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Infidelity & You: A Recovery Guide for Anyone Caught in a Love Triangle

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Infidelity and You presents proven ways of coping with betrayal for individuals affected in a variety of ways – spouse or partner, child or other family member, the "other man" or the "other woman," or gay or lesbian. You'll learn what motivates betrayal and how to prevent it. A significant portion of the book is devoted to suggestions on how to identify a troubled marriage or relationship and what can be done to restore it.

These materials are in no way a substitute for counseling and/or therapy. They act as their companions.

Torn Asunder: Recovering From an Extramarital Affair

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Written by respected pastor and marriage counselor Dave Carder, this revised and expanded version of Torn Asunder sorts through the factors that contribute to infidelity and then maps out a recovery process for both partners. With compassion and wisdom rooted in the Bible, Carder offers insight for the victims of adultery, the perpetrators, and those who seek to help hurting couples.

Along the way Carder also answers questions like:Why did this happen? We didn't actually sleep together. Is it still an affair? Can I trust my spouse again? Should I reveal a secret affair? What if my spouse doesn't want me back? What do we tell the kids?

Infidelity: Discovery to Recovery, First Aid Manual for the Betrayed

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Approximately 70% of marriages and/or committed relationships experience infidelity. This self-help manual addresses partnership betrayal no matter the age, gender, or sexual orientation. Approaching "first things first," it validates the emotional pain, urges the securing of finances, and educates about health matters, particularly the need for evaluation and testing for sexually transmitted diseases (minimally addressed in competitive books). This manual empowers readers to accept the reality of their partner's indiscretion, and to confront the problem in an orderly manner from a position of strength. It guides readers from infidelity discovery through decision-making choices leading to resolution. A workbook chapter allows readers to sort through and record their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors which helps to clarify whether Professional Counseling or other interventions would be helpful. It provides crisis intervention telephone numbers and Internet addresses as well as other pertinent information throughout the text and Appendices. The Reality Checklist at the conclusion of each chapter allows readers to personally self-correct or further pursue key elements needing attention. The goal of the author, a Registered Nurse Psychiatric Clinical Specialist and Professional Marriage/relationship Counselor, is to assist betrayed partners to establish and/or preserve an intact self-identity and guide them in making informed life choices for the security of their future dreams and goals with or without their spouse or committed partner.

Surviving an Affair

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A guide to understanding and surviving every aspect of infidelity–from the beginning of an affair through the restoration of the marriage.

Why Can’t You Read My Mind? Overcoming the 9 Toxic Thought Patterns that Get in the Way of a Loving Relationship

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Most people think that poor communication is the reason why so many relationships end, but it's actually the way we learn to think about our partners and our problems that kills trust, erodes intimacy, and cripples communication. In Why Can't You Read My Mind?, psychologist Jeffrey Bernstein reveals-for the first time-the nine toxic thought patterns at work in virtually every relationship, and shows couples how these distorted, negative, exaggerated thoughts can poison their love and end their union. With warmth and wisdom, Bernstein offers a simple yet powerful approach for breaking the toxic thinking cycle and helps readers establish new and more positive thinking habits for solving their problems and dealing with the stresses of everyday life. Packed with practical advice and valuable insights, Why Can't You Read My Mind? makes it possible for couples to remain in or return to loving relationships permanently, and points the way toward finding a truer kind of love with one another for the first time. Perfect for couples wanting to maintain their loving relationship as well as for those working to restore their love, this book provides the missing link, enabling couples to beat the relationship odds and sustain a long-term relationship.

The Divorce Remedy: The Proven 7-Step Program for Saving Your Marriage

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Michele Weiner Davis goes beyond her marriage-saving bestseller, Divorce Busting, with this empowering and encouraging guide for revitalizing marriage and building stronger, more loving bonds. In a down-to-earth style that is free of psychobabble, Weiner Davis outlines a realistic, solution-oriented seven-step program for managing marital problems, which, when left unchecked, can drain the life out of a relationship. Using revealing anecdotes and in-depth case studies, she illustrates practical ways for marriage partners to

avoid the "divorce trap" identify specific marriage-saving goals move beyond ineffective, hurtful ways of interacting become an expert on "doing what works" overcome infidelity, Internet obsessions, depression, sexual problems, and midlife crises get your marriage back on track — and keep it there

Rescue your marriage with the proven techniques of The Divorce Remedy — sound, sensible advice from a renowned relationship expert!

