Asa Rodriguez's Blog, page 44
June 18, 2020
It is all part of it.
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Don’t belittle yourself because of your loneliness. Don’t fear the memories of abuse or loss. Know that life, its very essence, is about this. We all need it in order to rise and carry the glory of self-development. And self-development is the inner realization that makes you desire to be better, to evolution into excellence.
So, the suffering, the heartache, the neglect, those past mistakes and burdens you carry. It is all part of your journey. You might hate it, but it is necessary. The important thing is to understand that all this requires your observance, so you learn and use it as stepping stone to move forward and stronger than before.
June 15, 2020
More creative.
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Learn to see your life with gratitude, positivity, and a little creative vision. In this manner, you can raise yourself above your anger, your frustration, your dramas and troubles. By being creative, you then become always thankful for your life and for the opportunity to make better choices going ahead.
Look at your life. There’s good things, and probably not so good things, right…?? It’s always going to be like this. Always good and not so good. The good is there for you to enjoy and desire to seek more of it, and the not so good is there to strengthen you and to make you more creative in your journey.
June 13, 2020
Becoming self-aware.
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When you have a problem, the easy path is to blame others. But this only imprisons you, anger, self-neglect, worthlessness even are born in you. Self-pity and self-victimization guide your thoughts and make you anxious, unable to move forward, and even in denial of your own faults. You bring more pain into yourself, and you feel stuck in this pain.
But when you become self-aware, look into your trouble, struggle, or painful memory, without bias, you discover that you carry some of that blame. This brings you freedom from attachment to this self-neglect and self-victimization. This liberates you and expands your mind, and you become able to accept yourself and your life. You can move forward now.
June 11, 2020
The journey of humility.
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The journey is not set in stone. Knowledge is power, and also great responsibility. We learn as we go, so one must be humble enough to admit that there is always more to be learned, transformed, even changed as we come in the way of new knowledge.
Each one of us carries our own experience and understanding. Each one of us carries an intellect that must become flexible and capable of adapting to new knowledge, new opinions, new ideas. Life is a marathon and an exploration. Don’t forget that.
June 10, 2020
This makes a relationship work.
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We come together in the search of each other. We are all connected, and yet most of us feel lonely, separated from the whole, by ourselves. A relationship, intimate, authentic, is about that wholeness. Coming together to support and love one another. In this, there is great freedom.
What makes a relationship work is this freedom. Because people are different, and each one of us must be able to be ourselves freely. We learn from each other. We communicate with each other without fear of being judged for being ourselves. This makes a relationship work.
June 8, 2020
The journey of greatness!
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Belief in ourselves is what give us the capacity augmented in us to battle the frustration and stress in our lives. Lack of self-esteem is what robs us of this capacity to believe in ourselves. Lack of self-esteem begins when you pity yourself because of a troubled past you carry, and because of envy when you compare yourself with others.
To gain self-esteem is to love yourself. To love yourself is to dedicate your time and effort, not on pitying yourself and comparing yourself with others; but on actually working on yourself and your talents, better your health, your writing skills or any other passion you may have. Detach yourself from any negative thought or memory, look to the future without allowing society to influence you. Do this daily. Practice self-love. This will raise your belief in yourself.
June 6, 2020
Like swans in love.
Love is not about possession, because freedom is what any of us want. Love is not about control, because what any of us seek is self-expression to be ourselves. So love is about acceptance. It is about choosing to see the positive in ourselves and in another. Choose to do this whenever you feel overwhelmed by negative feelings whether from your own past or from your current situations in life.
Choosing this brings us joy, liberation, the capacity to feel empathy and the affection to trust ourselves and another. My book, “I ALWAYS LOVED YOU. Creatures of eternal love,” goes deeper into this. Because this is critical to get rid of feelings of loneliness, worthlessness, and so become a magnet for better things and relationships.
Check out my book to rise in love.
June 4, 2020
The True Revolution is here!
Great ideas. Empathy. Self-development. Freedom to love and be happy without influences from society. The capacity for great understanding of oneself and of life. Enlightenment.
All these occur in a mind which thinks for itself, which does not seek validation from society, which does not attach itself to beliefs and ideologies of any kind, and which looks inwardly and fixes itself daily its own weaknesses and flaws instead of blaming the world out there.
My non-fiction book is here, “LEAVING THE HERD. The Revolution Begins.” E-book and now paperback. It seeks to destroy mediocrity and inspire individuality in your mind.
–PART 1: Existential pain. Why do we suffer?? Life’s purpose as individuals. Subconscious programming. Integrity and development of virtues. How does religion control the mind and what is its agenda?? The distortion of Christ’s teaching. Self-esteem and self-observation. And much more.
–PART 2: The morality of society versus the morality of the individual. Moral leadership. Mental disruptions, trauma, misery. Self-awareness and self-discipline. What is keeping mankind out of heaven?? Inner moral compass. The growing mind and parenting. The woman’s morality in a decaying society of men. Mental issues and vibrations. And much more.
And check out my book on love and intimacy, emotional intelligence and successful relationships.
June 1, 2020
Standing up. Being unique.
“INDIVIDUAL LEADERSHIP.”
Without personal or individual leadership, you never fulfill yourself; thus you become another follower, another copy, another cog in the machine we call society. Billions of people around the world follow religions, politics, worship celebrities and men of history. Each person plays the game of “I’m inferior, you’re superior.” Why…?? What makes a human feel worthless, empty, needy, looking outwardly to find a false sense of meaning in the world??
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New book. “LEAVING THE HERD (Part 1). The True Revolution Begins.” Right now on e-book. Coming soon on paperback:
-This book is about true morality and inner values. Why the collective can never realize true integrity and awakening. Subconscious obstacles to enlightenment. The growing mind of the baby. Religion, its mind control, and its agenda of domination. Human existence and emptiness. The meaning brought by Christ and how religion distorts it to destroy any individuality in the human being.
-Self-awareness. Self-discipline. Why is the mind weak, and what keeps it out of heaven?? Inner moral compass. Leadership and its characteristics. Why most people are mere followers?? The woman’s morality in a society of men. The dangers of denial. And other mind-expanding topics.
