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Leading with Honor Wisdom for Today, January 20, 2023

���The truth is like a lion. You don���t have to defend it. Let it loose. It will defend itself.��� ��� St Augustine

 

 

 

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5 Things People with High Emotional Intelligence Do Not Do When Handling Criticism

Great article and insight from friend and colleague, Mary Kelly, on honing your ability as an honorable leader to react and communicate with excellence in any situation.

Please check it out on her website, and then comment below.

 

 

 

 

 

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Fill-in-the-Blank – 2023 Leadership

Fill-in-the-Blank ��� ���The top change that I���d like to make in 2023 regarding my personal or professional leadership role is to _____________________.���

Please post your answer below.

 

 

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4 Powerful Tips to Stay Optimistic

Here���s the bottom line on being resilient���first, you must be optimistic. Believe that there is a good outcome ahead, and then do your part to reach it with a positive mindset.

Every POW I knew believed that someday we were going home; and our laser focus was to do our duty to resist the enemy and stay committed to our teammates. Optimism was a key factor in helping us endure hardship and disappointment.

In fact, the research by psychologists following our release found that optimism was the leading factor in our resilience and survival over those many years of suffering and sacrifice.

How did we do it?

 

We believed in ourselves.

 

To be a healthy successful person, you must believe in yourself. Henry Ford is attributed with the great quote, ���Whether you believe you can or can���t, you are probably right.���

This is also why I frequently revisit the importance of encouraging and believing in others. It���s essential for leaders to help their people believe in themselves.

 

We believed in our mission and purpose.

 

When you are committed to these two goals, you are going to work through challenges with a positive attitude that will help you come out the other side���and with more experience and more resilience. Be sure to clarify your mission and purpose and if they are truly solid and important; then stick with them.

 

We had great relationships with others who cared about us.

 

The truth is that it���s very difficult to be a healthy person if you are living alone in your own world. Knowing that others care about you and that you are important to them is essential for a healthy human nature.

 

We had faith in a higher power.

 

First and foremost, faith in God was a key component of POW resilience. If you have read any books about the Vietnam POW experience, this idea will be familiar. We also had faith in our country that we would not be left behind. That was a struggle back home and in the camps to some degree, but we all came through and made it home. Faith in our families back home helped our optimism, too.

 

Please post your additional experience and tips on staying optimistic.

Also, read and watch the entire coaching on this topic – “4 Leadership Steps to an Optimistic Attitude”

 

 

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Leadership History Lesson for January 15th

On this day in leadership history in 1943, the Pentagon was dedicated as the world’s largest office building just outside Washington, DC, in Arlington, VA. The structure covers 34 acres of land and has 17 miles of corridors.

What���s the leadership lesson? As an honorable leader, what infrastructure and support do you need to create for your team to make them successful?

The Pentagon ��� Wikipedia

 

 

 

 

 

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Leading with Honor Wisdom for Today, January 13, 2023

“Optimism was a key factor in helping the Vietnam POWs endure hardship and disappointment.” ��� Lee Ellis

 

 

 

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Coaching Clip – How Leaders Use Optimism as a Strategic Tool

In this new 5-minute coaching clip, Lee emphasizes the importance of optimism as a means to advance your strategy and goals for the new year. He uses the real-life stories from the POW camps to share how we can do the same thing today in our workplace.

 

Also, read the companion coaching article on this topic – “4 Leadership Steps to an Optimistic Attitude”

 

More Workplace Survival Tips for Your Leadership

How did American military leaders in the brutal POW camps of North Vietnam inspire their followers for six, seven, and even eight years to remain committed to the mission, resist a cruel enemy, and return home with honor? What leadership principles engendered such extreme devotion, perseverance, and teamwork?

In this powerful and practical book, Lee Ellis, a former Air Force pilot, candidly talks about his five and a half years of captivity and the 14 key leadership principles behind this amazing story.

 

Purchase the BookPurchase the Self-Study Training Guide

 

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Coaching Article – 4 Leadership Steps to an Optimistic Attitude

(A Special 2023 Note: This year is going to be very special as we celebrate the 50th anniversary of the return of the US POWs, most of whom had spent more than five years incarcerated in the ���Hanoi Hilton��� and related POW camps in North Vietnam. This was possible because the Paris Peace Accords were signed resulting in the United States ending of its role in the Vietnam war.

As you can imagine, resilience was critical to our survival through that long and difficult experience, and the same can be said for the wives and families back home. Each month this year, I���m going to share some resilience stories and lessons learned through that experience that you can apply in your day-to-day life and work.)

 

Here���s the bottom line on being resilient���first, you must be optimistic. Believe that there is a good outcome ahead, and then do your part to reach it with a positive mindset.