Attracting Genuine Love: A Step-By-Step Program to Bringing a Loving and Desirable Partner into Your Life

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Do you long for a deep, passionate, rewarding relationship? For nearly 30 years in their workshops and one-on-one counseling sessions, Gay and Kathlyn Hendricks have helped thousands of singles find lasting, fulfilling love. Now by popular demand, the Hendricks share their proven, practical methods with you. Attracting Genuine Love distills their essential principles for finding–and keeping–love into one immersive, resultsoriented program. With them, you will learn how to: Identify your Three Absolute Yes's and Three Absolute No's–your must-haves and deal-breakers essential for relationship success. Remove the #1 obstacle that prevents you from having the relationship you want. Discover the power of fearless honesty, moment-by-momentcommunication, and the three other "real rules" to create a conscious relationship. Do you long to share your life with someone special? In this integrated paperback book-and-CD set, these two trusted voices in the field of conscious relationship show you how–with Attracting Genuine Love.

Getting Past the Affair: A Program to Help You Cope, Heal, and Move On — Together or Apart

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Discovering that a partner has been unfaithful hits you like an earthquake. Long after the first jolt, emotional aftershocks can make it difficult to be there for your family, manage your daily life, and think clearly about your options. Whether you want to end the relationship or piece things back together, Getting Past the Affair guides you through the initial trauma so you can understand what happened and why before deciding how to move forward. Based on the only program that’s been tested–and proven–to relieve destructive emotions in the wake of infidelity, this compassionate book offers support and expert advice from a team of award-winning couple therapists. If you stay with your spouse, you’ll find realistic tips for rebuilding your marriage and restoring trust. But no matter which path you choose, you’ll discover effective ways to recover personally, avoid lasting scars, and pursue healthier relationships in the future.

A Love Alchemist’s Notebook: Magical Secrets for Drawing Your True Love into Your Life

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Would you like to know the secrets to attracting your soul mate and feeling profound love every day? With this hip and fun guide, you'll learn to use the rules of attraction, magic, astrology, and your intuition to attract the man of your dreams and experience true, soulful love.

Jessica Shepherd joyfully reveals the Nine Soul Mate Secrets, offering insight into all aspects of creating and maintaining love, such as how to focus on loving yourself, open up to love from others, and trust your intuition. You'll engage in fun, hands-on spells, rituals, and meditations to explore your heart and grow spiritually. The Nine Soul Mate Secrets will also reveal how to:

Break bad karmic patterns • Move beyond difficult relationships

Learn from past mistakes • Overcome your fears

Tap your magnetism with your Venus sign

From avoiding relationship "potholes" to understanding karmic soul mates—and the invaluable lessons that they teach us—to casting love spells under a waxing moon, this love-focused astrology book holds the key to achieving long-lasting love with your true soul mate.

"A Love Alchemist's Notebook is a worldly and wise guide to finding a spiritual partner. Jessica Shepherd reveals in detail the practical magic that will work for anyone ready to connect with great love."—Holiday Mathis, author of Rock Your Stars

Watch Jessica's interview on KRON Channel 4 (San Francisco).

Also watch the book trailer for A Love Alchemist's Notebook, here.

Life In Marriage: Get To Know Secrets To A Successful Marriage, How To Handle Conflicts and Infidelity

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Life In Marriage

Love is at the base of most marriages. When a marriage is troubled, the partners in it may also feel troubled. So, you need to learn what can harm your marriage, what can improve a marriage and as many tips as possible to keep your marriage trouble-free.

A preview of the chapters:



Secrets to a Lifelong Successful Marriage

What Can Harm A Marriage?

What Can Improve A Marriage?

How to Handle Conflicts

Areas of Conflict in a Marriage

Communicate, Negotiate and Be Flexible

Some Solutions You Might Like to Try

Sex in Marriage

Keeping Things Romantic

Infidelity in Marriage

What Can Lead To Infidelity?

Should You Confess?

How to Deal With an Infidelity