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My sex life may be “vanilla,” but I’m still kinky, and so is my new BDSM erotica book Dirty Dates

by Rachel Kramer Bussel

When I saw my essay about my sex life in the October issue of O, The Oprah Magazine, I was, naturally, overjoyed to have a first byline in a magazine I adore and subscribe to. But a second, less welcome thought threatened to crowd into my exuberance—I was nervous. I’ve never shied away from publicly detailing the most intimate details of my life, but what gave me pause was wondering whether, by confessing that my current sex life is, to use the modern parlance, pretty...

The Cross-Dressing Duke: UNTAMED by Anna Cowan

by Madeline Iva

I’ve always thought androgyny is hot. And call me crazy, but given the right circumstances, I find a cross-dressing man is also a really sexy turn on.

So it should be no surprise to you that I just adored this historical calledUntamedUNTAMED by Anna Cowan. Adriana Anders recommended itto me, I pounced on it and snabbled it downin one day, enjoying it prodigiously.

What’s so cray-cray gender whack about this historical romance? We start off with an unfeminine heroine who has ro...

Why Do We Keep Falling For Their Lies?

By Elizabeth Shore

A close male friend once told me, “All men lie to women.” Say what?!I didn’t believe him. Not outright, anyway. I mean, sure, some men lie. Sometimes. Some women lie, too. Sometimes. But the way it was presented to me made it seem like a never-ending, epidemic string of lies men are constantly telling us, and that we constantly keep falling for.That’s not true. Right?

Then I came across a recent article from our friends at askmen.comcalled Top 10 Reasons Men Lie To Women. I...

Dead Right: Going Ship Crazy with The Walking Dead

Do NOT lose this lady’s Tupperware.

By Alexa Day

On Sunday, I enjoyed a long overdue reunion with some old friends. I’ve stuck with these folks through some hard times and some harder times. We’ve shared laughter and tears, and I miss them terribly when they’re not around.

That’s right. The Walking Dead is back.

Here’s your warning up front. If you haven’t seen the season six premiere, you will want to find something else to do. This post is basically wall-to-wall spoilers.

Still here? Awesom...

Horror Flicks With Freaky Sexual Chicks

Welcome funky bat-folk! It’s October and we’re getting our Halloween-y on here at Lady Smut.

Kiersten is away this week, but today we’ve doused ourselves in pig’s blood in honor ofthe lovely G.G. Andrew blog postabout the battle for control over women’s bodies and sexuality represented by a handful offreaky horror films. Take it away, G.G!

Thanks Madeline —

A short but growing list of horror films in the past two decades have focused on women’s sexuality—and I’m not talking about movies wher...

Sexy Saturday Round Up

Welcome pumpkins! We’ve got some gems for you here that will help you suck the marrow of pleasure out of your weekend. Enjoy!

From Madeline:

Check outIndia’s Sex Temples

Denmark is desperate for singles to start boningon their vacations.

What is greysexual?

Inside the world of a macrophilia amazonwoman.

What? No more skeezy hipster ads? American Apparel files for bankruptcy.

What happens when this one woman starts talking to guys who hit on her in the street.

By Elizabeth Shore

The Walking De...

The drink for bad girls…

From Isabelle Drake

Is there any better combination than a sexy guy and the perfect martini? Even better if that guy is handsome, charming, fictional and creates a martini and names it after you. Bonus? You aren’t a good girl who does everything right. You’re a double agent who gets to travel the world, do naughty things and look great while doing them.

Yum.

Double yum.

James Bond’s famous “shaken not stirred” martini, The Vesper Martini, is named after Vesper Lynd, a character first introdu...

FOR REAL is the Best M/M Erotic Romance EVAHHHHHHH!

by Madeline Iva

Short version: For RealFOR REAL is a m/m BDSM erotic romance by Alexis Hall. You have here a smaller, younger dom (think Ben Whishaw) and an older, taller hunkier sub. Go buy it.

Seriously –it’s a great romance, it’s got great sex, and great BDSM. The writing is (I kiss my hands.) I mean, it’s superb. Click For RealHERE to go to Amazon.

Long version:Raving here.

It’s so very romantic and sweet – and yes, filthy. Like Charlotte Stein—if she wrote m/m.

I still consider myself a...

Sure Size Matters, But Sometimes It’s Just Too Big

By Elizabeth Shore

In today’s world of texting and sexting, the once eyebrow raising dick pic is now commonplace. It’s like a rite of dating passage. You meeton Tinder, start up some e-convo, and sooner or later photos are exchanged. And I’m not talking about snapshots from Disneyland. No, peeps. We’re talking about dick pics. But a recent exchange between a friend of mine and a potential Tinder date had us staring, wide-eyed and in slack-jawed wonder, at his most recent photo submission. Stu...

What a Girl Wants: Sexual Fantasy, Made Fresh

Yeah, this is nice, I guess. But is it really what I want just now?

By Alexa Day

A list of women’s ten favorite sexual fantasies? Elizabeth Shore pointed it out on Saturday with — I imagine — a raised eyebrow. But I figured I’d check it out. I’m a woman, after all. I have fantasies.

I figured I’d see some old chestnuts — the rape fantasy has been on that list for years with the same warnings about how it’s a fantasy and not the desire to be raped. But as I read along and then moved into the l...