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January 31, 2013
Mrs. Snark's Guide to the Super Bowl
Mr. Snark has been excitedly preparing for the biggest religious holiday of his year--the Super Bowl--so Mrs. Snark is going to take a break from humor today to assemble her notes.
When Mr. and Mrs. Snark met, she knew nothing about footballs. However, over the last few years, she had made various observations and learned much.
Football
This is a football.
When a football is in use, the men on the TV screen are playing football. Different balls are used in baseball, basketball and hockey.
Football positions are named for Backs and Buttocks.
Back Positions include: The Quarterback. The Halfback. The Threequarterback. The Fullback.
Buttock positions include: The Tight End. The Wide End. The Asshole. The End Zone.
The San Francisco Forty-Niners will be playing this weekend in the Super Bowl. Their uniforms are gold and red. Their uniform looks a lot like two other teams--the Cardinals and the dudes from New Orleans. In a few years, the SF Forty-Niners will become the Santa Clara Forty-Niners when the new stadium is finished.
The enemy is the Ravens. Their uniforms will have different colors so the two teams may be told apart.
Note to self: Google images of ravens.
More important note to self: Other local teams include the Oakland Raiders and the SF Giants. The Giants are not a football team.
Football has four innings called quarters. (Not to be mistaken for the Quarterback.) In football, there are yard lines. The game starts on the fifty-yard line and ends on the zero-yard line when the team touches the ball down to the ground. Also, every play is played once in real time, and then replayed at least five more times in slow motion.
Go Niners!
When Mr. and Mrs. Snark met, she knew nothing about footballs. However, over the last few years, she had made various observations and learned much.
FootballThis is a football.
When a football is in use, the men on the TV screen are playing football. Different balls are used in baseball, basketball and hockey.
Football positions are named for Backs and Buttocks.
Back Positions include: The Quarterback. The Halfback. The Threequarterback. The Fullback.
Buttock positions include: The Tight End. The Wide End. The Asshole. The End Zone.
The San Francisco Forty-Niners will be playing this weekend in the Super Bowl. Their uniforms are gold and red. Their uniform looks a lot like two other teams--the Cardinals and the dudes from New Orleans. In a few years, the SF Forty-Niners will become the Santa Clara Forty-Niners when the new stadium is finished.
The enemy is the Ravens. Their uniforms will have different colors so the two teams may be told apart.
Note to self: Google images of ravens.
More important note to self: Other local teams include the Oakland Raiders and the SF Giants. The Giants are not a football team.
Football has four innings called quarters. (Not to be mistaken for the Quarterback.) In football, there are yard lines. The game starts on the fifty-yard line and ends on the zero-yard line when the team touches the ball down to the ground. Also, every play is played once in real time, and then replayed at least five more times in slow motion.
Go Niners!
January 30, 2013
In the Bag
On January 1, 2013, Alameda County joined the growing list of state counties with legislation banning the use of disposable plastic bags by food service retailers and pharmacies. This is supposed to reduce the amount of trash that winds up in our landfills.
Of course, California has always had a fringe green crowd that already owns their own bags. Mrs. Snark has tried to rub elbows with this elite Trader Joes and Whole Foods clique. However, the Snark family has unwholesome cravings for highly processed snack foods and cereals, so she is always led astray, back into mainstream grocers.
Part of the trouble with reusable store bags is that they vary in terms of everything--dimension, quality, color and sturdiness.
Adapting to life without plastic has required consumers to make certain behavioral adjustments to how they shop. But it's Green, so it's worth it, right?
Right?
There's been a lot of whining. There have been a handful of valid complaints too from people with walkers or other mobility issues.
Mostly, there's been a lot of whining.
The Snark clan has not been unaffected by the change...
Bag Hoarding.
When Mrs. Snark first learned of the coming ban, she started hoarding plastic grocery bags. Frankly, when your household includes three pooping cats and a un-potty trained toddler, your plastic bag use is high.
The number of bags requested on each shopping skyrocketed...
"Those eggs look awfully heavy," Mrs. Snark said to the grocery store checker. "Could you please double-bag each egg individually?"
Mrs. Snark squirreled away bags in nooks and crannies, stuffing cupboards and drawers full of scrunched up plastic. It became something of an obsession, like a rodent preparing for a long bagless winter.
