, perspective. Search deep within, bring out the glitter from within your soul, let it radiate joy and peace. Continue on your journey to help make this a better world.

Sincerely,

Sanjo

http://www.sanjojendayi.com

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YOU ARE ENERGY���but HAVE YOU ACTIVATED IT?

Some are confused about energy and how it works. Did you know that you cannot create energy yourself? You simply activate the universal energy which exists always, everywhere and will always exist.
This Energy gave you life. It���s always there, at every moment, for everyone. There is no such thing like people with a lot of energy and other ones without energy. The only difference is that energetic people know how to activate this ���always available��� energy. And the low energy people, they block this energy; although it is always available for them too!
Before I began studying and paying attention to energy���I couldn���t really understand it. I have had many conversations with people who just thought of energy when they thought of the sun or solar systems. Some have even said; ���I wish I had your energy��� to which I respond���YOU DO! Energy does not decide something like : ���Hey I like this one so I will send her energy and the other one over there I don���t like so he won���t get any of my energy���. Noooooo! It doesn���t happen like that.
The same goes for diseases. A disease does not ���choose��� a body to attack. How would it do that? Can you imagine a Cancer saying : ���I don���t like the way he looks, so I will attack his bones?��� or ���I can���t stand the way she talks so I will attack her breast?���
There is no such thing. It would be absurd. We have much more to say TO our body and our life than we can understand or than we would want to admit for ourselves. Because to understand this is to take responsibility for one���s own health. Once we know that we ���ask��� for dis-ease – by thinking of it all the time, by googling every symptom, by running from one doctor to another, by reading all articles about diseases in magazines, by telling our friends and family about all our pains and troubles. This is why ��we have to change our thoughts/ behavior and start to behave like a healthy person, who digs within to find the root of the dis-ease and begins to change his way of thinking, speaking ��and handling to stay healthy. I learned this only after being diagnosed with Ankylosing Spondylitis, Sarcoidosis, Lung Cancer, Fibromyalgia, Chronic Iridocylitis, High Blood Pressure, Migraines and a few others. I found the root of my dis-ease was fear, a deep seated fear that began as a child. I saw my mom sick, my grandmom sick and I feared getting ill. When I was 10, I was hit by a metro bus and began suffering from seizures. During that time I used to fear being a burden to my mother and my family. I feared getting sick. I feared my next episode and all of that fear made me a sickly child who became a sickly adult.
It wasn���t until I became a Reiki Master that I began to correlate the dis-ease with low vibrational energy and thoughts.
Energy is always there. It never goes away, it never slows down; ��otherwise our whole galaxy would fall apart. The same energy which holds the stars in place in the sky, which makes grass grow and turns the earth on its own axis, is available for us. Can you imagine? It���s tremendous and there for us!
You can activate this energy for you by thinking the right thoughts; that is thoughts which stimulate you positively instead of bringing you down, thoughts which bring you health instead of dis-ease, thoughts which make you feel loved instead of fearing loneliness, thoughts which bring you wealth instead of poverty.
Is thinking about all this nice stuff enough to bring it into your life? No! Otherwise, it would be so easy just to lean back and think about everything you want and voila���.it���s there! We all would be fairies and make the world whatever we want without doing anything.��
Luckily it doesn���t work like that! It would be dangerous! We need something else to make our thoughts create what we want : it is action. The combination of both will give us what we want! Visualizing what we want and putting ourselves into action is taking steps in the direction of our thoughts. What most don’t realize is that thoughts become action whether it is negative or positive which is why we are constantly shifting. Books like The Secret, The Laws of Attraction, The Laws of Thinking to name a few; are all about energy. We don’t create energy but our thoughts and actions activate it.
With each step we take, the universe also takes a step toward us. By our thoughts and our actions we activate this enormous universal energy to work for us. We make it move in the direction of manifesting our dreams or nightmares/fears.
So the formula if you want to call it that���is pretty simple: first you dream and or visualize, then you take action in the direction of your dream. This will generate energy to help you take the next step. The energy generated by this step will help you take the next step. And so on���.
How do you know which action to take? Follow your gut intuition. It���s the best guide you can find!
Stop worrying. Instead dream, meditate, visualize. Think of what you want and get yourself moving in the direction of your dream. Believe. Speak life to yourself and your situation and that���s it. Watch what���s happening. Let the mystery unfold itself. Be in the moment. Plug into the energy that surrounds you and you will begin to tell much about yourself and others by the energy that���s being emitted.

