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February 23, 2015

Guys and First Boyfriends; Regrowing Foreskin, Again; Big Gay Ass

Guys and First Boyfriends

In the article I'm linking to now, guys talk about their experiences with first boyfriends. It's a series of pics with quotes that I guess might be interesting to some people. To be honest, it just looks so cliche to me.

Love is an open door, a battlefield and a losing game. It makes the world go round, makes a world of difference and makes a family.

In short, love’s a bitch, but we love it. And there’s nothing like that first boyfriend, those first kisses, the first t...
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Published on February 23, 2015 07:40

February 22, 2015

Zachary Quinto on "Queerbaiting"; Happily Married Threesome; Meadows Are Not Forever by Ryan Field

Zachary Quinto on "Queerbaiting"

I've been posting about this for a long time but I called it "gaybaiting." Queer or gay, it's still baiting and still means the same thing. It's when "they" bait gay people with gay storylines on TV or films and nothing really ever happens, or when so-called straight white men like James Franco use gay issues and culture to the point of exploitation just to spark the curiosity of gay men so they can gain attention and money. There are other forms, too, and I'm...
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Published on February 22, 2015 06:49

February 21, 2015

Bullies Who Turned Gay; Rage Over Dick Pic; Jamie Dornan's Nude Photos

Bullies Who Turned Gay

Here's an article about people who were homophobic bullies before they realized they were gay. It also discusses how different things were for previous generations of LGBT people, and how differently we grew up from the generation of teens we're seeing right now.

Here's one person's reply:

I mean, I was a young kid, so growing up around other kids in a conservative area (in spite of my pretty liberal parents) I called things I didn’t like “gay,” and people I didn’t like “f...
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Published on February 21, 2015 10:13

February 20, 2015

Pope Francis, Again; Gays Donating Blood; Openly Gay Cast Member In SNL Not Included; Meadows Are Not Forever

Pope Francis, Again

Many seem to be up in those cliched arms because Pope Francis recently compared transgender people to nuclear weapons.

He said this:

Pope Francis has compared trans people to nuclear weapons, saying both do not 'recognize the order of creation'.

The argument could be made that if transgender people are, indeed, part of the order of creation then the Church and society are more like nuclear weapons than anything else for judging and going against this natural order. The trans p...
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Published on February 20, 2015 06:53

February 19, 2015

Colin Farrell Beat Up Bullies; Freddie Smith Apologizes; First Wives Club Sequel

Colin Farrell Beat Up Bullies

Colin Farrell is a strong supporter of the LGBT community partly because his own brother is gay. But from what I remember he has been a supporter for some time. I watched him play a bisexual in A Home at the End of the World at least a decade ago...a film a highly recommend if you haven't seen it.

In any event, I've seen this all over the gay news:

Colin Farrell used to beat up bullies who attacked his gay brother, his sibling has revealed. 

Eamon, the brother o...
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Published on February 19, 2015 07:03

February 18, 2015

Bobby Cannavale Soft Porn; Davey Wavey Measures His Penis; 8 Stupid Things About Being Gay

Bobby Cannavale Soft Porn

I'm a fan of Bobby Cannavale, and was long before he did the male full frontal nude scene in Boardwalk Empire. In fact, I stopped watching Boardwalk Empire after they killed off his character. It was a good series of fiction wrapped around real life, but in the end they kept killing off the characters I loved the most, which frustrated me. And the big problem was they didn't introduce new characters that could compete with the old.

In any event, here's a link to inform...
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Published on February 18, 2015 06:53

February 17, 2015

Sorry If I Don't Cry; Michael Sam's First Time; Dad Stabs Alleged Trans; Gay Leather Park San Francisco

Sorry If I Don't Cry

Let me set this up by mentioning a little about my own background. I began working toward a writing career in high school. I majored in English in college and I started submitting short stories to anthologies before I even graduated. Over the course of twenty years (plus) I never once said no to a job, no matter how small, no matter how little it paid, and no matter far down on the publishing chain it fell. I never once said no, and still don't. Why? Because I only wanted...
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Published on February 17, 2015 08:22

February 15, 2015

Steve Grand Album; Rabbi Responds to Huckabee Statements; Madonna's Bare Ass

Steve Grand Album

Since I last posted about Steve Grand I've been following him on Twitter and I've watched how he interacts so personally with fans and supporters. I make that distinction because I've never been into fandom, but I do have artists I support wholeheartedly. I think there's a difference.

In any event, this article talks about Steve Grand's new album, the one many of us have been waiting for since Grand made that ground-breaking video a few years ago where he sings about unrequite...
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Published on February 15, 2015 20:26

Poll Supports Gay Marriage; Ricky Martin and Social Media; 10 Hot Gay Bachelors

Poll Supports Gay Marriage

I've been following these polls for a while out of curiosity. As the fight for equality progresses and more LGBT people are coming out, marrying, and focusing on family life, the mainstream is becoming more and more supportive in ways I honestly didn't think I would ever see in my lifetime.

According to the report issued by the largest gay civil rights group in the country '60% of likely voters support marriage equality, a new high point.' 

'This poll is another c...
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Published on February 15, 2015 10:41

February 14, 2015

Rainbow Detective Agency Book 2; Fifty Shades of Grey Not So Gay; Southern States and STDs

Rainbow Detective Agency Book 2

Here's the second book in the The Rainbow Detective Agency Series. It was released late Friday and I didn't want to post anything until it went live. I still don't have all the links, but will share as I get each one.

The book is a stand alone, and this time, with this series, I'm labeling each book in sequence so readers know the order in which they were written. Here's the cover, blurb, and links. You can read a sample at each web site, and I will do a free sam...
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Published on February 14, 2015 10:35