Mr. Snark discovered what was happening when he opened a cabinet one day and an avalanche of plastic buried his feet. He scowled and then his furry brow knit.
"Does this have something to do with the zombie apocalypse?" he asked.
"No, nothing!" Mrs. Snark explained the impending plastic bag ban.
"I think there may be more space under the kitchen sink," Mr. Snark replied once she finished.
Reusable Bags Always Get Left in the Car.
Despite dire Mayan predictions, the world did not in fact end on December 21st. Not this world anyway. January 1st rolled around without incident and the ban took affect.
Almost immediately, Mrs. Snark observed a troubling trend--reusable bags always get left in the car. Europeans who have been at it for decades probably have this shit down, but we Californians are simply behind the times.
On the way to the store, Mrs. Snark chants, "Takeinthebags. Takeinthebags. Takeinthebags." Then she gets out of the car, grabs her purse, removes Miss Bear from the car seat, herds the precious child through the parking lot, locates a cart, enters the store, and performs a face palm. "Damn it! No bags!"
Even a full month after the ban started, Mrs. Snark still hears the person in front of or behind her (and quite often herself) exlaim: "Damn it! I left the bags in the car!"
Very occassionally, a person elects to purchase the bags the store sells. More often, the shopper loads their unbagged groceries back into the cart and hauls them out to the car. The phenomenon has left Mrs. Snark wondering if there will be an uptick in crimes due to the number of vulnerable people stuck bagging their groceries in dark parking lots.
Reusable Bag Shame.
Finally, Mrs. Snark has observed an unexpected side effect of the plastic bag ban--a feeling of shame associated with carrying name branded reusable bags into a different store.
Yesterday, Mrs. Snark noticed the woman behind her fidgeting. Curious, she glanced back. The woman blushed and said, "It's so embarrassing coming into Lucky's with Safeway bags."
Gloating, Mrs. Snark pointed to her own stack of bags. "I solved that problem by going with the premium, luxury brand bags. MINE are from T rader Joes ."
January 28, 2013
I Need a New Joystick, He Said
Following Sunday lunch out with the family, Mr. Snark said, "Can we stop at Best Buy? I need a new joystick."
"Okay," Mrs. Snark said. "But I'm very happy with your current joystick, dear."
Mr. Snark shot his missus a narrow-eyed look and remained silent.
Mrs. Snark smirked and continued. "Besides, I'd love a chance to visit with my cook top. I've already forgotten what it looks like."
From the back of the minivan, Sam, the oldest Snark son said, "Are we getting a new cook top?"
Mr. Snark's brow knit. "Can you say oblivious?"
"Oblivious!" shouted the middle Snark child.
Mrs. Snark managed to catch her own wrist before her hand performed a face palm. She breathed in deeply and said, "Why yes, dear. Someday, we are going to have a new cook top where the old one used to be. You have noticed the big hole in the middle of the kitchen island, haven't you?"
The teenage boy grumbled an unintelligible reply.
"The new cook top will be new and shiny and fully automated," Mrs. Snark said, misting up as she envisioned the longed for appliance. "I shall say, 'Stove top, make pasta' and it will do so by itself."
"Mom, really! I don't believe you!" said the oldest son.
"Huh. You used to be more gullible than this," Mrs. Snark said. "When did you get so worldly, Sam?"
"What does gullible mean?" Sam asked.
"Quick, look!" The middle son flung his arm toward the window, pointing. "There's a sky writer writing 'gullible'!"
At Best Buy, the Snarks placed Miss Bear on her leash, because the child is known for being a runner. "I'll be in the appliance section, visiting my cook top," Mrs. Snark called as the family split up and went their separate ways.
In the appliance section, Mrs. Snark stood teary-eyed in from of her coveted cook top. She ran one palm in a slow circle over the glass surface. "Someday," she whispered. "We'll be together. I promise."
With Miss Bear straining at the end of her leash, Mrs. Snark only managed to spend thirty seconds with her beloved. Then Mrs. Snark took the child and went in search of other members of the Snark clan. She located a boy in the video game section and slapped the end of the leash into his hand. "Hold this. I need to look at tax software."
The boy located Mr. Snark and pawned his sister's leash off onto daddy. Near the phone section, Miss Bear leaned fully forward, arms extended as she strained toward the shiny devices, her entire weight supported by the leash.