��Allow your vibrations to rise and YOU will inevitably rise with your vibrations.

http://www.sanjojendayi.com

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YOU ARE ENERGY…but HAVE YOU ACTIVATED IT?

Some are confused about energy and how it works. Did you know that you cannot create energy yourself? You simply activate the universal energy which exists always, everywhere and will always exist.
This Energy gave you life. It’s always there, at every moment, for everyone. There is no such thing like people with a lot of energy and other ones without energy. The only difference is that energetic people know how to activate this “always available” energy. And the low energy people, they block this energy; although it is always available for them too!
Before I began studying and paying attention to energy…I couldn’t really understand it. I have had many conversations with people who just thought of energy when they thought of the sun or solar systems. Some have even said; “I wish I had your energy” to which I respond…YOU DO! Energy does not decide something like : “Hey I like this one so I will send her energy and the other one over there I don’t like so he won’t get any of my energy”. Noooooo! It doesn’t happen like that.
The same goes for diseases. A disease does not “choose” a body to attack. How would it do that? Can you imagine a Cancer saying : “I don’t like the way he looks, so I will attack his bones?” or “I can’t stand the way she talks so I will attack her breast?”
There is no such thing. It would be absurd. We have much more to say TO our body and our life than we can understand or than we would want to admit for ourselves. Because to understand this is to take responsibility for one’s own health. Once we know that we “ask” for dis-ease – by thinking of it all the time, by googling every symptom, by running from one doctor to another, by reading all articles about diseases in magazines, by telling our friends and family about all our pains and troubles. This is why  we have to change our thoughts/ behavior and start to behave like a healthy person, who digs within to find the root of the dis-ease and begins to change his way of thinking, speaking  and handling to stay healthy. I learned this only after being diagnosed with Ankylosing Spondylitis, Sarcoidosis, Lung Cancer, Fibromyalgia, Chronic Iridocylitis, High Blood Pressure, Migraines and a few others. I found the root of my dis-ease was fear, a deep seated fear that began as a child. I saw my mom sick, my grandmom sick and I feared getting ill. When I was 10, I was hit by a metro bus and began suffering from seizures. During that time I used to fear being a burden to my mother and my family. I feared getting sick. I feared my next episode and all of that fear made me a sickly child who became a sickly adult.
It wasn’t until I became a Reiki Master that I began to correlate the dis-ease with low vibrational energy and thoughts.
Energy is always there. It never goes away, it never slows down;  otherwise our whole galaxy would fall apart. The same energy which holds the stars in place in the sky, which makes grass grow and turns the earth on its own axis, is available for us. Can you imagine? It’s tremendous and there for us!
You can activate this energy for you by thinking the right thoughts; that is thoughts which stimulate you positively instead of bringing you down, thoughts which bring you health instead of dis-ease, thoughts which make you feel loved instead of fearing loneliness, thoughts which bring you wealth instead of poverty.
Is thinking about all this nice stuff enough to bring it into your life? No! Otherwise, it would be so easy just to lean back and think about everything you want and voila….it’s there! We all would be fairies and make the world whatever we want without doing anything. 
Luckily it doesn’t work like that! It would be dangerous! We need something else to make our thoughts create what we want : it is action. The combination of both will give us what we want! Visualizing what we want and putting ourselves into action is taking steps in the direction of our thoughts. What most don’t realize is that thoughts become action whether it is negative or positive which is why we are constantly shifting. Books like The Secret, The Laws of Attraction, The Laws of Thinking to name a few; are all about energy. We don’t create energy but our thoughts and actions activate it.
With each step we take, the universe also takes a step toward us. By our thoughts and our actions we activate this enormous universal energy to work for us. We make it move in the direction of manifesting our dreams or nightmares/fears.
So the formula if you want to call it that…is pretty simple: first you dream and or visualize, then you take action in the direction of your dream. This will generate energy to help you take the next step. The energy generated by this step will help you take the next step. And so on….
How do you know which action to take? Follow your gut intuition. It’s the best guide you can find!
Stop worrying. Instead dream, meditate, visualize. Think of what you want and get yourself moving in the direction of your dream. Believe. Speak life to yourself and your situation and that’s it. Watch what’s happening. Let the mystery unfold itself. Be in the moment. Plug into the energy that surrounds you and you will begin to tell much about yourself and others by the energy that’s being emitted.