Optimism Under Pressure

One of my own personal resilience stories occurred as a young fighter pilot when I was blown out of the sky over enemy territory in November 1967. I was captured immediately and taken to the infamous ���Hanoi Hilton��� prison. Six weeks later as we began a new year, I concluded that the war would end in a few months, and I���d be out in time to attend the 1968 Mexico City Olympics. When July came that year, instead my group moved to a newly opened camp at Son Tay. It was clear that the end of the war (and our release) was not any closer. So, I decided I could make it another year. I���d plan to be home by the summer of 1969. But when that summer came, we were going through some tough times and not even close to release. So, I decided I could make it two more years, but it turned out to be three and a half years before the war ended and the POW release began.

Every POW I knew believed that someday we were going home; and our laser focus was to do our duty to resist the enemy and stay committed to our teammates.

 

“Optimism was a key factor in helping the Vietnam POWs endure hardship and disappointment.” [Tweet This]

 

In fact, the research by psychologists following our release found that optimism was the leading factor in our resilience and survival over those many years of suffering and sacrifice.

Watch this month���s 5-minute coaching clip where I share more insight into having an optimistic outlook, and then continue reading the blog below –

 

Choosing and Abiding in Optimism

How did we do it? Typical optimism definitions include words like hopefulness, confidence in success and a positive outcome, but let���s look at some of the keys from this experience ���

 

We believed in ourselves.

 

To be a healthy successful person, you must believe in yourself.

 

“Henry Ford is attributed with the great quote, ‘Whether you believe you can or can���t, you are probably right.'” [Tweet This]

 

This is also why I frequently revisit (link to previous blog) the importance of encouraging and believing in others. It���s essential for leaders to help their people believe in themselves.

Most of the POWs were trained fighter pilots who had been through several types of survival training. When we were tortured and gave in to the enemy, we were very despondent; I felt like the lowest, most worthless person who had ever worn a uniform. But when I got back to my cell, my leader and teammates encouraged me and told me that they had all been in the same place and responded similarly. They believed in me and said I needed to believe in myself. This was critical for all POWs���to know that others believed in them.

 

We believed in our mission and purpose.

 

When you are committed to these two goals, you are going to work through challenges with a positive attitude that will help you come out the other side���and with more experience and more resilience. Three of our senior leaders were POWs for more than seven years. They were tortured the most and in solitary confinement for more than four years, yet they bounced back and stayed positive.

So, be sure to clarify your mission and purpose and if they are truly solid and important; then stick with them.

 

We had great relationships with others who cared about us.

 

Teamwork was so important in the POW camps that we would risk isolation and torture to communicate with other cells, and especially if someone was living alone. The truth is that it���s very difficult to be a healthy person if you are living alone in your own world. Knowing that others care about you and that you are important to them is essential for a healthy human nature.

 

We had faith in a higher power.

 

First and foremost, faith in God was a key component of POW resilience. If you have read any books about the Vietnam POW experience, this idea will be familiar. We were at the complete mercy of our captors; they had the power of life and death over us. Thus, dependence on a higher power was typically our first response, and I���m happy to say it���s been a lasting one for most of us.

We also had faith in our country that we would not be left behind. That was a struggle back home and in the camps to some degree, but we all came through and made it home. Faith in our families back home helped our optimism, too.

You can read more about the optimism of the POWs in Chapter Three of my book, Leading with Honor. Download a complimentary copy of the chapter or purchase the entire book.

 

Our Coaching Opportunity

As we enter a new year, it���s a good time to do some personal coaching. There is a lot of negative stuff happening in the world and our culture. Let���s accept that and then refocus on the positive perspective and put our energy into moving forward one step at a time to accomplish our goals.

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More Workplace Survival Tips for Your Leadership

How did American military leaders in the brutal POW camps of North Vietnam inspire their followers for six, seven, and even eight years to remain committed to the mission, resist a cruel enemy, and return home with honor? What leadership principles engendered such extreme devotion, perseverance, and teamwork?

In this powerful and practical book, Lee Ellis, a former Air Force pilot, candidly talks about his five and a half years of captivity and the 14 key leadership principles behind this amazing story.

 

Purchase the BookPurchase the Self-Study Training Guide

 

 

 

 

 

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How to Press in and Press Through as Leaders

Free Infographic – You can do it! We all have those moments where we have to ���press in and press through��� a situation and emerge on the other side with honor — smarter, stronger, and more grateful.

We���ve created the free ���Resilience Checklist��� infographic to help pinpoint some of the 12 areas that you can strengthen in your personal development ���

View and Download the Resilience Checklist

 

 

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Leadership History Lesson for January 8th

On this day in leadership history in 1997, Mister Rogers received a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame.

What���s the leadership lesson? Honorable leaders constantly search for ways to recognize and appreciate their team. Delegate someone to help you with this important task if needed!

Fred Rogers – Wikipedia

 

 

 

 

 

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