"No, Miss Bear!" Mr. Snark said. "No phones!"
"Balloons!" Miss Bear countered, grabbing for the blue and orange helium balloons.
A nice Best Buy employee forked over a balloon. Mrs. Snark returned in time to see Miss Bear pitch a tantrum over having the balloon tied onto her wrist.
"She's overdue for her nap," Mrs. Snark observed. "Why don't you take her out to the car, Mr. Snark? I'll take the boys and stand in the line to buy our stuff."
In the parking lot, the Snark minivan was nowhere to be found. Mrs. Snark and the boys stood in the space where it had been and scratched their heads. And then they wandered the parking lot, lost and confused.
"Well, it's finally happened," Mrs. Snark said. "Mr. Snark finally got fed up and left us."
"Mr. Snark wouldn't do that," said the middle child.
"Of course he would. It was really only a matter of time," Mrs. Snark countered. "The really surprising thing is that he took Miss Bear with him."
Just then, the oldest Snark boy spotted the minivan cruising the parking lot. "There he is!" Sam said, pointing.
"Wait for me!" Sam shouted and took off running.
"Okay," Mrs. Snark said. "But I'm very happy with your current joystick, dear."
Mr. Snark shot his missus a narrow-eyed look and remained silent.
Mrs. Snark smirked and continued. "Besides, I'd love a chance to visit with my cook top. I've already forgotten what it looks like."
From the back of the minivan, Sam, the oldest Snark son said, "Are we getting a new cook top?"
Mr. Snark's brow knit. "Can you say oblivious?"
"Oblivious!" shouted the middle Snark child.
Mrs. Snark managed to catch her own wrist before her hand performed a face palm. She breathed in deeply and said, "Why yes, dear. Someday, we are going to have a new cook top where the old one used to be. You have noticed the big hole in the middle of the kitchen island, haven't you?"
The teenage boy grumbled an unintelligible reply.
"The new cook top will be new and shiny and fully automated," Mrs. Snark said, misting up as she envisioned the longed for appliance. "I shall say, 'Stove top, make pasta' and it will do so by itself."
"Mom, really! I don't believe you!" said the oldest son.
"Huh. You used to be more gullible than this," Mrs. Snark said. "When did you get so worldly, Sam?"
"What does gullible mean?" Sam asked.
"Quick, look!" The middle son flung his arm toward the window, pointing. "There's a sky writer writing 'gullible'!"
At Best Buy, the Snarks placed Miss Bear on her leash, because the child is known for being a runner. "I'll be in the appliance section, visiting my cook top," Mrs. Snark called as the family split up and went their separate ways.
In the appliance section, Mrs. Snark stood teary-eyed in from of her coveted cook top. She ran one palm in a slow circle over the glass surface. "Someday," she whispered. "We'll be together. I promise."
With Miss Bear straining at the end of her leash, Mrs. Snark only managed to spend thirty seconds with her beloved. Then Mrs. Snark took the child and went in search of other members of the Snark clan. She located a boy in the video game section and slapped the end of the leash into his hand. "Hold this. I need to look at tax software."
The boy located Mr. Snark and pawned his sister's leash off onto daddy. Near the phone section, Miss Bear leaned fully forward, arms extended as she strained toward the shiny devices, her entire weight supported by the leash.
"No, Miss Bear!" Mr. Snark said. "No phones!"
"Balloons!" Miss Bear countered, grabbing for the blue and orange helium balloons.
A nice Best Buy employee forked over a balloon. Mrs. Snark returned in time to see Miss Bear pitch a tantrum over having the balloon tied onto her wrist.
"She's overdue for her nap," Mrs. Snark observed. "Why don't you take her out to the car, Mr. Snark? I'll take the boys and stand in the line to buy our stuff."
In the parking lot, the Snark minivan was nowhere to be found. Mrs. Snark and the boys stood in the space where it had been and scratched their heads. And then they wandered the parking lot, lost and confused.
"Well, it's finally happened," Mrs. Snark said. "Mr. Snark finally got fed up and left us."
"Mr. Snark wouldn't do that," said the middle child.
"Of course he would. It was really only a matter of time," Mrs. Snark countered. "The really surprising thing is that he took Miss Bear with him."
Just then, the oldest Snark boy spotted the minivan cruising the parking lot. "There he is!" Sam said, pointing.