 Allow your vibrations to rise and YOU will inevitably rise with your vibrations.

http://www.sanjojendayi.com

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Are you Ascending, Standing Still or Descending?

We oftentimes gravitate to the easy, quick fix. The fastest thing that will make us feel better…temporarily. Sex, drama, heresay, you name it…some of us live for it. The gritty, dysfunctional things distract us from what’s really going on within us. They halt our growth. The work that is required to grow is not attractive to most. It’s not wrapped in a pretty bow and handed to you. You have to do the necessary work, wrap that package and put your own bow on it…and you have to love the gift that is YOU; even if others do not. Some will say I’m growing but reflection proves you are either standing still or actually descending to a lower vibration. When the mundane, easy fixes begin to make you uncomfortable and you begin to desire more…ASCENSION is taking place. Take notice of your awareness of the energies that surround you and your very own vibrations. Some will be left behind and that is okay.

Some fear ascension because people don’t understand the changes in you, some ridicule it, some will say you have your head in the clouds and some of us fear being in unknown territory. FEAR NOT…you are en-route to an awakening that will place you in a select few. Some days you will want to halt it and stand still. Some days you will want to go back but I ask you, “Do You Want To Be Well?”  I disagree that it’s lonely at the top however, it’s definitely not crowded. You will find you are no longer swimming WITH the current but against it, your arms and legs will get tired but don’t focus on that or on everyone going the other way…rather focus on your breathing, pace yourself and endure the work. I ask you again, “Do You Want To Be Well?” Your answer may be “Yes, but the others are swimming the other way…they seem happy and this is hard.” Yes, it takes WORK to get to the other side and THAT is what deters some but NOT YOU! YOU are necessary. YOU are needed. YOU are chosen. Even if you reach just one…you have made a wave in the current. Keep pushing and do not grow weary. It’s worth it in the end. Someone’s life is better because of your ascension…so, challenge yourself to continue to rise. Do not get complacent…

Get out of bed, (insert your name) ________________________!

    Wake up. Put your face in the sunlight.

    God’s bright glory has risen for you.

The whole earth is wrapped in darkness,

    all people sunk in deep darkness,

But God rises on you,

    his sunrise glory breaks over you.

Nations will come to your light,

    kings to your sunburst brightness.

Look up! Look around!

    Watch as they gather, watch as they approach you:

Your sons coming from great distances,

    your daughters carried by their nannies.

When you see them coming you’ll smile—big smiles!Arise, for your time has come! Isaiah 60:1-5

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Beauty is Embracing Your Imperfections

We live in a world where it is more acceptable to create the perfect body rather than appreciate our natural, God created bodies. Body image is marred by society’s view of perfection when most of what the media shows us is man-made bodies via either surgery, makeup, photoshop or a combination of all three. Everyone is entitled to alter their body anyway they like…because it is their body so I am not disputing that but I will ask, “What happened to doing the work?” Ponder on that for a minute and I will come back to it.

Our body image is a culmination of what we’ve been taught, what we see and our perception of what beauty consists of and that makes us afraid to step on the scale. Afraid to look in the mirror. Afraid to go to the beach. It also makes us hate the naked body. I have met women who say they have sex with a shirt on or in the dark because they don’t like something on their body. STOP and think about that!

The naked body is a work of art and beautiful all in itself (flaws and all). Every imperfection makes you uniquely YOU! Seeing our own or another’s body in its natural state should not make us cringe. Now there is tasteful and there is distasteful ways in which to display our love for our bodies but guess what? Tasteful and distasteful are both subjective…it’s all a matter of perception, interpretation and opinion.  One person’s perception is their reality but it doesn’t make it another person’s truth. The world wide web is full of self expression pictures of body parts and bodies as a whole.  Everyone is entitled to their opinion however, some of us cross the lines of judgement, envy and bitterness at our own feelings of body image when we see pictures that show skin and immediately feel uncomfortable. Some people hide who they are inside and when they see someone boldly doing what they secretly wish they could do…they bash them instead of looking within.

