Susan Cottrell's Blog, page 54

Love the Sinner, Hate the Sin?

“I’m Christian, Unless You’re Gay.” If you are someone who believes that you should ‘love the sinner but hate the sin,’ you really must read this. I am thrilled to share this original article by Dan Pearce. Absolutely brilliant. Thank... Read More ›

Here’s to a Freed Heart!

“Where did any of us arrive at the conclusion that we were given permission to finger point and say shame on you! If someone could preach how damaging judgments are that would be fabulous… oh wait! YOU ARE!!! I am... Read More ›

Jesus in the Real World

I love Jesus. I really love Jesus. But I am sick about all the stuff people try to attach to Him. I grew up in a home where any religion was ridiculed. It was for the weak, gullible, unintelligent —... Read More ›

“My LGBTQ Child, I’m Sorry” – Dad

I am so sorry. And I am so thankful. First, please let me say that it is an honor and a privilege to be your parent. I could not have asked for a better child. I am sorry if I... Read More ›

Does Jesus Ask You to Love LGBTQ?

I recently heard from yet another Christian mom whose daughter was rejected by their extended family. They had rallied around in love and sacrifice to accommodate the significant physical challenge she was born with, but when she revealed her same-sex … Continue reading →

Why We Hurt Those Who Grieve

My dear friend Linda Robertson posted this morning about the pain she experienced in church following their son Ryan’s death. She poured her heart out about all the things people do and say: from walking away when they see you … Continue reading →

Are you near Atlanta? Jacksonville?

I am thrilled to announce that I will be the featured speaker at two upcoming PFLAG meetings. What an honor! First, I will be speaking at the PFLAG meeting on Thursday evening, August 15th, in Jacksonville, FL. For more information … Continue reading →

How to Come Out to Your Sister

Coming out for anyone can be scary, because you can’t really say, “Just kidding!” if someone goes ballistic. Becca took a courageous step to come out to her sister away at college and was quite relieved at her loving response. … Continue reading →

What Happens When They Come For You?

What happens when the church or society decides that something in your life is now a “particularly evil sin?” What happens when they come for you? We have been evangelicals for 24 years — last weekend we visited an open … Continue reading →

Parents, Your LGBTQ Kid is Going to be Fine

Your child is gay. Do not be afraid; it’s going to be alright. In fact, it will be amazing! Your world feels shaky but I encourage you to relax. It’s not just going to be okay, it will be better … Continue reading →