"Wait for me!" Sam shouted and took off running.
January 27, 2013
Guest Spot Sunday: Michelle Devon
How to Feed a Teenaged Boy by Michelle Devon Today, Michy would like to instruct you on how to help your teen child prepare a snack for himself. We’ll take you step by step through the process, and if you skip any steps, it’s okay to come back to them and use them, or even use some of the steps more than once.
Step 1Listen to the boy whine for at least 40 minutes about how hungry he is, while you tell him repeatedly that there is food in the kitchen if he’s hungry.Step 2Remind teenaged boy that you bought Easy Mac for him in the cabinet for moments just like this, when he was hungry but it wasn’t dinnertime.Step 3Listen to teenaged boy whine about how he isn’t in the mood for Easy Mac.Step 4Tell teenaged boy that if he’s not in the mood for Easy Mac, he can make himself a grilled cheese sammich instead.Step 5Listen to teenaged boy whine about how he doesn’t want to make a grilled cheese sammich.Step 6Remind the boy that he can have Easy Mac is he doesn’t want grilled cheese.Step 7Listen to teenaged boy whine some more about how there’s nothing to eat in the house, right before he asks if he can have your meal that you planned to eat for lunch.Step 8Grit your teeth and give teenaged boy ‘the look.’Step 9Watch teenaged boy put his hands up in the air and say, “Okay, okay, I’ll make some Easy Mac.”Step 10Wait 10 minutes and then get up and go scrape the Easy Mac off the roof of the microwave while trying to maintain composure amidst the cries from the teenage boy that, “I only set it on 5 minutes….”Step 11Listen to teenaged boy who didn’t bother to help you clean the microwave whine because, “I’m still huuuuuungry….” Do this at least three or four times for about 15 minutes, before you finally snap and growl….Step 12“Then make yourself a grilled cheese sandwich!”Step 13Wait 20 minutes and asked the teenaged boy, “What’s that burning smell coming from the kitchen?”Step 14Watch teenaged boy run into the kitchen and yell, “Oh, crap!”Step 15Put the fire out in the kitchen.Step 16Clean the kitchen.Step 17Sit at the computer and fight back tears.Step 18Order a pizza.Step 19Wait 45 minutes for pizza to come.
Step 20Stiff driver on part of his tip because he was rude and didn’t bring any Parmesan cheese.Step 21Smile and give the pizza to the boy. Wait two minutes.Step 22Try not to hit the roof when you hear, “But I wanted Canadian bacon, not pepperoni.”Step 23Grit your teeth and say ever so sweetly, “You’ll eat what I got you or starve.”Step 24Wait 40 minutes.Step 25Ask teenaged boy four different times over a 20 minute period to pick up the pizza box and pizza crusts from the floor.Step 26Repeat step 25.Step 27Repeat step 25Step 28Repeat step 25Step 29Repeat step 17Step 30Wait another 15 minutes, get up and pick up the pizza box and crusts yourself.Step 31Vow never to buy pizza for the boy again.
And that, my dear friends, is the quick and painless way to feed a hungry teenaged boy in 31 easy steps. Sadly, that is mostly a true story.
For those who have asked after me, I have not been feeling well again. It’s ongoing, but hey, I’m up and about, so that’s better than some days. Hope you enjoyed the fun and laughter. I love you all, I need you all, and I’m so glad you are all my online virtual (and some of you not so virtual) friends!
Leave me a comment though, or else I might have to threaten to never buy you pizza again too. I’m finicky that way.
Love and stuff,
Michy
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Check out Michelle Devon's blog or drop in and comment on her online community at Accentuate Writer's Forum.