If women were to embrace who they are as they are we would put a lot of businesses out of business. It took me a long time to come out of the house without at least eyeliner because I didn’t think my natural beauty was pretty enough. I had to really begin to do some inner work (here is where I revisit the question in the 1st paragraph) and question my take on beauty. Whose standards were I measuring my beauty to and why? I am an artist therefore I love being creative and that extends to clothes, makeup, hair, etc… and there is nothing wrong with enhancing your beauty with temporary things. The problem comes in when we have such deep seated ills resting in our core that we feel we are not beautiful without enhancements. People are going under the knife to alter parts of their body and some die right there in their quest for beauty! In this age we don’t have to work for anything. You want a flat stomach…liposuction. Fuller lips…botox. Bigger booty or breasts…butt and breast enhancements, butt lifts, breast lifts. Hair loss…hair implants. Overweight…gastric bypass. And now, if you don’t like your eye color…forget color contacts, change it with surgery that cuts slits in your eyes and insert artificial silicone irises! WHAT HAPPENED TO THE WORK? We live in such a microwave society that we don’t want to work out or eat right. We don’t want to take proper care of our mind, body and spirit…I mean why do something that will require discipline, time and effort providing a feeling of self accomplishment when we can just buy beauty? That mindset it indicative of something much deeper, much more difficult to accept and that is self love or lack thereof.

I remember looking in the mirror and not liking the weight I had put on and I tried diet pills and diets that didn’t work. Dis-ease attacked my body and I had to battle several illnesses, I recall looking in the mirror one morning and I saw me but I heard all of the negative insults I heard as a child, I saw the images of beauty that I was bombarded with daily in the media, I saw myself begin to morph into the little girl I was when I thought I was beautiful and THAT DAY; I decided it wasn’t my outside I needed to work on…it was my inside! My thoughts. My beliefs. My hang-ups. I had to do the work of making me better inside and out. You know what began to happen? I began to exercise and eat right to be healthy. I began researching foods good for the specific ailments I faced and smooth skin. I began tackling childhood issues. I began loving ME and my outer appearance began to reflect how I felt on the inside. My body started changing, weight began falling off and my muscles began toning. My skin started to glow and my hair started to grow. Most importantly, my health had improved x10! I recently allowed work to consume me and that’s not good for the healthiest of people much less someone battling deadly illnesses. I began slacking about a month ago missing meals, reducing my meditations, not laughing due to being too serious, not dancing which always lifts my mood and you guessed it…weight started coming back. I had a health setback. I was on edge and becoming a ticking time bomb. I told you that to show you how one month impacted years’ worth of “doing the work.” As I am taking this “me” time my creativity began to flow again and my mind is clearing so I can get back to the things that keep me alive. Today, I am doing the work and I am very comfortable in my skin! Everything we need is right within us and as natural as going outside and eating an apple off of a tree, but WE MUST BE WILLING TO DO THE WORK!

Ask yourself, who am I comparing myself to and why? Who am I trying to measure up to outside of myself and then go look in the mirror.

In the end…people are dying to be “beautiful” but true beauty is embracing  your imperfections and it’s soul deep.

http://www.sanjojendayi.com
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Who Said Women Can’t Get Along?

I have heard it said that one man can make a difference. Now I know that this phrase was not to the exclusion of women but in reference to mankind as a whole. I have also heard and been one to say that women don’t get along. I used to be one of those women that only had one or two women friends and a basket full of male friends…until I reached my thirty’s and realized just how much I was missing out on. Over a decade ago, my pursuit of the quest to make a difference, to be involved, to inspire landed me directly in front of women. See, my purpose involves women. Therefore all of my hang-ups, past issues, immature, preconceived notions had to take a back seat as I met and learned more about the many facets of women.

In this very moment and for the past year, I have been dealing with health issues and to a large degree it has been women who have made the difference in my growth and healing; unique, powerful, loving, nurturing women.

This writing serves as an acknowledgement, a song of praise if you will, for women. It’s important you realize just how powerful and wonderful you are as a woman, as a female, a Goddess, as someone who has a unique blueprint different from the male of our species. Your gift is priceless when used well with integrity and you conduct yourself from this seat of female power. When a woman chooses to show up authentically…it challenges some women to question their own authenticity and how they choose to show up in this world. Showing up authentic to who you are can also make others feel uncomfortable but that it their problem. Our power is not the media’s and popular culture’s representation of feminine wiles, cunning, and manipulation. No, it’s the power of the nurturer, the teacher, the manifestation of love itself…the WOMBman.

