Janis Abrahms Spring
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“Love is not static. We grow dissatisfied and move apart; affection returns and we pull together again. Some people, ignorant of the process, pull away when the good times end and assume the bad times will last forever. These people flee, mope, or drift into affairs. Others see the ups and downs as part of a dynamic process, which, when anticipated and understood, can enrich and revitalize their relationship, even give it an added punch.”
― After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful
― After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful
“You don't restore your humanity when you forgive an unapologetic offender; he restores his humanity when he works to earn your forgiveness.”
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“of you must fully commit to the process of reconnecting, as outlined in this book. This doesn’t mean that you have to feel certain about your future together, only that you must behave as if you feel certain, while you work on changing the ways you perceive and treat each other. Put your negative feelings aside, commit to each other, demonstrate your commitment by engaging in the trust- and intimacy-building strategies, and then, and only then, see whether you feel more loving, and more loved. If you wait to feel more positive before you act more positively, your relationship won’t last the course.”
― After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful
― After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful
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