Step 1Listen to the boy whine for at least 40 minutes about how hungry he is, while you tell him repeatedly that there is food in the kitchen if he’s hungry.Step 2Remind teenaged boy that you bought Easy Mac for him in the cabinet for moments just like this, when he was hungry but it wasn’t dinnertime.Step 3Listen to teenaged boy whine about how he isn’t in the mood for Easy Mac.Step 4Tell teenaged boy that if he’s not in the mood for Easy Mac, he can make himself a grilled cheese sammich instead.Step 5Listen to teenaged boy whine about how he doesn’t want to make a grilled cheese sammich.Step 6Remind the boy that he can have Easy Mac is he doesn’t want grilled cheese.Step 7Listen to teenaged boy whine some more about how there’s nothing to eat in the house, right before he asks if he can have your meal that you planned to eat for lunch.Step 8Grit your teeth and give teenaged boy ‘the look.’Step 9Watch teenaged boy put his hands up in the air and say, “Okay, okay, I’ll make some Easy Mac.”Step 10Wait 10 minutes and then get up and go scrape the Easy Mac off the roof of the microwave while trying to maintain composure amidst the cries from the teenage boy that, “I only set it on 5 minutes….”Step 11Listen to teenaged boy who didn’t bother to help you clean the microwave whine because, “I’m still huuuuuungry….” Do this at least three or four times for about 15 minutes, before you finally snap and growl….Step 12“Then make yourself a grilled cheese sandwich!”Step 13Wait 20 minutes and asked the teenaged boy, “What’s that burning smell coming from the kitchen?”Step 14Watch teenaged boy run into the kitchen and yell, “Oh, crap!”Step 15Put the fire out in the kitchen.Step 16Clean the kitchen.Step 17Sit at the computer and fight back tears.Step 18Order a pizza.Step 19Wait 45 minutes for pizza to come.
Step 20Stiff driver on part of his tip because he was rude and didn’t bring any Parmesan cheese.Step 21Smile and give the pizza to the boy. Wait two minutes.Step 22Try not to hit the roof when you hear, “But I wanted Canadian bacon, not pepperoni.”Step 23Grit your teeth and say ever so sweetly, “You’ll eat what I got you or starve.”Step 24Wait 40 minutes.Step 25Ask teenaged boy four different times over a 20 minute period to pick up the pizza box and pizza crusts from the floor.Step 26Repeat step 25.Step 27Repeat step 25Step 28Repeat step 25Step 29Repeat step 17Step 30Wait another 15 minutes, get up and pick up the pizza box and crusts yourself.Step 31Vow never to buy pizza for the boy again.And that, my dear friends, is the quick and painless way to feed a hungry teenaged boy in 31 easy steps. Sadly, that is mostly a true story.
For those who have asked after me, I have not been feeling well again. It’s ongoing, but hey, I’m up and about, so that’s better than some days. Hope you enjoyed the fun and laughter. I love you all, I need you all, and I’m so glad you are all my online virtual (and some of you not so virtual) friends!
Leave me a comment though, or else I might have to threaten to never buy you pizza again too. I’m finicky that way.
Love and stuff,
Michy
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Check out Michelle Devon's blog or drop in and comment on her online community at Accentuate Writer's Forum.
January 26, 2013
The Minivan Diaries...1/25/13
Traditional wisdom holds that sibling rivalry results from children trying to obtain a parent's attention. However, evidence would suggest this to be an overly simplistic model for the phenomenon. Siblings compete for everyone's attention, including a baby's.
Mrs. Snark has big ears and overhears the damnedest conversations come out of the back of her minivan. The following took place while Mrs. Snark was driving the Snark boys to a sleepover at a friend's house. Mr. Snark was not present.
Oldest Snark Son: "Miss Bear, who's the bad brother?"
Miss Bear points to the Younger Snark Son. "Bad boy."
The boy in question dissolves into laughter, shouting a protest. "Hey!"
Mrs. Snark snickers. "Oh man, sold out by a baby."
Younger Snark Son tries to counter. "Miss Bear, who's good?"
Miss Bear: "Mommie!"
Oldest Snark Son: "Miss Bear, who's your favorite?"
Miss Bear: "Dada!"
Mrs. Snark has big ears and overhears the damnedest conversations come out of the back of her minivan. The following took place while Mrs. Snark was driving the Snark boys to a sleepover at a friend's house. Mr. Snark was not present.
Oldest Snark Son: "Miss Bear, who's the bad brother?"
Miss Bear points to the Younger Snark Son. "Bad boy."
The boy in question dissolves into laughter, shouting a protest. "Hey!"
Mrs. Snark snickers. "Oh man, sold out by a baby."
Younger Snark Son tries to counter. "Miss Bear, who's good?"
Miss Bear: "Mommie!"
Oldest Snark Son: "Miss Bear, who's your favorite?"
Miss Bear: "Dada!"
January 25, 2013
Hunger Moon Free First Chapter
Warning: Shameless self-promotion to follow...