I speak partly from my own experience that has a depth and richness that is so hard to explain yet so easily lived. It also includes influence from historical and cultural perspectives and the recognition that almost every great man in history has attributed a large part of their success to the great woman in their life. I attribute it to the call in my heart and the need in my soul for that connection and healing balm that only the company of a siSTAR can provide. How can words possibly express such complexity and yet such simplicity so that it is understood and owned by all women? WE ARE THE HEALERS OF THIS WORLD!

It is my desire to empower each of you to be the greatest woman you can be. If I had any advice for your day-to-day living,* I’d say look to women who are mature in experience and who have a healthy perspective on love, life, and relationships. Look to women who are successful in their relationships and careers without compromising their highest values that ring so true in all of our hearts. If a woman “rubs you the wrong way” or how she chooses to show up in this world make YOU uncomfortable…check yourself 1st and why you are feeling this way. Sometimes, it’s intuition and other times it could very well be you so always check your motives. Then look in the mirror and ask yourself the hard questions, love on self and be true to self. Sometimes, it’s intuition and other times it could very well be you so always check your motives.

Don’t hold back, be all that you are made to be.

Yes, one man can make a difference, but the truth is; Women make all the difference! Don’t tear a another woman down…Peace, love, harmony – it is power.

Be divinely beautiful; it radiates from within.

Whoever said women can’t get along was wrong! I love you and there is nothing you can do about it!

Do you accept the challenge to accept women as they show up without judgement? To show love instead of envy? To uplift instead of tear down? To allow your light to shine so brightly that it ignites and fan the flames of others?

It’s time to Make a Difference!

http://www.sanjojendayi.com

*If you need to find a sisterhood that will love you through to the best, authentic you…please check out these below that have impacted and changed my life!!

http://www.gtugetaway.com  (Stay tuned for the next GirlTalk Unplugged Getaway and BE THERE!)

http://www.rebirthinternational.net  (You MUST take the Juicy Spirit Journey)

http://www.sisters4sisters.org

I would be remiss if I didn’t turn you onto the best massage therapist I have ever encountered whose friendship and healing hands have equally impacted and added so much to my life.

http://www.caressencetm.com

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My Spirit Said, “YOU goin learn today!”

Life is full of lessons if we are ready to learn. Oftentimes when situations arise in our lives we look at the outer places, people or things involved in the situation to place blame or justify our actions. How often do we take that situation and lesson inward?
We are energetic magnets and negative energy can penetrate our aura when somewhere in our chakra space there is an imbalance drawing these lessons to us.
These last two weeks I have learned so much more about myself and this INNERg work is continuous. For about a month now I have not listened to my body, I’ve shortened my meditations, almost erased my “Me” time in the name of grinding and the effects of it all has shown up in the form of scattered thoughts, eating poorly or missing meals altogether, health setback, no room for laughter, situations that almost raised the “you goin learn today bitch in me” from her deep slumber. I thank God/Dess for the people in my life who speak the hard, unadulterated truth into me and hold a space for me to shift and get balanced.
I say all of this to say that I’ve learned in these past two weeks how vital eating healthy, meditations, working out, “Me” time, LAUGHTER, family, friends and SILENCE are to my overall vibrational level. I can’t take a break from the very things that give me life, instead I have to feel the shift and know when to adjust and/or unplug from the “busyness of business”, the problems of this world and OPP (other people’s problems) in order to retreat to my inner sanctum.
I awoke to my Spirit saying, “YOU goin learn today!” and so it is.  #soulcationstartsNOW #cleansingandsynchronizing
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I Just Made Love to the Moon!

I just made love to the moon
The brilliance of his light warmed me all over
And when I had his full attention…
I seduced him & I felt him drawing nearer to me
His heat melting me as he whispered in my ear,
“I’ve been waiting for you,
let me show you something new”
Then his lips gently grazed my cheek
The combination of the gentle winds caressing my body & the moon’s heat

Raised my Inner-G
Opened my 3rd eye so I could see exactly what he was doing to me
And before I knew it, I was breathless inside the circle of the Moon
My skin glistening under his glow
My body fully in tune…
I just made love to the moon
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