Back on January 5th, I revealed the new cover of my upcoming urban fantasy novel, Hunger Moon. Well, I'm so SQUEE over it, I'm going to show it again.
Currently, the manuscript is being edited, but I wanted to share the first chapter. It's available for download here. If you've laughed at any one of my posts, then please check it out! And here you thought that this monkey performs for free...
Hunger Moon is an intense urban fantasy that follows the story of Valkyrie Victoria Storm as she evades hunters and battles a Norse winter witch intent upon enslaving her people. Victoria desires nothing more than to provide her wolf pack with a safe haven, but her position as priestess to the Goddess Freya also brings with it certain... obligations. Not to mention complications.
War with the Barrett family resulted in the deaths of her parents and most of her pack. Now, hunters are hot on the trail of the remaining pack members. Sawyer Barrett, a human hunter hell bent on revenge, is convinced that Victoria murdered his brother. He will stop at nothing to see her dead.
Victoria must defend the survivors and somehow lead them to safety. Months on the run has weakened the pack, and there are newborn pups to protect, making swift travel impossible. Ahead, the promise of refuge beckons.
Their best chance for survival lies in Sierra Pines, California: Arik Koenig, a powerful, dominant male wolf. He promises to protect and provide for the pack, something Victoria knows the pack needs for survival. His mysterious past is riddled with violence and death, including the slaughter of his entire family twenty years before. His wife died under mysterious circumstances and his son, Logan, is rumored to be her killer.
What is truth? Who can she trust? The desperate spirit of Arik's murdered wife calls out for help, and Logan begs for assistance in clearing his name. Victoria must solve a murder that has pitted father against son, rooted in a mystery reaching back two decades. Her quest starts her on a journey from the human world to Odin's Valhalla and back again.
Victoria will find salvation or face destruction beneath the Hunger Moon…
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Back on January 5th, I revealed the new cover of my upcoming urban fantasy novel, Hunger Moon. Well, I'm so SQUEE over it, I'm going to show it again.
Currently, the manuscript is being edited, but I wanted to share the first chapter. It's available for download here. If you've laughed at any one of my posts, then please check it out! And here you thought that this monkey performs for free...
Hunger Moon is an intense urban fantasy that follows the story of Valkyrie Victoria Storm as she evades hunters and battles a Norse winter witch intent upon enslaving her people. Victoria desires nothing more than to provide her wolf pack with a safe haven, but her position as priestess to the Goddess Freya also brings with it certain... obligations. Not to mention complications. War with the Barrett family resulted in the deaths of her parents and most of her pack. Now, hunters are hot on the trail of the remaining pack members. Sawyer Barrett, a human hunter hell bent on revenge, is convinced that Victoria murdered his brother. He will stop at nothing to see her dead.
Victoria must defend the survivors and somehow lead them to safety. Months on the run has weakened the pack, and there are newborn pups to protect, making swift travel impossible. Ahead, the promise of refuge beckons.
Their best chance for survival lies in Sierra Pines, California: Arik Koenig, a powerful, dominant male wolf. He promises to protect and provide for the pack, something Victoria knows the pack needs for survival. His mysterious past is riddled with violence and death, including the slaughter of his entire family twenty years before. His wife died under mysterious circumstances and his son, Logan, is rumored to be her killer.
What is truth? Who can she trust? The desperate spirit of Arik's murdered wife calls out for help, and Logan begs for assistance in clearing his name. Victoria must solve a murder that has pitted father against son, rooted in a mystery reaching back two decades. Her quest starts her on a journey from the human world to Odin's Valhalla and back again.
Victoria will find salvation or face destruction beneath the Hunger Moon…
FREE FIRST CHAPTER! <--Click click click
Sex. It Doesn't Always Have to be the Same
Every time I hear about some politician trying to ban same sex marriage, it pisses me off. Marriage is tough enough without some jerk trying to legislate a sex ban. Don't we married types already suffer enough?
Admittedly, ALL marriage sex is basically the same, but it doesn't have to be that way. It's on married couples to mix it up and keep things exciting. With that goal in mind, I've tried a few different tactics for hot monkey lovin' with Mr. Snark.
Here's a few highlights:Lingerie. Now, I'm not a sexy bra kind of lady. Most of the time, I prefer sports bras. I'd really prefer to let the ladies bounce free, but I have normal mid-life concerns about saggage, so athletic bras are the ideal compromise. Nowadays I only wear fancy underwear when I'm gonna be seen by someone who matters (my child's teacher or the checkout lady at Safeway).When we first married and I hoped to get lucky, I used to trot out the Victoria's Secret bras and undies for the mister. That was before I realized that Mr. Snark is really a Caucasian version of Sir Mix-a-Lot. He likes big butts and he cannot lie.There's really no need for a pushup bra when a pair spandex boy shorts will suffice. I simply manufacture some reason to bend over within Mr. Snark's line of sight, shake my booty, and we're good to go.Our song.Every couple should have a love song to call their own, which when played acts as a primal hominid mating call. For Mr. and Mrs. Snark it's Business Time by Flight of the Conchords.
All Mrs. Snark has to do it put on her old team-building shirt and mention recycling, and Mr. Snark knows it's time to do the horizontal bop.
Whips, Cuffs & Spurs.[This section removed by Mr. Snark.]
January 24, 2013
Thank You, Darth Snark
Yesterday, in Gee, I Could Have Told Them That I talked about how our frugal healthcare company went to great pains to save us time and money by subjecting Mr. Snark to a rigorous approval gauntlet and a sleep study that cost three thousand dollars.
We went through all of that to obtain a machine that costs $1,000.00. We know this because we have a 20% copay on durable medical equipment, and we know our copay amount. Mr. Snark is a math guy, so I'm pretty sure he did the calculation correctly.
"Basically, they could have a fraud rate of 2-to-1 and still break even if they just omitted the sleep study," Mr. Snark said.
"Who the hell commits fraud to obtain a breathing machine?" Mrs. Snark asked. "I've never seen a guy on a street corner hawking hot sleep apnea machines."
Two nights ago, Mr. Snark reported home toting a black briefcase that contained the Holy Grail--the breathing machine!
"The machine is rent-to-own," Mr. Snark said. "Our frugal health insurance company wants to be sure that we're using it, so the device transmits its use statics across a wireless network."
Mrs. Snark's brow knit. "So, they're paying a technician somewhere to monitor the data?"
"Yep."
"What's the minimum use requirement?" Mrs. Snark asked.
"Four hours a night, and 23 days out of 90."
Mrs. Snark got out a calculator and did the math. "That's less than 25% utilization rate."
"Yep."
"What happens if it fails to connect to the network?"
Mr. Snark shrugged. Maybe they employ a repo company to bust our knees and take it back? Who knows...
At bedtime, Mr. Snark placed a mask over his nose that attached to the back of his skull with two straps. The mask looks something like this.
Mrs. Snark almost died laughing. It was some time before she could speak again. "Very sheik. Does it come with a ball gag?"
In use, the device produces a respirator sound reminiscent of Darth Vader. It is not very loud and it is repetitive, so Mrs. Snark has not really had any difficulty getting used to it.
However, it has been two nights since Mr. Snark snored and Mrs. Snark slept.
The quiet is deafening.
We went through all of that to obtain a machine that costs $1,000.00. We know this because we have a 20% copay on durable medical equipment, and we know our copay amount. Mr. Snark is a math guy, so I'm pretty sure he did the calculation correctly.
"Basically, they could have a fraud rate of 2-to-1 and still break even if they just omitted the sleep study," Mr. Snark said.
"Who the hell commits fraud to obtain a breathing machine?" Mrs. Snark asked. "I've never seen a guy on a street corner hawking hot sleep apnea machines."
Two nights ago, Mr. Snark reported home toting a black briefcase that contained the Holy Grail--the breathing machine!
"The machine is rent-to-own," Mr. Snark said. "Our frugal health insurance company wants to be sure that we're using it, so the device transmits its use statics across a wireless network."
Mrs. Snark's brow knit. "So, they're paying a technician somewhere to monitor the data?"
"Yep."
"What's the minimum use requirement?" Mrs. Snark asked.
"Four hours a night, and 23 days out of 90."
Mrs. Snark got out a calculator and did the math. "That's less than 25% utilization rate."
"Yep."
"What happens if it fails to connect to the network?"
Mr. Snark shrugged. Maybe they employ a repo company to bust our knees and take it back? Who knows...
At bedtime, Mr. Snark placed a mask over his nose that attached to the back of his skull with two straps. The mask looks something like this.
Mrs. Snark almost died laughing. It was some time before she could speak again. "Very sheik. Does it come with a ball gag?"
In use, the device produces a respirator sound reminiscent of Darth Vader. It is not very loud and it is repetitive, so Mrs. Snark has not really had any difficulty getting used to it.
However, it has been two nights since Mr. Snark snored and Mrs. Snark slept.
The quiet is deafening.
January 23, 2013
Gee, I Could Have Told Them That
Mr. Snark snores.
Now, we're not talking the occasional snarf-snort. The man produces a sound similar to a freight train lumbering along with a hundred cars in tow.
Over the years, Mrs. Snark has resorted to sleeping with her head sandwiched between two pillows, preferring suffocation to another sleepless night. She has used tooth picks to prop open her eyelids and actively contemplated homicide. In prison, there would be plenty of time to sleep.
About six months ago, Mrs. Snark made Mr. Snark an appointment with their primary care physician. "Tell him you have sleep apnea," she said. "You need one of those breathing machines."
Dutifully, Mr. Snark went off with his instructions and returned with a referral to a sleep specialist. Another appointment was made and the Snarks waited a month. On the day of the big appointment, Mrs. Snark said, "Tell him you have sleep apnea," she said. "You need one of those breathing machines."
Off Mr. Snark went and returned saying, "The doctor ordered a sleep study. But first we have to obtain permission from the insurance company."
Riiight. And so the Snarks waited again. Finally, the insurance company green lighted the sleep study and then the Snarks waited some more. At long last, the sleep study center called to schedule an appointment.
The evening of the big event arrived and Mr. Snark kissed his wife and baby girl goodbye as he traveled far to sleep in some strange bed. "Tell them you have sleep apnea," Mrs. Snark said. "You need one of those breathing machines."
Bleary-eyed, Mr. Snark returned the next morning. "They poured goo in my hair and attached electrodes to my head."
Thanks to holiday madness and a busy time at work, Mr. Snark missed his first follow up appointment with the sleep study doctor. A second appointment was scheduled and kept.
"Well?" Mrs. Snark said when he returned.
"He says that I have sleep apnea. I need one of those breathing machines."
Mrs. Snark's hand performed a face plant.
Mr. Snark continued: "We just have to wait for permission from the insurance company."
TBC
January 22, 2013
The Baby Whisperer
Being the parent of a toddler is a lot different in your forties than it was in your twenties. On the one hand, you're wiser, more patient, more experienced. On the other, you're tired all of the time.Miss Bear was born the week before I turned forty. Technically, I had her in my thirties, but from the frazzled appearance of my hair and my wrinkled clothes—right down to mismatched socks—you'd never know it. I have dark circles under my eyes and my gaze stares off into the distance, only coming into focus when a potential disaster looms.
Miss Bear is, allegedly, a human child, but my personal opinion holds that she is actually an agent of chaos incarnate. She is brilliant and creative at being bad.
In stores, she is a runner. No electronics are safe from her destructive path. Cats watch her with constant suspicion. White walls and doors are decorated with her murals done in permanent marker. (At first, Mrs. Snark tried Magic Eraser but it never really worked.)
Now Mrs. Snark sighs and says to Mr. Snark, "We'll paint in a few years once she's done."
The oldest Snark son has proven adept at protecting Miss Bear from herself and everyone around her. He shouts and removes choking hazards from her grasp. He snitches on her, issuing loud warnings like, "Miss Bear has a pair of scissors and is after the cat!"
When she makes a break for it at the grocery store, he dutifully chases her down and hauls her back. "ARRRRR," he growls, dropping the precious child into the shopping cart. "She's driving me nuts!"
"It's karmic justice, boy," Mrs. Snark says. "She's just like you were as a baby. Only then I didn't have a teenager to chase you down."
However, when it comes to managing Miss Bear's excessive energy and unstable mood swings, the middle Snark son has proven to be a Godsend. He can make her smile when no one else can. He performs goofy dances for her pleasure and gallops about the house on all fours with the baby clinging to his back.
Quite often his name is hollered in the midst of a Miss Bear tantrum. "Boy, we need you!"
And he races to save the day. He leans in close to Miss Bear's ear and murmurs something softly and the tears stop. When no one else can coax so much as a smile out of her, he makes her laugh.
We call him The Baby Whisperer.
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